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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Given that the brain is meant to be the sexiest thing for a lot of people, why is reading profiles before you contact someone such an ordeal?
Is it laziness, lack of manners or just not thinking?
I find myself saying 'info in the profile'. Surely, the first message one gets or the first chat gives the first impression - why fail it miserably?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it aint just guys !!!!
take your word for it - maybe it's just me who has more 'experience' with men, lol"
but then to be fair...its normally the male half of the profile mailing haha |
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"it aint just guys !!!!"
I would completely agree with J there, our profile says we will not accept friend invites without speaking to you or know you. Couples fire away with invites, i think if they cant even be bothered to write a message it doesent bode well.
Like you I just dont get why they dont read, single men i would imagine stand more of a chance by reading the profile so they can form a message that would appeal to the person/couple. |
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guys!!! guys!!! guys!!! lets stop the blame game yes guys do it but not the only guilty party here i get it from gay men and have had it from couples you dont like block and move on. by highlighting the single male dosnt read my profile it causes friction which aint condusive to happy fun times my philosophy is twist my melon block cant be simpler rant over ..................and dont forget have fun ya all you hear  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"guys!!! guys!!! guys!!! lets stop the blame game yes guys do it but not the only guilty party here i get it from gay men and have had it from couples you dont like block and move on. by highlighting the single male dosnt read my profile it causes friction which aint condusive to happy fun times my philosophy is twist my melon block cant be simpler rant over ..................and dont forget have fun ya all you hear "
Says "Men" dont read profiles....That includes gay men and male half of couples 
And NO guys, not saying ALL men dont read  |
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"guys!!! guys!!! guys!!! lets stop the blame game yes guys do it but not the only guilty party here i get it from gay men and have had it from couples you dont like block and move on. by highlighting the single male dosnt read my profile it causes friction which aint condusive to happy fun times my philosophy is twist my melon block cant be simpler rant over ..................and dont forget have fun ya all you hear
Says "Men" dont read profiles....That includes gay men and male half of couples
And NO guys, not saying ALL men dont read "
sorry after couples its ment to have single fems also really stir the pot lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having just rejoined after a sojourn, I think more single men ARE reading the profiles and sending targeted messages than they did before. Sure, there are still some of the 'Fancy a f right now?' variety but not many. Maybe the age filter helps.Almost all my messages have been polite and respectful. I personally think the ones (single m/f/couples) who DON'T read profiles mostly think this a free for all sex site which is actually very helpful as it sorts them out quite quickly |
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