"Have you asked for a meet yet?
Ive dropped a wee hint or 2. "
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Bloomin take the bull by the horns and come straight out and ask the woman rather than dancing around the subject by way of dropping hints.  |
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Everyone is different,no right or wrong, but personally that is too much for me and I couldnt be bothered with this. A 30 min-1hour social together is better than 100 messages exchanged in determining someones personality and if you are attracted enough to them to take things further. I like a face to face meet as soon as poss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is different.. some chat and never meet... some meet after one or two messages... just depends... just go with the flow... if you let them know right at the start of chatting that you do meet for socials and more then leave it to them...  |
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I always say at start happy to chat but chatting does not mean I’m going to meet you, some continue chatting others that’s end of conversation and that’s fine everyone is different world would be a bit boring if we were all the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am a great believer in it becoming unspokenly mutual, , depending on the direction chat is taking I think between the lines it becomes obvious where it’s leading |
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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont think your owed anything, that's a very entitled attitude.
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Yeah I agree with this. Just because you have been messaging doesn't mean she owes you anything. You may have been kidding but its stuff like that, that puts some of us women off! |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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"I dont think your owed anything, that's a very entitled attitude.
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Ahhhh the usual suspects. So theres NO misunderstandings, Of course i KNOW im NOT OWED or ENTITLED to ANYTHING ( clear enough ) that was why i said it was tongue in cheek. You gotta love the forums.
To the other contributors thanks guys.
Maybe if i work my Devils charm on her for another 80 messages i might get a wee 'x' on one of those messages in time. I think she likes me but afraid to say so. She is a real female as shes verified.
Alas, for 1 wee kiss at the end of a message.  . |
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"I dont think your owed anything, that's a very entitled attitude.
Ahhhh the usual suspects. So theres NO misunderstandings, Of course i KNOW im NOT OWED or ENTITLED to ANYTHING ( clear enough ) that was why i said it was tongue in cheek. You gotta love the forums.
To the other contributors thanks guys.
Maybe if i work my Devils charm on her for another 80 messages i might get a wee 'x' on one of those messages in time. I think she likes me but afraid to say so. She is a real female as shes verified.
Alas, for 1 wee kiss at the end of a message. ."
Ffs. Here you go. X |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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"Have been chatting with a Fab Female . 80 + messages exchanged and still no meet arranged.
Whats the average messages for people before a coffee is sorted.
Is the female 80+
Respect to her  "
Haha maybe, cant get a picture off her to check that one. Lol.
For an 80 year old she has quite a nice body though.  |
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over a year ago
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"Have been chatting with a Fab Female . 80 + messages exchanged and still no meet arranged.
Whats the average messages for people before a coffee is sorted.
Is the female 80+
Respect to her
Haha maybe, cant get a picture off her to check that one. Lol.
For an 80 year old she has quite a nice body though. "
I take it the hip replacement scars are well hidden? |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"Have been chatting with a Fab Female . 80 + messages exchanged and still no meet arranged.
Whats the average messages for people before a coffee is sorted.
Is the female 80+
Respect to her
Haha maybe, cant get a picture off her to check that one. Lol.
For an 80 year old she has quite a nice body though.
I take it the hip replacement scars are well hidden? "
Hey you watch it , i dont mind tangents on my threads but no liking the direction this is going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think your owed anything, that's a very entitled attitude.
Ahhhh the usual suspects. So theres NO misunderstandings, Of course i KNOW im NOT OWED or ENTITLED to ANYTHING ( clear enough ) that was why i said it was tongue in cheek. You gotta love the forums.
To the other contributors thanks guys.
Maybe if i work my Devils charm on her for another 80 messages i might get a wee 'x' on one of those messages in time. I think she likes me but afraid to say so. She is a real female as shes verified.
Alas, for 1 wee kiss at the end of a message. ."
That old chestnut...it was just a joke, honestly I'm a really nice guy |
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"Have been chatting with a Fab Female . 80 + messages exchanged and still no meet arranged.
Whats the average messages for people before a coffee is sorted.
Is the female 80+
Respect to her
Haha maybe, cant get a picture off her to check that one. Lol.
For an 80 year old she has quite a nice body though.
I take it the hip replacement scars are well hidden?
