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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's happened and probably will again they often get embarrassed and run out haha often have blamed me also hardly my fault that they can't control their penis  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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I suppose a lot of it will do with the guys attitude whether it pisses the lady off ..if the guy thinks ...woohoo that's me got what I wanted n fucks off it's bound to piss them off lol but if he thinks well time to tease n please the lady til recovered n go again then dont think ladies will have to much of a problem with it lol btw just for record I'm not speaking from experience  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Most guys don't last long not that i last long afore im a shaking mess anyways! But theres always 12 rounds right?   "
Pisses me off when a girl can't last and finishes after orgasm
Wonder if it annoys girls if a guy can last as long as HE wants ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always come early. You never know what the traffic will be like, arrive early and read a book. That's my motto. Lol
But to comment on the Op point. I have not had that particular issue. Maybe this is for a different thread but what about the opposite, no matter what you do the guy just won't cum. It's not that he isn't having a great time but it's just not happening. Are you disappointed? How long do yo keep trying for? Sorry OP if this is too far off topic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most guys don't last long not that i last long afore im a shaking mess anyways! But theres always 12 rounds right?
Pisses me off when a girl can't last and finishes after orgasm
Wonder if it annoys girls if a guy can last as long as HE wants ? "
I think the many times iv seen that i can happily keep having more orgasms thanks
You however are a special kind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always come early. You never know what the traffic will be like, arrive early and read a book. That's my motto. Lol
But to comment on the Op point. I have not had that particular issue. Maybe this is for a different thread but what about the opposite, no matter what you do the guy just won't cum. It's not that he isn't having a great time but it's just not happening. Are you disappointed? How long do yo keep trying for? Sorry OP if this is too far off topic."
Good question id be more concerned if a guy kept losing his erection rather than not cumming, guys can reach a peak without ejaculation ect too tho so just depends on who ur with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always come early. You never know what the traffic will be like, arrive early and read a book. That's my motto. Lol
But to comment on the Op point. I have not had that particular issue. Maybe this is for a different thread but what about the opposite, no matter what you do the guy just won't cum. It's not that he isn't having a great time but it's just not happening. Are you disappointed? How long do yo keep trying for? Sorry OP if this is too far off topic."
Pmsl it's not off topic it's actually an important issue as well. Also another issue is a lot of girls find it really annoying that a guy can have total control and cum when he wants |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one guy off here who I had waited three months to play with as I really liked him and thought it was going to be amazing(glowing verifications,known on scene,regular at cjs)
Literally came about five minutes after I climbed aboard!! But the worst thing was I was offered to go again and he was just like nah I'm done and got dressed!!
I have had guys come to quickly before but that was biggest disappointment as I was sure he was going to be amazing. Twat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I right in thinking the problem isn't the early climax but what happens after, if the guy is a selfish prick and says thanks and goes then it's a problem, if the guy says, "that was unfortunate but it means I can concentrate on your pleasure", then it's OK? Well not OK but you know what I mean.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I right in thinking the problem isn't the early climax but what happens after, if the guy is a selfish prick and says thanks and goes then it's a problem, if the guy says, "that was unfortunate but it means I can concentrate on your pleasure", then it's OK? Well not OK but you know what I mean. "
Yes of course!! Its life and it happens. I messaged him a while later to say don't worry about it and maybe we could meet again and he just rubber eared me!! He didnt even think he had behaved rudely!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes of course!! Its life and it happens. I messaged him a while later to say don't worry about it and maybe we could meet again and he just rubber eared me!! He didnt even think he had behaved rudely!!!
Well that's just wrong. Got what he wanted and nothing else matters. (great song but poor show here.). Sadly there are a lot of rude people on here. I hope your next meet was more.... Satisfying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We where in a guys house,cock out. The mrs just got her mouth round it and he came. Wtf. That was him for the night. Total knob promised the earth but delivered heehaw. Well apart from a slimy mess on his carpet . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a guy from another site & he came just kissing.
He told me later that he hadnt been with a woman for about 3yrs 
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I met a 27 year old man and a 35 year old man from pof who were both virgins!! I didn't devirginise any of them tho lol n aye genuine virgins |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always come early. You never know what the traffic will be like, arrive early and read a book. That's my motto. Lol
But to comment on the Op point. I have not had that particular issue. Maybe this is for a different thread but what about the opposite, no matter what you do the guy just won't cum. It's not that he isn't having a great time but it's just not happening. Are you disappointed? How long do yo keep trying for? Sorry OP if this is too far off topic.
Pmsl it's not off topic it's actually an important issue as well. Also another issue is a lot of girls find it really annoying that a guy can have total control and cum when he wants "
Sounds like average sex. In the right environment and with the right partner no one has "total control". If they do, they are simply not having amazing sex no matter what they say, because you can not suppress hormones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I deleted my last post as it seems the comment wasn't directed at me. I apologise to those who read it before it was deleted. Not that it was anything bad. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always come early. You never know what the traffic will be like, arrive early and read a book. That's my motto. Lol
But to comment on the Op point. I have not had that particular issue. Maybe this is for a different thread but what about the opposite, no matter what you do the guy just won't cum. It's not that he isn't having a great time but it's just not happening. Are you disappointed? How long do yo keep trying for? Sorry OP if this is too far off topic.
