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Have You Got Annoyed Because They Met Someone Else

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have You Got Annoyed Because They Met Someone Else.

Was chatting to a friend recently and she was telling me how some of her friends or people she was chatting with got annoyed because she meet someone when she never met them.

Have you ever been in that situation, getting annoyed that someone you have been chatting to met someone else ???

Personally I have met or chatted to people whom I know are going to meet others in the future so I'm kl with it. I've met people for socials and I know they are going to have a fuck in a Cpl of days but again, I'm kl and prepared for it.

So what's your thoughts, do you get annoyed if someone you've been chatting to then meet someone else or even if you have met them already and they meet someone else when it could have been with you again

and folks, common, no bitychness by naming names etc... if you have been in that situation in the past

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have You Got Annoyed Because They Met Someone Else.

Was chatting to a friend recently and she was telling me how some of her friends or people she was chatting with got annoyed because she meet someone when she never met them.

Have you ever been in that situation, getting annoyed that someone you have been chatting to met someone else ???

and folks, common, no bitychness by naming names etc... if you have been in that situation in the past

Yeah I got annoyed.....with you!

lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hands up yes I have (male half), me and the good lady separated for a few months and she had a singles account on Fab, as did I. Afterwards I came to the realisation that I was being pretty hypocritical, manned the fuck up and got on with it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have You Got Annoyed Because They Met Someone Else.

Was chatting to a friend recently and she was telling me how some of her friends or people she was chatting with got annoyed because she meet someone when she never met them.

Have you ever been in that situation, getting annoyed that someone you have been chatting to met someone else ???

and folks, common, no bitychness by naming names etc... if you have been in that situation in the past

Yeah I got annoyed.....with you!

lol x"

I love you xx

I didn't know you were available

I'm sooooooooooo gonna make it up to you

and I think you know I really will

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Watch Peter, she’s meeting somebody else later

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Watch Peter, she’s meeting somebody else later "

Auch its kl, once someone meets me, they usually meet someone else and fall in love.

I'm part Cupid, Italian, n irish

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Does not bother me in the slightest if someone i know meets someone else and if anyone complains about who i meet then they can basically sod off as this is my life and i will do what i want with who i want.

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Does not bother me in the slightest if someone i know meets someone else and if anyone complains about who i meet then they can basically sod off as this is my life and i will do what i want with who i want. "

Maybe that sounds harsh but i was too soft for too long and now decided to live life differently due to past events.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Doesnt bother me at all but have been caught up with some individuals telling others not to meet me when its all supposed to be nsa but some do struggle with that .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have. Had one guy I met a few times and the last time we met he literally had another meet the following morning. To me that just felt really disrespectful although I understand its the nature of the site.

Coming to realisation that perhaps am looking for two or three regular playmates rather than one offs.

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By *ilveryFoxMan over a year ago

Midlothian

Jealousy is the last thing I would except on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope..... but I’ve had had some craziness from the other side of it. I don’t care who meets who. No one owns me and vice versa. If only we could all play the same lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes I have. Had one guy I met a few times and the last time we met he literally had another meet the following morning. To me that just felt really disrespectful although I understand its the nature of the site.

Coming to realisation that perhaps am looking for two or three regular playmates rather than one offs. "

I suppose we all know this can happen.

I met a girl whom I can call a friend now. She met me and told me during the meet that she was meeting her regular the next day. The regular knew as well. It happens.

As long as we are all honest n up front about it with others then it makes it a little easier.

Some of us maybe looking for a regular and that person you meet might be as well but you both don't suit for being each other's regular but still felt perfect meeting each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Jealousy is the last thing I would except on here"

Oh no no no, that is definitely here in abundance

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Jealousy is the last thing I would except on here

Oh no no no, that is definitely here in abundance

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Agree Peter

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

Maybe that sounds harsh but i was too soft for too long and now decided to live life differently due to past events."

Why does it sound harsh? I think it’s a good way to be.

Too many people worry about what others do in this life when it’s none of their business

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Maybe that sounds harsh but i was too soft for too long and now decided to live life differently due to past events.

Why does it sound harsh? I think it’s a good way to be.

Too many people worry about what others do in this life when it’s none of their business "
This^^^^

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Maybe that sounds harsh but i was too soft for too long and now decided to live life differently due to past events.

Why does it sound harsh? I think it’s a good way to be.

Too many people worry about what others do in this life when it’s none of their business This^^^^"

I just didnt want to come across as a hard hearted bitch cos really im not.

