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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was in chat on Sat night and in came a guy that didn't mince his words ,basically when he looked at a cam the guy said it as he seen it.Loads got mega upset at this and eventually he got banned.So basically the point of this is would you rather folks looked at your cam and bummed you up to be this sex god/goddess just to try get a fuck at you? Or would you rather the truth be said and hear what loads of others are thinking? I know everyone sees each other in a diffrent light but surely each one of us has the right to say what we see rather than just bunm folks up .We accept people in the street with tourettes who say it as they think.what if this guy has tourettes and said it as he saw it ?   |
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its a fine line between telling it as it is and being nasty for nastys sake if mods decided to ban him/her then the person must have broken a rule also could have been an existing problem between these two people that admin know about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It wasn't. Just focussed on the one person everyone on cam got what he thought I was one of them,it wasn't nasty as I took it and he never named names |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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I've banned people for being rude to others on cam.
At the end of the day, if you don't like what you see on someone else's come then switch it off and move to another one.
I doubt this guy would have done himself any favours in regards to getting himself a meet if he was being rude about people he had never met/spoke to before. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In his eyes though he was being honest and telling the truth ,surely we have freedom of speech to be honest with ourselve and others rather than just keep our mouths shut. He was in no way nasty but some just didn't like his comments . If someone looks at us and says sorry not my type or she is to large or he's a munter then surely we should have thick enough skin to take it on the chin as well as the nice comments we get. Or is it just about self esteem ? |
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My thoughts are if someone is not being nice then why say anything at all?... they know nothing about the person they are speaking about for a start they could be someone with very little confidance and this could be a very big set beck for someone who is trying to build on this ...so id say brain in gear first and think of the persons feelings your speaking about were not all super confidant people around here .
They woud never walk up to someone in a bar and say it so why do they think they can in here ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get what your saying but would you rather people just looked at your cam and said nicce things which were totally laughable to others,I know I'd rather they said nothing if they were just going to say nice things for the sake of getting their leg over.
So we sit in chat and hear all the wow you look awesome blah blah blah but in our eyes they are ewwwwwwwww so we can't have an opinion or others saying eWwwwwww we think wow. Christmas for example is a big topic In chat an openly discussed though it may not be a subject that some may like as is football and its aloud no matter who its pissing off. So what's wrong with allowing some truth and honest opinion if its not nasty ?and why would you be swinging if you have no self esteem ?surely if you are a swinger you should be able to take a bit of honest criticism ?or is this site really just an ego booster for some ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get what your saying but would you rather people just looked at your cam and said nicce things which were totally laughable to others,I know I'd rather they said nothing if they were just going to say nice things for the sake of getting their leg over.
So we sit in chat and hear all the wow you look awesome blah blah blah but in our eyes they are ewwwwwwwww so we can't have an opinion or others saying eWwwwwww we think wow. Christmas for example is a big topic In chat an openly discussed though it may not be a subject that some may like as is football and its aloud no matter who its pissing off. So what's wrong with allowing some truth and honest opinion if its not nasty ?and why would you be swinging if you have no self esteem ?surely if you are a swinger you should be able to take a bit of honest criticism ?or is this site really just an ego booster for some ?"
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I get what your saying but would you rather people just looked at your cam and said nicce things which were totally laughable to others,I know I'd rather they said nothing if they were just going to say nice things for the sake of getting their leg over.
Thats exactly what ive said why cant they just say nothing ?....your saying others may think its laughable but as the saying goes beautiy is in the eye of the beholder or beerholder as the case may be lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is a tricky topic 
yes there are loads of folk that sit on cam for the wow your sexy and all the guff that goes with it,,,
but why would you openly make fun or slag someone off in public if you dont like them? as someone already said,,click off the cam?to me someone sayn rude things is to try and make themselves look funny or trying to be clever when clearly they aint,,if the person on cam asked the guy in question to meet and the guy didnt fancy them,,a simple no would have been enough.
how would the guy liked the room to be turned around on him and called a munter?
i agree if you cant say anything nice,,,say no thanks and click off their cam
some peeps in chat soooo need to get a grip!!
