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over a year ago
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Heyy we have been thinking about popping along to Cjs one night soon .. looking for some advice as we are totally new to this and a wee bitty nervous lol thanks ?? xx D&L |
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over a year ago
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"Heyy we have been thinking about popping along to Cjs one night soon .. looking for some advice as we are totally new to this and a wee bitty nervous lol thanks ?? xx D&L"
I've never been either, doubt I ever will to be honest and the complete lack of response to nice, polite question is one of the reasons.
Seems very cliquey imo and newcomers seem to be treated with suspicion.
Maybe they just don't want others to join in order to keep it high end and exclusive. I'm not sure.
Good luck in your quest |
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Honestly don’t be nervous it’s a great place , downstairs is totally social and there’s upstairs if you want some fun
We are going next Saturday, first time in ages
Everyone is lovely and cj and the rest of the crew will make sure your ok. Feel free to pm us if you want
Bitz xx |
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"Heyy we have been thinking about popping along to Cjs one night soon .. looking for some advice as we are totally new to this and a wee bitty nervous lol thanks ?? xx D&L
I've never been either, doubt I ever will to be honest and the complete lack of response to nice, polite question is one of the reasons.
Seems very cliquey imo and newcomers seem to be treated with suspicion.
Maybe they just don't want others to join in order to keep it high end and exclusive. I'm not sure.
Good luck in your quest"
Sorry but that is nonsense
Obviously there are regular folk that go and know each other but I rarely manage to get there and have never felt like there’s a clique or unwanted
Maybe best to try yourself instead of guesswork
Bitz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone will make you very welcome and relaxed. Go and make up your own minds about it OP. I always have a great night there and I'm sure you will too  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone will make you very welcome and relaxed. Go and make up your own minds about it OP. I always have a great night there and I'm sure you will too x"
Thanks lovely, its def something we are thinking about xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone will make you very welcome and relaxed. Go and make up your own minds about it OP. I always have a great night there and I'm sure you will too x
Thanks lovely, its def something we are thinking about xx"
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"Heyy we have been thinking about popping along to Cjs one night soon .. looking for some advice as we are totally new to this and a wee bitty nervous lol thanks ?? xx D&L
I've never been either, doubt I ever will to be honest and the complete lack of response to nice, polite question is one of the reasons.
Seems very cliquey imo and newcomers seem to be treated with suspicion.
Maybe they just don't want others to join in order to keep it high end and exclusive. I'm not sure.
Good luck in your quest
Sorry but that is nonsense
Obviously there are regular folk that go and know each other but I rarely manage to get there and have never felt like there’s a clique or unwanted
Maybe best to try yourself instead of guesswork
Bitz "
I’ve only been a couple of times and been made very welcome each time, May have helped that I was a forum regular before attending, but lots of people introduced themselves to me and welcomed me into their discussions, definitely recommend trying it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definetly welcoming friendly f knows what that guy is talking about with questions lol"
Lol thanks for the reply .. We just wanted to get a better feel for it before we try lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was our second visit to cjs last night cpls and fems night very enjoyable night and felt welcome and relaxed and chatted to a few lovely cpls and ladies . You will enjoy so go for it xxx Sam/ Mark |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Heyy we have been thinking about popping along to Cjs one night soon .. looking for some advice as we are totally new to this and a wee bitty nervous lol thanks ?? xx D&L
I've never been either, doubt I ever will to be honest and the complete lack of response to nice, polite question is one of the reasons.
Seems very cliquey imo and newcomers seem to be treated with suspicion.
Maybe they just don't want others to join in order to keep it high end and exclusive. I'm not sure.
Good luck in your quest
Sorry but that is nonsense
Obviously there are regular folk that go and know each other but I rarely manage to get there and have never felt like there’s a clique or unwanted
Maybe best to try yourself instead of guesswork
Bitz "
Fair comment.