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By *40ffCouple over a year ago

Anstruther

I've had someone get mad at me for talking to someone else I think unless u have agreed not to talk 2 others u need to be ready for someone u like or are talking to or meeting or whatever u have to be ready 4 them to meet other ppl and if u really cant cope with it ask your self is this the place for me if you cant cope with them talking or meeting someone else u defo not gonna cope when he or she gets new verification

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a simple solution.

Don't display verifications, and don't talk about your meets. It's your business, and no one elses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hands up yes I have (male half), me and the good lady separated for a few months and she had a singles account on Fab, as did I. Afterwards I came to the realisation that I was being pretty hypocritical, manned the fuck up and got on with it! "

How come you still on a couple then? New f?

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

Annoyed no cut folk off for even talking to certain folk definatly

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I have a simple solution.

Don't display verifications, and don't talk about your meets. It's your business, and no one elses. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most meets I have are socials some will turn to play only if there’s a connection but I’d never dictate who my friends can and can’t see nor would I get jealous, and would hope they wouldn’t either with me,I’m very much an open book, anyone I meet with I genuinely have a connection with, some ends up becoming a really good friendship after initially being a mutual attraction and if a play chemistry develops it happens naturally because we both want it, never forced or just for the fuck of it (pardon the pun)

I’d feel guilty if any got jealous though just because that’s the way I am as a person

One thing I’d never do though is cancel arrangements on a friend for anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't think you should hide your verifications for anyone.

Its the person who cannot handle it and the verification is not there to rub it in their face.

I am honest and respectful with everyone and never put any of them under pressure, they are free to do as they please, even if I've had one of the most amazing nights in my life in their company, I would still feel the same way.

I have some lovely friends whom I'd love to meet again and some I've never met and would love to but my private life dictates and even when I'm free like tonight, most have plans elsewhere, so its summit we all have to deal with.

We are all on a swinging site and I realise that when I chat and or meet anyone so no point expecting any more from anyone, they are all here to enjoy themselves and quite rightly so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only time it annoys me is when you've been flirting for weeks and really want to fuck and get rid of the built up horn, so you try to arrange to be told nope I've arranged something.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The only time it annoys me is when you've been flirting for weeks and really want to fuck and get rid of the built up horn, so you try to arrange to be told nope I've arranged something."

Nww no point, I'd never get annoyed at that.

I've chatted to a few females and they have met someone else during the chat. If they rather want that other person than me then I'm kl with it.

We are all here for our own enjoyment and they have chosen someone else for fun a reason even though if they met me they would still have a great time but they felt that meeting someone else was perfect for them at the time

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’ll admit, I got annoyed at a guy for playing with someone the night before he met me (he was meeting me in the morning).

If he’d had a shower before he came to mine and was able to remain erect I maybe wouldn’t have booted him out.

Otherwise, I’ll meet who I like and expect them to meet who they like, as long as it doesn’t affect their performance when with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’ll admit, I got annoyed at a guy for playing with someone the night before he met me (he was meeting me in the morning).

If he’d had a shower before he came to mine and was able to remain erect I maybe wouldn’t have booted him out.

Otherwise, I’ll meet who I like and expect them to meet who they like, as long as it doesn’t affect their performance when with me."

Did he tell you before that he was meeting someone so soon before meeting you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tbh it sounds like fab is pretty much like many other sites that offer the potential to get laid.

Some people thrive on playing games, some people get jealous, some people love to tell others how they should do things, some people claim to be experts on every fucking thing under the sun, some people are barely people at all, and some are just such rims.

In answer to the question...i expect most of us have felt a bit miffed at being passed over for someone else at some point on here. jealousy is a normal thing to feel. Acting like a cock because of it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The only time it annoys me is when you've been flirting for weeks and really want to fuck and get rid of the built up horn, so you try to arrange to be told nope I've arranged something.

Nww no point, I'd never get annoyed at that.

I've chatted to a few females and they have met someone else during the chat. If they rather want that other person than me then I'm kl with it.

Maybe they were less sure they'd have a great time with you so decided to meet someone else

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By *40ffCouple over a year ago

Anstruther

"I don't think you should hide your verifications for anyone.

Its the person who cannot handle it and the verification is not there to rub it in their face.

We are all on a swinging site and I realise that when I chat and or meet anyone so no point expecting any more from anyone, they are all here to enjoy themselves and quite rightly so

100% this xxx

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By *40ffCouple over a year ago

Anstruther

"I’ll admit, I got annoyed at a guy for playing with someone the night before he met me (he was meeting me in the morning).

If he’d had a shower before he came to mine and was able to remain erect I maybe wouldn’t have booted him out.

Otherwise, I’ll meet who I like and expect them to meet who they like, as long as it doesn’t affect their performance when with me."

