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Do you have your own fab rules?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A really interesting question. I’ve only been here just over a week, but after thoroughly exploring, I’ve got a really clear vision of what I would like, ideally, to get out of the site. I also have the start of some rules for myself – a couple of them the result of some self-inflicted negative experiences so far.
As for breaking them, I also have some thoughts on just what would make me do that… I would, but only in very particular circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never really had any 'rules' on my old couple profile, but I have a list since joining as a single female. I rarely (only once) stray from them as they seem to work for me.
R  "
Without asking for specifics, what was the general circumstance in which you strayed from your rules? I’m curious as to what tempted you off the path. |
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"I never really had any 'rules' on my old couple profile, but I have a list since joining as a single female. I rarely (only once) stray from them as they seem to work for me.
R
Without asking for specifics, what was the general circumstance in which you strayed from your rules? I’m curious as to what tempted you off the path. "
We had chatted for ages & exchanged clear face pics. Only time I've ever bent the rules.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never really had any 'rules' on my old couple profile, but I have a list since joining as a single female. I rarely (only once) stray from them as they seem to work for me.
R
Without asking for specifics, what was the general circumstance in which you strayed from your rules? I’m curious as to what tempted you off the path.
We had chatted for ages & exchanged clear face pics. Only time I've ever bent the rules.
R "
Fair. Thanks for replying. |
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"I prefer to think of them as guidelines...i've strayed from mine and been rather pleasantly surprised "
I think I drive someone on fab mad with my rules   . I worry if I do stray, then my luck might change as they have served me well.
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One rule we have and are strict and that's that we wont add anyone to our friends list until we have actually met them.
We've been speaking to peeps in Scotland chat for ages but we still don't deviate from it. |
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By *pinCouple
over a year ago
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"I almost deviated from them a few months ago but cancelled prior to meeting as something didn't feel right .... and I was proved right. Would put me off thinking about breaking them again.
R "
Have to elaborate???? What was the rule ? |
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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago
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I think as a Cpl its very important to agree unpon and stick to guidelines but if one wants to change the lines that it can be spoke about and new agreement's can be set if that makes any sense at all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think as a Cpl its very important to agree unpon and stick to guidelines but if one wants to change the lines that it can be spoke about and new agreement's can be set if that makes any sense at all lol "
It does. Circumstances, needs and desires change, so guidelines sometimes need to be redrawn to fit the reality of the situation. |
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"I almost deviated from them a few months ago but cancelled prior to meeting as something didn't feel right .... and I was proved right. Would put me off thinking about breaking them again.
R
Have to elaborate???? What was the rule ?"
1 rule is I only ever arranging to meet socially first. I never arrange/agree to play on the same day.
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"We don’t really have rules we just kinda know what’s acceptable to each of us. Each situation is different.
K x
I do think it's different being on as a single though x
R "
Ye definately... if I was single I’d be letting at least 10 people know where I was, I’d have all sorts scenarios running through my head lol
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"We don’t really have rules we just kinda know what’s acceptable to each of us. Each situation is different.
K x
I do think it's different being on as a single though x
R
Ye definately... if I was single I’d be letting at least 10 people know where I was, I’d have all sorts scenarios running through my head lol
K x"
1 of the reasons I never rush into meeting & have my list of rules. Lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't follow my basic 1 rule once and it was a bad move ...never again
Oh do tell 
Please refer to the 1 basic rule ..."
never suck your own cock in a public place while on a meet
or is that number 2, I canny remember, DAMG! I always do things at the wrong time   |
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..we have found over the years that the boundaries can and do move xxx 
thank fuck it's a new phone 