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"I have not read the message you have received but having read many threads and responses about various Kinks on the forum. If we take Kinks in general... Can I just say Chef in a non offensive way... that because you are struggling to comprehend something or where someone takes their pleasure from does not make their kink crap or them abnormal, etc... It is just not your thing... it might be theirs though. "There's kinky ams then there's just not normal. I'd say battering fuck out of someone falls into the latter | |||
"I have not read the message you have received but having read many threads and responses about various Kinks on the forum. If we take Kinks in general... Can I just say Chef in a non offensive way... that because you are struggling to comprehend something or where someone takes their pleasure from does not make their kink crap or them abnormal, etc... It is just not your thing... it might be theirs though.
There's kinky ams then there's just not normal.
I'd say battering fuck out of someone falls into the latter"I am not agreeing or disagreeing with you. I am saying that what 'you' considered battery may not be considered as battery to someone else. | |||
"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x "If he's up for an mmf can you point him in our direction please. That's a meet I'd thoroughly enjoy  | |||
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"It's not normal and was most likely from a guy" Don’t know who it was, clicked on the profile name and said I was blocked so just reported it via the actual message though I’m no prude that sort of thing is worrying  that is if it’s not just a fake profile trolling people lol | |||
"I have not read the message you have received but having read many threads and responses about various Kinks on the forum. If we take Kinks in general... Can I just say Chef in a non offensive way... that because you are struggling to comprehend something or where someone takes their pleasure from does not make their kink crap or them abnormal, etc... It is just not your thing... it might be theirs though. "I get what you mean and I’m all for live and let live, not judging, Just worrying | |||
"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x
If he's up for an mmf can you point him in our direction please. That's a meet I'd thoroughly enjoy "Don’t know who it was clicked the profile and blocked probably a troll, remind me not to open any messages from you guys if this kind of thing floats your boat haha no offence | |||
"I got asked "can i R.A.P.E you?" That’s wrong on so many levels, what’s wrong with a Hey how’s your day, great pictures
Some weirdos on the site | |||
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"Aye! There are some weirdos indeed... Dominants looking for their submissives to get used for one "Aah! Just teasing ya! Have a great day with nae more weird messages  | |||
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"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x "I wouldn't say I'm a hardened kinkster, but I've met a few girls that liked some,most or all of that crap (as you call it) as my biggest turn on is doing what turns the girl on, I was happy to oblige, the girl who liked all of that so called crap, loved being fucked doggy and have me punch her hard in the ribs, reason for this is it makes her orgasms orgasmic on a whole different level, so where in the real world I wouldn't dream of hitting a girl, giving her what she wanted to take her to those dizzy heights, I don't have a problem with it, each to their own as they say and if it's not your thing just leave it at that and not comment negatively on things you don't personally understand  | |||
"Aye! There are some weirdos indeed... Dominants looking for their submissives to get used for one
Aah! Just teasing ya!
Have a great day with nae more weird messages " cheers and to you | |||
"The ones asking if they can watch you on the toilet. Or The ones where you are offered their wife's panties to wank into and return. Or The one where you are asked to fill a syringe with cum for them to use as lube " Can’t say I’ve had that thankfully | |||
"I have not read the message you have received but having read many threads and responses about various Kinks on the forum. If we take Kinks in general... Can I just say Chef in a non offensive way... that because you are struggling to comprehend something or where someone takes their pleasure from does not make their kink crap or them abnormal, etc... It is just not your thing... it might be theirs though. "Exactly! Normal is subjective. I've heard some kinks that were very unusual to me but unless it causes harm then each to their own. The thrill of having someone else in control is great, however, giving yourself up to inexperienced people to be abused with no limits is dangerous. No kink shaming but always SSC. | |||
"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x
I wouldn't say I'm a hardened kinkster, but I've met a few girls that liked some,most or all of that crap (as you call it) as my biggest turn on is doing what turns the girl on, I was happy to oblige, the girl who liked all of that so called crap, loved being fucked doggy and have me punch her hard in the ribs, reason for this is it makes her orgasms orgasmic on a whole different level, so where in the real world I wouldn't dream of hitting a girl, giving her what she wanted to take her to those dizzy heights, I don't have a problem with it, each to their own as they say and if it's not your thing just leave it at that and not comment negatively on things you don't personally understand "Not commenting negatively at all, now what you’re talking about is doing things out of your comfort zone that the girl likes which I would do and have done myself but all within reasonable restraint and logic, but I seriously doubt you kicked the shit out that girl to increase her orgasm level, as what was originally posted, I get that pretend tamed violence can turn people on but no holds barred unrestrained violence for kicks is in my opinion beyond madness! You’re a braver man than me though if you can do those things, just hope you have restraint on satisfying requests of violence, next it will be going to cut me with this here blade or grate my skin off with a cheese grater to give a girl her heightened orgasm as you suggested. Apologies if I come across as a dickhead in response to your comment I don’t mean to do so, I’m the least judgemental person and all for letting people be, but their must be limits to this kind of thing before it becomes borderline both parties need sectioned. No harm or offence intended | |||
"I have not read the message you have received but having read many threads and responses about various Kinks on the forum. If we take Kinks in general... Can I just say Chef in a non offensive way... that because you are struggling to comprehend something or where someone takes their pleasure from does not make their kink crap or them abnormal, etc... It is just not your thing... it might be theirs though.