This to me is just disgusting the fact he didnt even shower I would have kicked him out too xx

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By *idingawayCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

This is me.

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By *loobookMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

its all about honesty - if you swing then like the word says you swing - if you are a couple id imagine you have rules and its bad form to disrespect your partner - but you really shouldnt be on a site like this if you harbour jealousy issues from a swing meet - for me if all single then treat your partners with the respect they are due and what they do elsewhere is their business - enjoy the site for the good things it brings - for the most part ive seen more trust in genuine swinging couples than i have in most vanilla relationships

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By *hargMan over a year ago

Erskine

"Have You Got Annoyed Because They Met Someone Else.

Was chatting to a friend recently and she was telling me how some of her friends or people she was chatting with got annoyed because she meet someone when she never met them.

Have you ever been in that situation, getting annoyed that someone you have been chatting to met someone else ???

and folks, common, no bitychness by naming names etc... if you have been in that situation in the past

Peter does this have something to do with me? It easily could do.

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By *hargMan over a year ago

Erskine

Well, actually I got into a situation like this but it wasn't so much about not meeting as being about having been pretty close friends with someone and feeling pushed out a bit during a difficult time. Yeah, I did try to arrange a social meet a couple of times and it might not have helped that it didn't go ahead but it was more about feeling it was difficult to talk to her and I felt kinda indebted to her after she helped me through the worst period of my life.

I was badly ill for a while and things got so mixed up and difficult that it was incredibly difficult for me to cope with things in general.

Getting to a situation where we basically agreed on a block was difficult. She was one of the best friends I've ever had and we never actually had a single cross word with each other. I was really reliant on her at the time and it led to her blocking me as I was trying to shake off feeling awkward about things.

Heck, it got to the stage that it was practically impossible to watch cams and I just chatted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have You Got Annoyed Because They Met Someone Else.

Was chatting to a friend recently and she was telling me how some of her friends or people she was chatting with got annoyed because she meet someone when she never met them.

Have you ever been in that situation, getting annoyed that someone you have been chatting to met someone else ???

and folks, common, no bitychness by naming names etc... if you have been in that situation in the past

Peter does this have something to do with me? It easily could do.

absolute nutting to do with you

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By *hargMan over a year ago

Erskine

OK, just that something fairly similar did crop up with someone.

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By *onkeymagic50Man over a year ago

Near the harbour

"Have You Got Annoyed Because They Met Someone Else.

Was chatting to a friend recently and she was telling me how some of her friends or people she was chatting with got annoyed because she meet someone when she never met them.

Have you ever been in that situation, getting annoyed that someone you have been chatting to met someone else ???

and folks, common, no bitychness by naming names etc... if you have been in that situation in the past

Oh lord no maybe if they had arranged to meet me then traded me in for upgrade 30 mins before I would get annoyed but otherwise no

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By *exy gentMan over a year ago

Midlothian

Not in the slightest , all fair in love and war lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven’t but I’ve had guys that have gave me a hard time because of this.

One solution really.........block!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coming to realisation that perhaps am looking for two or three regular playmates rather than one offs. "

kind of similar. had a overnight meet. i hadnt been gone 30 minutes and he was posting meets as he was still in the hotel room with a few hours on the clock. I was raging. yes he can do what he likes as NSA but felt a tad rude and disrespectful. earned a block and it has put me off meeting on FAB since

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't get annoyed with anyone seeing anyone else, I have been amazed that I've msgd someone with a face pic, they've read it and deleted, but after looking at the guys in their veris, came to the conclusion that they prefer wee fat ugly blokes, each to their own as the saying goes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't get annoyed with anyone seeing anyone else, I have been amazed that I've msgd someone with a face pic, they've read it and deleted, but after looking at the guys in their veris, came to the conclusion that they prefer wee fat ugly blokes, each to their own as the saying goes

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who was that? I will send them a message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have You Got Annoyed Because They Met Someone Else.

Was chatting to a friend recently and she was telling me how some of her friends or people she was chatting with got annoyed because she meet someone when she never met them.

Have you ever been in that situation, getting annoyed that someone you have been chatting to met someone else ???

and folks, common, no bitychness by naming names etc... if you have been in that situation in the past

I've been on the receiving end of this several times however only one went slightly psycho over it, not until you verify someone folk often don't find out! As I said to her it's not a competition but if it were get used to coming second lol

I'm not on here for drama and if a guy I've M et goes elsewhere we'll that's the nature of the site, I move on, next!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

who was that? I will send them a message

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Coming to realisation that perhaps am looking for two or three regular playmates rather than one offs.