Pmsl it's not off topic it's actually an important issue as well. Also another issue is a lot of girls find it really annoying that a guy can have total control and cum when he wants
Sounds like average sex. In the right environment and with the right partner no one has "total control". If they do, they are simply not having amazing sex no matter what they say, because you can not suppress hormones. "
You or I or anyone else for that matter cannot say what a couples feelings are when a guy has total control or what the sex is like. You, I or anyone can't know how intense it is as we are not there. You and me and everyone ONLY know from our own experience or sometimes witnessing it.
Trust me your definition of average sex maybe different from mine and others but my definition of average maybe different from others but it it only your view and only my view. I cannot and will not say what others define it as. I've have some of the most intense, sensational sex with my mind let loose but I've still been in control.
I've know a stunning sexy girl whose only ever had guys who can last 10 minuites, that was the longest, now she's with a guy who I know and he's lasting right through the night for her and the both of them are saying it's the most amazing, intense time they have ever had. 
So total control, yip from experience it can be amazing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I deleted my last post as it seems the comment wasn't directed at me. I apologise to those who read it before it was deleted. Not that it was anything bad. Lol"
It happens, we all have read a post wrong at times than the way it was intended. I've done it plenty of tomea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I deleted my last post as it seems the comment wasn't directed at me. I apologise to those who read it before it was deleted. Not that it was anything bad. Lol
It happens, we all have read a post wrong at times than the way it was intended. I've done it plenty of tomea "
Thanks Peter. As I say, it wasn't anything bad I wrote. I read it quickly and wasn't engaging with what had been said. A reminder to read things and not answer to quickly. I prefer to engage with what's been said not what I thought was said. The comment wasn't directed at me. So I shouldn't have replied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happens for all sorts of reasons but I recon it's about not being selfish and either making a point of controlling yourself to make sure the lady is not short changed, or not seeing it as the full stop to the sesh and changing tack to make sure you both reach the top of the hill satisfactorily, at least once.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It happens for all sorts of reasons but I recon it's about not being selfish and either making a point of controlling yourself to make sure the lady is not short changed, or not seeing it as the full stop to the sesh and changing tack to make sure you both reach the top of the hill satisfactorily, at least once.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always come early. You never know what the traffic will be like, arrive early and read a book. That's my motto. Lol
But to comment on the Op point. I have not had that particular issue. Maybe this is for a different thread but what about the opposite, no matter what you do the guy just won't cum. It's not that he isn't having a great time but it's just not happening. Are you disappointed? How long do yo keep trying for? Sorry OP if this is too far off topic.
Pmsl it's not off topic it's actually an important issue as well. Also another issue is a lot of girls find it really annoying that a guy can have total control and cum when he wants
Sounds like average sex. In the right environment and with the right partner no one has "total control". If they do, they are simply not having amazing sex no matter what they say, because you can not suppress hormones.
You or I or anyone else for that matter cannot say what a couples feelings are when a guy has total control or what the sex is like. You, I or anyone can't know how intense it is as we are not there. You and me and everyone ONLY know from our own experience or sometimes witnessing it.
Trust me your definition of average sex maybe different from mine and others but my definition of average maybe different from others but it it only your view and only my view. I cannot and will not say what others define it as. I've have some of the most intense, sensational sex with my mind let loose but I've still been in control.
I've know a stunning sexy girl whose only ever had guys who can last 10 minuites, that was the longest, now she's with a guy who I know and he's lasting right through the night for her and the both of them are saying it's the most amazing, intense time they have ever had.
So total control, yip from experience it can be amazing "
Buy yourself a biology book lad. And read it. These are scientific facts. There is a point where no one has "total control" it's impossible, its related to hormones and stimulation.
So while you waffle on, I am pointing you in the direction of facts and science. I did not say that no one can exhibit any degree of self control, I said no one has "total control". I am not speculating or commenting on anyone's sex lives, I am merely pointing out that if the stimulus it right and the hormone levels reach a trigger level no one has control at that point.
Yes a session can be prolonged if both parties are in tandem and tuned into each other and know what it right and what it going to far. But that is both parties controlling the situation not one in "total control".
But you posted that women got annoyed when a guy was in "total control" and held off cuming. Now if the woman is trying to make him come and he's not that is not total control because he can't control the stimulus. It could be the sex is average, the stimulus is not sufficient i.e. She's not attractive enough or up to it or doing it to his liking or he's not performing himself and has a problem.
Buy the book and read it, save me having to spell it out for you on here.
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I am the opposite, that's not me shouting about my prowess because the opposite can be embarrassing. I seem to be able to go for hours but you know when you feel the time is right to Cum, I just can't! I end up wanking on her. Strange how we are all different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose it depends on our mood (Female), we may have had a hard day and just wanna quickie but i have to admit Tarzan has never left me wanting after hes finished lol, one time he went for 11 straight hours that on the following day I was walking like John Wayne pmsl. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me."
This .... x |
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me.
This .... x"
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me."
Great answer n sooo true, can’t be doing with the ones that say they can go for hours, for me it’s about the intensity of the orgasm n I don’t care if it takes 5 minutes, fuck that 5 hours malarkey if it’s taking you that long to come I’m no doing it right
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me.
Great answer n sooo true, can’t be doing with the ones that say they can go for hours, for me it’s about the intensity of the orgasm n I don’t care if it takes 5 minutes, fuck that 5 hours malarkey if it’s taking you that long to come I’m no doing it right
K x"
Yea the five minute wonder guy tried to blame it on my being too "sexy" aye right |
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me.
