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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So here's one for both the men and women on the site...
Would you be offended if you were going about your day, maybe having a quiet drink in a bar and you look over and there's an attractive girl with no nickers on giving a fairly clear view up her skirt?
We see this as a bit of harmless horny fun and our opinion is that the majority of guys wouldn't mind being on the receiving end of it and would more than likely get turned on but what's the thoughts guys? Are there any out there that would be outraged?
And ladies, again our opinion is that unless you have that exhibitionist in you yourself, you'd probably be less welcoming about it especially if you were sitting with your man.
Very interested in knowing folk's genuine opinions on this  |
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"Always found it very alluring and as long as it's controlled and legal then you enjoy yourself.
Dont think indecent exposure is legal. "
I think you would have to be already scouring the room for poon to notice so i would say itd be a bit of a niche audience to begin with |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
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"Always found it very alluring and as long as it's controlled and legal then you enjoy yourself.
Dont think indecent exposure is legal. "
A well fair point ....sorry
What I meant was no children in view ...so whilst a pub is acceptable ...McDonald's certainly isn't.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the comments. Even the offensive ones! Asked whether folk would find it offensive not if the female is a skank/dirty cow etc. Sure you're neither given you're on a swinging site eh  |
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There's a time and a place for that sort of thing. Don't think a random pub would be the right time and place.
If it were a slightly longer skirt, so not everyone could look up there, and you're with a hot date who might drop whatever on the ground and have a cheeky glance, yeah sure x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a time and a place for that sort of thing. Don't think a random pub would be the right time and place.
If it were a slightly longer skirt, so not everyone could look up there, and you're with a hot date who might drop whatever on the ground and have a cheeky glance, yeah sure x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the comments. Even the offensive ones! Asked whether folk would find it offensive not if the female is a skank/dirty cow etc. Sure you're neither given you're on a swinging site eh "
Nice attitude there. On another note,how did your gokkake event go? |
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I wouldn't take offence but I would think it was a bit trashy and might be tempted to shout across for them to put it away.
I love sex and everything that goes along with it but I think theres a time and a place for it.
Out for a drink/meal is not the place for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all the comments. Even the offensive ones! Asked whether folk would find it offensive not if the female is a skank/dirty cow etc. Sure you're neither given you're on a swinging site eh "
are you calling all ladies on here sinks and dirty cows for being on a sex site?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks for all the comments. Even the offensive ones! Asked whether folk would find it offensive not if the female is a skank/dirty cow etc. Sure you're neither given you're on a swinging site eh
Nice attitude there. On another note,how did your gokkake event go? "
That's happening this wekeend but what's that got to do with this thread??? Precisely FUCK ALL! |
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"Always found it very alluring and as long as it's controlled and legal then you enjoy yourself.
Dont think indecent exposure is legal.
A well fair point ....sorry
What I meant was no children in view ...so whilst a pub is acceptable ...McDonald's certainly isn't.
sorry "
Still indecent exposure if its in a pub, nightclub, topless bar or the back of the number six bus. Location makes no legal difference and it IS crass to assume a guy wants to see your bits just "because he's a guy and they're all sex obsessed aren't they?"
This kind of thinking is part of the flaming problem.
It's insulting to guys who were brought up to see women as people and reinforces to others women as sex objects there for the male gaze.
By all means play it out as roleplay with consenting fab friends in a club or private setting but don't think it's ever going to be sexy in reality.
Agency ffs.
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"So here's one for both the men and women on the site...
Would you be offended if you were going about your day, maybe having a quiet drink in a bar and you look over and there's an attractive girl with no nickers on giving a fairly clear view up her skirt?
We see this as a bit of harmless horny fun and our opinion is that the majority of guys wouldn't mind being on the receiving end of it and would more than likely get turned on but what's the thoughts guys? Are there any out there that would be outraged?
And ladies, again our opinion is that unless you have that exhibitionist in you yourself, you'd probably be less welcoming about it especially if you were sitting with your man.
Very interested in knowing folk's genuine opinions on this "
I personally would see this as a bit of a giggle and definitely wouldn’t mind catching a sneaky peek while having my pint I love a bit of exhibitionism , I’d defo buy you a drink lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So here's one for both the men and women on the site...
Would you be offended if you were going about your day, maybe having a quiet drink in a bar and you look over and there's an attractive girl with no nickers on giving a fairly clear view up her skirt?