At least you got first dibs, I was offered sloppy seconds haha!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coming to realisation that perhaps am looking for two or three regular playmates rather than one offs.

At least you got first dibs, I was offered sloppy seconds haha!!"

Yet guys love stirring another man's porridge

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Coming to realisation that perhaps am looking for two or three regular playmates rather than one offs.

At least you got first dibs, I was offered sloppy seconds haha!!

Yet guys love stirring another man's porridge "

Awwww ffs see you !!!

I just spat my own cum out of my mouth there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coming to realisation that perhaps am looking for two or three regular playmates rather than one offs.

At least you got first dibs, I was offered sloppy seconds haha!!

Yet guys love stirring another man's porridge

Awwww ffs see you !!!

I just spat my own cum out of my mouth there

"
..

You know me Pedro lol no filters no airs and graces tomboy through and through

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha "

I have over 80 verifications, only a small percentage of them are fun meets. Most are social.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha "

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

I have over 80 verifications, only a small percentage of them are fun meets. Most are social. "

Maybe some folk are just a bit put off by meeting someone that's 'well known ', for want of a better expression.

Not everyone wants to be involved in the 'scene'.

Loads of social veris would put me off too...whether it's the guy or the women he meets that has them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is me. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards. "

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

I also know someone who has over 70 verifications and she has 2 fun meets and the rest are socials at big socials or a 1 to 1 social, some webcams but her profile has been going for 8 years, well at least 8 years, maybe more.

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By *ickygirl41Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Never been precious about that sort of stuff. But I've had someone complain to me when i chatted to them but didn't meet and had a new veri the next day.

Ended up blocking them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well. "

Well I suppose its directed to everyone.

I like to try and answer any Ops original post and maybe elaborate on it if I can.

So your not annoyed or made comments to someone because they met someone else whom you have met or wanted to meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Must admit I've read a few verifications and went eh naw but then I don't show mine but that's because of precious stalkers lol sometimes I think it's better not knowing, if someone doesn't smell shower fresh and have good oral hygiene then for me I'm. Out lol but if there's a freshness about someone that says they've had a very recent wash then all is good I needn't need to know there's been a previous attendee that day

I like the full package of a play meet and nkt just a quick fuck so sorry no amount of condoms and safe sex is going to protect me if he's had his face in a clap. Ridden fanny and not had a good scrub between partners

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Must admit I've read a few verifications and went eh naw but then I don't show mine but that's because of precious stalkers lol sometimes I think it's better not knowing, if someone doesn't smell shower fresh and have good oral hygiene then for me I'm. Out lol but if there's a freshness about someone that says they've had a very recent wash then all is good I needn't need to know there's been a previous attendee that day

pmsllllllll, so true,

Unless he had one of the condoms over his head then its all good

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

No is the simple answer, we meet who we want when we want it’s a sex site not a dating site. If they have veris to say they have met people who we don’t wish to be associated with then we wouldn’t arrange to meet anyways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well.

Well I suppose its directed to everyone.

I like to try and answer any Ops original post and maybe elaborate on it if I can.

So your not annoyed or made comments to someone because they met someone else whom you have met or wanted to meet

Now you're going off the title of your own thread?? What's it to be? Make up your mind!!

The thread said does it annoy you?

No it never annoys me, why would it? It's a guide to standards. If I don't want to meet someone because they've met someone or some others then I will say that to them if they ask.

That's my right. That's life.

What's your agenda?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well.

Well I suppose its directed to everyone.

I like to try and answer any Ops original post and maybe elaborate on it if I can.

So your not annoyed or made comments to someone because they met someone else whom you have met or wanted to meet

Now you're going off the title of your own thread?? What's it to be? Make up your mind!!

The thread said does it annoy you?

No it never annoys me, why would it? It's a guide to standards. If I don't want to meet someone because they've met someone or some others then I will say that to them if they ask.

That's my right. That's life.

What's your agenda?"

God sake stop thinking its personal or there's an agenda.

I was asking as I never seen an answer from you to the original post so if you say 'No' then I 100% believe you, there's no reason not too.

The same question to anyone on the post who hasn't answered, does it annoy them, bother them etc...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well.

Well I suppose its directed to everyone.

I like to try and answer any Ops original post and maybe elaborate on it if I can.

So your not annoyed or made comments to someone because they met someone else whom you have met or wanted to meet

Now you're going off the title of your own thread?? What's it to be? Make up your mind!!

The thread said does it annoy you?

No it never annoys me, why would it? It's a guide to standards. If I don't want to meet someone because they've met someone or some others then I will say that to them if they ask.

That's my right. That's life.