I've unfairly based my opinion on how some of the forums tend to be which is daft. |
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We’ve been to CJs only twice, and we were incredibly nervous about it. However, the staff were amazingly welcoming & friendly, while the atmosphere inside was very easy going. Friendly people, no pressure, and didn’t feel too cliquey. We stuck mostly to ourselves the first time, but that was out of our own nerves than any bad vibes. Had a blast in the voyeur room and the couples room.
The second time was for GG, and while we did have a good night, we can now probably say for sure we’ll stick to the fun for all parties and couples/single ladies nights. 
Bottom line, from one set of newbs to another, take the plunge and go! You won’t regret it! You’re already being smarter than us since we only heard about Fab while we were IN the club. Haha. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We’ve been to CJs only twice, and we were incredibly nervous about it. However, the staff were amazingly welcoming & friendly, while the atmosphere inside was very easy going. Friendly people, no pressure, and didn’t feel too cliquey. We stuck mostly to ourselves the first time, but that was out of our own nerves than any bad vibes. Had a blast in the voyeur room and the couples room.
The second time was for GG, and while we did have a good night, we can now probably say for sure we’ll stick to the fun for all parties and couples/single ladies nights.
Bottom line, from one set of newbs to another, take the plunge and go! You won’t regret it! You’re already being smarter than us since we only heard about Fab while we where IN the club. Haha. "
Thanks so much for your reply lol .. def going to be liking at a night there xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"co is good fun way I'd describe it is like a big house party
very relaxed and welcoming everyone is really nice
kirsty xxx"
Awe thanks love, heard a few bad stories but have had a good few messages about it now. thanks for ur reply xxxx |
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By *ikkevCouple
over a year ago
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"You guys will enjoy it .I would say it's like a big noals house party for adults "
see I'm not the only one that thinks that lol
oh right what bad stories you heard
ive actually never heard any and if I'm honest a nights what you make it
there is no pressure to do anything and if you prefer to go and just socialize that's fine aswell it's got something for everyone xx |
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"You guys will enjoy it .I would say it's like a big noals house party for adults
see I'm not the only one that thinks that lol
oh right what bad stories you heard
ive actually never heard any and if I'm honest a nights what you make it
there is no pressure to do anything and if you prefer to go and just socialize that's fine aswell it's got something for everyone xx"
Its been good to get an overall view .. definitely going to be going along tho .. cant knock it till we try it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Heyy we have been thinking about popping along to Cjs one night soon .. looking for some advice as we are totally new to this and a wee bitty nervous lol thanks ?? xx D&L"
We've never been either , we're under the impression you had to be invited which we were a while ago then the cpl made a lame excuse and went alone
We are dying to attend a club but like you guys the nerves and the clique rumours are stopping us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Heyy we have been thinking about popping along to Cjs one night soon .. looking for some advice as we are totally new to this and a wee bitty nervous lol thanks ?? xx D&L
We've never been either , we're under the impression you had to be invited which we were a while ago then the cpl made a lame excuse and went alone
We are dying to attend a club but like you guys the nerves and the clique rumours are stopping us "
No invite needed. Just message CJ and ask to come along. Get yourself along on Saturday night. |
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I've never been either, doubt I ever will to be honest and the complete lack of response to nice, polite question is one of the reasons.
Seems very cliquey imo and newcomers seem to be treated with suspicion.
Maybe they just don't want others to join in order to keep it high end and exclusive. I'm not sure.
Good luck in your quest"
Definitely not our experience thankfully.
We have been twice and can't wait to get a chance to get down again.
Nothing to worry about, treat it like any other nightclub, except the people there all know what you are after there's no hidden agendas |
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We go along most weekends.
For the people saying about cliques, I’d say there’s a lot of regulars who know one another but that doesn’t stop them from talking to new folk.
From my experience the cliques tend to be found in the socials especially from some of the organisers as they only arrange them to make themselves feel popular. Cjs is a business so excluding people or not making them feel welcome doesn’t make sense
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