Hey you watch it , i dont mind tangents on my threads but no liking the direction this is going. "
At her age, maybe she's forgotten why she's here. She might think you're her grandson who never visits.  |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"I dont think your owed anything, that's a very entitled attitude.
Ahhhh the usual suspects. So theres NO misunderstandings, Of course i KNOW im NOT OWED or ENTITLED to ANYTHING ( clear enough ) that was why i said it was tongue in cheek. You gotta love the forums.
To the other contributors thanks guys.
Maybe if i work my Devils charm on her for another 80 messages i might get a wee 'x' on one of those messages in time. I think she likes me but afraid to say so. She is a real female as shes verified.
Alas, for 1 wee kiss at the end of a message. .
That old chestnut...it was just a joke, honestly I'm a really nice guy "
# Bait. You could have at least put a wee 'x' after your post. Xxx |
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"I dont think your owed anything, that's a very entitled attitude.
Ahhhh the usual suspects. So theres NO misunderstandings, Of course i KNOW im NOT OWED or ENTITLED to ANYTHING ( clear enough ) that was why i said it was tongue in cheek. You gotta love the forums.
To the other contributors thanks guys.
Maybe if i work my Devils charm on her for another 80 messages i might get a wee 'x' on one of those messages in time. I think she likes me but afraid to say so. She is a real female as shes verified.
Alas, for 1 wee kiss at the end of a message. ."
Awww dammit here x a kiss is just a kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you asked for a meet yet?
Ive dropped a wee hint or 2.
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Bloomin take the bull by the horns and come straight out and ask the woman rather than dancing around the subject by way of dropping hints. "
I agree. 
Stop faffing about |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"I dont think your owed anything, that's a very entitled attitude.
Ahhhh the usual suspects. So theres NO misunderstandings, Of course i KNOW im NOT OWED or ENTITLED to ANYTHING ( clear enough ) that was why i said it was tongue in cheek. You gotta love the forums.
To the other contributors thanks guys.
Maybe if i work my Devils charm on her for another 80 messages i might get a wee 'x' on one of those messages in time. I think she likes me but afraid to say so. She is a real female as shes verified.
Alas, for 1 wee kiss at the end of a message. .
Awww dammit here x a kiss is just a kiss"
Exactly M , i agree.
Its like a 69 is just 2 numbers. No big deal |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"Have you asked for a meet yet?
Ive dropped a wee hint or 2.
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Bloomin take the bull by the horns and come straight out and ask the woman rather than dancing around the subject by way of dropping hints.
I agree.
Stop faffing about "
If i cant even get a face pic , what chance a coffee.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you asked for a meet yet?
Ive dropped a wee hint or 2.
.
Bloomin take the bull by the horns and come straight out and ask the woman rather than dancing around the subject by way of dropping hints.
I agree.
Stop faffing about
If i cant even get a face pic , what chance a coffee. "
Don’t know until you ask!
She can only say no.  |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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I think she just wants to chat. I get that impression. I actually said to her ,in a flirty joky way, after so many messages i normally have at least a coffee meet by now, she said it was a strange way to think. Ouch , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.  "
Doesn't mean she hasn't been honest, maybe you're just looking for different things. |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for "
She has probably seen the post anyway |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway "
Hope not, that's a shame  |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame "
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash? |
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over a year ago
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?"
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for "
We messaged for a couple of weeks a while back , then she messaged me out the blue last week and another back and forth conversation since then. I dont think she wants to meet if im honest , which leaves only 2 options . Shes lonely and wants chat or shes messing with me.
For the posters that thought maybe she has seen this thread, she has never used the forums . As once said before only a very small percentage of Fab do use the forums. |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
We messaged for a couple of weeks a while back , then she messaged me out the blue last week and another back and forth conversation since then. I dont think she wants to meet if im honest , which leaves only 2 options . Shes lonely and wants chat or shes messing with me.
For the posters that thought maybe she has seen this thread, she has never used the forums . As once said before only a very small percentage of Fab do use the forums. "
Not everyone wants to rush in tho. Let her go at her pace. It's not always easy for woman on here, sometimes they don't even know what they want themselves. If it's a waste of your time then fair enough but show her a bit of respect and have a little patience. Some things are worth the wait |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
We messaged for a couple of weeks a while back , then she messaged me out the blue last week and another back and forth conversation since then. I dont think she wants to meet if im honest , which leaves only 2 options . Shes lonely and wants chat or shes messing with me.