What's your agenda?"

Stirring the porridge with a spurtle

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well.

Well I suppose its directed to everyone.

I like to try and answer any Ops original post and maybe elaborate on it if I can.

So your not annoyed or made comments to someone because they met someone else whom you have met or wanted to meet

Now you're going off the title of your own thread?? What's it to be? Make up your mind!!

The thread said does it annoy you?

No it never annoys me, why would it? It's a guide to standards. If I don't want to meet someone because they've met someone or some others then I will say that to them if they ask.

That's my right. That's life.

What's your agenda?

Stirring the porridge with a spurtle "

your thinking sloppy seconds again

stop it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I will say folks, the title can take many different paths but im truly meaning

If you've been chatting to someone intending on meeting and still to arrange and then finding out they met someone else before you during your chatting interest. That's the main question regarding the post but other paths are fine also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well.

Well I suppose its directed to everyone.

I like to try and answer any Ops original post and maybe elaborate on it if I can.

So your not annoyed or made comments to someone because they met someone else whom you have met or wanted to meet

Now you're going off the title of your own thread?? What's it to be? Make up your mind!!

The thread said does it annoy you?

No it never annoys me, why would it? It's a guide to standards. If I don't want to meet someone because they've met someone or some others then I will say that to them if they ask.

That's my right. That's life.

What's your agenda?

God sake stop thinking its personal or there's an agenda.

I was asking as I never seen an answer from you to the original post so if you say 'No' then I 100% believe you, there's no reason not too.

The same question to anyone on the post who hasn't answered, does it annoy them, bother them etc...

I answered in my original post where I agreed with a previous poster and adds to what she said.

You then waffled on in your unique long winded fashion about arms and legs etc.. and posts going off topic:

Then you asked me a different question re was I annoyed or had I ever made comments. That's wasn't your original post.

So you either missed my original point or you didn't get your original post intent/wording correct to start with.

Think about what you're saying man, if you side you could say it saving about 2/3 of the text that you do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will say folks, the title can take many different paths but im truly meaning

Thanks for the explicit permission for folk to answer forum posts how the like as long as it's within forum rules

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well.

Well I suppose its directed to everyone.

I like to try and answer any Ops original post and maybe elaborate on it if I can.

So your not annoyed or made comments to someone because they met someone else whom you have met or wanted to meet

Now you're going off the title of your own thread?? What's it to be? Make up your mind!!

The thread said does it annoy you?

No it never annoys me, why would it? It's a guide to standards. If I don't want to meet someone because they've met someone or some others then I will say that to them if they ask.

That's my right. That's life.

What's your agenda?

God sake stop thinking its personal or there's an agenda.

I was asking as I never seen an answer from you to the original post so if you say 'No' then I 100% believe you, there's no reason not too.

The same question to anyone on the post who hasn't answered, does it annoy them, bother them etc...

I answered in my original post where I agreed with a previous poster and adds to what she said.

You then waffled on in your unique long winded fashion about arms and legs etc.. and posts going off topic:

Then you asked me a different question re was I annoyed or had I ever made comments. That's wasn't your original post.

So you either missed my original point or you didn't get your original post intent/wording correct to start with.

Think about what you're saying man, if you side you could say it saving about 2/3 of the text that you do. "

Yeah your right, my standards are slipping on the forum. I had to make a simpler post above so people know the main question I was wanting their views on.

I'm sorry but I will try and keep up to a level of standard that is acceptable and hopefully this will make me looked upon as a guy who sticks to his standards, the same as others are looked upon how they stick to their standards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's why I got the crazy stalker because he met me when he was talking to her, he said he had no intention of meeting her anyway she wasn't his type and I clearly was, can't put all your eggs in one basket!! But most of the folk who get pissed don't think but hey I'm also messaging loads of folk too and probably meet the first one who's schedule matches my own for free time,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That's why I got the crazy stalker because he met me when he was talking to her, he said he had no intention of meeting her anyway she wasn't his type and I clearly was, can't put all your eggs in one basket!! But most of the folk who get pissed don't think but hey I'm also messaging loads of folk too and probably meet the first one who's schedule matches my own for free time,"

I think if we are all honest with ourselves and the one your chatting with and realising that you might meet someone but they will prob meet someone else in the future and swing.

They might even end up being their regular swinging partner after you or they might even been chatting to you and during the chat over a few weeks, they then meet someone and then end up as their regular partner with them and then never meet you. We have to be open to that.

It is all relative and these things do happen and if you go in knowing these things can and do happen then any similar would be easy to cope with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if we are all honest with ourselves and the one your chatting with and realising that you might meet someone but they will prob meet someone else in the future and swing.