Great answer n sooo true, can’t be doing with the ones that say they can go for hours, for me it’s about the intensity of the orgasm n I don’t care if it takes 5 minutes, fuck that 5 hours malarkey if it’s taking you that long to come I’m no doing it right
K x"
I know...after a while it just reminds you of that noisy cnut of a neighbour who's up banging his walls and doing DIY at 8am on a Sunday morning C'mon tae fuck man!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me."
Agreed
Everyone is different and different with other people. Once you have that connection and intimacy that no others can reach what you two share then who cares and why look to deep into it. The connection is perfect whatever you two do together whether you or both orgasm straight away or don't even orgasm at all that night.
in regards to my question in regards to some girls mist have stories in that circumstance of a guy cumming to early.
I've even had the same situation with a few females orgasm to early and they didn't wanna go on |
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me.
Agreed
Everyone is different and different with other people. Once you have that connection and intimacy that no others can reach what you two share then who cares and why look to deep into it. The connection is perfect whatever you two do together whether you or both orgasm straight away or don't even orgasm at all that night.
in regards to my question in regards to some girls mist have stories in that circumstance of a guy cumming to early.
I've even had the same situation with a few females orgasm to early and they didn't wanna go on "
Totally agree with this, |
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me.
Agreed
Everyone is different and different with other people. Once you have that connection and intimacy that no others can reach what you two share then who cares and why look to deep into it. The connection is perfect whatever you two do together whether you or both orgasm straight away or don't even orgasm at all that night.
in regards to my question in regards to some girls mist have stories in that circumstance of a guy cumming to early.
I've even had the same situation with a few females orgasm to early and they didn't wanna go on
Totally agree with this, "
Oh dear. Thats not good. |
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With regards a female reaching an orgasmic state I was taught that it was more like an orgasmic plateaux than a peak and she can be held in this state for quite some time
This has def been my experience
As to guys cumming too early I simply feel bad for them as a man puffs out his chest with his stamina control staying powers etc when they can last or be a repeater so I feel the opposite is no doubt occurring within them if they come too soon or lose their erection
It’s a bloody shame but these things happen / just have a coffee and a natter and play again another time. |
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"With regards a female reaching an orgasmic state I was taught that it was more like an orgasmic plateaux than a peak and she can be held in this state for quite some time
This has def been my experience
As to guys cumming too early I simply feel bad for them as a man puffs out his chest with his stamina control staying powers etc when they can last or be a repeater so I feel the opposite is no doubt occurring within them if they come too soon or lose their erection
It’s a bloody shame but these things happen / just have a coffee and a natter and play again another time. "
being with a considerate female I'm sure it would allow the guy to relax, chill and then get right into it longer and hope its a longer lasting time |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell. "
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ? "
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've got a very short story for you Peter.
You only need the title '2 minute-Mike' "
I'm no searching that
ffs, I bet a Trojan horse will end up in my computer |
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"I've got a very short story for you Peter.
You only need the title '2 minute-Mike'
I'm no searching that
ffs, I bet a Trojan horse will end up in my computer "
lol maybe his Trojan horse will work better in your computer than with me  |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ?
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't "
So you are saying it has never happened to you ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ?
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't
So you are saying it has never happened to you ? "
Pmsl I haven't said its happened or not happened to me, its obviously clear o that, isn't it.
Something wrong, I take it you don't wanna be part of the post and say of any experience you remember. |
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"I've got a very short story for you Peter.
You only need the title '2 minute-Mike'
I'm no searching that
ffs, I bet a Trojan horse will end up in my computer
lol maybe his Trojan horse will work better in your computer than with me "
why do I think looking at that after a search that my eyes would water |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ?
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't
So you are saying it has never happened to you ?
Pmsl I haven't said its happened or not happened to me, its obviously clear o that, isn't it.
Something wrong, I take it you don't wanna be part of the post and say of any experience you remember. "
Well if your asking women to tell you about guys cumming too early it seems to me your asking for advice so you know what to do next time it happens but hey dont feel too bad about it im sure youl get there with experience |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ?
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't
So you are saying it has never happened to you ?
Pmsl I haven't said its happened or not happened to me, its obviously clear o that, isn't it.
Something wrong, I take it you don't wanna be part of the post and say of any experience you remember.
Well if your asking women to tell you about guys cumming too early it seems to me your asking for advice so you know what to do next time it happens but hey dont feel too bad about it im sure youl get there with experience "
pmsl get you.
you read into it whatever you want
For me, ts just a shame, you write a post and people make comments and you just wanna it to go on without hassle or drama and some people don't want that. Its genuinely such a shame, really it is  |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ?
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't
So you are saying it has never happened to you ?
Pmsl I haven't said its happened or not happened to me, its obviously clear o that, isn't it.
Something wrong, I take it you don't wanna be part of the post and say of any experience you remember.
Well if your asking women to tell you about guys cumming too early it seems to me your asking for advice so you know what to do next time it happens but hey dont feel too bad about it im sure youl get there with experience
pmsl get you.
you read into it whatever you want
For me, ts just a shame, you write a post and people make comments and you just wanna it to go on without hassle or drama and some people don't want that. Its genuinely such a shame, really it is "
Wheres the hassle and drama ? It comes across as a post of a guy looking for advice on how to last longer,if you dont like ppls input into your post then why post in the first place ,i have only gave my opinion on your post never said anything against or to you that should cause hassle,maybe just next time ask for help and advice makes it alot easier to answer |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ?
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't
So you are saying it has never happened to you ?
Pmsl I haven't said its happened or not happened to me, its obviously clear o that, isn't it.
Something wrong, I take it you don't wanna be part of the post and say of any experience you remember.
