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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’m my time exploring myself I was involved for a while in a relationship where I was a sugar daddy, I was rather smitten for a time with the girl she was lovely, very nice to be around, very pretty but also insatiable. We had an understanding under which more would be transferred under certain circumstances, I won’t go into to much detail at the risk of boring anyone but my question here is how many of you beautiful people have been in a relationship like this and how was it for you? |
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over a year ago
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Ok confused so enlighten me ...is a sugar daddy not meant to be older ?? Your only 22 ...I could have that part wrong...and what do u mean transferred ..is that money?...I'm not getting this xx |
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"Ok confused so enlighten me ...is a sugar daddy not meant to be older ?? Your only 22 ...I could have that part wrong...and what do u mean transferred ..is that money?...I'm not getting this xx"
Yeah sorry I thought I put “money” but my phone autocorrected “more” for some reason, that seems to be the general consensus but in my eyes and the eyes of everyone else I’ve spoken to about it age isn’t actually a factor in it it is much more about a mindset, I hope this helps you understand  xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aren’t you extremely young to be a sugar daddy?  "
Me personally and the other people I know are into it agree that age isn’t necessarily a factor, it’s more a mindset thing, I might be young but I’m not an immature little kid but I do understand where you might be coming from |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey daddy
aww how you doing my beautiful girl
remember, I want to be made happy and that's your priority "
My priority is to make you happy??? Nooooooo chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey daddy
aww how you doing my beautiful girl
remember, I want to be made happy and that's your priority
My priority is to make you happy??? Nooooooo chance "
pmsl, I never get anyone to say yes to that DAMG  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey daddy
aww how you doing my beautiful girl
remember, I want to be made happy and that's your priority
My priority is to make you happy??? Nooooooo chance
pmsl, I never get anyone to say yes to that DAMG "
And you never will  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey daddy
aww how you doing my beautiful girl
remember, I want to be made happy and that's your priority
My priority is to make you happy??? Nooooooo chance
pmsl, I never get anyone to say yes to that DAMG
And you never will "
Oh that's a given.
I'm just a nice man to chat too, so the one legged petrol pump attendant told me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey daddy
aww how you doing my beautiful girl
remember, I want to be made happy and that's your priority
My priority is to make you happy??? Nooooooo chance
pmsl, I never get anyone to say yes to that DAMG
And you never will
Oh that's a given.
I'm just a nice man to chat too, so the one legged petrol pump attendant told me "
If you’re so nice where’s my McDonald’s?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey daddy
aww how you doing my beautiful girl
remember, I want to be made happy and that's your priority
My priority is to make you happy??? Nooooooo chance
pmsl, I never get anyone to say yes to that DAMG
And you never will
Oh that's a given.
I'm just a nice man to chat too, so the one legged petrol pump attendant told me
If you’re so nice where’s my McDonald’s?! "
ffs, I've eat it the past 3 times I've tried to find ya. I don't want it going cold  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
Hey daddy
aww how you doing my beautiful girl
remember, I want to be made happy and that's your priority
My priority is to make you happy??? Nooooooo chance
pmsl, I never get anyone to say yes to that DAMG
And you never will
Oh that's a given.
I'm just a nice man to chat too, so the one legged petrol pump attendant told me
If you’re so nice where’s my McDonald’s?!
ffs, I've eat it the past 3 times I've tried to find ya. I don't want it going cold "
Im hiding  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I understanding this right?
Your looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with you?
You get the sex she gets pretty things? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I understanding this right?
Your looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with you?
You get the sex she gets pretty things?"
Well my understanding that money and sex wasn’t all of it but that’s all it was for her, the age isn’t a part of that’s not what being a daddy is about, I started the thread to read other people’s experiences but from some of the responses I don’t think I was clear enough about that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy."
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough"
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them "
Yeah see that’s the thing that got me when i was in that kind of relationship I was very naive in thinking that it could have been about anything other than money, I look back at it now in disappointment at myselfwhich is why I was curious about others experiences know what I mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them "
glad you came in to clear that up for me horse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them
Yeah see that’s the thing that got me when i was in that kind of relationship I was very naive in thinking that it could have been about anything other than money, I look back at it now in disappointment at myselfwhich is why I was curious about others experiences know what I mean?"
