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"Nope you know all the guys your partner picks are worse not all guys
I'd guess fems profiles are worse with the prostitution profiles the premium rate phone scammers and internet fluffer sites."
No i KNOW guys are worse in general . We have organised a few events and who are we more likely to expect to be no shows, the guys. Obviously not ALL guys but lots can talk the talk but very few walk the walk as the saying goes. |
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"Nope you know all the guys your partner picks are worse not all guys
I'd guess fems profiles are worse with the prostitution profiles the premium rate phone scammers and internet fluffer sites.
No i KNOW guys are worse in general . We have organised a few events and who are we more likely to expect to be no shows, the guys. Obviously not ALL guys but lots can talk the talk but very few walk the walk as the saying goes. "
this ain't to annoy you but folk don't like to say that woman are just as bad if not worse for the reasons I've said previously said.
Folk place fems on a pedestal on fab for fear of not being accepted from them. Maybe you have been lucky and not came across as many gems unfortunately in others experience there's as many wank banking females or worse extotionists using fab plenty hint at it without saying though. |
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over a year ago
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I was supposed to have a meet this morning but he cancelled last night with the excuse of a "very sore throat". Fine but literally an hour before we had been sending each other voice notes and not a hint of huskiness/dryness to his voice  |
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"I was supposed to have a meet this morning but he cancelled last night with the excuse of a "very sore throat". Fine but literally an hour before we had been sending each other voice notes and not a hint of huskiness/dryness to his voice "
Maybe he had a nice wank after the messages and didnt feel the need to meet anymore |
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Don't think there's a best excuse, since I never believe them. And I feel quite bad about that actually, because I'm usually not a suspicious person who doesn't believe what someone's saying. Guess on here it's so clearly and so often lies, that I even doubt the genuine ones.
"Was it tonight? Oh, I thought it was on .......... (fill in as suitable)" is the most common one.
Car accident, being sick, bereavement, road closures and couldn't get there, car broken I've heard more than once as well x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was supposed to have a meet this morning but he cancelled last night with the excuse of a "very sore throat". Fine but literally an hour before we had been sending each other voice notes and not a hint of huskiness/dryness to his voice
Maybe he had a nice wank after the messages and didnt feel the need to meet anymore "
Thanks. That makes me feel a lot better |
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"Nope you know all the guys your partner picks are worse not all guys
I'd guess fems profiles are worse with the prostitution profiles the premium rate phone scammers and internet fluffer sites.
No i KNOW guys are worse in general . We have organised a few events and who are we more likely to expect to be no shows, the guys. Obviously not ALL guys but lots can talk the talk but very few walk the walk as the saying goes. "
Been to plenty parties where alot of invited guys didnt show. |
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One years ago had changed his mind as he was now going to the footy and could he take a rain check
Ermm no and he wouldnt get a 2nd chance either.
Or the ones who have put their names down for a social then suddenly they remember they have a wedding that day and only remember either the night before or on the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually just thought of a worse one!! From my fuck buddy. He cancelled very last minute as he "had to wait in for his muscle food delivery"  I didn't speak to him for a month after that belter!! |
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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago
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"Actually just thought of a worse one!! From my fuck buddy. He cancelled very last minute as he "had to wait in for his muscle food delivery" I didn't speak to him for a month after that belter!!"
Tbf he was waiting on a massive delivery of breasts, not just your two.
Completely understandable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually just thought of a worse one!! From my fuck buddy. He cancelled very last minute as he "had to wait in for his muscle food delivery" I didn't speak to him for a month after that belter!!
Tbf he was waiting on a massive delivery of breasts, not just your two.
Completely understandable!"
It comes in a cool box so can be left in a safe place or with a neighbour. The same cannot be said about me |
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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago
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"Actually just thought of a worse one!! From my fuck buddy. He cancelled very last minute as he "had to wait in for his muscle food delivery" I didn't speak to him for a month after that belter!!
Tbf he was waiting on a massive delivery of breasts, not just your two.
Completely understandable!
It comes in a cool box so can be left in a safe place or with a neighbour. The same cannot be said about me "
Nobody wants to end up in a cool box.
