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"I think I can see where you're going wrong "Do share?  | |||
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel "Fuckin nailed it pal | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel "This is hilarious but so spot on! | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel "Oufft Don't want you to take offence but I cant help it if you do. When I hear the words 'cliquey' on a post from someone I genuinely think its someone who isn't doing well on fab or just fed up with it or wants to be part of this so call magical clique that I still need to find. Fabswingers when it first started was usually that, a lot of swinging parties, people meeting for fun but as the years go on you hear about hassle people had and what then happens people are unsure so they prefer to have a public social first and decide how far to take it. The big socials started as far as I'm aware in some clubs and some house parties that decided to make bigger ones so more people could interact with each other and meet established and new like minded people and if you clicked you could arrange fun in the future, some went back to hotels after. They are brill and relaxed and you get to meet people. I didn't go to my fist social until just over 2 years ago and I've been on the site for 10. I haven't been to any club including Cjs nor am I part of any clique and guess what, I get offers and meets and don't find a problem with the place, why because I treat people the way I want treated myself. People who come onto the site expecting to get a fuck, deserve what they get, sweet fuck all. No mater what people want on here, they are people and respect isn't awarded its given due to their nature and how they treat others, its only when you find out someone who is not that kind of person do you decide to stay clear. I always respect others wishes on here even if their attitude is that they just wanna fuck but that's as far as I go with them, chat and no meet. However people have a great time on here without going to socials and without going to clubs and taking the advice of others, why? because one persons advice to do something on fab for the full enjoyment might not work as well for someone else. If your interested in going to a social and just interacting with like minded people, chatting, having a laugh, connecting, making friends then go, if not, then don't. If your wanting to go to a club for just the social side then go or if your wanting to go to a club like Cjs just to fuck then go. I cant change people's views of the site and tell them to listen to me on how to enjoy themselves. I just do my own thing and have a great time. I will obviously say what I feel is the best way to have a great experience but I know that experience works for me and might not work for anyone else. One thing for sure Fabswingers isn't for everyone and there are tons of people on for different reasons and wanting different things. Just get on, do your thing, be respectful and be positive. You do that then you can't got wrong  | |||
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"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel "Yeah I’d concur with every word of this 100%...clique central in here these days. | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel
Oufft
Don't want you to take offence but I cant help it if you do. When I hear the words 'cliquey' on a post from someone I genuinely think its someone who isn't doing well on fab or just fed up with it or wants to be part of this so call magical clique that I still need to find.
Fabswingers when it first started was usually that, a lot of swinging parties, people meeting for fun but as the years go on you hear about hassle people had and what then happens people are unsure so they prefer to have a public social first and decide how far to take it.
The big socials started as far as I'm aware in some clubs and some house parties that decided to make bigger ones so more people could interact with each other and meet established and new like minded people and if you clicked you could arrange fun in the future, some went back to hotels after. They are brill and relaxed and you get to meet people. I didn't go to my fist social until just over 2 years ago and I've been on the site for 10. I haven't been to any club including Cjs nor am I part of any clique and guess what, I get offers and meets and don't find a problem with the place, why because I treat people the way I want treated myself.
People who come onto the site expecting to get a fuck, deserve what they get, sweet fuck all. No mater what people want on here, they are people and respect isn't awarded its given due to their nature and how they treat others, its only when you find out someone who is not that kind of person do you decide to stay clear. I always respect others wishes on here even if their attitude is that they just wanna fuck but that's as far as I go with them, chat and no meet.
However people have a great time on here without going to socials and without going to clubs and taking the advice of others, why? because one persons advice to do something on fab for the full enjoyment might not work as well for someone else.
If your interested in going to a social and just interacting with like minded people, chatting, having a laugh, connecting, making friends then go, if not, then don't. If your wanting to go to a club for just the social side then go or if your wanting to go to a club like Cjs just to fuck then go.
I cant change people's views of the site and tell them to listen to me on how to enjoy themselves. I just do my own thing and have a great time. I will obviously say what I feel is the best way to have a great experience but I know that experience works for me and might not work for anyone else.
One thing for sure Fabswingers isn't for everyone and there are tons of people on for different reasons and wanting different things.
