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Is The Social Side Of Fab Better than The Sex Side Of Fab ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is The Social Side Of Fab Better than The Sex Side Of Fab ?
As a few who have met me know I'm very comfortable in the social side of fab in any environment and as in regards to the sex side of it I like to keep it all discreet but I do have a blast ive noticed recently on a few posts some say they have no interest in the social side whatsoever and I mean even one to one socials.
So what you prefer the most, social side or the sex fun side or it all. I love it all but if there wasn't a social side I know for a fact I wouldn't be here.
What's your views on it folks and what   |
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By *anditMan
over a year ago
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As a new member ive not been sure what to expect but spending time in the chatroom and forums chatting woth members i e realised that there can be a fun friendly element to the site not just sex. I think that one is just as important as the other on this site and look forward to enjoying both for a while yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a new member ive not been sure what to expect but spending time in the chatroom and forums chatting woth members i e realised that there can be a fun friendly element to the site not just sex. I think that one is just as important as the other on this site and look forward to enjoying both for a while yet. "
Social and the sex side are brilliant n mixed together they are even better 
I'm at a house party on Saturday and the social and fun side I just know are going to be fantastic.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not sure what posts you've been looking at OP as a lot on the Scottish forum seem to be only into the social side of fab, which of course doesn't make any odds to me.
I'll carry on doing fab my way and the way it suits those I meet.
Thanks for asking though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a new member ive not been sure what to expect but spending time in the chatroom and forums chatting woth members i e realised that there can be a fun friendly element to the site not just sex. I think that one is just as important as the other on this site and look forward to enjoying both for a while yet.
Social and the sex side are brilliant n mixed together they are even better
I'm at a house party on Saturday and the social and fun side I just know are going to be fantastic. "
When I said it was going to be a stripper party, I meant the wallpaper.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The social side was a big part of swinging in the past how do you think people actually got to know people in the days before magazines and social media? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is The Social Side Of Fab Better than The Sex Side Of Fab ?
As a few who have met me know I'm very comfortable in the social side of fab in any environment and as in regards to the sex side of it I like to keep it all discreet but I do have a blast ive noticed recently on a few posts some say they have no interest in the social side whatsoever and I mean even one to one socials.
So what you prefer the most, social side or the sex fun side or it all. I love it all but if there wasn't a social side I know for a fact I wouldn't be here.
What's your views on it folks and what "
I can even see more and more big socials happening as they are becoming total successes and lets people put a face to a name |
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By *anditMan
over a year ago
irvine |
"As a new member ive not been sure what to expect but spending time in the chatroom and forums chatting woth members i e realised that there can be a fun friendly element to the site not just sex. I think that one is just as important as the other on this site and look forward to enjoying both for a while yet.
Social and the sex side are brilliant n mixed together they are even better
I'm at a house party on Saturday and the social and fun side I just know are going to be fantastic.
When I said it was going to be a stripper party, I meant the wallpaper. "
Thank goodness ive no invite to that party hate decorating |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I understand folk wanting to socialise with likeminded folks but these socials dont always end well.
Just take a look at how users of this forum have their spats, when alcohol is added to the mix can you imagine what would happen?
I much prefer fireworks during sex
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand folk wanting to socialise with likeminded folks but these socials dont always end well.
Just take a look at how users of this forum have their spats, when alcohol is added to the mix can you imagine what would happen?
I much prefer fireworks during sex
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Are you saying that socials have ended in verbals or fisticuffs? 
I'm not looking for details, btw. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I understand folk wanting to socialise with likeminded folks but these socials dont always end well.
Just take a look at how users of this forum have their spats, when alcohol is added to the mix can you imagine what would happen?
I much prefer fireworks during sex
Are you saying that socials have ended in verbals or fisticuffs?
I'm not looking for details, btw."
I’ve never seen that but I have seen people deliberately giving others a wide berth to avoid a confrontation  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I understand folk wanting to socialise with likeminded folks but these socials dont always end well.