Exactly!
Normal is subjective.
I've heard some kinks that were very unusual to me but unless it causes harm then each to their own.
The thrill of having someone else in control is great, however, giving yourself up to inexperienced people to be abused with no limits is dangerous.
No kink shaming but always SSC. "Couldn’t agree more, limits and logical restraint should be there. Different kinks may not appeal to me but I wouldn’t frown upon any of them unless unrestrained at a level I was suggesting.  | |||
"I have not read the message you have received but having read many threads and responses about various Kinks on the forum. If we take Kinks in general... Can I just say Chef in a non offensive way... that because you are struggling to comprehend something or where someone takes their pleasure from does not make their kink crap or them abnormal, etc... It is just not your thing... it might be theirs though.
Exactly!
Normal is subjective.
I've heard some kinks that were very unusual to me but unless it causes harm then each to their own.
The thrill of having someone else in control is great, however, giving yourself up to inexperienced people to be abused with no limits is dangerous.
No kink shaming but always SSC.
Couldn’t agree more, limits and logical restraint should be there.
Different kinks may not appeal to me but I wouldn’t frown upon any of them unless unrestrained at a level I was suggesting.
"Have to say I'd agree with your concern especially if someone is asking for such high levels if impact play but not going to experienced Doms for it. They could end up in danger or permanently damaged.  | |||
"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x
I wouldn't say I'm a hardened kinkster, but I've met a few girls that liked some,most or all of that crap (as you call it) as my biggest turn on is doing what turns the girl on, I was happy to oblige, the girl who liked all of that so called crap, loved being fucked doggy and have me punch her hard in the ribs, reason for this is it makes her orgasms orgasmic on a whole different level, so where in the real world I wouldn't dream of hitting a girl, giving her what she wanted to take her to those dizzy heights, I don't have a problem with it, each to their own as they say and if it's not your thing just leave it at that and not comment negatively on things you don't personally understand
Not commenting negatively at all, now what you’re talking about is doing things out of your comfort zone that the girl likes which I would do and have done myself but all within reasonable restraint and logic, but I seriously doubt you kicked the shit out that girl to increase her orgasm level, as what was originally posted, I get that pretend tamed violence can turn people on but no holds barred unrestrained violence for kicks is in my opinion beyond madness!
You’re a braver man than me though if you can do those things, just hope you have restraint on satisfying requests of violence, next it will be going to cut me with this here blade or grate my skin off with a cheese grater to give a girl her heightened orgasm as you suggested.
Apologies if I come across as a dickhead in response to your comment I don’t mean to do so, I’m the least judgemental person and all for letting people be, but their must be limits to this kind of thing before it becomes borderline both parties need sectioned.