We see this as a bit of harmless horny fun and our opinion is that the majority of guys wouldn't mind being on the receiving end of it and would more than likely get turned on but what's the thoughts guys? Are there any out there that would be outraged?
And ladies, again our opinion is that unless you have that exhibitionist in you yourself, you'd probably be less welcoming about it especially if you were sitting with your man.
Very interested in knowing folk's genuine opinions on this
I personally would see this as a bit of a giggle and definitely wouldn’t mind catching a sneaky peek while having my pint I love a bit of exhibitionism , I’d defo buy you a drink lol "
Its not like this is some crazy taboo thing that is way out there. Plenty couples and females enjoy exhibitionism and not many guys would complain about being given a sneaky peek. In fact exhibitionism is one of the more common kinks!
Usual on here though the "regulars" can't give an opinion without being a snooty and melodramatic about it.
Those folk - just avoid our threads in future ok? we don't want need or value your abusive opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here's a thought... dogging is illegal... how many swingers do this? Oh wait we've also tried this we are such a pair of criminals.
We asked if guys and girls would find it offensive as a means to seeing how many guys would like it versus women who wouldn't... NOT for a moral/legal lecture!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So here's one for both the men and women on the site...
Would you be offended if you were going about your day, maybe having a quiet drink in a bar and you look over and there's an attractive girl with no nickers on giving a fairly clear view up her skirt?
We see this as a bit of harmless horny fun and our opinion is that the majority of guys wouldn't mind being on the receiving end of it and would more than likely get turned on but what's the thoughts guys? Are there any out there that would be outraged?
And ladies, again our opinion is that unless you have that exhibitionist in you yourself, you'd probably be less welcoming about it especially if you were sitting with your man.
Very interested in knowing folk's genuine opinions on this
I personally would see this as a bit of a giggle and definitely wouldn’t mind catching a sneaky peek while having my pint I love a bit of exhibitionism , I’d defo buy you a drink lol
Its not like this is some crazy taboo thing that is way out there. Plenty couples and females enjoy exhibitionism and not many guys would complain about being given a sneaky peek. In fact exhibitionism is one of the more common kinks!
Usual on here though the "regulars" can't give an opinion without being a snooty and melodramatic about it.
Those folk - just avoid our threads in future ok? we don't want need or value your abusive opinions. "
Ehhhh....it's a public forum...just saying likes. Don't think you can pick and choose who responds to your threads. (Ducks shit missile heading straight for Chez Doggy). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the comments. Even the offensive ones! Asked whether folk would find it offensive not if the female is a skank/dirty cow etc. Sure you're neither given you're on a swinging site eh are you calling all ladies on here sinks and dirty cows for being on a sex site? "
In reply to this... no i wasn't... but there are thousands of "ordinary" folk who aren't on swingers/sex sites who would say exactly that isn't there?
Just because you don't agree with it or understand it doesn't automatically make the person at the other side a skank. All this comment does is show how small-minded you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the gentleman, quite rightly, is a tad peeved at the rather inflammatory and moralistic answers posted and has mistakenly thought his wife was being specifically being referred to as a skank. I’d be fucking raging if that’s what I thought someone had said about my Mrs.
As for flashing, not my cup of tea but by the same token I wouldn’t use derogatory and insulting terminology to describe someone for whom flashing in a pub or bar was a kink. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're out. We were trying to have a bit of fun to see the difference in opinion between men and women on the subject and look at the absolute fiasco its descended into.
You'll all be pleased to know we won't be posting here any more. Enjoy filling your days with pouncing on every post to pick it apart with your moralistic bullshit if thats what makes you all happy.
Can barely post anything without this sort of shite happening.
Catch y'all laters
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly don't see what your having a huff about?
Folk have gave their opinions
That's what the forums are about
Yes granted you might not like the replies but then again there will be some that you do like.
No 2 people are the same.
But hey it's totally up to you if you choose to post again.
Maybe ask your friends instead of strangers that way you won't get easily offended.
But good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes dummy spat and all that I'm sitting here in a massive huff. Whole day ruined.
We invited opinions! And expected lots to come back saying they wouldn't appreciate it!
Its the abusive way in which they were delivered thats the issue.
Inadvertently calling someones mrs a skank etc. Not cool. Might not have been "your wife is a skank" but the notion was that anyone who did this is a skank so that must mean my wife is one.... and nobody asked for an opinion on what you thought of the folk that done it it was about HOW YOU WOULD REACT to it.
Honestly can people not read?
Hope you all have fun abusing folk on here and we'll have fun being skanks down the pub.
