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over a year ago
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Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done? |
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?"
Definitely not. 
Socials on here you wanna chat with the person to see if you connect. Don't see the point in a cinema social.
there was a bigger cinema social last month, think about 10 turned up but they had drinks beforehand so they could all chat   |
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I would say that's ok for a group of Fabbers who already know each other but as a first meet would it not be nicer to go for a drink and chat with each other? Then if you get on well, you could take her to the cinema after x |
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?"
Definitely go !!
Couple of drinks before cinema.
Try for a peck in the dark once in cinema, if reciprocated or escalated to full on snog, more drinks after cinema.
If not , assume theres no attraction and move on. Just accept not everyone fancies some people. At least theres no awkwardness at a standard coffee meet. I would happily escort a female to a cinema . Even better if both want to see the film anyway. |
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?"
What film did she want to see  |
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?
Definitely not.
Socials on here you wanna chat with the person to see if you connect. Don't see the point in a cinema social.
there was a bigger cinema social last month, think about 10 turned up but they had drinks beforehand so they could all chat "
Ehhh ? , you had yer name down for 1 dependant on times lol. |
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?
Definitely not.
Socials on here you wanna chat with the person to see if you connect. Don't see the point in a cinema social.
there was a bigger cinema social last month, think about 10 turned up but they had drinks beforehand so they could all chat
Ehhh ? , you had yer name down for 1 dependant on times lol. "
Maybe he could only get in at certain times with his OAP pass? |
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"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.
I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol
Love the price n quiet."
You can't beat the price of going on your own. Esp. If you use nectar points at the Vue.  |
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"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.
I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol
Love the price n quiet.
You can't beat the price of going on your own. Esp. If you use nectar points at the Vue. "
lol oopps..peace n quiet that should be although with the price alone I get to eat more sweets lol  |
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"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.
I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol
Love the price n quiet.
You can't beat the price of going on your own. Esp. If you use nectar points at the Vue. lol oopps..peace n quiet that should be although with the price alone I get to eat more sweets lol "
If we went on two for Tuesday we could go halfers, wouldn't even mind sitting in different parts of the cinema. Even more sweets. Lol. |
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"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.
I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol
Love the price n quiet."
Me too. Nothing compares to eating a family size bag of Minstrels on your own without having to share them with a little focker. |
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"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.
I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol
Love the price n quiet.
Me too. Nothing compares to eating a family size bag of Minstrels on your own without having to share them with a little focker."
I like the "surprise" from a bag of revels. A bit like this place. You never know what you're gonna get.  |
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"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.
I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol
Love the price n quiet.
Me too. Nothing compares to eating a family size bag of Minstrels on your own without having to share them with a little focker."
Buy something they don't like!. |
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?
Definitely not.
Socials on here you wanna chat with the person to see if you connect. Don't see the point in a cinema social.
there was a bigger cinema social last month, think about 10 turned up but they had drinks beforehand so they could all chat
Ehhh ? , you had yer name down for 1 dependant on times lol. "
Omg That was for a bigger cinema social and there was drinks beforehand.
The OP is stating that he was asked to the cinema for a social, nothing about drinks first etc... that's why I said NO.
Shakes had and thinks I'll go back to reading readers wifes from men's club magazine |
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Interesting thoughts & advice on this, thanks.
I made it clear in a nice, sensitive way I viewed her cinema meet offer as a little more than a social. No meal or drinks involved so for me I thought best to be honest from the outset of my intentions etc. However she understood & appreciated my honesty so Costa it is lol.
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?
What film did she want to see "
Bohemian Rhapsody |
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"Interesting thoughts & advice on this, thanks.
I made it clear in a nice, sensitive way I viewed her cinema meet offer as a little more than a social. No meal or drinks involved so for me I thought best to be honest from the outset of my intentions etc. However she understood & appreciated my honesty so Costa it is lol.
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That's good. And it's not tax-dodging st*rb*cks. |
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"Interesting thoughts & advice on this, thanks.
I made it clear in a nice, sensitive way I viewed her cinema meet offer as a little more than a social. No meal or drinks involved so for me I thought best to be honest from the outset of my intentions etc. However she understood & appreciated my honesty so Costa it is lol.
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I go to the cinema quite a lot with my regular friend on here but we had already been chatting a while and got to know each other before we first went to the cinema together. That was back in August and we're still seeing each other for the cinema and of course fun but it builds up a nice friendship when you see each other socially so don't completely rule it out OP. Meet her for coffee and if you both get on well, take it from there x |
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"Sounded like she wanted a date rather than a social.
I go to the cinema myself alot lol and iv got a hubby and kids lol
Love the price n quiet.
Me too. Nothing compares to eating a family size bag of Minstrels on your own without having to share them with a little focker.
I like the "surprise" from a bag of revels. A bit like this place. You never know what you're gonna get. "
The only surprise you get these days from a bag of revels is the lack of contents. Family size bag and a family of 4 get two and a half revels each. If there lucky.  |
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?
What film did she want to see
Bohemian Rhapsody"
Oh I want to see that! Anyone want to go with me?  |
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"Well first for me on here.
chatting with a lady for a few days & she asks if I want to go to the cinema for a social?
I declined what would you have done?
What film did she want to see
Bohemian Rhapsody"
Could be worse, she could have said Jonny English |
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"Interesting thoughts & advice on this, thanks.
I made it clear in a nice, sensitive way I viewed her cinema meet offer as a little more than a social. No meal or drinks involved so for me I thought best to be honest from the outset of my intentions etc. However she understood & appreciated my honesty so Costa it is lol.
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If no meal or drinks beforehand then id decline too ...how are you ment to get to know each other if you cant chat to one and other !? |
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