No harm or offence intended
"2 points I would like to make from your last two paragraphs. I know people who are into using blades ‘it is their thing’, they are adults, know what they are doing, love it and it is a consensual. Not your thing, not my thing but again, theirs... ‘There should be limits to that kind of thing’... what thing? Kinks you don’t understand? and who’s gonna set those limits?! You gonna limit my kinks? Tell me how to push my mind and my body? Limits are personal... an individual has the right to set his/her limits. The same way you are using your limits by not going into that stuff. The beauty of being individual and having our own mind! | |||
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"Plus I'll add to that ...id also worry about anyone who was willing to do it to someone "It's all about context and consent | |||
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"Plus I'll add to that ...id also worry about anyone who was willing to do it to someone
It's all about context and consent "Punching lumps out of someone is completely out of context where sex is concerned And anyone who consents to that ( either giving or receiving) should probably ask themselves why | |||
"Plus I'll add to that ...id also worry about anyone who was willing to do it to someone
It's all about context and consent "I still don't get it ...and hopefully never will I do get the kink scenarios and everyone likes different things but to me major physical violence is not a kink it's psychotic and those willing to inflict never mind those on the receiving end seriously need looked at ....I'll end it there as my mind will never be changed on the subject ..just giving my opinion | |||
"Plus I'll add to that ...id also worry about anyone who was willing to do it to someone
It's all about context and consent
I still don't get it ...and hopefully never will I do get the kink scenarios and everyone likes different things but to me major physical violence is not a kink it's psychotic and those willing to inflict never mind those on the receiving end seriously need looked at ....I'll end it there as my mind will never be changed on the subject ..just giving my opinion "For me personally i prefer sensuality and warmth in my plays but i have caned and raised welts before because the sub loved it so much and they had been good so a reward was warranted. The endorphin high that comes along with such acts can be addictive in the same way as people get hooked on exercise and adrenaline fueled/dangerous sports. I would never jump out of a plane with a wingsuit (did do parachute once tho) but I can understand why people do. | |||
"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x
I wouldn't say I'm a hardened kinkster, but I've met a few girls that liked some,most or all of that crap (as you call it) as my biggest turn on is doing what turns the girl on, I was happy to oblige, the girl who liked all of that so called crap, loved being fucked doggy and have me punch her hard in the ribs, reason for this is it makes her orgasms orgasmic on a whole different level, so where in the real world I wouldn't dream of hitting a girl, giving her what she wanted to take her to those dizzy heights, I don't have a problem with it, each to their own as they say and if it's not your thing just leave it at that and not comment negatively on things you don't personally understand
Not commenting negatively at all, now what you’re talking about is doing things out of your comfort zone that the girl likes which I would do and have done myself but all within reasonable restraint and logic, but I seriously doubt you kicked the shit out that girl to increase her orgasm level, as what was originally posted, I get that pretend tamed violence can turn people on but no holds barred unrestrained violence for kicks is in my opinion beyond madness!
You’re a braver man than me though if you can do those things, just hope you have restraint on satisfying requests of violence, next it will be going to cut me with this here blade or grate my skin off with a cheese grater to give a girl her heightened orgasm as you suggested.
Apologies if I come across as a dickhead in response to your comment I don’t mean to do so, I’m the least judgemental person and all for letting people be, but their must be limits to this kind of thing before it becomes borderline both parties need sectioned.
No harm or offence intended
"None taken, could I go to real extremes with sexual violence, probably not, is what I was doing extreme, yes in my eyes it was but wouldn't be in another's, some guys would probably call me a pussy for only choking, slapping, punching in the ribs etc! Some of the stuff in your reply is probably more serial killer than kink which I'm totally against btw  but a girl wanting totally battered (without having to go to A&E) and a guy getting a kick out of doing it, should be left to enjoy themselves | |||
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"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x
I wouldn't say I'm a hardened kinkster, but I've met a few girls that liked some,most or all of that crap (as you call it) as my biggest turn on is doing what turns the girl on, I was happy to oblige, the girl who liked all of that so called crap, loved being fucked doggy and have me punch her hard in the ribs, reason for this is it makes her orgasms orgasmic on a whole different level, so where in the real world I wouldn't dream of hitting a girl, giving her what she wanted to take her to those dizzy heights, I don't have a problem with it, each to their own as they say and if it's not your thing just leave it at that and not comment negatively on things you don't personally understand
Not commenting negatively at all, now what you’re talking about is doing things out of your comfort zone that the girl likes which I would do and have done myself but all within reasonable restraint and logic, but I seriously doubt you kicked the shit out that girl to increase her orgasm level, as what was originally posted, I get that pretend tamed violence can turn people on but no holds barred unrestrained violence for kicks is in my opinion beyond madness!
You’re a braver man than me though if you can do those things, just hope you have restraint on satisfying requests of violence, next it will be going to cut me with this here blade or grate my skin off with a cheese grater to give a girl her heightened orgasm as you suggested.
Apologies if I come across as a dickhead in response to your comment I don’t mean to do so, I’m the least judgemental person and all for letting people be, but their must be limits to this kind of thing before it becomes borderline both parties need sectioned.