Just get on, do your thing, be respectful and be positive. You do that then you can't got wrong "no offence taken, I don’t want to be part of the cliques & no I haven’t met anyone from fab.....this time, I was just trying to be funny but with a lot of truths put into it. I joined fab when I was 19 & I was 5stone fatter than I am now lol but I had 9 verifications all from meets for sex in my 1st year, nowadays that can’t happen unless you meet the demands of people on here & attend socials & cj’s which is fine the site is what it is & people can & should use it how they see fit Like a said POF, badoo, lovoo all these are better for people like myself just for NSA sex I just come back to fab every so often for a different scene, if I get a meet that’s great if not that’s fine | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel
Oufft
Don't want you to take offence but I cant help it if you do. When I hear the words 'cliquey' on a post from someone I genuinely think its someone who isn't doing well on fab or just fed up with it or wants to be part of this so call magical clique that I still need to find.
Fabswingers when it first started was usually that, a lot of swinging parties, people meeting for fun but as the years go on you hear about hassle people had and what then happens people are unsure so they prefer to have a public social first and decide how far to take it.
The big socials started as far as I'm aware in some clubs and some house parties that decided to make bigger ones so more people could interact with each other and meet established and new like minded people and if you clicked you could arrange fun in the future, some went back to hotels after. They are brill and relaxed and you get to meet people. I didn't go to my fist social until just over 2 years ago and I've been on the site for 10. I haven't been to any club including Cjs nor am I part of any clique and guess what, I get offers and meets and don't find a problem with the place, why because I treat people the way I want treated myself.
People who come onto the site expecting to get a fuck, deserve what they get, sweet fuck all. No mater what people want on here, they are people and respect isn't awarded its given due to their nature and how they treat others, its only when you find out someone who is not that kind of person do you decide to stay clear. I always respect others wishes on here even if their attitude is that they just wanna fuck but that's as far as I go with them, chat and no meet.
However people have a great time on here without going to socials and without going to clubs and taking the advice of others, why? because one persons advice to do something on fab for the full enjoyment might not work as well for someone else.
If your interested in going to a social and just interacting with like minded people, chatting, having a laugh, connecting, making friends then go, if not, then don't. If your wanting to go to a club for just the social side then go or if your wanting to go to a club like Cjs just to fuck then go.
I cant change people's views of the site and tell them to listen to me on how to enjoy themselves. I just do my own thing and have a great time. I will obviously say what I feel is the best way to have a great experience but I know that experience works for me and might not work for anyone else.
One thing for sure Fabswingers isn't for everyone and there are tons of people on for different reasons and wanting different things.
Just get on, do your thing, be respectful and be positive. You do that then you can't got wrong no offence taken, I don’t want to be part of the cliques & no I haven’t met anyone from fab.....this time, I was just trying to be funny but with a lot of truths put into it.
I joined fab when I was 19 & I was 5stone fatter than I am now lol but I had 9 verifications all from meets for sex in my 1st year, nowadays that can’t happen unless you meet the demands of people on here & attend socials & cj’s which is fine the site is what it is & people can & should use it how they see fit
Like a said POF, badoo, lovoo all these are better for people like myself just for NSA sex
I just come back to fab every so often for a different scene, if I get a meet that’s great if not that’s fine"Kl I'm glad you never and all the best .
I will say you can have fun without going to socials and going to CJs etc... as I am proof of that. Although my first socials was 2 and half years ago when I think back and only been to a couple and none in the past year Vie had quite a few meets, mainly one to one socials and a few play times as well and I never go to clubs.
Its how you define a clique, I talk to a lot of people, because I'm outgoing and friendly and most I have not met but I chat away, yeah I'm known but I've also been here a while, 10 years but I don't 'hang' with people. I just do my own thing and treat people the way I want treated as well.
I'm going to the Ayrshire and Xmas socials and as far as I'm aware there is a lot of people who are going for the first time. I might not be for them sexually so there wont be fun arranged in the future, infact everyone going might not think I'm suitable for them but that's fine we can all have a chat and a laugh and good banter | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel
Oufft
Don't want you to take offence but I cant help it if you do. When I hear the words 'cliquey' on a post from someone I genuinely think its someone who isn't doing well on fab or just fed up with it or wants to be part of this so call magical clique that I still need to find.
Fabswingers when it first started was usually that, a lot of swinging parties, people meeting for fun but as the years go on you hear about hassle people had and what then happens people are unsure so they prefer to have a public social first and decide how far to take it.