Recently, I don't mind saying, I was seeing a 20 year old stunning, sexy female. No sugar daddy was applied or given. We spent time together at mines for fun and company, that was it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them
Yeah see that’s the thing that got me when i was in that kind of relationship I was very naive in thinking that it could have been about anything other than money, I look back at it now in disappointment at myselfwhich is why I was curious about others experiences know what I mean?
Recently, I don't mind saying, I was seeing a 20 year old stunning, sexy female. No sugar daddy was applied or given. We spent time together at mines for fun and company, that was it "
Did you keep your clothes on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them glad you came in to clear that up for me horse "
I think you know I don't really need to or care to clear anything up for you.
It was me emphasising what you said as I believe most people view a sugar daddy in the same vein. Maybe there are a few we don't but I don't see a Sugar daddy viewed as in any other form than stated by you and confirmed with my view as the same  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them
Yeah see that’s the thing that got me when i was in that kind of relationship I was very naive in thinking that it could have been about anything other than money, I look back at it now in disappointment at myselfwhich is why I was curious about others experiences know what I mean?
Recently, I don't mind saying, I was seeing a 20 year old stunning, sexy female. No sugar daddy was applied or given. We spent time together at mines for fun and company, that was it "
Shit time of my life, past now, money never comes into the equation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them glad you came in to clear that up for me horse
I think you know I don't really need to or care to clear anything up for you.
It was me emphasising what you said as I believe most people view a sugar daddy in the same vein. Maybe there are a few we don't but I don't see a Sugar daddy viewed as in any other form than stated by you and confirmed with my view as the same "
no you don't but please stop using MY quotes it's a tad creepy to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them glad you came in to clear that up for me horse
I think you know I don't really need to or care to clear anything up for you.
It was me emphasising what you said as I believe most people view a sugar daddy in the same vein. Maybe there are a few we don't but I don't see a Sugar daddy viewed as in any other form than stated by you and confirmed with my view as the same no you don't but please stop using MY quotes it's a tad creepy to me "
To late but I didn't quote you, it was changed about, so before you try and do your thing, get it right eh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them
Yeah see that’s the thing that got me when i was in that kind of relationship I was very naive in thinking that it could have been about anything other than money, I look back at it now in disappointment at myselfwhich is why I was curious about others experiences know what I mean?
Recently, I don't mind saying, I was seeing a 20 year old stunning, sexy female. No sugar daddy was applied or given. We spent time together at mines for fun and company, that was it
Shit time of my life, past now, money never comes into the equation "
we have all went through shitty times in our life's and dealt with it differently, some we are glad about how we dealt with that time some we are disappointed in ourselves but we just get on and deal with it.
Unfortunately you made a post and as stated by you it wasn't worded correctly. My surprised was thinking you sating you were a sugar daddy at such a young age.
there are quite a few men on here with younger females, some maybe sugar daddies, some may not. I have met a few but I have not in its considered term, been a Sugar Daddy, nor have I paid or showered anyone with presents.
I've had some great times with much younger females than me, so if your looking for more examples I hope a few older males can come forward and share their views |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you say so...
Well actually I do, the facts are there little one so just deal with it "
You really are quite condescending to anyone who dares to express a view different to yours. Particularly women. It's quite a worrying attitude to display and it surprises me that folk don't pull you up on it more often |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasn't having a pop that's my take on a sugar daddy.
Don’t misunderstand I didn’t think you were having a pop I was just annoyed at myself for not being clear enough
it happens, even when you think your clear, sometimes it may not be and read differently than intended.
What Oldie said above is correct in regards to a sugar daddy, well that's what most see as a sugar daddy
"A older male looking for a younger female to spend money on and for her to have sex with him. He get the sex she gets pretty things?"
I don't mind a slagging as a few are in no doubt about but any guy who pays or showers a female with gifts for sex, no matter what age, I genuinely feel very sad for them
Yeah see that’s the thing that got me when i was in that kind of relationship I was very naive in thinking that it could have been about anything other than money, I look back at it now in disappointment at myselfwhich is why I was curious about others experiences know what I mean?