No harm or offence intended
None taken, could I go to real extremes with sexual violence, probably not, is what I was doing extreme, yes in my eyes it was but wouldn't be in another's, some guys would probably call me a pussy for only choking, slapping, punching in the ribs etc! Some of the stuff in your reply is probably more serial killer than kink which I'm totally against btw but a girl wanting totally battered (without having to go to A&E) and a guy getting a kick out of doing it, should be left to enjoy themselves "Wow I am soo not agreeing with that ...so as long as the girl doesn't need a&e it's ok ..sorry but if you get a kick out of beating a fem up to that point then it's the jail you need not left alone to enjoy it | |||
"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x
I wouldn't say I'm a hardened kinkster, but I've met a few girls that liked some,most or all of that crap (as you call it) as my biggest turn on is doing what turns the girl on, I was happy to oblige, the girl who liked all of that so called crap, loved being fucked doggy and have me punch her hard in the ribs, reason for this is it makes her orgasms orgasmic on a whole different level, so where in the real world I wouldn't dream of hitting a girl, giving her what she wanted to take her to those dizzy heights, I don't have a problem with it, each to their own as they say and if it's not your thing just leave it at that and not comment negatively on things you don't personally understand
Not commenting negatively at all, now what you’re talking about is doing things out of your comfort zone that the girl likes which I would do and have done myself but all within reasonable restraint and logic, but I seriously doubt you kicked the shit out that girl to increase her orgasm level, as what was originally posted, I get that pretend tamed violence can turn people on but no holds barred unrestrained violence for kicks is in my opinion beyond madness!
You’re a braver man than me though if you can do those things, just hope you have restraint on satisfying requests of violence, next it will be going to cut me with this here blade or grate my skin off with a cheese grater to give a girl her heightened orgasm as you suggested.
Apologies if I come across as a dickhead in response to your comment I don’t mean to do so, I’m the least judgemental person and all for letting people be, but their must be limits to this kind of thing before it becomes borderline both parties need sectioned.
No harm or offence intended
None taken, could I go to real extremes with sexual violence, probably not, is what I was doing extreme, yes in my eyes it was but wouldn't be in another's, some guys would probably call me a pussy for only choking, slapping, punching in the ribs etc! Some of the stuff in your reply is probably more serial killer than kink which I'm totally against btw but a girl wanting totally battered (without having to go to A&E) and a guy getting a kick out of doing it, should be left to enjoy themselves
Wow I am soo not agreeing with that ...so as long as the girl doesn't need a&e it's ok ..sorry but if you get a kick out of beating a fem up to that point then it's the jail you need not left alone to enjoy it "I see where you're coming from _unkie, but you're reading it wrong or I'm maybe not explaining it write, some girls like sexual violence, that's their prerogative, I've never hit a girl in my life (in the real world) I have indulged in a wee bit of sexual violence to the limits of the girls, I agree with you of they want to end up in a&e after it there has to be mental issues, but not if it's controlled | |||
"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x
I wouldn't say I'm a hardened kinkster, but I've met a few girls that liked some,most or all of that crap (as you call it) as my biggest turn on is doing what turns the girl on, I was happy to oblige, the girl who liked all of that so called crap, loved being fucked doggy and have me punch her hard in the ribs, reason for this is it makes her orgasms orgasmic on a whole different level, so where in the real world I wouldn't dream of hitting a girl, giving her what she wanted to take her to those dizzy heights, I don't have a problem with it, each to their own as they say and if it's not your thing just leave it at that and not comment negatively on things you don't personally understand
Not commenting negatively at all, now what you’re talking about is doing things out of your comfort zone that the girl likes which I would do and have done myself but all within reasonable restraint and logic, but I seriously doubt you kicked the shit out that girl to increase her orgasm level, as what was originally posted, I get that pretend tamed violence can turn people on but no holds barred unrestrained violence for kicks is in my opinion beyond madness!
You’re a braver man than me though if you can do those things, just hope you have restraint on satisfying requests of violence, next it will be going to cut me with this here blade or grate my skin off with a cheese grater to give a girl her heightened orgasm as you suggested.
Apologies if I come across as a dickhead in response to your comment I don’t mean to do so, I’m the least judgemental person and all for letting people be, but their must be limits to this kind of thing before it becomes borderline both parties need sectioned.