Well if your asking women to tell you about guys cumming too early it seems to me your asking for advice so you know what to do next time it happens but hey dont feel too bad about it im sure youl get there with experience
pmsl get you.
you read into it whatever you want
For me, ts just a shame, you write a post and people make comments and you just wanna it to go on without hassle or drama and some people don't want that. Its genuinely such a shame, really it is
Wheres the hassle and drama ? It comes across as a post of a guy looking for advice on how to last longer,if you dont like ppls input into your post then why post in the first place ,i have only gave my opinion on your post never said anything against or to you that should cause hassle,maybe just next time ask for help and advice makes it alot easier to answer "
pmsl if you think that then you have serious problems. The post is not asking for advice, how can a post that says
"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early. Sure some have some stories to tell"
how can that be asking for advice.
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ?
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't
So you are saying it has never happened to you ?
Pmsl I haven't said its happened or not happened to me, its obviously clear o that, isn't it.
Something wrong, I take it you don't wanna be part of the post and say of any experience you remember.
Well if your asking women to tell you about guys cumming too early it seems to me your asking for advice so you know what to do next time it happens but hey dont feel too bad about it im sure youl get there with experience
pmsl get you.
you read into it whatever you want
For me, ts just a shame, you write a post and people make comments and you just wanna it to go on without hassle or drama and some people don't want that. Its genuinely such a shame, really it is
Wheres the hassle and drama ? It comes across as a post of a guy looking for advice on how to last longer,if you dont like ppls input into your post then why post in the first place ,i have only gave my opinion on your post never said anything against or to you that should cause hassle,maybe just next time ask for help and advice makes it alot easier to answer
pmsl if you think that then you have serious problems. The post is not asking for advice, how can a post that says Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early. Sure some have some stories to tell
how can that be asking for advice.
shakes head
As I said, its such a shame "
Pls say what serious problems i have lol ? I answered your post the way i read it ,maybe at the bottom of your posts you should put only answer to this post if you are willing to give a comment i want to here and not disagree with me then il know not to post on it |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Are you asking as this happened tou you ? Or just asking for advice so it doesnt happen again ?
pmslll no and no
Think the question is there just to get the post started if you have a story about it, funny or not, do share, if you don't wanna share then don't
So you are saying it has never happened to you ?
Pmsl I haven't said its happened or not happened to me, its obviously clear o that, isn't it.
Something wrong, I take it you don't wanna be part of the post and say of any experience you remember.
Well if your asking women to tell you about guys cumming too early it seems to me your asking for advice so you know what to do next time it happens but hey dont feel too bad about it im sure youl get there with experience
pmsl get you.
you read into it whatever you want
For me, ts just a shame, you write a post and people make comments and you just wanna it to go on without hassle or drama and some people don't want that. Its genuinely such a shame, really it is
Wheres the hassle and drama ? It comes across as a post of a guy looking for advice on how to last longer,if you dont like ppls input into your post then why post in the first place ,i have only gave my opinion on your post never said anything against or to you that should cause hassle,maybe just next time ask for help and advice makes it alot easier to answer
pmsl if you think that then you have serious problems. The post is not asking for advice, how can a post that says Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early. Sure some have some stories to tell
how can that be asking for advice.
shakes head
As I said, its such a shame
Pls say what serious problems i have lol ? I answered your post the way i read it ,maybe at the bottom of your posts you should put only answer to this post if you are willing to give a comment i want to here and not disagree with me then il know not to post on it "
your the man
If it was as simple as saying, don't ever post on a post I start then that would be amazing but most would still do it. lolol, but all imput in posts are worth it as it shows up people in a certain way, good or bad and that certainly includes me. |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell. "
Do you know how many times you've "pissed yourself laughing" in response to genuine posts?
Are you really that juvenile or does your flat genuinely stink of piss?
You are the most ill informed man on fab as your endless ramblings and made up posts on here state. Your statement about a female cuming and not wanting to go on is either a lie (as little missknowitall pointed out the scientific/medical reason why, you really should buy that book and read it as I'm sure you didn't pay attention in biology class that day) or maybe the female in question couldn't bear to shag you any longer and faked it and used it as an excuse? |
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Ive had occasions where I’ve stayed hard after cumming, granted second time it was harder to cum but I try , I think it’s down to how stimulated you are and if there’s a deep connection to your partner |
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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago
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It dont annoy me it happens it's about how he deals with it afterwards like others have said it's more the attention to each others needs/wants than lasting ages having times 2 3 4 and 5 can be much more fun than spending hours with him not cumming at all |
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Sure some have some stories to tell.
Do you know how many times you've "pissed yourself laughing" in response to genuine posts?
Are you really that juvenile or does your flat genuinely stink of piss?
You are the most ill informed man on fab as your endless ramblings and made up posts on here state. Your statement about a female cuming and not wanting to go on is either a lie (as little missknowitall pointed out the scientific/medical reason why, you really should buy that book and read it as I'm sure you didn't pay attention in biology class that day) or maybe the female in question couldn't bear to shag you any longer and faked it and used it as an excuse? "
Gets my popcorn for this one
But in answer to ops original question ,it happens I've come after about 2 mins when I hadn't sex for 2 years ,it's embarrassing yes but mouth stimulation on the lady till I was ready again along with a toy made it all good |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"I always come early. You never know what the traffic will be like, arrive early and read a book. That's my motto. Lol
But to comment on the Op point. I have not had that particular issue. Maybe this is for a different thread but what about the opposite, no matter what you do the guy just won't cum. It's not that he isn't having a great time but it's just not happening. Are you disappointed? How long do yo keep trying for? Sorry OP if this is too far off topic.