It is all relative and these things do happen and if you go in knowing these things can and do happen then any similar would be easy to cope with

So in summary....its a swinging site so be aware that others will be chatting to/meeting with others!

Cheers for the heads up

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think if we are all honest with ourselves and the one your chatting with and realising that you might meet someone but they will prob meet someone else in the future and swing.

It is all relative and these things do happen and if you go in knowing these things can and do happen then any similar would be easy to cope with

So in summary....its a swinging site so be aware that others will be chatting to/meeting with others!

Cheers for the heads up

So glad you said that its a swinging site

That's the way I see it

Got a message from someone and in the message they said it was a sex site.

can be confusing for some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if we are all honest with ourselves and the one your chatting with and realising that you might meet someone but they will prob meet someone else in the future and swing.

It is all relative and these things do happen and if you go in knowing these things can and do happen then any similar would be easy to cope with

So in summary....its a swinging site so be aware that others will be chatting to/meeting with others!

Cheers for the heads up

So glad you said that its a swinging site

That's the way I see it

Got a message from someone and in the message they said it was a sex site.

can be confusing for some

Swingers site, sex site, who really gives a shit?

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

I think if we are all honest with ourselves and the one your chatting with and realising that you might meet someone but they will prob meet someone else in the future and swing.

It is all relative and these things do happen and if you go in knowing these things can and do happen then any similar would be easy to cope with

So in summary....its a swinging site so be aware that others will be chatting to/meeting with others!

Cheers for the heads up

So glad you said that its a swinging site

That's the way I see it

Got a message from someone and in the message they said it was a sex site.

can be confusing for some

Who is it confusing for?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if we are all honest with ourselves and the one your chatting with and realising that you might meet someone but they will prob meet someone else in the future and swing.

It is all relative and these things do happen and if you go in knowing these things can and do happen then any similar would be easy to cope with

So in summary....its a swinging site so be aware that others will be chatting to/meeting with others!

Cheers for the heads up

So glad you said that its a swinging site

That's the way I see it

Got a message from someone and in the message they said it was a sex site.

can be confusing for some

Who is it confusing for? "

Seeing as he's started a thread about it I'm gonna say the op

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

I think if we are all honest with ourselves and the one your chatting with and realising that you might meet someone but they will prob meet someone else in the future and swing.

It is all relative and these things do happen and if you go in knowing these things can and do happen then any similar would be easy to cope with

So in summary....its a swinging site so be aware that others will be chatting to/meeting with others!

Cheers for the heads up

So glad you said that its a swinging site

That's the way I see it

Got a message from someone and in the message they said it was a sex site.

can be confusing for some

Who is it confusing for?

Seeing as he's started a thread about it I'm gonna say the op "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think if we are all honest with ourselves and the one your chatting with and realising that you might meet someone but they will prob meet someone else in the future and swing.

It is all relative and these things do happen and if you go in knowing these things can and do happen then any similar would be easy to cope with

So in summary....its a swinging site so be aware that others will be chatting to/meeting with others!

Cheers for the heads up

So glad you said that its a swinging site

That's the way I see it

Got a message from someone and in the message they said it was a sex site.

can be confusing for some

Who is it confusing for?

Seeing as he's started a thread about it I'm gonna say the op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it depends on the situation ... its not so much the meeting someone else (i dont own anyone on here) its probably how its handled ... when the meet was/ whats been said before / after it that would piss me off

For example the woman further up where the guy had a meet the night before and then couldnt get hard ... that would piss me right off

Ive had a guy i was on the way to meet cancel to go meet someone else ... that pisses me right off

Its not a jealousy thing ... its a dont act like a fuckwit thing

Some people seem to think no strings attached means no respect required and i think that is BS

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ive had a guy i was on the way to meet cancel to go meet someone else ... that pisses me right off

Some people seem to think no strings attached means no respect required and i think that is BS"

That scenario alone ffs, what was the guy thinking. If that's his attitude its actually good that you never met

what an ass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive had a guy i was on the way to meet cancel to go meet someone else ... that pisses me right off

Some people seem to think no strings attached means no respect required and i think that is BS

That scenario alone ffs, what was the guy thinking. If that's his attitude its actually good that you never met

what an ass

Well i say cancel ... he chanced his arm that i would join him on the other meet first ... and was promptly told where to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ive had a guy i was on the way to meet cancel to go meet someone else ... that pisses me right off

Some people seem to think no strings attached means no respect required and i think that is BS

