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"I hate asking folk how they are in case they actually tell me. It took 10 minutes for the last guy I asked to tell me how he was  "
Ahh but therein lies the lesson .
If you asked him yesterday it would have been 10 minutes, ask him again today and it would have been 1 or 2 minutes. Unless some major change occurred overnight, which would be a reason in itself to ask. I say to most people in life as a greeting, hey how you doing. |
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true"
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?"
by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone |
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?"
Look Ffs it's a post by hedevil about mental illness and saying spare a thought to someone and see if they are ok. Some people have no interest some it does and to some, mental illness has had a major effect on their life's.. if you want to spare a thought or time for someone do so if not then don't.
As having a brother who tried to commit suicide 6 times in 4 years or summit like that, it's had an effect on my whole life. Yeah I've got time for people and yeah I see signs where there's problems with someone but I've been invoked in it all my life so personally I will take time out to say hiya to people.  
I don't expect anyone else to, I don't preach to them that they should but if others spent a little time out to make sure someone is ok without being nosey then it's good. |
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone"
Ahh now this is a perfect example of the snowflake society mentality.
You have taken offence to this thread. Yet the OP on this thread never directed or instructed anything towards you personally.
But you assume its trying to make YOU personally do something to conform with everyone else. Really ?? .
Also the OP never said to talk to everyone and anyone merely ask someone how they are, that could be a parent a child a friend . Snowflakes take offence at things that are not offensive , that the biggest problem in society these days. |
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?
Look Ffs it's a post by hedevil about mental illness and saying spare a thought to someone and see if they are ok. Some people have no interest some it does and to some, mental illness has had a major effect on their life's.. if you want to spare a thought or time for someone do so if not then don't.
As having a brother who tried to commit suicide 6 times in 4 years or summit like that, it's had an effect on my whole life. Yeah I've got time for people and yeah I see signs where there's problems with someone but I've been invoked in it all my life so personally I will take time out to say hiya to people.
I don't expect anyone else to, I don't preach to them that they should but if others spent a little time out to make sure someone is ok without being nosey then it's good. "
No one should be forced to conform or join in. I do it cause it's had a major effect on my life. If my brother never had these problems then I might have been oblivious to mental health but I ain't.   |
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone
Ahh now this is a perfect example of the snowflake society mentality.
You have taken offence to this thread. Yet the OP on this thread never directed or instructed anything towards you personally.
But you assume its trying to make YOU personally do something to conform with everyone else. Really ?? .
Also the OP never said to talk to everyone and anyone merely ask someone how they are, that could be a parent a child a friend . Snowflakes take offence at things that are not offensive , that the biggest problem in society these days. "
lol no snowflake society is trying to make everyone conform you really need to brush up on what things are.
this is no diffrent to charity tin rattling. Im not taking offence at all im stating I control my own mind and I am more than able to make my own choices without the need of blue undercracker day  |
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"I hate asking folk how they are in case they actually tell me. It took 10 minutes for the last guy I asked to tell me how he was
Ahh but therein lies the lesson .
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Don't ask again |
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"Sorry to hear the above horsey,hope things are better with your brother these days"
Thanks
he's fine, it came to light when he was 15 and ended up in a lock up ward but it's life and there always someone worse off so I'm more open to it with others that's all. He's in sheltered housing in a good place in fact am gonny pop over n see him Thursday
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"Remember to ask one person if they are ok today. Spare 5 mins for a chat and a coffee. It could mean a lot to someone. "
well said !!
Too many people happy to dish out grief to others without a second thought of what that person might be going through in their life .
A little kindness really does go a long way for many people |
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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone"
Hate to point out but by replying you are there for conforming
If you want to be a none conformist you would not reply at all as u wouldn't feel the need for the valediction of a reply in the 1st place
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By *40ffCouple
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Anstruther |
"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone
Ahh now this is a perfect example of the snowflake society mentality.
You have taken offence to this thread. Yet the OP on this thread never directed or instructed anything towards you personally.
But you assume its trying to make YOU personally do something to conform with everyone else. Really ?? .
Also the OP never said to talk to everyone and anyone merely ask someone how they are, that could be a parent a child a friend . Snowflakes take offence at things that are not offensive , that the biggest problem in society these days. lol no snowflake society is trying to make everyone conform you really need to brush up on what things are.
this is no diffrent to charity tin rattling. Im not taking offence at all im stating I control my own mind and I am more than able to make my own choices without the need of blue undercracker day "
The social norm of a forum is to reply and or make posts within said forum
Therefore by replying to a post YOU conform to the majority of the sun culture that is fabswingers and comply with the social pressures of said sub culture (society)
Stop moaning about society making you conform if you are going to conform anyway
The op was pointing out a point they are passionate about God help you if u ever need a mental health day!!! |
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone
Ahh now this is a perfect example of the snowflake society mentality.
