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As unsuccessful as I have been with my profile, I had a look at yours. I would personally say its a bit long and some might consider some parts unnecessary or patronizing (oral hygiene section in particular) I think you've really tried to cover all bases which isn't a bad thing. But considering the sheer volume of messages women and couples receive on here, I cant imagine theyd have the time to read through your whole profile. Perhaps make the same points in a more concise fashion? I hope this has helped and not sounded abusive |
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over a year ago
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God where to start without coming across as patronising or abusive???
You definitely dont come across as a swinger!! Asking for teenage girls in particular !! Then the lengthy profile that I got bored with. I agree with the post above. I only read it all cos you asked for feedback, think if I was a single female I wouldnt even bother tbh. Cut it shorter and leave out the bits that make you sound like a dirty old man!!  |
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"God where to start without coming across as patronising or abusive???
You definitely dont come across as a swinger!! Asking for teenage girls in particular !! Then the lengthy profile that I got bored with. I agree with the post above. I only read it all cos you asked for feedback, think if I was a single female I wouldnt even bother tbh. Cut it shorter and leave out the bits that make you sound like a dirty old man!! "
Lmao!!   |
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over a year ago
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Ur preference is to meet people from 18 to 45.... And u r in ur 60's.... I would say u might want to relook into what she you want to meet....my thoughts but I defo think bring an older gent you need to look realistically at the age range.... |
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"God where to start without coming across as patronising or abusive???
You definitely dont come across as a swinger!! Asking for teenage girls in particular !! Then the lengthy profile that I got bored with. I agree with the post above. I only read it all cos you asked for feedback, think if I was a single female I wouldnt even bother tbh. Cut it shorter and leave out the bits that make you sound like a dirty old man!! "
I have to agree here about it looking like yoru a dirty old man i know some woman like older men... but seriously doubt many young women of 18 would go for a guy in their 60's so a rethink of age range would be an idea ..also drop the rfrences to girls as this makes it worse .
also everyone knows the healh issues involved in swining without the need for it on your profile .
And defo a change of profile pic is needed ...good luck .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to all above for taking the trouble to comment.
I'm willing to learn, as this is new territory for me.
Keep the help coming, please.
Best wishes.
Edintom.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try posting same question here...
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge
Be warned though the words ripped and arse paper spring to mind  "
Naughty naughty xx  |
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"Try posting same question here...
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge
Be warned though the words ripped and arse paper spring to mind
Naughty naughty xx "
ive already said this tyo him soapy lol bad to the core lol |
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"Try posting same question here...
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge
Be warned though the words ripped and arse paper spring to mind
Naughty naughty xx "
But still funny as fook!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had this when i first tried this swinging scene, lovely to see other swingers helping other swingers."
thats cos u started in the prehistoric era haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say the you dont need two N.B's - just patronising. You don't need any at all, people will either read the profile or not - they wont 'nota bene' it either way.
Also the age range is a bit 'dirty old man'-ish to me. Perhaps a more realistic rethink on this. I know you have flexible on profile, so why not widen the range rather than write that?
Picture is not very flattering, perhaps get someone to take a few nice new ones?
There is no need to go on about hygiene so much, when you read the other persons profile you will be able to tell whether or not they are for you.
The lines separating each part doesnt work for me either on a profile. Most people are able to distinguish paragraphs without help.
Not being rude, being helpful. Albeit a bit direct |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never had this when i first tried this swinging scene, lovely to see other swingers helping other swingers.
thats cos u started in the prehistoric era haha "
Yep, i still appreciate the IT man that chaged my avatar pic from black n white to colour, marrrrrvelous,lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you get what your looking for,give us a shout.
If your profile isnt a wind up,
We,ve got a meet with kylie and jason thursday. "
Who are Kylie & Jason ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a look and to me you need to up you age as at 61 and you want an 18 year old think you need think about that one and its to long to read as well,
kylie & jason did you not see them on the TV lol |
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"By the way, I'm not the only one involved in this discussion whose age range goes down to 18 !
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I have noticed you have tweeked ur profile slightly but its still not coming across in a good way too much info on what you want to do to women what you want women to do to you we all know why we're here thats something that is discussed if and when a meet is arranged between you and the person concerned . |
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over a year ago
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As I can't put face on profile [which is my best aspect ! ..  .. ], a body pic is all I can put there. How to make it more attractive ? (But I'll work on it.)
So, it's OK to be 44 and want 18-year-olds ? (but not at 63 !) -- Oh well, I've changed it to 25. Any better ?
I'm genuinely grateful to all who've submitted (non-derision)comments. (The deriders' time will come.) Thank you.
Further sincere comments welcome, please.
Tom. |
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So, it's OK to be 44 and want 18-year-olds ? (but not at 63 !)
Everyone has their own age preferances and thats upto them but the way you had written your profile and making comments to girls as young as 18 im sorry it just came across a dirty old man.
You did ask for comments and thats what you got if 18 yr olds are what you are looking for them dont change your age limits but definatley change how you word what it is you want from them. |
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"As I can't put face on profile [which is my best aspect ! .. .. ], a body pic is all I can put there. How to make it more attractive ? (But I'll work on it.)
So, it's OK to be 44 and want 18-year-olds ? (but not at 63 !) -- Oh well, I've changed it to 25. Any better ?
I'm genuinely grateful to all who've submitted (non-derision)comments. (The deriders' time will come.) Thank you.
Further sincere comments welcome, please.
Tom. "
See it as constructive criticism, i see no jeering laughter or ridicule,
Goodluck |
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As I can't put face on profile [which is my best aspect ! .. .. ], a body pic is all I can put there. How to make it more attractive ? (But I'll work on it.)
you have just said this yet on your own profile you ask for face pix as soon as possible hardly fair is it ? |
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"As I can't put face on profile [which is my best aspect ! .. .. ], a body pic is all I can put there. How to make it more attractive ? (But I'll work on it.)
you have just said this yet on your own profile you ask for face pix as soon as possible hardly fair is it ?"
Thanks, but what I meant was, can't put my full face pic as my profile pic; - but would still send full face pic privately, and that's all I'm asking others to do.
Just changed my profile pic to show part face. How's it looking ?
Tom. |
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"See it as constructive criticism, i see no jeering laughter or ridicule,"
I was thinking of '_aucy3'.
But most comments have been constructive and much appreciated. Thanks for those.
Tom. |
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