I can imagine it's entirely possible if meeting some of the nutters on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now  x |
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x"
Ok, I'm sorry, I'm stuck in traffic. Still. |
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x
Ok, I'm sorry, I'm stuck in traffic. Still. "
That's a very long tail back  x |
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x
Ok, I'm sorry, I'm stuck in traffic. Still.
That's a very long tail back x"
That's the M8 for you! Do I get a second chance now?!  |
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x
Ok, I'm sorry, I'm stuck in traffic. Still.
That's a very long tail back x
That's the M8 for you! Do I get a second chance now?! "
If there's cake with that coffee, deal! x |
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x
Ok, I'm sorry, I'm stuck in traffic. Still.
That's a very long tail back x
That's the M8 for you! Do I get a second chance now?!
If there's cake with that coffee, deal! x"
I offered a nice pavlova or a meringue?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had 3 call offs no explanation. I was there as agreed.
2 I think were guys in different disguise and deleted their accounts and 1 lady never bothered to respond after asking where she was |
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Why? Why agree to meet up and not do it???? Sure, there's genuine times where you'd need to cancel but to just not bother going is plain rude.
I've always turned up for anything arranged. Thankfully I've only had one AWOL and I'm pretty sure it was someone pretending to be someone else.
If someone said when they were on their way there then they didn't feel like they were safe, totally understandable. But some of the reasons given here are absolutely mad. |
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Years ago arrange to meet a guy for coffee. I arrived waited waited waited. So I messaged. He replied I saw you and left as your not my type lol. So never even got out the car. I blocked him for 2 weeks later same guy sane profile ( must have deleted and remade) messaged asking me for a coffee!!! . Denied all knowledge of previous event lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x
Ok, I'm sorry, I'm stuck in traffic. Still.
That's a very long tail back x
That's the M8 for you! Do I get a second chance now?!
If there's cake with that coffee, deal! x
I offered a nice pavlova or a meringue? "
You're wrang. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x
Ok, I'm sorry, I'm stuck in traffic. Still.
That's a very long tail back x
That's the M8 for you! Do I get a second chance now?!
If there's cake with that coffee, deal! x"
Deal! |
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"Nope you know all the guys your partner picks are worse not all guys
I'd guess fems profiles are worse with the prostitution profiles the premium rate phone scammers and internet fluffer sites.
No i KNOW guys are worse in general . We have organised a few events and who are we more likely to expect to be no shows, the guys. Obviously not ALL guys but lots can talk the talk but very few walk the walk as the saying goes. this ain't to annoy you but folk don't like to say that woman are just as bad if not worse for the reasons I've said previously "
I get what your saying and of course you never said it to annoy me , i can only go from personal experiences and that of my OH . Also the experiences of organising things in our house. The first one we organised a female turned up and before knowing the guest list told us , i hoped you asked a lot of guys as they are the ones who dont show. Turned out she was right , all 3 guys called off at within 10 mins of arrival time.
Look at this thread , its only fems replying saying what the guys excuses are, your reply was about the nature or type some females on Fab are. Thats slightly different from females cancelling meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Every arranged meet I have had in all the time I’ve been on this site has gone ahead with one exception and even in it was rearranged.
Never been stood up nor have I ever stood anyone up.
Height of bad manners to arrange to meet someone and then not show and not just in here, same applies in vanilla lifestyle too |
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"Every arranged meet I have had in all the time I’ve been on this site has gone ahead with one exception and even in it was rearranged.
Never been stood up nor have I ever stood anyone up.
Height of bad manners to arrange to meet someone and then not show and not just in here, same applies in vanilla lifestyle too"
You're lucky. Lost count of the numbers of no shows. At least the lame excuses give me a heads up they won't be there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had one no show and I have never stould anyone up. I have had to rearrange once but messaged in plenty of time. I agree it's bad manners, especially if it is a social meet. You can still have a drink and a laugh, even if no physical attraction on either or both sides when you meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have not had any no shows but I have had a few where after extended chatting and discussion when the final details of a meeting are being set in place.........silence !! You can see they are on but zilch , just ignore you ! Don’t get me wrong , prefer that to sitting like an idiot sipping enough coffee to keep me awake for a week, but it is still frustrating ! |
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Had a meet arranged a couple of weeks in advance with one girl (no longer on here).
