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Social anyone? Coffee without cream...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone ever meet for socials anymore, outside of 'organised' ones?
Majority of.folks just seem to want 'nsa' and no interest in getting to know others better, before some serious sex sessions!
Discuss... |
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By *pinCouple
over a year ago
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"seems to be alot of folk not meeting much for a coffee / drink social ..we have put up a few in the past ..with no interest from other couples .."
If it was just a social and nothing else then probably not. |
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"Does anyone ever meet for socials anymore, outside of 'organised' ones?
Majority of.folks just seem to want 'nsa' and no interest in getting to know others better, before some serious sex sessions!
Discuss..."
Always a social meet before anything else xx |
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By *otskipCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Does anyone ever meet for socials anymore, outside of 'organised' ones?
Majority of.folks just seem to want 'nsa' and no interest in getting to know others better, before some serious sex sessions!
Discuss...Always a social meet before anything else xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do like socials a lot.
I (Nessa) need to a connection and feel for someone before I can even think about becoming intimate.
I dont let anyone in my front door, why should I do it between my legs?
So yes.... read the profile and maybe understand us.
Xxx
Nessa |
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This time around on fab thats exactly what were looking for.
We've done the nsa side, done the fuck and go but now only looking for firstly socials if it goes well become friends and only then if it all goes well have some fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I pretty much always have a social first. Also had them with people I have no intention of having sex with but I thought we might get on for a nice chat. I have a social tomorrow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ps:
Forgot to say, we have also on many occasions offered single men and couples a social to have a cuppa and could verify them.
We were either stood up, cancelled at the last minute or turned down because we said "non sexual" social.
Some of them we were quite interested in / attracted too.
Wee shame.
(Other sites....other successes)
Xxx
Nessa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv stated On another thread
If I'm meeing alone il meet for a social drink in the view to next meet is for a sex meet.
Myself and hubby and I are here for sex.
We have real mates to socialise with.
This is for our swinging lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We've posted socials every Monday for the last four.weeks with a view to.sex the following week
Same today,.for next.week as we're.off and we've.plenty.of 'friends' off Fab who don't swing at all.
We'll see if we can get others.to join us.for New Year...gives them plenty of.time to.ring our bells. |
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I like to get to know someone first before playing with them, on the occasion that I've just played with someone before getting to know them it's always backfired into being a loony  plus I find it more fun to know someone I'm having fun with
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The idea of a social one week for a meet the next will suit some but not others. Personally I don't object to the idea of it, we just don't have the opportunity. It would be a social then a meet about a month later and that's not fun. Definitely chat and a social of some kind needed first but if that's at a party or club then fine. If we were meeting someone off their profile alone then it would be a social with a view to sex right after if we were all agreed we wanted to go ahead. Otherwise the kidlets who limit our play may be struck suddenly ill and we need to leave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have a social first before anything else. I like to get to know someone first, chat and a coffee to see if there's an attraction. If there's no attraction then there won't be a fun meet arranged x |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"Ive known some folk for yrs before anything sexual happens"
Same!
I also agree with the poster above, busy work and family life means meeting someone for a social or otherwise two consecutive weeks is a definite no! It may be a month or more before we are free again so that would be a no go! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We meet when we can....it's not set in stone, with one week to the next, we have however posted a month out to get others to meet us next week, but to no avail.
Makes absolutely no difference what we.do....gotta laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never meet to play without a social first.
Perhaps that’s why it’s hard to get a suitable meet....
I just couldn’t think of anything worse than showing up to play with someome and there’s zero chemistry and you just don’t fancy each other! |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
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Always thought the unwritten rule was a social meet first ....now that social meet might expand into a meet meet of everyone agrees and the circumstances let it happen. However I always have a social meet first and go on the pretext its just a social meet.
Any ladies who don't believe me..try before you buy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always meet socially first.
All the chat in the world isn’t the same as having that chemistry and spark when you meet someone you connect with sexually.
Not to say that the social doesn’t turn into fun. 
Doesn’t happen often but when it does..... Oooooft   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking to meet socially to then have some serious fun....the following week, but zero interest from all and sundry.
Absolutely social first, break the ice so to speak "
Should you not be watching Catfish on bbc1?  |
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By *lanMDMan
over a year ago
Ellon |
"Looking to meet socially to then have some serious fun....the following week, but zero interest from all and sundry.
Absolutely social first, break the ice so to speak
Should you not be watching Catfish on bbc1? "
Am watching it ! |
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Also done the NSA.
Either is good, but the sex is better if there's chemistry imo