Just take a look at how users of this forum have their spats, when alcohol is added to the mix can you imagine what would happen?
I much prefer fireworks during sex
Are you saying that socials have ended in verbals or fisticuffs?
I'm not looking for details, btw.
I’ve never seen that but I have seen people deliberately giving others a wide berth to avoid a confrontation "
It's just normal life although the ones recently there has been nothing but just fantastic nights
But if people cause hassle in th past I'd then expect them not be be invited back
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For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.
But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.
But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat. "
Aww fuck that's me out
My banter is shite |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.
Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx "
You’re gonna have to get your tea making skills up to scratch then  |
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"Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.
Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx
You’re gonna have to get your tea making skills up to scratch then "
my kettles boiled dry lol |
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"Im the same, I wouldnt be here if there wasn't the social side as well.
Although nsa has its place in my opinion swinging isnt swinging without both the sex and social parts to it xxx
You’re gonna have to get your tea making skills up to scratch then "
Ill make you nice cuppa after I wax you
Xxx |
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"I love the social side to fab but no its not better than the fun, fun is the main reason why we joined here after all "
Have to agree. My social life was fine without Fab but my sexual needs were not. I mainly joined to explore and experiment with like minded people without being judged. On saying thay i have had some lovely social encounters and made alot of lovely friends here. |
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I love the social side of fab.. I always do a social before anything else happens , one you can't beat a cocktail with a gorgeous lady and two there has to be an attraction for me , but I did join fab to explore my fantasies the sexual side is what made me join. I don't need fab for sex but when you want to explore more intense levels of fantasy and sex you need to meet like minded people.I have met many people most of are now friends and fulfilled my fantasies but I'm sure it's been said before by many people fab is used in a variety of different ways for many people xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cant have one without the other in my opinion.
Chatting to find common ground, discover the persons sense of humour are all important when it comes to attraction for me , chemistry and connection come through the social part . That's when it works !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.
But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat. "
can I steal Fuck spark please lol |
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"Cant have one without the other in my opinion.
Chatting to find common ground, discover the persons sense of humour are all important when it comes to attraction for me , chemistry and connection come through the social part . That's when it works !!! "
Totally agree with this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don’t think you can rate one above the other as for the majority their inextricably linked ,what I have noticed in various posts since I returned is people remarking how attractive etc they found such and such at a large social , when in Fab their profile never stood out or they aren’t photogenic, so after prattling, ,,,,, Definitely undecided |
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"For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.
But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat. can I steal Fuck spark please lol "
No trade marked it! |
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"For me, you cannot have one without the other. I need to be attracted and interested in chat.... socially have fuck spark and further curiosity. Which finally brings us to awesome sex. But thats what works for me.
But i am also interested in meeting like minded folk, i wont have attraction and fuck spark with but i will connect on the banter and chat.
Aww fuck that's me out
My banter is shite "
Leave that for someone else to point out Peter, makes it amusing! ??
Just mind the spark ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think you can rate one above the other as for the majority their inextricably linked ,what I have noticed in various posts since I returned is people remarking how attractive etc they found such and such at a large social , when in Fab their profile never stood out or they aren’t photogenic, so after prattling, ,,,,, Definitely undecided"
They're just being nice when they do that. It makes them sound like nice people too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think you can rate one above the other as for the majority their inextricably linked ,what I have noticed in various posts since I returned is people remarking how attractive etc they found such and such at a large social , when in Fab their profile never stood out or they aren’t photogenic, so after prattling, ,,,,, Definitely undecided
They're just being nice when they do that. It makes them sound like nice people too "
am
I such a trusting fool lol ? Actually I was meaning myself a few months back at a social from elsewhere . I spoke to one lady who was unrecognisable from her profile , shallow as it sounds I never would’ve chatted online , but now we’re close buddies |
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