Pmsl it's not off topic it's actually an important issue as well. Also another issue is a lot of girls find it really annoying that a guy can have total control and cum when he wants
Sounds like average sex. In the right environment and with the right partner no one has "total control". If they do, they are simply not having amazing sex no matter what they say, because you can not suppress hormones.
You or I or anyone else for that matter cannot say what a couples feelings are when a guy has total control or what the sex is like. You, I or anyone can't know how intense it is as we are not there. You and me and everyone ONLY know from our own experience or sometimes witnessing it.
Trust me your definition of average sex maybe different from mine and others but my definition of average maybe different from others but it it only your view and only my view. I cannot and will not say what others define it as. I've have some of the most intense, sensational sex with my mind let loose but I've still been in control.
I've know a stunning sexy girl whose only ever had guys who can last 10 minuites, that was the longest, now she's with a guy who I know and he's lasting right through the night for her and the both of them are saying it's the most amazing, intense time they have ever had.
So total control, yip from experience it can be amazing
Buy yourself a biology book lad. And read it. These are scientific facts. There is a point where no one has "total control" it's impossible, its related to hormones and stimulation.
So while you waffle on, I am pointing you in the direction of facts and science. I did not say that no one can exhibit any degree of self control, I said no one has "total control". I am not speculating or commenting on anyone's sex lives, I am merely pointing out that if the stimulus it right and the hormone levels reach a trigger level no one has control at that point.
Yes a session can be prolonged if both parties are in tandem and tuned into each other and know what it right and what it going to far. But that is both parties controlling the situation not one in "total control".
But you posted that women got annoyed when a guy was in "total control" and held off cuming. Now if the woman is trying to make him come and he's not that is not total control because he can't control the stimulus. It could be the sex is average, the stimulus is not sufficient i.e. She's not attractive enough or up to it or doing it to his liking or he's not performing himself and has a problem.
Buy the book and read it, save me having to spell it out for you on here.
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Have to disagree in the control aspect. I played with a Dom who wouldn’t orgasm for hours as he did have total control. Orgasm control is a learned behaviour in men and woman and you can train yourself to withhold it. Orgasm control is often used in BDSM play. Nothing to do with hormones. |
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over a year ago
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Do you know how many times you've "pissed yourself laughing" in response to genuine posts?
Are you really that juvenile or does your flat genuinely stink of piss?
You are the most ill informed man on fab as your endless ramblings and made up posts on here state. Your statement about a female cuming and not wanting to go on is either a lie (as little missknowitall pointed out the scientific/medical reason why, you really should buy that book and read it as I'm sure you didn't pay attention in biology class that day) or maybe the female in question couldn't bear to shag you any longer and faked it and used it as an excuse? "
You’ve no idea how some people react after an orgasm then. Some people become sensitive and can’t bear to be touched hence no round two. |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Do you know how many times you've "pissed yourself laughing" in response to genuine posts?
Are you really that juvenile or does your flat genuinely stink of piss?
You are the most ill informed man on fab as your endless ramblings and made up posts on here state. Your statement about a female cuming and not wanting to go on is either a lie (as little missknowitall pointed out the scientific/medical reason why, you really should buy that book and read it as I'm sure you didn't pay attention in biology class that day) or maybe the female in question couldn't bear to shag you any longer and faked it and used it as an excuse? "
you really, really don't like me weee man
If you feeling jealous or angry then calm down n phone someone who can relax you, say the ex-wife . Remember the one that used to be the most beautiful girl in the world. I Presume you have an ex, I mean your not still married are you?
Just calm down and keep your standards my friend, standards
You kinda lost it a little slagging a guys place that smells of piss or that he's juvenile. I'll never do that to you. That little green button is so embarrassing at times weee man, isn't it
For your information and us all. When someone says something on a post how can anyone of us know it's true unless we have witnessed it or trust the person who makes the comment.
It's a post that asked for stories. Doesn't want names, doesn't want where n when blah blah blah and then some posts talked about other interesting stuff in situations about guys not cumin at all or girls needing to stop. These in fact are all interesting subjects that are infact a way of life.
Do I have problems in that area, no
Do I know of thing like this that has happened, yes
Do I ridicule people for it, no.
It good when things are put out there as it opens the subject up, it makes people think more what other go through. Tons of different reasons why it is good.
So keep up the good work folks but
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It happened to me last week with a fwb. I slowly swirled my tongue and mouth down his cock and when the tip hit the back of my throat he starred pulsing....it had been a long week I think. I gave him a massage and then a longer bj afterwards. No embarrassment...it's actually a compliment cos I know he isnt usually like that |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Do you know how many times you've "pissed yourself laughing" in response to genuine posts?
Are you really that juvenile or does your flat genuinely stink of piss?
You are the most ill informed man on fab as your endless ramblings and made up posts on here state. Your statement about a female cuming and not wanting to go on is either a lie (as little missknowitall pointed out the scientific/medical reason why, you really should buy that book and read it as I'm sure you didn't pay attention in biology class that day) or maybe the female in question couldn't bear to shag you any longer and faked it and used it as an excuse? "
Maybe you’ve never made a woman orgasm then! |
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Thanks"
it's like a playground sometimes and I'm sure it puts people off commenting on the forums recently
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For me it all depends on when Coronation Street starts at lol.
