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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you could change one thing about Fab, what would it be and why?
I’d make sure that anyone joining has to be photo verified. This would make me feel a lot more confident that the person I am talking to or meeting is real.
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"If you could change one thing about Fab, what would it be and why?
I’d make sure that anyone joining has to be photo verified. This would make me feel a lot more confident that the person I am talking to or meeting is real.
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A way to actually prevent people kicked off from setting up a new profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The snobbery, the back biting, the attitude that “I’ve been here since the beginning so I’ll say whatever I want irrespective of who it offends”, the Forum bullying, the “Instashag” mentality of some folk (not just single guys as some would have you believe)......fuck the list is endless!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you could change one thing about Fab, what would it be and why?
I’d make sure that anyone joining has to be photo verified. This would make me feel a lot more confident that the person I am talking to or meeting is real.
I’m sure they could do this with IP address’
A way to actually prevent people kicked off from setting up a new profile. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The snobbery, the back biting, the attitude that “I’ve been here since the beginning so I’ll say whatever I want irrespective of who it offends”, the Forum bullying, the “Instashag” mentality of some folk (not just single guys as some would have you believe)......fuck the list is endless!! "
Over the years, I’ve seen the forum bullying get worse. It’s not acceptable at all and should be monitored by the site better!
Same small narrow minded group of 5 or 6, backing each other! It’s embarrasing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Change the status feed so it doesn't include people whose age range you don't fit into .
What's the point of seeing updates from people you can't message.  "
This is something I strongly agree with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd add a couple more message filters so profiles without any visible photos and outwith a set radius would be unable to message.
Set up a Fab Academy to train the men in the art of conversation! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The snobbery, the back biting, the attitude that “I’ve been here since the beginning so I’ll say whatever I want irrespective of who it offends”, the Forum bullying, the “Instashag” mentality of some folk (not just single guys as some would have you believe)......fuck the list is endless!!
Over the years, I’ve seen the forum bullying get worse. It’s not acceptable at all and should be monitored by the site better!
Same small narrow minded group of 5 or 6, backing each other! It’s embarrasing "
Yes, yes and yes. When I think back to the reasons why I’ve been driven to distraction by Fab in the past and have deleted my account, fuming and ranting about other members, it’s usually been due to the forum darlings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually now that I really think about it, I think new users shouldn’t be allowed to choose their own body type categories. I propose a panel of judges or even an ongoing voting system for any other members who view their profile.
I know I’m not the only one who views a profile gallery, sees some behemoth describe themselves as “curvy” and thinks, “that’s no moon...”.
Perhaps compulsory BMI tests... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually now that I really think about it, I think new users shouldn’t be allowed to choose their own body type categories. I propose a panel of judges or even an ongoing voting system for any other members who view their profile.
I know I’m not the only one who views a profile gallery, sees some behemoth describe themselves as “curvy” and thinks, “that’s no moon...”.
Perhaps compulsory BMI tests..."
Now that is some seriously funny shit!! Controversial.....but still funny!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ban all photos where a sky remote, lynx can or other household item is used as a measuring unit of penis length.
Only exception to this is 2l plastic ginger bottles. In which case, pm me.
(Kidding!!! )
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"Actually now that I really think about it, I think new users shouldn’t be allowed to choose their own body type categories. I propose a panel of judges or even an ongoing voting system for any other members who view their profile.
I know I’m not the only one who views a profile gallery, sees some behemoth describe themselves as “curvy” and thinks, “that’s no moon...”.
Perhaps compulsory BMI tests..."
But how can people judge this, where quite often all you can see is genitals and nothing else?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually now that I really think about it, I think new users shouldn’t be allowed to choose their own body type categories. I propose a panel of judges or even an ongoing voting system for any other members who view their profile.
I know I’m not the only one who views a profile gallery, sees some behemoth describe themselves as “curvy” and thinks, “that’s no moon...”.