That scenario alone ffs, what was the guy thinking. If that's his attitude its actually good that you never met

what an ass

Well i say cancel ... he chanced his arm that i would join him on the other meet first ... and was promptly told where to go "

loll, he asked you as you were on the way sown that he was meeting someone else and wanted you to join

ffs, what a bigger ass

I know the saying "don't ask, you don't get" but ffs

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By *ringles0510Woman over a year ago

Central Borders

Only if they felt it necessary to first tell me how they're totally not into someone and she's so not his type, to then find a verification appear. Don't care they met, but why they felt the need to talk shite to me did annoy me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it depends on the situation ... its not so much the meeting someone else (i dont own anyone on here) its probably how its handled ... when the meet was/ whats been said before / after it that would piss me off

For example the woman further up where the guy had a meet the night before and then couldnt get hard ... that would piss me right off

Ive had a guy i was on the way to meet cancel to go meet someone else ... that pisses me right off

Its not a jealousy thing ... its a dont act like a fuckwit thing

Some people seem to think no strings attached means no respect required and i think that is BS"

What a fucktard!! But could you not have sussed him before getting to that stage?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a fucktard!! But could you not have sussed him before getting to that stage? "

I actually dont think behaviour like this is all that uncommon on here ... its like i said when people say no strings and decide they owe nothing to anyone it's often used as justification for just acting like a dick ... people get one chance with me and first sign they fint respect me they get cut off

But this wasnt meant to be a guy bashing thread ... just giving my opinion of when its ok to get pissed off when people meet others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a fucktard!! But could you not have sussed him before getting to that stage?

But this wasnt meant to be a guy bashing thread ... just giving my opinion of when its ok to get pissed off when people meet others "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But this wasnt meant to be a guy bashing thread ... just giving my opinion of when its ok to get pissed off when people meet others "

Isn't every thread on here a guy-bashing thread in the end?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Doesn't bother me but if see they've met a woman with 100+ verifications I'm out ha

Same, or if they've met certain people. Speaks volumes about standards.

Yeah but honestly have you been annoyed because someone you wanted to meet/been chatting too/or met has met someone else

Sometimes a post can take arms and legs and go off track but good to answer some of them but always say what your view of the actual original Op's post.

A standards post can be started at anytime as long as whatever we preach, do we actually do it. That's actually a good idea, think I'll start a post wit that title. "Do You Stick To Your Standards"

If that's directed at me?

Then no, people are entitled to meet who they want. That's how real life works as well.

Well I suppose its directed to everyone.

I like to try and answer any Ops original post and maybe elaborate on it if I can.

So your not annoyed or made comments to someone because they met someone else whom you have met or wanted to meet

Now you're going off the title of your own thread?? What's it to be? Make up your mind!!

The thread said does it annoy you?

No it never annoys me, why would it? It's a guide to standards. If I don't want to meet someone because they've met someone or some others then I will say that to them if they ask.

That's my right. That's life.

What's your agenda?

God sake stop thinking its personal or there's an agenda.

I was asking as I never seen an answer from you to the original post so if you say 'No' then I 100% believe you, there's no reason not too.

The same question to anyone on the post who hasn't answered, does it annoy them, bother them etc...

I answered in my original post where I agreed with a previous poster and adds to what she said.

You then waffled on in your unique long winded fashion about arms and legs etc.. and posts going off topic:

Then you asked me a different question re was I annoyed or had I ever made comments. That's wasn't your original post.

So you either missed my original point or you didn't get your original post intent/wording correct to start with.

Think about what you're saying man, if you side you could say it saving about 2/3 of the text that you do. "

I don't care if someone meets someone else before me or after me it's there choice they aren't tied to me or owe me any loyalties but as I said in my original comment if I see they have a verification from someone who has alot of verifications meet or social then I would steer clear. It's just my choice. Verifications on here confuse me. I mean they are only there to verify that someone is whom they say they are but people seem to have a need for a verification after every meet and it's like after the 25th one I get it your a great person and a great shag.... to be honest no one ever writes a bad verification just in case they wanna go back for seconds! Anyways off topic haha sorry....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But this wasnt meant to be a guy bashing thread ... just giving my opinion of when its ok to get pissed off when people meet others

Isn't every thread on here a guy-bashing thread in the end?"

A few are but let's face it, these guys do this because they meet women who let them, women who agree to shag them regardless!!

Then when some feel used and realise this get bitter.

This is in reference to no one on this thread, it's an observation in general!

The guys don't shag themselves??? many of the women coming on the forums bleeting about it are hypocrites because they fucked these guys on the first place or agreed to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But this wasnt meant to be a guy bashing thread ... just giving my opinion of when its ok to get pissed off when people meet others

Isn't every thread on here a guy-bashing thread in the end?

