Is there any point in them at all
The number of times I’m asked if I’m married and yet it states clearly my status on my profile
Honestly why bother on here
It seems to be filled with naenderthals and folk with lazyitis - both major bug bearers for me |
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over a year ago
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Well I do take note of the ones who have actually read mine .............others just look at the pics i think
Personally I do read a profile as it gives me sense of the person and if we may hit it off or not
Is it frustrating when folk don’t? Yes but then that could be your filter
Folk take what they want out of Fab it’s a weird and wonderful place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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States on my profile i only meet during school hrs..dosn't stop guys asking to meet weekends or evenings lol
So yes...I'd say most only look at the pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"States on my profile i only meet during school hrs..dosn't stop guys asking to meet weekends or evenings lol
So yes...I'd say most only look at the pics "
Fancy a shag tonight?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I'll read a profile if I see someone of interest, a quick read and if all is good and I think I meet their criteria I'll message. Not that it's a given that it'll bag a successful meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always read profiles as it tells you a bit about that person and what they're looking for. I think there are a lot of people who don't and only want to look at the pics. I get messages from couples asking to meet me and it clearly states in my profile that I only meet them in cj's now so obviously they haven't read my profile. If they did read it then it saves them sending a message in the first place  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have much on my profile as the reality is women don't need to search for guys on here and message them.
I do read female profiles and for me just as important as what they state they are looking for is how they are written and the language they use. For me, most are a turn off in that respect and don't get a message from me. Also the number of copy and paste profiles lifted directly from other profiles demonstrates a complete lack of imagination, originality and dare I say it intelligence.
Been caught out a few times where I've fallen for this and sent a message only to get a reply from someone who seems to have a reading age of about 8.
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I do read profiles, but it's clear many don't read mine. I think lack of effort in a profile or message infers that that person will be the same if meeting. Your profile is your opportunity to say what you are on fab for, yet so many can't be bothered to do so. Copy & paste messages are easy to spot, & not the first time someone has forgotten to change the name!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the other side, because I'm single guys seem to think I drop my knickers instantly  "
Works both ways, quite a lot of girls, not all I may add, get annoyed cause as a guy sone of us don't jump when they want to fuck.
Simple, if a guy doesn't read your profile it's the perfect filter
Just delete and block, no second chances  |
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"I do read profiles, but it's clear many don't read mine. I think lack of effort in a profile or message infers that that person will be the same if meeting. Your profile is your opportunity to say what you are on fab for, yet so many can't be bothered to do so. Copy & paste messages are easy to spot, & not the first time someone has forgotten to change the name!!
R "
I've had some of the best sex I've had in a long while with a guy who's profile is shite and initial messages were very brief |
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"I do read profiles, but it's clear many don't read mine. I think lack of effort in a profile or message infers that that person will be the same if meeting. Your profile is your opportunity to say what you are on fab for, yet so many can't be bothered to do so. Copy & paste messages are easy to spot, & not the first time someone has forgotten to change the name!!
R "
Not always easy. I have taken time to sit and write a message to someone only to be told it is cut and paste. Think too many expect, and therefore see, what they expect. It is like someone who is used to being treated badly expecting to be treated badly. As a single guy it is obviously hard to get connections, and for older guys getting more and more difficult. The ones who have spoiled it have made it so. However, I believe in hope over adversity!!  |
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over a year ago
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"Sometimes taking the time to talk to people in messages pays off. I can't always be arsed reading screeds and screeds of stuff on a profile.
So you just perv my pics everyday then   "
Yep.... my 7.45 pm daily bean flicking session. |
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm being thick ....not for the first time ....where does it state your marital status on your profile .."
Think this bit should be a hint............. this profile and a couples profile with my husband. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile states I have a partner. I also read profiles I think are relevant to me and my partner. Yes I look at the pictures first. Any messages I send are always respectful, and again I mention my partner in these. We have a joint account also under the name Mcvk. Any women who are bi/curious take a look  |
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As a single guy, i'm ignored by default anyway 