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Perth social for gen couples and single females
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By *omcoupl3 OP Couple
over a year ago
tayside |
In past we have had
It was found to be off putting to genuine couples who are looking to meet other genuine couples
If we allowed single guys we would be out numbered
I have ran social night's for years for fet and most successful night's are ones where we have a vetting process
I would rather have 20 people who are genuine and good company for others than 40 folk that will pass through
We need to book seating and venue and as held in pub
Some may be ok to be swingers but most want to be discreet so this is why we set simple requirements |
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By *erberaWoman
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"After last night's success we will be looking to do another
Genuine couples no fwb
Single females
And folk from kink scene
Will be Friday night in perth in a pub
Social only "
I would have been interested in going to this as I like a good social and don't mind having a night away however as a single woman who is mainly interested in meeting men it would put me off that single men aren't included. While its good to socialise with couples I would like a bit of single eye candy too 
Assuming no single guys from the kink scene either?
I hope you have a good night out tho  |
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By *omcoupl3 OP Couple
over a year ago
tayside |
We do have some single guys from kink scene who we know very well
I'm sorry if it's off putting bud we give up our limited free time to organise night's if u feel unfair I'd suggest putting your own night's together as it's not easy to get a balance |
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"We do have some single guys from kink scene who we know very well
I'm sorry if it's off putting bud we give up our limited free time to organise night's if u feel unfair I'd suggest putting your own night's together as it's not easy to get a balance"
So single guys are allowed as long as they are your friends. Your night so your rules I guess . We too have organised nights but if 5 single fems went then 5 single guys went it's only fair. Plus whatever couples go. Fwb should be ok too , but that's just my opinion. |
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By *omcoupl3 OP Couple
over a year ago
tayside |
All allowed to have an opinion
As stated have ran discreet social meets for years for kink community and have always attracted good numbers because of safe and fun environment
No fwb as we area a couple and found more respect shown from genuine couples
No single guys as Don't want hassle |
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"All allowed to have an opinion
As stated have ran discreet social meets for years for kink community and have always attracted good numbers because of safe and fun environment
No fwb as we area a couple and found more respect shown from genuine couples
No single guys as Don't want hassle"
Good luck with it anyways.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All allowed to have an opinion
As stated have ran discreet social meets for years for kink community and have always attracted good numbers because of safe and fun environment
No fwb as we area a couple and found more respect shown from genuine couples
No single guys as Don't want hassle"
Obviously you're happy with how you organise your own socials but it is a shame to say that single men cause hassle at socials.
Having organised socials successfully myself I can say I've never had any problems with single males, having a good balance has seen for a great night.
Socials are a fantastic opportunity for genuine people to make connections, get verified and understand more about the scene, they're often the best chance for single males to get a leg up on the scene.
Clearly the way the op organises their socials works for them and I genuinely hope its a great night. I know how time consuming these can be.
But hopefully we'll see some other socials in the area with a fair balance  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had great night and bad night's
Great night's are ones we run with the rules
Not looking to offend folk but more couple prefer what we do"
And that's great, no reason why there can't be small exclusive socials for just couples,and larger more inclusive socials for singles.
The more the merrier catering for everyone! |
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