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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was chatting with a friend recently and they were saying that they had been chatting with a couple for a few weeks and arranged a social meet, one of the individuals was pushing more for an actual meet when the other “preferred” a social. When they met the impression was that one half of the couple was more interested in swinging than the other.
Have you ever met a couple and instantly got the impression that one of them wasn’t really interested?
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"Was chatting with a friend recently and they were saying that they had been chatting with a couple for a few weeks and arranged a social meet, one of the individuals was pushing more for an actual meet when the other “preferred” a social. When they met the impression was that one half of the couple was more interested in swinging than the other.
Have you ever met a couple and instantly got the impression that one of them wasn’t really interested?
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Yes many times and Its very off putting for me so Ive ended up refusing to take things further .
When jealousy is obviously the main issue its not a nice situation to be in and a recent thing thats happend to me has kinda put me off meeting couples (for the time being anyway) |
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By *pinCouple
over a year ago
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"Was chatting with a friend recently and they were saying that they had been chatting with a couple for a few weeks and arranged a social meet, one of the individuals was pushing more for an actual meet when the other “preferred” a social. When they met the impression was that one half of the couple was more interested in swinging than the other.
Have you ever met a couple and instantly got the impression that one of them wasn’t really interested?
Yes many times and Its very off putting for me so Ive ended up refusing to take things further .
When jealousy is obviously the main issue its not a nice situation to be in and a recent thing thats happend to me has kinda put me off meeting couples (for the time being anyway)"
Kind off inevitable a lot of the time. One of us are into the person more. Odd occasion we both are but normally means we’re d*unk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes
Went to a social meet with an intent to play later on with my hubby
Cpl we met the chick was bladdered!! Guy was rabbiting on all night about the meets they had we made an excuse about me having a migraine and left
Next day we got a message saying we wasted there time by not carrying on the play meet .hubby wrote back that we didn't feel comfortable with his wife being so pissed (wouldn't have happened anyway as the guy was about 15yrd older than he said) he replied I was just jealous as his wife was better looking than me and that she was just nervous not d*unk...aye mate tell that to the folk she drenched when she knocked over their table full of drinks!
The chick looked terrified I actually think he was bullying her into it.!
Can spot it a mile off if 1 isn't that into it than the other. |
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"Was chatting with a friend recently and they were saying that they had been chatting with a couple for a few weeks and arranged a social meet, one of the individuals was pushing more for an actual meet when the other “preferred” a social. When they met the impression was that one half of the couple was more interested in swinging than the other.
Have you ever met a couple and instantly got the impression that one of them wasn’t really interested?
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Unfortunately yes, in my early days here. Couple where the husband was all go and the wife seemed just be being going along with it to please him, but not in a dom/sub way. My radar is pretty good on that now.
Conversely, profiles where the wife is the mover and shaker of the two usually have a pretty chilled and laid back husband, which makes for a much better atmosphere for naughty thing to happen.
Everyone’s gotta be equally into the possibility of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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From what they were saying it wasn’t that there was any jealousy or lack of attraction to my friend it was more along true lines of one of the partners was more interested is swinging than the other and they were going along with it, sounded weird to me but suppose love will make you do anything for a partner. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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It can happen within a couple dynamic or 1 part of couple likes someone more than the other ..all different scenarios  we don't find it too much of a problem these days as we meet separately more than as a couple |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
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"Yes
Went to a social meet with an intent to play later on with my hubby
Cpl we met the chick was bladdered!! Guy was rabbiting on all night about the meets they had we made an excuse about me having a migraine and left
Next day we got a message saying we wasted there time by not carrying on the play meet .hubby wrote back that we didn't feel comfortable with his wife being so pissed (wouldn't have happened anyway as the guy was about 15yrd older than he said) he replied I was just jealous as his wife was better looking than me and that she was just nervous not d*unk...aye mate tell that to the folk she drenched when she knocked over their table full of drinks!
The chick looked terrified I actually think he was bullying her into it.!
Can spot it a mile off if 1 isn't that into it than the other."
Been in a few situations where even in chat you sense the wife is being bullied into a meet....Not my thing..makes you wonder what goes on behind their closed doors sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes....I’ve met couples and the female clearly wasn’t as into it. I’d be much more careful now And try make sure I was chatting with the female half in the message stage. I don’t wanna make anyone feel awkward but I don’t want my time wasted either. I do feel a good few couples aren’t mutual in what they want from fab. X |
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By *pinCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes....I’ve met couples and the female clearly wasn’t as into it. I’d be much more careful now And try make sure I was chatting with the female half in the message stage. I don’t wanna make anyone feel awkward but I don’t want my time wasted either. I do feel a good few couples aren’t mutual in what they want from fab. X"
We try and have a three way convo on a messenger app or over the phone before anything. Kinda reassures everyone.
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I had a social meet with a couple in Glasgow. They chose a small pub in the centre of town. Really busy, with loud karaoke. Which was fine, but made it difficult to chat. He was quite hard work, but she didn’t say a word the entire time.
After about an hour she went to get a round of drinks, then made to go to the loo. He went after her. About 15 minutes later I realised they weren’t coming back.
Fortunately that’s the only time I’ve had a meet quite like that one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s worrying when it seems like someone is being bullied into playing with other people, kinda makes you think that’s borderline sexual assault.
A few of you have said you can pick up on this makes me think how many other people do yet still go along with it. |
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