No harm or offence intended
None taken, could I go to real extremes with sexual violence, probably not, is what I was doing extreme, yes in my eyes it was but wouldn't be in another's, some guys would probably call me a pussy for only choking, slapping, punching in the ribs etc! Some of the stuff in your reply is probably more serial killer than kink which I'm totally against btw but a girl wanting totally battered (without having to go to A&E) and a guy getting a kick out of doing it, should be left to enjoy themselves
Wow I am soo not agreeing with that ...so as long as the girl doesn't need a&e it's ok ..sorry but if you get a kick out of beating a fem up to that point then it's the jail you need not left alone to enjoy it
I see where you're coming from _unkie, but you're reading it wrong or I'm maybe not explaining it write, some girls like sexual violence, that's their prerogative, I've never hit a girl in my life (in the real world) I have indulged in a wee bit of sexual violence to the limits of the girls, I agree with you of they want to end up in a&e after it there has to be mental issues, but not if it's controlled "I'm sorry but there is no such thing as controlled violence ..certainly not in the context of this thread ... | |||
"What’s the worst message everyone’s had on the wonderfully weird world of fab? Whether strange, cryptic or downright disturbing? I just had a recent one which to be honest has me worrying for their safety even if I don’t know them, empathy is a strong feeling that way. So the offer went along the lines of was I up for giving a blindfolded beating With no holding back, full forced punches to the ribs, face and body then forcefully ch*ke them and throat fuck them and _pin them round and abuse their holes, eh thanks but I think I shall pass on that offer! I’ve heard some sordid shit in my days but for me this takes the biscuit, I’m struggling to comprehend what pleasure they would get and worry they will pass a point where some serious damage will happen to them, or the participant dishing that out ends up in a lot of trouble, deservedly so! Hoping this kind of thing is just an anomaly on here and never receive anything like that again but intrigued to know what sort of crap you guys get sent? Surely this is beyond normal Chef x
I wouldn't say I'm a hardened kinkster, but I've met a few girls that liked some,most or all of that crap (as you call it) as my biggest turn on is doing what turns the girl on, I was happy to oblige, the girl who liked all of that so called crap, loved being fucked doggy and have me punch her hard in the ribs, reason for this is it makes her orgasms orgasmic on a whole different level, so where in the real world I wouldn't dream of hitting a girl, giving her what she wanted to take her to those dizzy heights, I don't have a problem with it, each to their own as they say and if it's not your thing just leave it at that and not comment negatively on things you don't personally understand
Not commenting negatively at all, now what you’re talking about is doing things out of your comfort zone that the girl likes which I would do and have done myself but all within reasonable restraint and logic, but I seriously doubt you kicked the shit out that girl to increase her orgasm level, as what was originally posted, I get that pretend tamed violence can turn people on but no holds barred unrestrained violence for kicks is in my opinion beyond madness!
You’re a braver man than me though if you can do those things, just hope you have restraint on satisfying requests of violence, next it will be going to cut me with this here blade or grate my skin off with a cheese grater to give a girl her heightened orgasm as you suggested.
Apologies if I come across as a dickhead in response to your comment I don’t mean to do so, I’m the least judgemental person and all for letting people be, but their must be limits to this kind of thing before it becomes borderline both parties need sectioned.
No harm or offence intended
None taken, could I go to real extremes with sexual violence, probably not, is what I was doing extreme, yes in my eyes it was but wouldn't be in another's, some guys would probably call me a pussy for only choking, slapping, punching in the ribs etc! Some of the stuff in your reply is probably more serial killer than kink which I'm totally against btw but a girl wanting totally battered (without having to go to A&E) and a guy getting a kick out of doing it, should be left to enjoy themselves
Wow I am soo not agreeing with that ...so as long as the girl doesn't need a&e it's ok ..sorry but if you get a kick out of beating a fem up to that point then it's the jail you need not left alone to enjoy it
I see where you're coming from _unkie, but you're reading it wrong or I'm maybe not explaining it write, some girls like sexual violence, that's their prerogative, I've never hit a girl in my life (in the real world) I have indulged in a wee bit of sexual violence to the limits of the girls, I agree with you of they want to end up in a&e after it there has to be mental issues, but not if it's controlled
I'm sorry but there is no such thing as controlled violence ..certainly not in the context of this thread ... "Sorry _unkie but there is, maybe my experiences aren't in relation to this thread!! Have you ever had sex with a girl and pulled her hair or slapped her ass, both violent in a way but both controlled, just as an example | |||
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"Beating a girl to the point of almost needing hospital treatment is very different from a spank on the ass or a bit of hair pulling ...to put them both in same context is ludicrous anyway I've said my opinion I'll leave it there ..could care less if people think my opinion is wrong "Now you sound like the op, nawty Max will be having a word with you | |||
