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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why are people so dam picky on this site? I thought we are all here for the same thing? Yet you try and be nice and actually start a convo with them etc instead of the usual send dick pics straight away. Yet normal chat seems to get ignored. Thinking of coming off tbh no one seems to be interesting or be interested. Am I alone on this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So damn picky...... what you should just fuck anyone that shows a tiny bit of intrest.
How about you accept your not everyones cup of tea instead"
I’m not saying I’m anyone’s cup of tea lol |
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"Why are people so dam picky on this site? I thought we are all here for the same thing? Yet you try and be nice and actually start a convo with them etc instead of the usual send dick pics straight away. Yet normal chat seems to get ignored. Thinking of coming off tbh no one seems to be interesting or be interested. Am I alone on this? "
I’m not meaning to sound rude, but if someone’s not interested, they’re not interested. It might be that they’re picky, you’re just not for them, or any number of reasons.
No means no, and all that. I’m not trying to suggest you’re having your own “me too” moment, but there is a hint of entitlement between the lines which is partly why guys get a bad reputation here (and elsewhere!).
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"Why are people so dam picky on this site? I thought we are all here for the same thing? Yet you try and be nice and actually start a convo with them etc instead of the usual send dick pics straight away. Yet normal chat seems to get ignored. Thinking of coming off tbh no one seems to be interesting or be interested. Am I alone on this? " people are picky because we all have a right to pick and choose who we want fun with .
Maybe the people you were messaging found you wernt their type Op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are people so dam picky on this site? I thought we are all here for the same thing? Yet you try and be nice and actually start a convo with them etc instead of the usual send dick pics straight away. Yet normal chat seems to get ignored. Thinking of coming off tbh no one seems to be interesting or be interested. Am I alone on this? people are picky because we all have a right to pick and choose who we want fun with .
Maybe the people you were messaging found you wernt their type Op "
and don't take it to heart.
You might meet the same person at one of the socials or clubs or a house party and they might think "fuck, I want him". You never know, so get yourself out there |
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Just a bit of friendly advice as this is things we genuinely look for/at....
Perhaps you should display some kind of public pics and also get a profile pic on. Also put a bit more effort into your bio, end of the day that’s the first thing people see and read.
If you just can’t be arsed doing it then fair enough and each to their own, but then don’t expect people to be happy to be arsed with you.
Just some advice, take it or leave it.... doesn’t really have any influence on our lives either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is pretty crap tbh. One line of info and no pics. What do you expect?
Harsh, but fair! "
I think they were being rather gentle... it's not even a below average profile. It's less than that..
If you put nothing in, you get nothing out...
So when you do decide to leave, mind and make sure the door doesn't hit you on the way out.
Mistress Amelia |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is pretty crap tbh. One line of info and no pics. What do you expect?
Harsh, but fair!
I think they were being rather gentle... it's not even a below average profile. It's less than that..
If you put nothing in, you get nothing out...
So when you do decide to leave, mind and make sure the door doesn't hit you on the way out.
Mistress Amelia"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is pretty crap tbh. One line of info and no pics. What do you expect?
Harsh, but fair!
I think they were being rather gentle... it's not even a below average profile. It's less than that..
If you put nothing in, you get nothing out...
So when you do decide to leave, mind and make sure the door doesn't hit you on the way out.
Mistress Amelia"
I wouldn't argue with that |
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"Your profile is pretty crap tbh. One line of info and no pics. What do you expect?
Harsh, but fair!
I think they were being rather gentle... it's not even a below average profile. It's less than that..
If you put nothing in, you get nothing out...
So when you do decide to leave, mind and make sure the door doesn't hit you on the way out.
Mistress Amelia"
Ha. Very true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are people so dam picky on this site? I thought we are all here for the same thing? Yet you try and be nice and actually start a convo with them etc instead of the usual send dick pics straight away. Yet normal chat seems to get ignored. Thinking of coming off tbh no one seems to be interesting or be interested. Am I alone on this? "
I agree with everyone's comments on this, but in your defence you know nothing about the site, in your head you thought you'd join chat with loads of girls/couples and have a meet lined up for every week of the year, sadly not going to happen, firstly you'll have to put in hours of work messaging people, not the same people all the time, everyone says no reply is a polite way of saying no thanks, it is but it's also a didn't look at your msg in the first place, wait a month or so and msg again, one time you'll get lucky, get a veri and things will slowly progress from there! |
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"I don't swap bodily fluids with just anyone. Couldn't give a flying fuck if that makes me picky."
I think it makes you sensible!
Looking at some of the grotty closeups from some people on here though, I’d worry about swapping a glance, never mind fluids! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't swap bodily fluids with just anyone. Couldn't give a flying fuck if that makes me picky.
I think it makes you sensible!
Looking at some of the grotty closeups from some people on here though, I’d worry about swapping a glance, never mind fluids! "
Your eyes are safe behind those specs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are all here for the same thing but that does not mean we fuck everyone that messages or takes an interest. it is everyone's right to choose who they want to play with. we are not be attracted to everyone that we come across in this site. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Your profile is pretty crap tbh. One line of info and no pics. What do you expect? "
another person who thinks just because he's here he deserves a shag ....no effort will get you no interest ffs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile is pretty crap tbh. One line of info and no pics. What do you expect?
another person who thinks just because he's here he deserves a shag ....no effort will get you no interest ffs "
No that’s not what am saying at all, I was angling for some advice really! So thanks ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change you profile to bi as your looking to meet TVs
You prob will get more interest
Add some pics
Look at other guys profiles and take the parts you like.
Your profile is your shop window.
If the shutters down folk will walk on by.
There advice.
Good luck |
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