Perhaps compulsory BMI tests...
But how can people judge this, where quite often all you can see is genitals and nothing else? "
True. Point taken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually now that I really think about it, I think new users shouldn’t be allowed to choose their own body type categories. I propose a panel of judges or even an ongoing voting system for any other members who view their profile.
I know I’m not the only one who views a profile gallery, sees some behemoth describe themselves as “curvy” and thinks, “that’s no moon...”.
Perhaps compulsory BMI tests...
But how can people judge this, where quite often all you can see is genitals and nothing else? "
Weigh the cock and balls? |
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Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life."
You're still convinced that happened? |
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
You're still convinced that happened?"
not happened still happening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have a not what im looking button in the sence that if someone mails you or you mail them the message is then read and rather than just ignore it all together all you do it tap the not intrested/ Not what I'm looking for then that way the person alteast knows. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I'd add a couple more message filters so profiles without any visible photos and outwith a set radius would be unable to message.
Set up a Fab Academy to train the men in the art of conversation!"
Re the Fab Academy - if all the guys were artificially trained in good chat, how then would you spot the true arse holes?  |
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"I'd add a couple more message filters so profiles without any visible photos and outwith a set radius would be unable to message.
Set up a Fab Academy to train the men in the art of conversation!
Re the Fab Academy - if all the guys were artificially trained in good chat, how then would you spot the true arse holes? "
this already happens in the forums.
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
You're still convinced that happened?"
Oh definitely.  |
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"I would have a not what im looking button in the sence that if someone mails you or you mail them the message is then read and rather than just ignore it all together all you do it tap the not intrested/ Not what I'm looking for then that way the person alteast knows. "
OR people could simply type those 7 words and job done. 15 seconds to acknowledging someone took the time to message you. Unless of course it was rude or a message with little or no effort then yes unanswered is fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have a not what im looking button in the sence that if someone mails you or you mail them the message is then read and rather than just ignore it all together all you do it tap the not intrested/ Not what I'm looking for then that way the person alteast knows. "
Right next to the 'read the bloody profile' button?
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"I would have a not what im looking button in the sence that if someone mails you or you mail them the message is then read and rather than just ignore it all together all you do it tap the not intrested/ Not what I'm looking for then that way the person alteast knows.
Right next to the 'read the bloody profile' button?
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standing ovation |
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"I would have a not what im looking button in the sence that if someone mails you or you mail them the message is then read and rather than just ignore it all together all you do it tap the not intrested/ Not what I'm looking for then that way the person alteast knows.
Right next to the 'read the bloody profile' button?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd monitor the statuses and delete any that have zero relevance to swinging.
Too many people using this as a secondary Facebook and it dilutes the experience for those of us here to use the place for it's intended purpose.
I really don't care if you just ate a packet of crisps, if you're mwi, if the kids are doing your head in or if you "Gota laff @ how too-faced ppl is, LUHLZ!!!!1@" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would have a not what im looking button in the sence that if someone mails you or you mail them the message is then read and rather than just ignore it all together all you do it tap the not intrested/ Not what I'm looking for then that way the person alteast knows. "
I actually had this idea about a year ago. My thoughts would be that the person would know and then by pressing this butting it would mean that they couldn’t reply to you too!
Maybe site admin will take heed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life."
Possibly in the future the site could have one account only per up address |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would have a not what im looking button in the sence that if someone mails you or you mail them the message is then read and rather than just ignore it all together all you do it tap the not intrested/ Not what I'm looking for then that way the person alteast knows.
I actually had this idea about a year ago. My thoughts would be that the person would know and then by pressing this butting it would mean that they couldn’t reply to you too!
Maybe site admin will take heed "
hmmm, don't like this one the way its said and stated. My reason, I have some wonderful friends on here whom I chat with but I am not for them nor they are for me but we get on so well and just have a wee gab about fab etc... and if this button was in place as stated of our original messages we might never have became friends.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the things I don't like on fab site is
If you click on a profile and then click off straight away or click on it by mistake, it shows up on the persons profile that you are looking for at least 6 minutes.
