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Does everyone want social first
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"Morning all, I am yet to find someone that just wants fun and not a social first. Are they any woman that just go straight into the fun? X"
There probably are. But I’d imagine most would want to meet you socially to see if there is attraction and chemistry. Also allows instinct a chance to work out if you are a psycho, whilst in a safe and public environment.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure there's women who only have a social as a quick check you out then straight to the fucking. I also know there's a few couples who don't insist on socials. Just need to find them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have a social first. it is to see if we click and for safety reasons. some people can hide behind a laptop/computer and be so different from what they tell you or in their pics. it always a good idea to have a social first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't do socials either however our preferred way for first meet would be in a bar for a few drinks before back to house or hotel.
We don’t do socials "
I thought meeting in a bar was a social. |
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over a year ago
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"Morning all, I am yet to find someone that just wants fun and not a social first. Are they any woman that just go straight into the fun? X"
Long time ago spontaneous meets were the thing on fab but now from experience most people want social first, why because there are some utter nutjobs on fab and most have had hassle along the way. There are a few couples n singles who do not want a social first, I was asked last night from a couple but declined. So they are out there.
I prefer the social first although not always but usually. If you are finding it hard for a meet that goes straight into fun/sex then why not go to a club
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"For me a social is important. Whether it’s at a club, party, pub quiz or Costa! There has to be a connection for the fun to work.
Also I value my personal safety. "
Personal safety must come first it could be anyone that you are going to meet. Public place with plenty of people makes it safe for all involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have no objection either way , but would think through the scenario of the meeting if there was no social , if I was even the slightest uncomfortable with something I would insist on meeting in public place first. Cannot see any real reason people would not agree to that if the were straight up ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Morning all, I am yet to find someone that just wants fun and not a social first. Are they any woman that just go straight into the fun? X
Long time ago spontaneous meets were the thing on fab but now from experience most people want social first, why because there are some utter nutjobs on fab and most have had hassle along the way. There are a few couples n singles who do not want a social first, I was asked last night from a couple but declined. So they are out there.
I prefer the social first although not always but usually. If you are finding it hard for a meet that goes straight into fun/sex then why not go to a club
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And from experience, females n couples, not all, think if your just onto fuck then they think you have a GF, or are married. Doesn't mean you have but they will be sceptical that way as there are tons of guys n females on here playing away and they don't want the hassle
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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At very least a built-in social, even if it's just a quick drink before heading off somewhere else for fun.
That way you have a get out, in case it turns out they've come straight from the Jeremy Kyle set.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a social first as it's important to see if there's an attraction between the two of us. No point having sex with someone if there isn't that "click" between us x |
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
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Don't have time for socials lol
Seriously though, we meet with the intention of playing. If it turns out not for us, we walk. Only time we about turned was when guy was the worse for drink |
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"Morning all, I am yet to find someone that just wants fun and not a social first. Are they any woman that just go straight into the fun? X"
I prefer socials first because of the reasons listed above, I don't want to go and meet someone or have them round and find out that I'm not attracted to them or vice versa. Women are physically more vulnerable usually so being alone with someone who could potentially overpower you is a risk. You can get red flags before in chat if they're a wrong un but it isn't always obvious. In person it's easier to tell. Plus hygiene can't be assured in chat
I've had spontaneous meets a few times but always do a videochat first because the one time I didn't it was an unpleasant meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As already stated above spontaneous meets on here were all the rage.
Meeting in the pub for a drink and a chat nowadays seems to be the precursor to playing meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At very least a built-in social, even if it's just a quick drink before heading off somewhere else for fun.
That way you have a get out, in case it turns out they've come straight from the Jeremy Kyle set.
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Sorry about that. I've got my teeth fixed now and have been warned to look after them as they're my last 3. Can we try again? |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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"At very least a built-in social, even if it's just a quick drink before heading off somewhere else for fun.
That way you have a get out, in case it turns out they've come straight from the Jeremy Kyle set.
Sorry about that. I've got my teeth fixed now and have been warned to look after them as they're my last 3. Can we try again? "
Ok but no biting this time or the muzzle is going back on! |
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"At very least a built-in social, even if it's just a quick drink before heading off somewhere else for fun.
That way you have a get out, in case it turns out they've come straight from the Jeremy Kyle set.
Sorry about that. I've got my teeth fixed now and have been warned to look after them as they're my last 3. Can we try again?
Ok but no biting this time or the muzzle is going back on! "
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As in - we would meet in a social environment for a few drinks to chill and hopefully all be ready to head back to "wherever"
"We don't do socials either however our preferred way for first meet would be in a bar for a few drinks before back to house or hotel.
We don’t do socials I thought meeting in a bar was a social. "
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"Morning all, I am yet to find someone that just wants fun and not a social first. Are they any woman that just go straight into the fun? X
There probably are. But I’d imagine most would want to meet you socially to see if there is attraction and chemistry. Also allows instinct a chance to work out if you are a psycho, whilst in a safe and public environment. "
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First meet as social is just sensible, even if just meeting up in a public place to sus the other person out. It can follow straight onto a play meet as soon as introductions and coffee are done if all feel happy, but nothing other than coffee and chat should be a expected from a first meet. |
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"First meet as social is just sensible, even if just meeting up in a public place to sus the other person out. It can follow straight onto a play meet as soon as introductions and coffee are done if all feel happy, but nothing other than coffee and chat should be a expected from a first meet."
Exactly this |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"As in - we would meet in a social environment for a few drinks to chill and hopefully all be ready to head back to "wherever"
We don't do socials either however our preferred way for first meet would be in a bar for a few drinks before back to house or hotel.
We don’t do socials I thought meeting in a bar was a social. "
yup probably my thing ....all depends on each persons outlook time constraints and location of the meet really |
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