Recently, I don't mind saying, I was seeing a 20 year old stunning, sexy female. No sugar daddy was applied or given. We spent time together at mines for fun and company, that was it
Shit time of my life, past now, money never comes into the equation
we have all went through shitty times in our life's and dealt with it differently, some we are glad about how we dealt with that time some we are disappointed in ourselves but we just get on and deal with it.
Unfortunately you made a post and as stated by you it wasn't worded correctly. My surprised was thinking you sating you were a sugar daddy at such a young age.
there are quite a few men on here with younger females, some maybe sugar daddies, some may not. I have met a few but I have not in its considered term, been a Sugar Daddy, nor have I paid or showered anyone with presents.
I've had some great times with much younger females than me, so if your looking for more examples I hope a few older males can come forward and share their views "
As I said, hopefully more come back with their experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need a new kitchen and can just about squeeze into my old school uniform....just saying likes incase anyone is interested. "
lollllllll, is the skirt tartan   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Phew Doggy a kitchen ????FFS we could do an eBay type bid ,”starting at a set of pots , any advance on pots , do I hear a microwave, I have a microwave at the back ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need a new kitchen and can just about squeeze into my old school uniform....just saying likes incase anyone is interested.
lollllllll, is the skirt tartan "
It could be, I really need a new kitchen... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been in around 3 and can genuine say I only enjoyed one of them xx"
were the other too PrimarkDaddies ??? Apologies, couldn’t resist that poor jibe
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sound more like a money pig scenario than an actual sugar daddy.
As the “sugar daddy” aspect is a 20 something girl with a 40/50 some guy etc there’s a large gap in the age other wise it’s just a vinalla relationship lol
When I say vinalla I mean any hubby wife combo or boy girl combo lol the man or women highest earning usually gets taken for a ride in more than one way lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sound more like a money pig scenario than an actual sugar daddy.
As the “sugar daddy” aspect is a 20 something girl with a 40/50 some guy etc there’s a large gap in the age other wise it’s just a vinalla relationship lol
When I say vinalla I mean any hubby wife combo or boy girl combo lol the man or women highest earning usually gets taken for a ride in more than one way lol "
Haha yeah I fucked up that is very clear in retrospect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sound more like a money pig scenario than an actual sugar daddy.
As the “sugar daddy” aspect is a 20 something girl with a 40/50 some guy etc there’s a large gap in the age other wise it’s just a vinalla relationship lol
When I say vinalla I mean any hubby wife combo or boy girl combo lol the man or women highest earning usually gets taken for a ride in more than one way lol "
Well that has not happened with me as the 20 year old wanted sex n fun with me and then started to enjoyed my company more until I finished the relationship. The same has always happened with any other younger relationship even in a female in her 30s
If I found a younger girl wanting me for a sugar daddy type of relationship she would be kicked into touch.
Any guy that shower girls with gifts for sexual favours I really feel so sad for them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sound more like a money pig scenario than an actual sugar daddy.
As the “sugar daddy” aspect is a 20 something girl with a 40/50 some guy etc there’s a large gap in the age other wise it’s just a vinalla relationship lol
When I say vinalla I mean any hubby wife combo or boy girl combo lol the man or women highest earning usually gets taken for a ride in more than one way lol
Well that has not happened with me as the 20 year old wanted sex n fun with me and then started to enjoyed my company more until I finished the relationship. The same has always happened with any other younger relationship even in a female in her 30s
If I found a younger girl wanting me for a sugar daddy type of relationship she would be kicked into touch.
Any guy that shower girls with gifts for sexual favours I really feel so sad for them "
It was her that initiated it, it’s not like I had to pay her to fuck me she came to me, I’m more than capible of getting women without money, I hadn’t done anything like that before and I haven’t done it since, and now you’re just repeating yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sound more like a money pig scenario than an actual sugar daddy.
As the “sugar daddy” aspect is a 20 something girl with a 40/50 some guy etc there’s a large gap in the age other wise it’s just a vinalla relationship lol
When I say vinalla I mean any hubby wife combo or boy girl combo lol the man or women highest earning usually gets taken for a ride in more than one way lol
Well that has not happened with me as the 20 year old wanted sex n fun with me and then started to enjoyed my company more until I finished the relationship. The same has always happened with any other younger relationship even in a female in her 30s
If I found a younger girl wanting me for a sugar daddy type of relationship she would be kicked into touch.