Some people might get the wrong idea that your interested, even if your being nosy or was a mistake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
Possibly in the future the site could have one account only per up address "
This is a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Change the status feed so it doesn't include people whose age range you don't fit into .
What's the point of seeing updates from people you can't message.
This is something I strongly agree with.
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I'm pretty sure if you block people from out with your age range from messaging, you only get people within your age range on your local status feed. |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
Possibly in the future the site could have one account only per up address
This is a good idea. "
Couples who also have singles accounts will often share the same IP address, while they are on the same home network for instance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
Possibly in the future the site could have one account only per up address
This is a good idea.
Couples who also have singles accounts will often share the same IP address, while they are on the same home network for instance."
Aye, awrite smart arse. |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
Possibly in the future the site could have one account only per up address
This is a good idea.
Couples who also have singles accounts will often share the same IP address, while they are on the same home network for instance.
Aye, awrite smart arse."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be good to have a delete option against verifications you regret giving, instead of having to use the block button x"
Agree. My block button is used in abundance |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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"Change the status feed so it doesn't include people whose age range you don't fit into .
What's the point of seeing updates from people you can't message.
This is something I strongly agree with.
I'm pretty sure if you block people from out with your age range from messaging, you only get people within your age range on your local status feed. "
That's not what I'm getting at but I probably didn't explain it very well.
So my local feed shows what I'm "looking for" eg women 26-54 years old.
But I don't want to see status updates from the ones who I can't message cos I'm outside their age range.
It gets tedious after while when you click on updates only to find you're a year outside their age limit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Change the status feed so it doesn't include people whose age range you don't fit into .
What's the point of seeing updates from people you can't message.
This is something I strongly agree with.
I'm pretty sure if you block people from out with your age range from messaging, you only get people within your age range on your local status feed.
That's not what I'm getting at but I probably didn't explain it very well.
So my local feed shows what I'm "looking for" eg women 26-54 years old.
But I don't want to see status updates from the ones who I can't message cos I'm outside their age range.
It gets tedious after while when you click on updates only to find you're a year outside their age limit "
Ah now I get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life."
Does that really happen? I've seen members use their couples profiles to get round forum bans but didn't realise the extent some people will go to. The internet is a strange place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
Does that really happen? I've seen members use their couples profiles to get round forum bans but didn't realise the extent some people will go to. The internet is a strange place "
Dunno about setting up fake profiles to back themselves up but I've been contacted my new profiles set up by folk I've blocked.
Nuttier than squirrel shite. |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
Does that really happen? I've seen members use their couples profiles to get round forum bans but didn't realise the extent some people will go to. The internet is a strange place
Dunno about setting up fake profiles to back themselves up but I've been contacted my new profiles set up by folk I've blocked.
Nuttier than squirrel shite."
That's stalkier than rhubarb. |
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By *TBSMan
over a year ago
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Females only allowed one photo of tits on profile instead of it looking like 10 pages of underwear section of Freeman's catalogue.
I'm sure you think your 36 bras are pretty, frankly I couldn't give a monkeys
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make it so all members MUST be photo verified.
Also to make the “remove photo” option in sent messages available for free members too. Would just make it feel safer if you no longer felt comfortable talking to someone tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Members that set up fake profiles to back themselves up in forums under the guise of different names should be themselves either kicked off Fab or at the very least be banned from the forums for life.
Does that really happen? I've seen members use their couples profiles to get round forum bans but didn't realise the extent some people will go to. The internet is a strange place
Dunno about setting up fake profiles to back themselves up but I've been contacted my new profiles set up by folk I've blocked.
Nuttier than squirrel shite."
Between the stalkers, the conspiracy theorists and the boomerang members even squirrels would say it was too nutty |
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