If its 7.10 in the evening and corrie starts at half 7 them i can take my time and cum when Janes cums but if its 25 past 7 then its Janes that wants a quickie so i jump on and give it wellie until she cums, either way its not about cumming too fast or too slow its about having fun fun and more fun, anyways theres always the following day to do it again. |
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"I always come early. You never know what the traffic will be like, arrive early and read a book. That's my motto. Lol
But to comment on the Op point. I have not had that particular issue. Maybe this is for a different thread but what about the opposite, no matter what you do the guy just won't cum. It's not that he isn't having a great time but it's just not happening. Are you disappointed? How long do yo keep trying for? Sorry OP if this is too far off topic.
Pmsl it's not off topic it's actually an important issue as well. Also another issue is a lot of girls find it really annoying that a guy can have total control and cum when he wants
Sounds like average sex. In the right environment and with the right partner no one has "total control". If they do, they are simply not having amazing sex no matter what they say, because you can not suppress hormones.
You or I or anyone else for that matter cannot say what a couples feelings are when a guy has total control or what the sex is like. You, I or anyone can't know how intense it is as we are not there. You and me and everyone ONLY know from our own experience or sometimes witnessing it.
Trust me your definition of average sex maybe different from mine and others but my definition of average maybe different from others but it it only your view and only my view. I cannot and will not say what others define it as. I've have some of the most intense, sensational sex with my mind let loose but I've still been in control.
I've know a stunning sexy girl whose only ever had guys who can last 10 minuites, that was the longest, now she's with a guy who I know and he's lasting right through the night for her and the both of them are saying it's the most amazing, intense time they have ever had.
So total control, yip from experience it can be amazing
Buy yourself a biology book lad. And read it. These are scientific facts. There is a point where no one has "total control" it's impossible, its related to hormones and stimulation.
So while you waffle on, I am pointing you in the direction of facts and science. I did not say that no one can exhibit any degree of self control, I said no one has "total control". I am not speculating or commenting on anyone's sex lives, I am merely pointing out that if the stimulus it right and the hormone levels reach a trigger level no one has control at that point.
Yes a session can be prolonged if both parties are in tandem and tuned into each other and know what it right and what it going to far. But that is both parties controlling the situation not one in "total control".
But you posted that women got annoyed when a guy was in "total control" and held off cuming. Now if the woman is trying to make him come and he's not that is not total control because he can't control the stimulus. It could be the sex is average, the stimulus is not sufficient i.e. She's not attractive enough or up to it or doing it to his liking or he's not performing himself and has a problem.
Buy the book and read it, save me having to spell it out for you on here.
Have to disagree in the control aspect. I played with a Dom who wouldn’t orgasm for hours as he did have total control. Orgasm control is a learned behaviour in men and woman and you can train yourself to withhold it. Orgasm control is often used in BDSM play. Nothing to do with hormones. "
Again you haven't interpreted my post correctly. Of course men and women can control when they cum when THEY control the stimulus themselves and can lessen it, I have said that. My post stated that no one had "total control" when they weren't controlling the stimulus i.e. For a guy when the woman doesn't relent and he himself is not in control of the stimulus. |
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"To the people who obviously rub each other up the wrong way, please just ignore each others posts
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it's like a playground sometimes and I'm sure it puts people off commenting on the forums recently
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Without question it does and it’s the same “repeat offenders” |
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"For me it all depends on when Coronation Street starts at lol.
If its 7.10 in the evening and corrie starts at half 7 them i can take my time and cum when Janes cums but if its 25 past 7 then its Janes that wants a quickie so i jump on and give it wellie until she cums, either way its not about cumming too fast or too slow its about having fun fun and more fun, anyways theres always the following day to do it again. "
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell.
Do you know how many times you've "pissed yourself laughing" in response to genuine posts?
Are you really that juvenile or does your flat genuinely stink of piss?
You are the most ill informed man on fab as your endless ramblings and made up posts on here state. Your statement about a female cuming and not wanting to go on is either a lie (as little missknowitall pointed out the scientific/medical reason why, you really should buy that book and read it as I'm sure you didn't pay attention in biology class that day) or maybe the female in question couldn't bear to shag you any longer and faked it and used it as an excuse?
you really, really don't like me weee man
If you feeling jealous or angry then calm down n phone someone who can relax you, say the ex-wife . Remember the one that used to be the most beautiful girl in the world. I Presume you have an ex, I mean your not still married are you?
Just calm down and keep your standards my friend, standards
You kinda lost it a little slagging a guys place that smells of piss or that he's juvenile. I'll never do that to you. That little green button is so embarrassing at times weee man, isn't it
For your information and us all. When someone says something on a post how can anyone of us know it's true unless we have witnessed it or trust the person who makes the comment.
It's a post that asked for stories. Doesn't want names, doesn't want where n when blah blah blah and then some posts talked about other interesting stuff in situations about guys not cumin at all or girls needing to stop. These in fact are all interesting subjects that are infact a way of life.
Do I have problems in that area, no
Do I know of thing like this that has happened, yes
Do I ridicule people for it, no.
It good when things are put out there as it opens the subject up, it makes people think more what other go through. Tons of different reasons why it is good.
So keep up the good work folks but
Knows I've got some popcorn somewhere about this place "
Nice post, jusy about sums everything about you up. You managed not to contradict yourself and show your true colours in one go.
You fail to recognise any humour in your repeated use of "PMSL" in response to other other posters. When I very much doubt that you even smiled never mind laughed despite using juvenile text speak on an adult forum over and over again.