Any guy that shower girls with gifts for sexual favours I really feel so sad for them
It was her that initiated it, it’s not like I had to pay her to fuck me she came to me, I’m more than capible of getting women without money, I hadn’t done anything like that before and I haven’t done it since, and now you’re just repeating yourself "
That wasn't aimed at you, it's a general view of sugar daddies.
You've said it was a mistake on your part and u felt used. We all learn from our mistakes and good on you for that .
I have learned from mine on here's, Ffs I've got ten years worth of mistakes to learn from |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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A Sugar Daddy/sugar baby relationship is different to a Daddy/little (or any other combo of genders e.g. mummy/baby boy etc).
A Sugar baby is a sex worker who expects recompense for the work she/he does i.e. their time. What they do with their time depends on the arrangement made with the sugar daddy/mummy.
I guess in general it's usually older guys with young women, because old guys got money and young ladies know they can use their attractiveness and social skills to give their sugar daddy/mummy whatever they have agreed to in return for cash/gifts.
It's interesting that OP calls himself Daddy - is that the DDlg/BDSM version or the sugar version? To me, it sounds like you regret the relationship you had with the woman because you felt the deal was unfair - you put out money, and in return didn't get back what you felt was a reasonable service. If a deal isn't agreed previous to a situation being set up then there's going to be confusion by all parties about what is expected from each party.
No one is talking about when an older man and younger woman (or whatever combo genders) gets together because they enjoy each other's company - comments about this aren't really relevant to the OP's post because they aren't a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship. They are just a relationship with an age difference.
People are obvs entitled to their opinions, but I don't see why there is so much hate against sex workers in general on this site. If you don't want to use the services of a sex worker then that's cool, but calling people who do 'sad' or 'desperate'or whatever other words is unkind.
I see the same people commenting again and again and all I see are rude, unkind things being said to other users. If you don't agree with someone then that's cool, but either ignore it or maybe try and explain why you don't agree, rather than be mean.
Also, (final thing hahaha ) sex workers are just normal people and their job exists because people use the services. It's just a job, and if you're constantly sh*tting on sex workers I really hope you don't watch any porn cuz, surprise surprise, you're a user of a sex workers service. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A Sugar Daddy/sugar baby relationship is different to a Daddy/little (or any other combo of genders e.g. mummy/baby boy etc).
A Sugar baby is a sex worker who expects recompense for the work she/he does i.e. their time. What they do with their time depends on the arrangement made with the sugar daddy/mummy.
I guess in general it's usually older guys with young women, because old guys got money and young ladies know they can use their attractiveness and social skills to give their sugar daddy/mummy whatever they have agreed to in return for cash/gifts.
It's interesting that OP calls himself Daddy - is that the DDlg/BDSM version or the sugar version? To me, it sounds like you regret the relationship you had with the woman because you felt the deal was unfair - you put out money, and in return didn't get back what you felt was a reasonable service. If a deal isn't agreed previous to a situation being set up then there's going to be confusion by all parties about what is expected from each party.
No one is talking about when an older man and younger woman (or whatever combo genders) gets together because they enjoy each other's company - comments about this aren't really relevant to the OP's post because they aren't a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship. They are just a relationship with an age difference.
People are obvs entitled to their opinions, but I don't see why there is so much hate against sex workers in general on this site. If you don't want to use the services of a sex worker then that's cool, but calling people who do 'sad' or 'desperate'or whatever other words is unkind.
I see the same people commenting again and again and all I see are rude, unkind things being said to other users. If you don't agree with someone then that's cool, but either ignore it or maybe try and explain why you don't agree, rather than be mean.
Also, (final thing hahaha ) sex workers are just normal people and their job exists because people use the services. It's just a job, and if you're constantly sh*tting on sex workers I really hope you don't watch any porn cuz, surprise surprise, you're a user of a sex workers service. "
Thanks for actually talking some sense, I was pretty ignorant about it then, I didn’t understand it at the time, It was kind of besides the point if you understand what I mean I was just hoping to hear some others stories but now I’m not so bothered oh and the daddy in my name refers to ddlg, thanks again for the input |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"A Sugar Daddy/sugar baby relationship is different to a Daddy/little (or any other combo of genders e.g. mummy/baby boy etc).
