FabSwingers.com > Forums > Scotland > Couples - Who Normally Initiates, Swinging Fun ?
Couples - Who Normally Initiates, Swinging Fun ?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Couples - Who Normally Initiates, Swinging Fun ?
It's just a curious one.
For example with normal life Obviously finding time if you have kids is hard but if your kids are looked after one evening, do you both decide to have swinging fun straight away whether pre arranged (like the week before) or spontaneous or would you say that your more likely intend to have a night just alone together.
In your realtionship, marriage etc is it you who initiates yiur swinging fun first, you or your partner or would you say both ?
  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's always Mr
I would do it a lot more than him so just leave it for when he fancies. Don't think there is ever a time I've said no
It's always spur of the moment so Mr says fancy an mmf and we have one that night x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"It's always Mr
I would do it a lot more than him so just leave it for when he fancies. Don't think there is ever a time I've said no
It's always spur of the moment so Mr says fancy an mmf and we have one that night x"
Kl I don't think it would be the same for every couple but it's good to get an idea of the dynamics on how and when fun is on the cards
Thanks.   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It’s mostly me (Mrs) who initiates the fun, I do all the talking & looking on fab, although Mr will always have a look at messages ect.
We tend to plan our meetings in advance, we have quite a busy life outside of fab so works best for us. If we do have a last minute free weekend, we would just play together, we like to get to know people before we arrange a meet & to much hassle trying to find someone last minute, we’ve found anyway
Mrs x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I'd say it's about equal when it comes to initiation. If we had a last minute kid free evening we'd spend it together as we plan our meets in advance "
I actually think, well thought, that this would be the regular. If you found out last minuite that your kids could be watched then most would spend time together. Obviously cpls with kids then this is most relevant. So I would think Couples young or no kids or kids moved out would possibly be likely to be more chance of both spontaneous and arranged.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
We don't get many proper free nights to play due to shifts and the kids so we are always last minute and it's mostly Mr that has a look to see if anybody is looking to meet.
Sometimes we can plan in advance and We spend lots of time together anyway and always get a few hours free for dinner and a drink once or twice a week so proper child free nights is usually swing first and us 2nd. Makes us sound real slutty |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We don't get many proper free nights to play due to shifts and the kids so we are always last minute and it's mostly Mr that has a look to see if anybody is looking to meet.
Sometimes we can plan in advance and We spend lots of time together anyway and always get a few hours free for dinner and a drink once or twice a week so proper child free nights is usually swing first and us 2nd. Makes us sound real slutty "
Nothing wrong with being a bit slutty at times. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"We don't get many proper free nights to play due to shifts and the kids so we are always last minute and it's mostly Mr that has a look to see if anybody is looking to meet.
Sometimes we can plan in advance and We spend lots of time together anyway and always get a few hours free for dinner and a drink once or twice a week so proper child free nights is usually swing first and us 2nd. Makes us sound real slutty "
Naw I don't see it that way that it makes you both sound slutty.
.
We are alll on here for the swinging lifestyle, well most of us, and normal life is priority so when it works out that your free and you want to swing I personally find this fine.
I say, Keep on swinging when you can
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Usually always me (mr) who starts the fun unless mrs is out on her own, would do it a lot more regular but shes happy with what weve got now, just every once in a while or holidays and weekends away |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *40ffCouple
over a year ago
Anstruther |
Our meets are always pre planned if its both of us the its day time kids r at school its always something wr talk about like do u wanna go out as a cpl next week or baby im talking 2 someone n im thinking of meeting when suits ect sounds quite formal when i write it out xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