You then attempt to take the high moral ground by misconstruing this when you have just previously made a stupid and completely irrelevant comment regarding my marital status. Completely outside the context of this thread
This you attempted as a thinnly veiled threat to me to "out" me as if I care what you think. You know that I'm married, how do you know that?? Because you're the biggest gossip on this site. Anyone I chose to talk to knows I am and anyone who has an issue with it I don't care.
The comments I have made on this thread have a scientific basis. You just lurch from one contradiction to another and have shown yourself to be an unsavoury character and less than discreet once again.
No doubt you will do what you do best and run crying to admin again about my post "wee man".
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while."
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too. |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too. "
May I also add he may suffer from Premature Ejaculation as its more common than most females think, men in their early 20s can have this condition as guys in their 40s or 50s |
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"Ok Girl I'm sure it's happened to you with a guy but is it annoying and what frustrates you when Guys That Cum To Early.
Sure some have some stories to tell. "
Depends if hes a repeater and how long the recovery time is not to mention other skills to compensate, far too many variables for a simple answer tbh in my own experience most guys usually go better second time over so I'm happy to get the first load out the way to put it crudely lol |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too. "
Whether he's attractive or not?! |
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over a year ago
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too.
May I also add he may suffer from Premature Ejaculation as its more common than most females think, men in their early 20s can have this condition as guys in their 40s or 50s "
I did meet a guy with PE a few years ago. It’s complicated I guess. |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too.
Whether he's attractive or not?! "
Yes if hes self conscious about his looks and appearance he may not be to confident around females let alone have the chance to have sex with them so he'd be more likely to cum quicker before she changes her mind lol |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while."
It can also do with the build up to the meet. Is it someone you have been wanting to meet for a long time, the excitement of the fulfilment of a long, eagerly awaited meeting can push you over the edge to quickly. As I said before, I don't think it's too big a problem as long as the persons reaction afterwards is correct on that they don't say thanks and walk away. All meets should be abiut mutual pleasure AND mutual satisfaction. Does it really matter who finishes first, as long as both parties are satisfied at the end? |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too.
Whether he's attractive or not?!
Yes if hes self conscious about his looks and appearance he may not be to confident around females let alone have the chance to have sex with them so he'd be more likely to cum quicker before she changes her mind lol "
That's not really anything to do with attractiveness then really, is it |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too.
Whether he's attractive or not?!
Yes if hes self conscious about his looks and appearance he may not be to confident around females let alone have the chance to have sex with them so he'd be more likely to cum quicker before she changes her mind lol
That's not really anything to do with attractiveness then really, is it"
So you would have sex with a guy you are not attractive towards?? |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too.
Whether he's attractive or not?!
Yes if hes self conscious about his looks and appearance he may not be to confident around females let alone have the chance to have sex with them so he'd be more likely to cum quicker before she changes her mind lol
That's not really anything to do with attractiveness then really, is it
So you would have sex with a guy you are not attractive towards??"
Where did that ridiculous notion come from  |
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me.
Agreed
Everyone is different and different with other people. Once you have that connection and intimacy that no others can reach what you two share then who cares and why look to deep into it. The connection is perfect whatever you two do together whether you or both orgasm straight away or don't even orgasm at all that night.
in regards to my question in regards to some girls mist have stories in that circumstance of a guy cumming to early.
I've even had the same situation with a few females orgasm to early and they didn't wanna go on
Totally agree with this,
Oh dear. Thats not good."
Sometimes if I've had a big O then I physically cant continue |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too.
Whether he's attractive or not?!
Yes if hes self conscious about his looks and appearance he may not be to confident around females let alone have the chance to have sex with them so he'd be more likely to cum quicker before she changes her mind lol
That's not really anything to do with attractiveness then really, is it
So you would have sex with a guy you are not attractive towards??
Where did that ridiculous notion come from "
The question asked why men cum too quickly, in some cases if a man doesnt find himself attractive his self consciousness could have the better of him and he could cum without him knowing it, believe me it happens but obv not with you but it does happen |
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Having not had sex for over 2 years (probably nearer 3 ) I don't think I would a marathon man at 1st, so my main priority would be to make sure the female had cum and then finish off with my few pumps lol |
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"A question for the guys - what causes you to cum too soon or quicker than expected?
I’ve heard some say it’s because they’ve not played in a while.
I suppose it depends if the guy is single or in a relationship, if hes attractive or not, if hes tired or not theres a million reason why he would cum too quick the same way there are millions of reasons why females cum quick too.
Whether he's attractive or not?!
Yes if hes self conscious about his looks and appearance he may not be to confident around females let alone have the chance to have sex with them so he'd be more likely to cum quicker before she changes her mind lol
That's not really anything to do with attractiveness then really, is it
So you would have sex with a guy you are not attractive towards??
Where did that ridiculous notion come from
The question asked why men cum too quickly, in some cases if a man doesnt find himself attractive his self consciousness could have the better of him and he could cum without him knowing it, believe me it happens but obv not with you but it does happen "
Yeah there are many reasons.
Low self esteem.
Confidence.
Excitement.
Not had sex in a long time.
Meeting someone who just blows his mind and he cant contain himself.
The female might say "fuck, my husband just text, he's coming home early".
I'm sure I seen a female say about summit in group sex, its good to have a few incase someone comes to early and she doesn't need to stop.