The big socials started as far as I'm aware in some clubs and some house parties that decided to make bigger ones so more people could interact with each other and meet established and new like minded people and if you clicked you could arrange fun in the future, some went back to hotels after. They are brill and relaxed and you get to meet people. I didn't go to my fist social until just over 2 years ago and I've been on the site for 10. I haven't been to any club including Cjs nor am I part of any clique and guess what, I get offers and meets and don't find a problem with the place, why because I treat people the way I want treated myself.
People who come onto the site expecting to get a fuck, deserve what they get, sweet fuck all. No mater what people want on here, they are people and respect isn't awarded its given due to their nature and how they treat others, its only when you find out someone who is not that kind of person do you decide to stay clear. I always respect others wishes on here even if their attitude is that they just wanna fuck but that's as far as I go with them, chat and no meet.
However people have a great time on here without going to socials and without going to clubs and taking the advice of others, why? because one persons advice to do something on fab for the full enjoyment might not work as well for someone else.
If your interested in going to a social and just interacting with like minded people, chatting, having a laugh, connecting, making friends then go, if not, then don't. If your wanting to go to a club for just the social side then go or if your wanting to go to a club like Cjs just to fuck then go.
I cant change people's views of the site and tell them to listen to me on how to enjoy themselves. I just do my own thing and have a great time. I will obviously say what I feel is the best way to have a great experience but I know that experience works for me and might not work for anyone else.
One thing for sure Fabswingers isn't for everyone and there are tons of people on for different reasons and wanting different things.
Just get on, do your thing, be respectful and be positive. You do that then you can't got wrong no offence taken, I don’t want to be part of the cliques & no I haven’t met anyone from fab.....this time, I was just trying to be funny but with a lot of truths put into it.
I joined fab when I was 19 & I was 5stone fatter than I am now lol but I had 9 verifications all from meets for sex in my 1st year, nowadays that can’t happen unless you meet the demands of people on here & attend socials & cj’s which is fine the site is what it is & people can & should use it how they see fit
Like a said POF, badoo, lovoo all these are better for people like myself just for NSA sex
I just come back to fab every so often for a different scene, if I get a meet that’s great if not that’s fine
Kl I'm glad you never and all the best .
I will say you can have fun without going to socials and going to CJs etc... as I am proof of that. Although my first socials was 2 and half years ago when I think back and only been to a couple and none in the past year Vie had quite a few meets, mainly one to one socials and a few play times as well and I never go to clubs.
Its how you define a clique, I talk to a lot of people, because I'm outgoing and friendly and most I have not met but I chat away, yeah I'm known but I've also been here a while, 10 years but I don't 'hang' with people. I just do my own thing and treat people the way I want treated as well.
I'm going to the Ayrshire and Xmas socials and as far as I'm aware there is a lot of people who are going for the first time. I might not be for them sexually so there wont be fun arranged in the future, infact everyone going might not think I'm suitable for them but that's fine we can all have a chat and a laugh and good banter " good mate, glad the site is going well for you & others, it’s for some not all.
I preferred it back when I 1st joined but I’m happy it’s still going & people do enjoy it | |||
"Been a let down so far surely there are woman in glasgow wanting a filthy night ? "Can I ask a few questions First..what did you expect to happen when you joined Second.. what effort do you put in to get to know people Third ..what makes you stand out from the thousand other guys All relevant questions ..you have been on here 4 weeks ..some guys even after putting effort in can wait months before meeting ..it WONT fall into your lap  | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel
Fuckin nailed it pal "After 3 weeks on the site too ...Wow!!! Took us fucking years to figure out how to work it  | |||
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"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel "Good rant | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel
Fuckin nailed it pal
After 3 weeks on the site too ...Wow!!! Took us fucking years to figure out how to work it "Bunkie it is very cliquey on here  | |||
"100% honesty You’re far more likely to get yer hole on a dating site like POF or badoo than you are on a sex site......for reasons unknown fab has turned into this whole cliquey kinda site, go to socials, go to CJ’s! You’re ten years too late for when people used fab to get their hole, a dunno mate just suck up a few arses....grow a beard, wear a suit in every pic u have, watch for arguments in the forums then make sure to take the side of every woman in the argument so you look good Maybe in a year or two you’ll have all the meets you like
Or just join POF and get it tonight but it’s up to yersel " | |||