For the posters that thought maybe she has seen this thread, she has never used the forums . As once said before only a very small percentage of Fab do use the forums.
Not everyone wants to rush in tho. Let her go at her pace. It's not always easy for woman on here, sometimes they don't even know what they want themselves. If it's a waste of your time then fair enough but show her a bit of respect and have a little patience. Some things are worth the wait "
Very wise words |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
We messaged for a couple of weeks a while back , then she messaged me out the blue last week and another back and forth conversation since then. I dont think she wants to meet if im honest , which leaves only 2 options . Shes lonely and wants chat or shes messing with me.
For the posters that thought maybe she has seen this thread, she has never used the forums . As once said before only a very small percentage of Fab do use the forums.
Not everyone wants to rush in tho. Let her go at her pace. It's not always easy for woman on here, sometimes they don't even know what they want themselves. If it's a waste of your time then fair enough but show her a bit of respect and have a little patience. Some things are worth the wait "
Those are wise words indeed, i have no intention of rushing anything though, but some things shes been honest with and other things not. Dont wish to go into detail though. |
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over a year ago
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Those are wise words indeed, i have no intention of rushing anything though, but some things shes been honest with and other things not. Dont wish to go into detail though. "
If you haven't met her, how can you possibly know what she has been honest or not about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length "
Ah well, onwards and upwards! |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Ah well, onwards and upwards!"
Always |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length "
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X"
No I had met him before briefly |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X
No I had met him before briefly "
Ahh right, was going to say i prefer to see if you get along on a quick phone chat before coffee. But you met him before so same thing x |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X
No I had met him before briefly
Ahh right, was going to say i prefer to see if you get along on a quick phone chat before coffee. But you met him before so same thing x"
I bumped his car so wasn't an intentional meeting |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X
No I had met him before briefly
Ahh right, was going to say i prefer to see if you get along on a quick phone chat before coffee. But you met him before so same thing x
I bumped his car so wasn't an intentional meeting "
Haha like it.
Maybe i should give you my registration plate and tell you where and when im parking it up. |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X
No I had met him before briefly
Ahh right, was going to say i prefer to see if you get along on a quick phone chat before coffee. But you met him before so same thing x
I bumped his car so wasn't an intentional meeting
Haha like it.
Maybe i should give you my registration plate and tell you where and when im parking it up. "
My dad hadn't forgiven me for the first bump |
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over a year ago
Blantyre |
"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X
No I had met him before briefly
Ahh right, was going to say i prefer to see if you get along on a quick phone chat before coffee. But you met him before so same thing x
I bumped his car so wasn't an intentional meeting
Haha like it.
Maybe i should give you my registration plate and tell you where and when im parking it up.
My dad hadn't forgiven me for the first bump "
You need to bump into a heating engineer or a mechanic next time. Dads love it when there daughters start seeing tradesmen. |
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"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X
No I had met him before briefly
Ahh right, was going to say i prefer to see if you get along on a quick phone chat before coffee. But you met him before so same thing x
I bumped his car so wasn't an intentional meeting
Haha like it.
Maybe i should give you my registration plate and tell you where and when im parking it up.
My dad hadn't forgiven me for the first bump
You need to bump into a heating engineer or a mechanic next time. Dads love it when there daughters start seeing tradesmen. "
He worked in IT, my dad wouldn't be impressed |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"90+ messages, realise she is never going to be honest with me, alas ,time to move on.
How many days were you messaging for
She has probably seen the post anyway
Hope not, that's a shame
How did your coffee meet go? I hope it wasn't another car crash?
It was ok, he was nice but I think I was a bit much for him Not on the same wave length
Did you chat with him on the phone before coffee ? Happy girl. X
No I had met him before briefly
Ahh right, was going to say i prefer to see if you get along on a quick phone chat before coffee. But you met him before so same thing x
I bumped his car so wasn't an intentional meeting
Haha like it.
Maybe i should give you my registration plate and tell you where and when im parking it up.
My dad hadn't forgiven me for the first bump
You need to bump into a heating engineer or a mechanic next time. Dads love it when there daughters start seeing tradesmen.
He worked in IT, my dad wouldn't be impressed "
I rest my case. |
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