A Sugar baby is a sex worker who expects recompense for the work she/he does i.e. their time. What they do with their time depends on the arrangement made with the sugar daddy/mummy.
I guess in general it's usually older guys with young women, because old guys got money and young ladies know they can use their attractiveness and social skills to give their sugar daddy/mummy whatever they have agreed to in return for cash/gifts.
It's interesting that OP calls himself Daddy - is that the DDlg/BDSM version or the sugar version? To me, it sounds like you regret the relationship you had with the woman because you felt the deal was unfair - you put out money, and in return didn't get back what you felt was a reasonable service. If a deal isn't agreed previous to a situation being set up then there's going to be confusion by all parties about what is expected from each party.
No one is talking about when an older man and younger woman (or whatever combo genders) gets together because they enjoy each other's company - comments about this aren't really relevant to the OP's post because they aren't a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship. They are just a relationship with an age difference.
People are obvs entitled to their opinions, but I don't see why there is so much hate against sex workers in general on this site. If you don't want to use the services of a sex worker then that's cool, but calling people who do 'sad' or 'desperate'or whatever other words is unkind.
I see the same people commenting again and again and all I see are rude, unkind things being said to other users. If you don't agree with someone then that's cool, but either ignore it or maybe try and explain why you don't agree, rather than be mean.
Also, (final thing hahaha ) sex workers are just normal people and their job exists because people use the services. It's just a job, and if you're constantly sh*tting on sex workers I really hope you don't watch any porn cuz, surprise surprise, you're a user of a sex workers service.
Thanks for actually talking some sense, I was pretty ignorant about it then, I didn’t understand it at the time, It was kind of besides the point if you understand what I mean I was just hoping to hear some others stories but now I’m not so bothered oh and the daddy in my name refers to ddlg, thanks again for the input "
Haha, yeah sometimes I want to post on the forum but definitely just refuse to cuz I can't be arsed with the backlash a lot of the time. No problemo!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A Sugar Daddy/sugar baby relationship is different to a Daddy/little (or any other combo of genders e.g. mummy/baby boy etc).
A Sugar baby is a sex worker who expects recompense for the work she/he does i.e. their time. What they do with their time depends on the arrangement made with the sugar daddy/mummy.
I guess in general it's usually older guys with young women, because old guys got money and young ladies know they can use their attractiveness and social skills to give their sugar daddy/mummy whatever they have agreed to in return for cash/gifts.
It's interesting that OP calls himself Daddy - is that the DDlg/BDSM version or the sugar version? To me, it sounds like you regret the relationship you had with the woman because you felt the deal was unfair - you put out money, and in return didn't get back what you felt was a reasonable service. If a deal isn't agreed previous to a situation being set up then there's going to be confusion by all parties about what is expected from each party.
No one is talking about when an older man and younger woman (or whatever combo genders) gets together because they enjoy each other's company - comments about this aren't really relevant to the OP's post because they aren't a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship. They are just a relationship with an age difference.
People are obvs entitled to their opinions, but I don't see why there is so much hate against sex workers in general on this site. If you don't want to use the services of a sex worker then that's cool, but calling people who do 'sad' or 'desperate'or whatever other words is unkind.
I see the same people commenting again and again and all I see are rude, unkind things being said to other users. If you don't agree with someone then that's cool, but either ignore it or maybe try and explain why you don't agree, rather than be mean.
Also, (final thing hahaha ) sex workers are just normal people and their job exists because people use the services. It's just a job, and if you're constantly sh*tting on sex workers I really hope you don't watch any porn cuz, surprise surprise, you're a user of a sex workers service.
Thanks for actually talking some sense, I was pretty ignorant about it then, I didn’t understand it at the time, It was kind of besides the point if you understand what I mean I was just hoping to hear some others stories but now I’m not so bothered oh and the daddy in my name refers to ddlg, thanks again for the input
Haha, yeah sometimes I want to post on the forum but definitely just refuse to cuz I can't be arsed with the backlash a lot of the time. No problemo!
Little "
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