Bye!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slightly off topic but if a group of strangers' comments can completely ruin your day then you have a bigger problem than what they think of your wife.
Seen your guys posts on here a few times and you seen to get up to all sorts and enjoy it. Fair play to you both. Keep on doing that if that's what makes you happy and gets you off. Does it really matter a fuck what we all think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dummy spat and thrown me thinks.
If u don't want opinions...don't ask. Or is that too obvious?
I am assuming he wanted opinions just not abusive ones. "
They asked a question and got a wee mix of responses. Don't know what the fuck they were expecting. They are probably right in not posting again if they don't want a mixed response x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am sure why all the aggression on posts, but I am surprised that abuse seems to be accepted by some as normal  "
"Very interested to know folks genuine opinion on this" Eh naw they weren't x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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OK I am not getting into an argument about this, I am intervening to say abuse isn't allowed on the forum even if it is an opinion.
If anyone wants to check the forum rules out they are here
https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would love to see this and have been known to do it ourselves from time to time but only in a nightclub, swingers club, late night pub etc. Nowhere near kids and you've always to be wary of folk taking pics and posting them on social media to take the piss |
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I'd find it very off putting ,some random flashing their fan Dan .
They may be getting a sexual thrill and fun from flashing but why force their sexual kinks on a total stranger . Anything sexual should be about mutual consent in my opinion . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd find it very off putting ,some random flashing their fan Dan .
They may be getting a sexual thrill and fun from flashing but why force their sexual kinks on a total stranger . Anything sexual should be about mutual consent in my opinion . "
Bingo. You're forcing someone into a sexual situation for your excitement, if even just one person in the room might not feel comfortable with it then don't do it, otherwise you're no better than the stereotype creepy old man in a trenchcoat exposing himself to some 18 year old girl walking through the park. |
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Personally we like it and make no apology. Of course doing it a totally inappropriate place will get you in trouble.
We know a bikers bar rock club where lots if girls are wearing extremely skimpy outfits. Flashing of nipples and more is far from uncommon.
Some of the girls are stunning and some shall we say a little more homely but the whole decadent vibe to the place makes it perfectly acceptable. |
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
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It seems to me that the majority are in favour of flashing , depending on location ect .given that it was in a suitable location I think it's just a bit of fun and would be tempted to reciprocate . Well fairs fair. |
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"Personally we like it and make no apology. Of course doing it a totally inappropriate place will get you in trouble.
We know a bikers bar rock club where lots if girls are wearing extremely skimpy outfits. Flashing of nipples and more is far from uncommon.
Some of the girls are stunning and some shall we say a little more homely but the whole decadent vibe to the place makes it perfectly acceptable. "
I require the address for this fine sounding establishment! |
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"Yes dummy spat and all that I'm sitting here in a massive huff. Whole day ruined.
We invited opinions! And expected lots to come back saying they wouldn't appreciate it!
Its the abusive way in which they were delivered thats the issue.
Inadvertently calling someones mrs a skank etc. Not cool. Might not have been "your wife is a skank" but the notion was that anyone who did this is a skank so that must mean my wife is one.... and nobody asked for an opinion on what you thought of the folk that done it it was about HOW YOU WOULD REACT to it.
Honestly can people not read?
Hope you all have fun abusing folk on here and we'll have fun being skanks down the pub.
Bye!
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think you are tying yourself in knots here OP. you asked for opinions and how people would react on the scenario and posters gave them ranging from liking the idea to thinking "skank". Thinking skank is a reaction so what kind of answer were you expecting? Can't get it both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So here's one for both the men and women on the site...
Would you be offended if you were going about your day, maybe having a quiet drink in a bar and you look over and there's an attractive girl with no nickers on giving a fairly clear view up her skirt?
We see this as a bit of harmless horny fun and our opinion is that the majority of guys wouldn't mind being on the receiving end of it and would more than likely get turned on but what's the thoughts guys? Are there any out there that would be outraged?
And ladies, again our opinion is that unless you have that exhibitionist in you yourself, you'd probably be less welcoming about it especially if you were sitting with your man.
Very interested in knowing folk's genuine opinions on this "
I personally find this such a turn on, I'm very in to public exhibitionists. In fact I often ask on my status if there any public exhibitionist females or couples around looking for a voyeur. Its not for everyone but I think that is the good thing about this site, to find someone with similar interests to your own. If indeed you are ever looking to to a bit of public flashing and are on need of an onlooker, then please feel free to get in touch. |
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