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how murch have you been hurt or have you hurt someone i feel bad about someof mine
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"Been hurt and have hurt... but no point dwelling on it or feeling guilty... life goes on and is too short for what ifs.. Apologise and move on. "
Agree with this sometimes it takes a while to realise that though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you can apologise and try to make amends then do it. Otherwise, learn from how bad you're feeling just now and try not to do the same again.
...And don't be to hard on yourself. None of us are perfect x. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"If you can apologise and try to make amends then do it. Otherwise, learn from how bad you're feeling just now and try not to do the same again.
...And don't be to hard on yourself. None of us are perfect x."
Ahem!! I am  lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you can apologise and try to make amends then do it. Otherwise, learn from how bad you're feeling just now and try not to do the same again.
...And don't be to hard on yourself. None of us are perfect x.
Ahem!! I am lol x "
Well don't be! Unless you've got a stash of dead bodies buried under your patio you're no worse than any the rest of us. X |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"If you can apologise and try to make amends then do it. Otherwise, learn from how bad you're feeling just now and try not to do the same again.
...And don't be to hard on yourself. None of us are perfect x.
Ahem!! I am lol x
Well don't be! Unless you've got a stash of dead bodies buried under your patio you're no worse than any the rest of us. X"
There’s actually a funny story about my patio, now you come to mention it llol... nobody’s perfect, least not me!!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been hurt, very badly and it took a long time to recover but I got there and it just goes to show who the better person is. He'll never apologise and he's still feigning ignorance but that's why he's still an a*****e and why I can walk with my head held high with a smile on my face  x |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
OP if you feel bad why not make amends and apologise?
I’ve been hurt several times. Some on here and some in the real world. I’ve had three apologies which has surprised me but in a good way.
Life is too short to bear grudges. An apology does go a long way though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been hurt repeatedly by the same person but I have to share some of the blame. I allow him to do it.
I hurt my ex husband, apparently I ruined his life. I don't feel bad about that. He genuinely drove me to it by being an ass hole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've hurt thousands of people and thousands of people have hurt me, but you can't play rugby for 30 years without cracking a few heads   "
Oooooh Rugby men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've hurt thousands of people and thousands of people have hurt me, but you can't play rugby for 30 years without cracking a few heads
Oooooh Rugby men "
Yip, cauliflower ears, broken nose and big fat lip |
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By *lder59Man
over a year ago
Cumbernauld |
I have, to my shame , upset a few people by being rude as i didnt get my way. I tried apologising and even sought help to deal with my behaviour however despite apologising for my comments, not one person has replied to any of my apologies despite me revealing the lengths i have gone to to ensure there would not be a repeat. So much for forgiveness and second chances.
I realise that by posting this even more people will ignore my messages. It was very important to me to rectify my wrongs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've hurt thousands of people and thousands of people have hurt me, but you can't play rugby for 30 years without cracking a few heads
Oooooh Rugby men
Yip, cauliflower ears, broken nose and big fat lip "
You're doing well to get a burd with all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've hurt thousands of people and thousands of people have hurt me, but you can't play rugby for 30 years without cracking a few heads
Oooooh Rugby men
Yip, cauliflower ears, broken nose and big fat lip
You're doing well to get a burd with all that. "
I know, it must be my sparkling personality they like  |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"I've hurt thousands of people and thousands of people have hurt me, but you can't play rugby for 30 years without cracking a few heads
Oooooh Rugby men
Yip, cauliflower ears, broken nose and big fat lip "
PHWOAAAAR!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Omg ... because you say no .... cheeky barsteward in here says ... no your not my type right enough because i said no... then sends a message saying you are an old hag and look like jimmy saville .... pmsl ... does that mean im hurt ??? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't think of anyone I've hurt. If I have, they've never said.
As for the person who hurt me, may she burn in the fiery pits of hell for all eternity. |
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I Was the Same I hurted someone who i was absolutely crazy about from meeting on here. Stupid me never told her what she meant to me after a year. She asked me on so many times and I never responded to it which I never meant to do. Now she has blocked me and will not even speak to me. There are so many times i can apologise to her but its never good enough.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I Was the Same I hurted someone who i was absolutely crazy about from meeting on here. Stupid me never told her what she meant to me after a year. She asked me on so many times and I never responded to it which I never meant to do. Now she has blocked me and will not even speak to me. There are so many times i can apologise to her but its never good enough. "
Well you never know....she may see this post and think....."Thank Fuck I dodged that bullet!"
(....or she may have a change of heart....x) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im lucky i had someone commit suicide on me in my 20s and it messed me up and i ended up with someone who ended up on the verbal and emotional end of a very broken me and took me a time before i checked into hospital , took some years but her and i are friends now and i have forgivness , the only thing i really learned was that all you can do is learn from your mistakes and be better. |
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