There are tons and tons of different reason why it has happened. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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It looks as if the conclusion is that it really depends on what happens after the guy has cum. If he pays attention to the female and fulfils her needs then there isn’t an issue. If he just leaves then it is an issue.
Other conclusions may be drawn but this is my take on it.
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"It looks as if the conclusion is that it really depends on what happens after the guy has cum. If he pays attention to the female and fulfils her needs then there isn’t an issue. If he just leaves then it is an issue.
Other conclusions may be drawn but this is my take on it.
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This why I would concentrate on making sure the girl orgasms before me |
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By *hargMan
over a year ago
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Odd thing with me is that having sex of using a fleshlight, I tend to actually really have to go fast to cum at all and it takes probably more effort than it should at times, to the extent I’m actually hurting, while by hand it can be actually a little too quick. |
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"Odd thing with me is that having sex of using a fleshlight, I tend to actually really have to go fast to cum at all and it takes probably more effort than it should at times, to the extent I’m actually hurting, while by hand it can be actually a little too quick."
What about with a person? |
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"Odd thing with me is that having sex of using a fleshlight, I tend to actually really have to go fast to cum at all and it takes probably more effort than it should at times, to the extent I’m actually hurting, while by hand it can be actually a little too quick.
What about with a person?"
Is that an offer |
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"Odd thing with me is that having sex of using a fleshlight, I tend to actually really have to go fast to cum at all and it takes probably more effort than it should at times, to the extent I’m actually hurting, while by hand it can be actually a little too quick.
What about with a person?
Is that an offer "
No. It was a question |
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"Odd thing with me is that having sex of using a fleshlight, I tend to actually really have to go fast to cum at all and it takes probably more effort than it should at times, to the extent I’m actually hurting, while by hand it can be actually a little too quick.
What about with a person?
Is that an offer
No. It was a question "
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"Odd thing with me is that having sex of using a fleshlight, I tend to actually really have to go fast to cum at all and it takes probably more effort than it should at times, to the extent I’m actually hurting, while by hand it can be actually a little too quick.
What about with a person?
Is that an offer
No. It was a question "
The other person would be pleasured before me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If it happens, get the first one out the way and get busy keeping her happy until you're hard again and ready to go for a lot, lot longer.
Sometimes I feel the urge to go in minutes, sometimes I feel like its never going to happen.... The person, the mood, the environment, the beers.....it all plays a part |
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"Odd thing with me is that having sex of using a fleshlight, I tend to actually really have to go fast to cum at all and it takes probably more effort than it should at times, to the extent I’m actually hurting, while by hand it can be actually a little too quick.
What about with a person?
Is that an offer
No. It was a question
The other person would be pleasured before me"
By me? Neither of you. It was just a question. Relating to the OP |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"It's not just girls that have to deal with this. I've never found anyone who can last more than a few minutes. It goes limp then they get dressed and bugger off leaving me feeling disappointed."
Really??
I thought it was just films folk go ejaculating with just kissing and after a minute. Always annoyed I end up missing something on TV as it takes awhile |
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"Too much over thinking on here...I think...If I'm riding Mr and I can see that he's really enjoying it, totally gone and on the brink of exploding then few things compare to watching him completely lose himself inside me. Doesn't matter if it happens after 5 mins... Maybe it is a wee bit of a power trip for me to know that I can do that to him. Who knows, who cares...we can always fuck again tomorrow and it's his turn to tease me."
Couldn't have put it better.
I love to know that ave got him to the point he's not returning from and seeing the satisfaction on his face.
Yeah sometime I get him like that and other times I wish we could go longer. Not saying he doesn't do it for me far from it am just enjoying it to much and don't want it to end so get greedy.
Is it not about learning how to turn each other on So that full pleasure is gained by everyone involve.
I have been with guys that haven't been able to last long have even been with a guy that came when I touched him but next time we met up he couldn't cum at all. Maybe due to the crap he put up his nose just so he could last and prove he was manly enough to fuck me. Don't get me wrong now that was a session and I left with jelly legs but that was the 1st and last time I was with someone that needed powder to get it up and go the pace. Much prefer someone with natural stamina
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Guys... At the end of the day... just don't be too keen to dive your cock straight in there! Play with the lovely lady lots first, kissing, touching, fingering, oral etc and make sure she comes several times before you do. Then when you do cum.. It will explode bigtime and she will love you more for it. X |
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"Guys... At the end of the day... just don't be too keen to dive your cock straight in there! Play with the lovely lady lots first, kissing, touching, fingering, oral etc and make sure she comes several times before you do. Then when you do cum.. It will explode bigtime and she will love you more for it. X"
Fuck that for a game of soldiers, get the baws emptied and then get to fuck asap |
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"Guys... At the end of the day... just don't be too keen to dive your cock straight in there! Play with the lovely lady lots first, kissing, touching, fingering, oral etc and make sure she comes several times before you do. Then when you do cum.. It will explode bigtime and she will love you more for it. X
Fuck that for a game of soldiers, get the baws emptied and then get to fuck asap "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guys... At the end of the day... just don't be too keen to dive your cock straight in there! Play with the lovely lady lots first, kissing, touching, fingering, oral etc and make sure she comes several times before you do. Then when you do cum.. It will explode bigtime and she will love you more for it. X
Fuck that for a game of soldiers, get the baws emptied and then get to fuck asap "
Are they allowed to get dressed first before they are thrown out n got then to fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a gentleman and alway make sure the lady comes first one way or another.
That belongs on the cheesy chat up line thread "
Happy to oblige some time, |
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