A couple of days before I contacted her to make the final arrangements and she said she'd lost her diary so didn't know if she could meet.
She then went on to waste loads of my time and money (I'm freelance so I passed by paid work for nothing) and strung me along until the last minute so I couldn't arrange anything else. |
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x"
One man in three years?
Try 4 cancellations in 2 months. Well one was a cancellation that messaged just before I set off, thankful for that, the others just didn't show. Nothing, nada, zilch from them.
Whenever I see threads like these and notice couples and some ladies slagging guys off for no shows, I just wonder what the hells the matter with them.
Why join these sites? |
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x
One man in three years?
Try 4 cancellations in 2 months. Well one was a cancellation that messaged just before I set off, thankful for that, the others just didn't show. Nothing, nada, zilch from them.
Whenever I see threads like these and notice couples and some ladies slagging guys off for no shows, I just wonder what the hells the matter with them.
Why join these sites? "
Yes one man in three years. Who knows why a man would stand up a woman or vice versa?! I stopped thinking about things like that a long time ago. It's a chance you take on a site like this x |
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I arranged a meet with a lady on here for the following day. I messaged her back asking what time she wanted to meet and she blocked me.
Not quite as bad as getting stood up (has happened before) but still annoying after all the time spent messaging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been bumped a few times
One claimed to be ill but managed to post a verification which gave away the date they met someone else when they were supposed to meet me
One said they forgot what day despite having been in touch the day before and confirmed all was ok
And a third just never turned up and blocked me when I messaged asking where they were
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
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"It’s hard enough to get a meet in the first place!"
surely not !!I looked at your profile ,looks good to me !,and you are into pegging ,if you need a willing recipient give me a call lol ps I allways keep my word ,so will show up _maybe!!
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x"
this is the longest lunch hour in history..... 3 feckin years !!! |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"It’s hard enough to get a meet in the first place! surely not !!I looked at your profile ,looks good to me !,and you are into pegging ,if you need a willing recipient give me a call lol ps I allways keep my word ,so will show up _maybe!!"
It’s maybe because... you know..... she’s in lanarkshire. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
Nobody has ever cancelled on us .... yet :....I did however once ask a bloke if he was free that night and he replied he had “pre-ordered and paid for his Chinese in advance so unfortunately couldn’t meet” which is prob the best knock-back I’ve ever had lol x |
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"There was one man I was meant to meet for coffee one lunchtime. I waited fifteen minutes but he never appeared and I never got a message to say why he didn't turn up. I had my coffee and carried on with the rest of my lunch hour. That was three years ago now x this is the longest lunch hour in history..... 3 feckin years !!!"
This made me giggle x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone once messaged to say they couldn't meet as their goldfish had died 
Be fair, they might have had to flush a few times before it went away.  "
Pmsfl |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I used to keep a list of reasons why meets had been cancelled. Not all from here:-
It was raining too heavily and there was flooding
One guy had been doing something with his son and managed to injure himself
One guy ended up in hospital with shingles. I thought he’d stood me up until he finally managed to message me a few days later
One guy ended up working on WWZ as part of the SWAT team! True story. He was also helping with the props.
There are loads more! |
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A couple cancelled on us about an hour before we were meant to meet as the woman's pals had turned up unexpectedly and wouldn't leave. Funnily enough they had a veri the next day from another couple |
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"Nobody has ever cancelled on us .... yet :....I did however once ask a bloke if he was free that night and he replied he had “pre-ordered and paid for his Chinese in advance so unfortunately couldn’t meet” which is prob the best knock-back I’ve ever had lol x"
That's defo a good knock back that I've certainly not heard before, hope he enjoyed his Chinese as he could've still met afterwards lol xx
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Nobody has ever cancelled on us .... yet :....I did however once ask a bloke if he was free that night and he replied he had “pre-ordered and paid for his Chinese in advance so unfortunately couldn’t meet” which is prob the best knock-back I’ve ever had lol x
That's defo a good knock back that I've certainly not heard before, hope he enjoyed his Chinese as he could've still met afterwards lol xx
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Maybe he didn’t fancy it on a full stomach |
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