A few are but let's face it, these guys do this because they meet women who let them, women who agree to shag them regardless!!

Then when some feel used and realise this get bitter.

This is in reference to no one on this thread, it's an observation in general!

The guys don't shag themselves??? many of the women coming on the forums bleeting about it are hypocrites because they fucked these guys on the first place or agreed to. "

100% agree with you!

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By *ir laugh a lotMan over a year ago

glasgow

shit look what i am missing out on i need to meet a fem soon so she can get pissed off when i get a chance to meet another

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have heard of a few folk keeping their options open in case meets cancel and then get stuck trying to fit them in. I suppose that's the difference between the folk who genuinely want quality over quantity and are happy to say we'll if they don't turn up fuck it wasn't meant to be

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By *ringles0510Woman over a year ago

Central Borders

But this wasnt meant to be a guy bashing thread ... just giving my opinion of when its ok to get pissed off when people meet others

Isn't every thread on here a guy-bashing thread in the end?

A few are but let's face it, these guys do this because they meet women who let them, women who agree to shag them regardless!!

Then when some feel used and realise this get bitter.

This is in reference to no one on this thread, it's an observation in general!

The guys don't shag themselves??? many of the women coming on the forums bleeting about it are hypocrites because they fucked these guys on the first place or agreed to. "

Guy bashing doesn't need to actually involve a shag. Plenty other reasons

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

No never but been on the receiving end

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No never but been on the receiving end

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

Woman I was meeting lost the plot when I met someone else lol think she thought I was all hers n no one else could have me lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Woman I was meeting lost the plot when I met someone else lol think she thought I was all hers n no one else could have me lol "

Was that the missus?

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

Short answer. NO! Life's too short and by the time it now takes me to meet, they could have met 50 other people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How come you still on a couple then? New f?"

No not a new female, same one as we’re back together.

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"Woman I was meeting lost the plot when I met someone else lol think she thought I was all hers n no one else could have me lol

Was that the missus?

Haha you would think so but no lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In short..nope. No room for jealousy or drama its supposed to be fun. The only way I would get upset would be if I was stood up in favour of another meet. (thankfully this has never happened)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Woman I was meeting lost the plot when I met someone else lol think she thought I was all hers n no one else could have me lol

Was that the missus?

Haha you would think so but no lol

She just keeps you for shoe vouchers.

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

But this wasnt meant to be a guy bashing thread ... just giving my opinion of when its ok to get pissed off when people meet others

Isn't every thread on here a guy-bashing thread in the end?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In short..nope. No room for jealousy or drama its supposed to be fun. The only way I would get upset would be if I was stood up in favour of another meet. (thankfully this has never happened) "

Unfortunately jealousy and drama is a major aspect to this site regardless of the label that it's supposed to be simple,easy fun. It's human nature after all :/

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never get annoyed here... no point at being annoyed about what you cannot control...

And always try to treat people as you would wish to treated...

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Never get annoyed here... no point at being annoyed about what you cannot control...

And always try to treat people as you would wish to treated...

"
spot on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When your getting ready for a social meet and they cancel saying their working late to find out from a verification they actually went to a play meet ggggrrr it happened a few times and yes it annoyed me and I blocked them lol

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By *TBSMan over a year ago

close enough

Yes. Was meeting someone for 2 years spending whole weekends together etc and in the last month or so I got jealous of one or two of her meets.

But it was my issue not hers the guys were pretty much physically perfect so my PTSD manifested itself as jealousy.

Looking at who she has met since I realize that that is her preferred type and I'm ok with that.

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By *TBSMan over a year ago

close enough

That's my past PTSD....I'm fine now....duck...run for cover....wahooooo bananas!!!!

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By *ch WellMan over a year ago

Scotland

Wouldn't say I get annoyed but sometimes you do look at folk someone has met and wondered what the hell they saw in them compared to you

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By *pinCouple over a year ago

edinburgh

"Wouldn't say I get annoyed but sometimes you do look at folk someone has met and wondered what the hell they saw in them compared to you"

Haha yea, some folk that say we’re not their type and they’ve met some “interesting” people. Don’t get annoyed though just laugh more than anything.

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By *eiaorganaWoman over a year ago

Dundee

Doesn't bother me unless they're late to me because they've been meeting someone or rush away from me to meet someone else, both are just rude.

When I first met G he had a couple of meets with another lady who tried to put him off me and would put up statuses aimed at us after I'd had a meet with him. For some reason she doesn't like me although to my knowledge I've never spoken to or met her.

But he made up his own mind and now we're living together, so I guess I won that one lol

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