auds xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is a tricky topic
yes there are loads of folk that sit on cam for the wow your sexy and all the guff that goes with it,,,
but why would you openly make fun or slag someone off in public if you dont like them? as someone already said,,click off the cam?to me someone sayn rude things is to try and make themselves look funny or trying to be clever when clearly they aint,,if the person on cam asked the guy in question to meet and the guy didnt fancy them,,a simple no would have been enough.
how would the guy liked the room to be turned around on him and called a munter?
i agree if you cant say anything nice,,,say no thanks and click off their cam
some peeps in chat soooo need to get a grip!!
auds xx "
yep auds xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've banned people for being rude to others on cam.
At the end of the day, if you don't like what you see on someone else's come then switch it off and move to another one.
I doubt this guy would have done himself any favours in regards to getting himself a meet if he was being rude about people he had never met/spoke to before."
I Agree.....
Sometimes just moving on is the best policy,and as kola has said there can be a defined line wether whats rude or taken in a fun gesture.
Suppose ,if everyone started speaking thier mind,im not too sure there would be a happy enviroment in whatever room you choose to participate in.
And Lil ? Love yur arse Misses corrrr
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah I see this from 2 sides
I go into chat alot and yep it's 9 times out of 10 guys just looing at cams trying to get a shag!! To be fair looking at a cam with tits on on show and saying "oh my god you're gorgeous" is a bit tragic. Surely you need to see someones face!!
Also....If for instance I was to say to a guy na your not my type..You to big or to hairy or what a sad bastard you are sitting there wanking how many people would stop me On the flipside if a guy says it to a women he is chastised and banned. Us women and definatley more bitchy and hurtful but we do get away with alot more.
I am not all guys are nice with there chat alot are damm right rude and offensive. I have been called all sorts of crap on cam and I take it on the chin. A cpl called me a tranny one night...They got banned and pm'd me alot of crap saying I had got them banned etc!!. I actually thought it was funny...the measures some go to get attention is laughable at the best of times.
Good topic however and yes without being overly rude it is better to be honest in a tactful way or say nothing. xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes I enjoy fuds who can sit behind their computer screen commenting on things or people without a care for anything that they say.
its also like those who send mail saying things like, well I wouldnt wanna play with u...hen they havent even been asked lol...a pointless exercise but nahhhhhh they still say it(my friends ,female have had this from some guys)
S where does that sorta honesty get u?...absolutely nowhere, well unless the guy was getting off on the negative feedback..wanking himself off so much until the ban came...then he came.
basically to me its, shut up or fuck off,dont say anything unless its a warranted response to something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes I enjoy fuds who can sit behind their computer screen commenting on things or people without a care for anything that they say.
its also like those who send mail saying things like, well I wouldnt wanna play with u...hen they havent even been asked lol...a pointless exercise but nahhhhhh they still say it(my friends ,female have had this from some guys)
S where does that sorta honesty get u?...absolutely nowhere, well unless the guy was getting off on the negative feedback..wanking himself off so much until the ban came...then he came.
basically to me its, shut up or fuck off,dont say anything unless its a warranted response to something."
Ffs PaddyWhackaFanny am Impressed lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes I enjoy fuds who can sit behind their computer screen commenting on things or people without a care for anything that they say.
its also like those who send mail saying things like, well I wouldnt wanna play with u...hen they havent even been asked lol...a pointless exercise but nahhhhhh they still say it(my friends ,female have had this from some guys)
S where does that sorta honesty get u?...absolutely nowhere, well unless the guy was getting off on the negative feedback..wanking himself off so much until the ban came...then he came.
basically to me its, shut up or fuck off,dont say anything unless its a warranted response to something.
Ffs PaddyWhackaFanny am Impressed lol
Buboo "
bub you beat me too it lol
paddy,,that actually made good sense lol
auds xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes I enjoy fuds who can sit behind their computer screen commenting on things or people without a care for anything that they say.
its also like those who send mail saying things like, well I wouldnt wanna play with u...hen they havent even been asked lol...a pointless exercise but nahhhhhh they still say it(my friends ,female have had this from some guys)
S where does that sorta honesty get u?...absolutely nowhere, well unless the guy was getting off on the negative feedback..wanking himself off so much until the ban came...then he came.
basically to me its, shut up or fuck off,dont say anything unless its a warranted response to something.