You have taken offence to this thread. Yet the OP on this thread never directed or instructed anything towards you personally.
But you assume its trying to make YOU personally do something to conform with everyone else. Really ?? .
Also the OP never said to talk to everyone and anyone merely ask someone how they are, that could be a parent a child a friend . Snowflakes take offence at things that are not offensive , that the biggest problem in society these days. lol no snowflake society is trying to make everyone conform you really need to brush up on what things are.
this is no diffrent to charity tin rattling. Im not taking offence at all im stating I control my own mind and I am more than able to make my own choices without the need of blue undercracker day
The social norm of a forum is to reply and or make posts within said forum
Therefore by replying to a post YOU conform to the majority of the sun culture that is fabswingers and comply with the social pressures of said sub culture (society)
Stop moaning about society making you conform if you are going to conform anyway
The op was pointing out a point they are passionate about God help you if u ever need a mental health day!!!"
You remember one thing....
When your in my bed, I'm in charge OK or else   |
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By *40ffCouple
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Anstruther |
"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone
Ahh now this is a perfect example of the snowflake society mentality.
You have taken offence to this thread. Yet the OP on this thread never directed or instructed anything towards you personally.
But you assume its trying to make YOU personally do something to conform with everyone else. Really ?? .
Also the OP never said to talk to everyone and anyone merely ask someone how they are, that could be a parent a child a friend . Snowflakes take offence at things that are not offensive , that the biggest problem in society these days. lol no snowflake society is trying to make everyone conform you really need to brush up on what things are.
this is no diffrent to charity tin rattling. Im not taking offence at all im stating I control my own mind and I am more than able to make my own choices without the need of blue undercracker day
The social norm of a forum is to reply and or make posts within said forum
Therefore by replying to a post YOU conform to the majority of the sun culture that is fabswingers and comply with the social pressures of said sub culture (society)
Stop moaning about society making you conform if you are going to conform anyway
The op was pointing out a point they are passionate about God help you if u ever need a mental health day!!!
You remember one thing....
When your in my bed, I'm in charge OK or else "
YES SIR |
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone
Ahh now this is a perfect example of the snowflake society mentality.
You have taken offence to this thread. Yet the OP on this thread never directed or instructed anything towards you personally.
But you assume its trying to make YOU personally do something to conform with everyone else. Really ?? .
Also the OP never said to talk to everyone and anyone merely ask someone how they are, that could be a parent a child a friend . Snowflakes take offence at things that are not offensive , that the biggest problem in society these days. lol no snowflake society is trying to make everyone conform you really need to brush up on what things are.
this is no diffrent to charity tin rattling. Im not taking offence at all im stating I control my own mind and I am more than able to make my own choices without the need of blue undercracker day
The social norm of a forum is to reply and or make posts within said forum
Therefore by replying to a post YOU conform to the majority of the sun culture that is fabswingers and comply with the social pressures of said sub culture (society)
Stop moaning about society making you conform if you are going to conform anyway
The op was pointing out a point they are passionate about God help you if u ever need a mental health day!!!
You remember one thing....
When your in my bed, I'm in charge OK or else
YES SIR "
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone
Hate to point out but by replying you are there for conforming
If you want to be a none conformist you would not reply at all as u wouldn't feel the need for the valediction of a reply in the 1st place
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no conforming would be doing as asked and not following my own thoughts.
enjoy your day though |
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I would say only ask if you are actually going to take the time to listen. If not, then keep quiet...
There's nothing worse than someone paying you lip service when it's obvious they couldn't give a fuck. |
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By *40ffCouple
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"I decide who I speak too and when I speak to folk and the attempts to shame folk into talking to everyone and anyone dont work on me.
sad to say but many simply aint worth my time harsh but true
No idea where in this thread someone tried to shame you ?? Maybe you could clarify. ?by refusal to conform you are being shamed by not joining the rest and voicing that alt viewpoint........ your welcone
Hate to point out but by replying you are there for conforming
If you want to be a none conformist you would not reply at all as u wouldn't feel the need for the valediction of a reply in the 1st place
no conforming would be doing as asked and not following my own thoughts.
enjoy your day though"
That is not conforming at all 99%of conforming is done without thought conforming is simply taking on beliefs or behaviours of the society or sub society that u r in so replying on a forum you are taking on the behaviours of the society and therefore confirming!!! |
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