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"One mans kink is another man or woman's vanilla...or some such shit I have watersports as one of my interests and its one I get lots of weird messages about!! I get that its not for everybody but it certainly seems to get their attention and some of the suggestions!!!....." I'd say that one is unlikely to need anyone involved in it in need of medical treatment though | |||
"Beating a girl to the point of almost needing hospital treatment is very different from a spank on the ass or a bit of hair pulling ...to put them both in same context is ludicrous anyway I've said my opinion I'll leave it there ..could care less if people think my opinion is wrong "I'm with you _unkie This kind of treatment cannot be classed as a mere kink. And way too many folk condoning it is really scary to me. | |||
"One mans kink is another man or woman's vanilla...or some such shit I have watersports as one of my interests and its one I get lots of weird messages about!! I get that its not for everybody but it certainly seems to get their attention and some of the suggestions!!!..... I'd say that one is unlikely to need anyone involved in it in need of medical treatment though" You don't know where they are suggesting I pee!!!! | |||
"One mans kink is another man or woman's vanilla...or some such shit I have watersports as one of my interests and its one I get lots of weird messages about!! I get that its not for everybody but it certainly seems to get their attention and some of the suggestions!!!..... I'd say that one is unlikely to need anyone involved in it in need of medical treatment though You don't know where they are suggesting I pee!!!! " | |||
"Beating a girl to the point of almost needing hospital treatment is very different from a spank on the ass or a bit of hair pulling ...to put them both in same context is ludicrous anyway I've said my opinion I'll leave it there ..could care less if people think my opinion is wrong I'm with you _unkie
This kind of treatment cannot be classed as a mere kink.
And way too many folk condoning it is really scary to me. "I’ve practiced jujitsu for years and K loves rough play/kinks but never punched. Just certain strikes and holds more about a little pain and restriction. Maybe the person wants physical harm but I wouldn’t but it as a kink as it goes beyond the sex experience. | |||
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"There are all sorts of things out there which some people like, others recoil from and more find abhorrent. However, IF someone trusts their play partner/DOM/DOMME to the point that it’s something they want to try, I would never call them out on anything even if it was way too extreme for me. As has been said higher up, each to their own. But I have to say I don’t agree with a message out of the blue to some random person asking them to do anything extreme. It’s ALWAYS something that requires immense trust between 2 people, not a random message to a stranger "This is the key point in reply to the OP. Regardless of your "acceptable" level of violence, it should never be something done without absolute trust between partners and it is impossible to achieve that from a first/random message. How could it? And if that was enough to peak your interest then there is something very disturbing at work. That aside, as to water sports, how the hell are you meant to shag while water skiing? | |||
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"There are all sorts of things out there which some people like, others recoil from and more find abhorrent. However, IF someone trusts their play partner/DOM/DOMME to the point that it’s something they want to try, I would never call them out on anything even if it was way too extreme for me. As has been said higher up, each to their own. But I have to say I don’t agree with a message out of the blue to some random person asking them to do anything extreme. It’s ALWAYS something that requires immense trust between 2 people, not a random message to a stranger "Agreed. That's why I said that we have not read the message. The OP describes himself as a 'Dominant' in his profile and the owner of a sub. So, the person in the message could have wanted to gauge his Dominant tendencies. | |||
"There are all sorts of things out there which some people like, others recoil from and more find abhorrent. However, IF someone trusts their play partner/DOM/DOMME to the point that it’s something they want to try, I would never call them out on anything even if it was way too extreme for me. As has been said higher up, each to their own. But I have to say I don’t agree with a message out of the blue to some random person asking them to do anything extreme. It’s ALWAYS something that requires immense trust between 2 people, not a random message to a stranger
This is the key point in reply to the OP. Regardless of your "acceptable" level of violence, it should never be something done without absolute trust between partners and it is impossible to achieve that from a first/random message. How could it? And if that was enough to peak your interest then there is something very disturbing at work.
That aside, as to water sports, how the hell are you meant to shag while water skiing? "One of the thing I am very careful of/with on here is... clarity when it comes to meaning/definitions. That I am in a sub or Dominant mode... for me, violence has no place. For me, violence is to cause harm, damage or even kill. Violence involves an aggressive behaviour. And Dominants are not aggressive at all or violent with a sub. One may be allowed to cane me for instance but I assure you that the level of aggressivity and violence will be Zero. Hope this makes sense | |||
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"Interesting thread OP "Yeah looks like I started a slight debate, wise words from yourself too Nawty Max I mysef could never use any form of real aggression in a sexual way and although primarily dominant Is my preference I do enjoy the odd vanilla and sub moment
The thread does make for some interesting reading.
Cheers to everyone’s input on the thread
Chef x
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