Ffs PaddyWhackaFanny am Impressed lol
Buboo bub you beat me too it lol
paddy,,that actually made good sense lol
auds xx
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well thanks guys, thats just got me thinking buboo was so impressed he wanked himself, and auds got out her toy and buzzing away as we speak.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My view is that if you are not keen on the person who is on the cam be it looks or nature etc then its simple enough to move on.
I just think that there are people who will speak thier mind no matter.
As for saying a woman has a nice set of breasts that shes showing off on cam, well how many women want to here nice comments? The same for the men saying they are on the cam showing off their cocks and before anyone says anything,no I dont bloody well look lol.... but women do make comment on what they see.
Anyway rule of thumb try not to upset anyone, but its bloody hard at times not too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just asked my gran for her opinion on this. She said "If you don't have anything nice to say, say nothing". People who constantly speak their minds without considering the consequences often consider themselves to be great cos they "speak THE truth" when in fact they only speak THEIR truth, and are most likely an arse if the general truth be told |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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"I just asked my gran for her opinion on this. She said "If you don't have anything nice to say, say nothing". People who constantly speak their minds without considering the consequences often consider themselves to be great cos they "speak THE truth" when in fact they only speak THEIR truth, and are most likely an arse if the general truth be told"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never actually asked my gran. Just wanted to make it look like someone elses opinion cos the female half o the OP looks well fit and she might no wanna shag me if i disagree wi her. |
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By *e-subCouple
over a year ago
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different strokes for different folks, not everyone likes the same thing which is just aswell really or there be an awful lot of lonely folks out there. But see if you dont like what you see who gives you the right to sit there and criticise... maybe we old mabel isnt your thing but she will be for the right person and see if they want to sit there n say wow mabel you rock my world then let them ...it has hee haw to do with anyone else...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally agree with what you say i was in room when this guy started to mouth off regards the members usernames and that they didnt represent what they looked like the guy was way out of order and i took it upon myself to get a mod from one of other rooms to ban him,its a chat room for gods sake and should be enjoyable for all not a case of saying who is good looking and who is ugly,that guy must have something to hide as his cam wasnt on,must think he is brad pitt lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah I see this from 2 sides
I go into chat alot and yep it's 9 times out of 10 guys just looing at cams trying to get a shag!! To be fair looking at a cam with tits on on show and saying "oh my god you're gorgeous" is a bit tragic. Surely you need to see someones face!!
Also....If for instance I was to say to a guy na your not my type..You to big or to hairy or what a sad bastard you are sitting there wanking how many people would stop me On the flipside if a guy says it to a women he is chastised and banned. Us women and definatley more bitchy and hurtful but we do get away with alot more.
I am not all guys are nice with there chat alot are damm right rude and offensive. I have been called all sorts of crap on cam and I take it on the chin. A cpl called me a tranny one night...They got banned and pm'd me alot of crap saying I had got them banned etc!!. I actually thought it was funny...the measures some go to get attention is laughable at the best of times.
Good topic however and yes without being overly rude it is better to be honest in a tactful way or say nothing. xxxxx"
heeeheee well for any of you who have seen me go in chat you will know i dont mince my words when talking about guys on cam or rather the guys who are watching me with their cocks out, most likely though only the ones that are watching my cam can hear my rants
ooohhhhh ooooohhhh a sexy someone just logged into msn heeeheee this is one lad i know all the ladies will agree is hot donny !!!!!!!!!!! ttfn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a difference between telling the truth , and being downright rude.
Think if he ended up being banned his comments would have fallen into the latter...... the first line of the rules reminder that appears states " be respectfull to other room users" .... sure you'll find his comments where far from respectfull. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think going into a chatroom to, ok, be honest, say what you see may be someone just being honest, but it does smack of "waiting for an audience",and thats a bit off.
On the flipside, desperado's gushing endless compliments about a pair of jubblies like they've never seen a pair before is toe curling stuff too. |
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