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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

Woke up to a screenshot of my profile on messenger this morning,someone threatening to 'out' me....angry isnt even close to how im feeling atm...according to friends on here a spate of idiots publishing pics and profiles..disgusting!!!

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By *ogostick72Man over a year ago

Scotland

That's terrible absolutely no need for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Woke up to a screenshot of my profile on messenger this morning,someone threatening to 'out' me....angry isnt even close to how im feeling atm...according to friends on here a spate of idiots publishing pics and profiles..disgusting!!!"

So sorry for this

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By *acmanmonsterMan over a year ago

inverness

How do they know it's you ?

Would police not treat this as agrivated threats ?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Dont give away anything about urself to anyone on here as sometimes itl be used against you in this way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s shocking! What’s the reason behind it? Simply that you wouldn’t speak to them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s shocking! What’s the reason behind it? Simply that you wouldn’t speak to them? "

Could be any reason !

They could know her or meet her in a fun meet or she knocked back, it could be someone whom works beside or near and recognise her.

It can happen to anyone on here and they just be that inclined to be nasty and out her for no reason. Its happened to females on here and men and they were single as well.

just happened to 3 girls in the chat room.

Someone took stills, found their twitter and sent messages to their families that they were on fabswingers.

Absolute sickening, hope they get caught

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s shocking! What’s the reason behind it? Simply that you wouldn’t speak to them?

Could be any reason !

They could know her or meet her in a fun meet or she knocked back, it could be someone whom works beside or near and recognise her.

It can happen to anyone on here and they just be that inclined to be nasty and out her for no reason. Its happened to females on here and men and they were single as well.

just happened to 3 girls in the chat room.

Someone took stills, found their twitter and sent messages to their families that they were on fabswingers.

Absolute sickening, hope they get caught"

Shows how naive I am then hadn’t even thought about all that!

That’s mental though!!

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

Dont give away anything about urself to anyone on here as sometimes itl be used against you in this way

Im always really cagey and give nothing away...just incase...

Shows its still possible though...

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

That’s shocking! What’s the reason behind it? Simply that you wouldn’t speak to them? "

I honestly dont know the reason behind it...dont have a clue who it is...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do...."

Don't draw attention to it. People thrive in causing a stir. If they want a war don't give them one x

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

Don't draw attention to it. People thrive in causing a stir. If they want a war don't give them one x"

This is where i struggle...the feisty comes out...had to sit on my hands this morning...x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

Don't draw attention to it. People thrive in causing a stir. If they want a war don't give them one x"

Agreed, don't feed them, just leave it.

Be prepared that they might do it and deal with it. Look at all avenues and if they use messanger I'm sure the police can trace them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

Don't draw attention to it. People thrive in causing a stir. If they want a war don't give them one x

This is where i struggle...the feisty comes out...had to sit on my hands this morning...x"

That's maybe why he targeted you. Hope he doesn't see this post either he'll be loving it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

Don't draw attention to it. People thrive in causing a stir. If they want a war don't give them one x

This is where i struggle...the feisty comes out...had to sit on my hands this morning...x

That's maybe why he targeted you. Hope he doesn't see this post either he'll be loving it x"

Might not be a HE

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

Don't draw attention to it. People thrive in causing a stir. If they want a war don't give them one x

This is where i struggle...the feisty comes out...had to sit on my hands this morning...x

That's maybe why he targeted you. Hope he doesn't see this post either he'll be loving it x

Might not be a HE

Exactly!!dont have a clue!!

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

The good thing is with the revenge porn laws they could get in a lot of trouble...just saying...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The good thing is with the revenge porn laws they could get in a lot of trouble...just saying..."

I'm sure if he or she used messanger then its traceable. he or she would have had to really cover their tracks.

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"The good thing is with the revenge porn laws they could get in a lot of trouble...just saying...

I'm sure if he or she used messanger then its traceable. he or she would have had to really cover their tracks."

My point exactly...

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

If its on a messenger type app go to the police it should be dealt with.

This is a form of extortion and the culprits deserve punished.

Have auffered from this in the past really not pleasant

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"If its on a messenger type app go to the police it should be dealt with.

This is a form of extortion and the culprits deserve punished.

Have auffered from this in the past really not pleasant "

Im going to police after work...recieved another message from whoever it is....

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By *outhsider69Man over a year ago

glasgow

"If its on a messenger type app go to the police it should be dealt with.

This is a form of extortion and the culprits deserve punished.

Have auffered from this in the past really not pleasant

Im going to police after work...recieved another message from whoever it is...."

That’s awful!! So sorry you’re being put through this anguish

Definitely contact the police... was this an email based messenger or one where they know your phone number? Easier to trace by the cops if there’s an address or phone number to trace back to

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

My money is on its the same person who has been harrassing other people here in similar ways

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By *inky KatzCouple over a year ago

Scotland

"The good thing is with the revenge porn laws they could get in a lot of trouble...just saying..."

Yeah defo.... take it to the police and teach the scum bag a harsh lesson

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By *teve_it_aloneMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"The good thing is with the revenge porn laws they could get in a lot of trouble...just saying...

Yeah defo.... take it to the police and teach the scum bag a harsh lesson "

to this. Scummy gits ignoring both the unwritten trust of places like this, and the actual law re abusive/threatening behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do...."

Not an expert on messenger, but if they message you, does their profile not show up who it is??

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By *pinCouple over a year ago

edinburgh

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

Not an expert on messenger, but if they message you, does their profile not show up who it is??"

Is ways to hide it, dunno how adept they are though?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m gobsmacked. I had no idea things like that actually happened in this supposedly trusting community.

Kinda worrying for me as I don’t often keep every aspect of my life under lock and key, and often would find myself chatting merrily about personal details.

No more! From this point on I will just have to be similarly cagey and secretive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s more than likely a batshit crazy women!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My money is on its the same person who has been harrassing other people here in similar ways

Sounds like the same

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"It’s more than likely a batshit crazy women!!

That definitely would not surprise me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s more than likely a batshit crazy women!!

That definitely would not surprise me in the slightest

Some people need a therapist and a padded room!

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"It’s more than likely a batshit crazy women!!

That definitely would not surprise me in the slightest

Some people need a therapist and a padded room!

Totally

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By *ickygirl41Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

It's pretty shit, however they are traceable from messenger. I understand OP's reaction id want to find them and send mariarchi singers and clowns to their door with a leaflet detailing their exploits to hand out to everyone around them but yes, there's probably more satisfation in pursuing it legally in the long run.

Wanna out me? I'm not ashamed at all of who I am.

I'll out you too but worse lol

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"The good thing is with the revenge porn laws they could get in a lot of trouble...just saying...

Yeah defo.... take it to the police and teach the scum bag a harsh lesson "

Im going to make sure whoever it is gets punished...

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"It’s more than likely a batshit crazy women!!

That definitely would not surprise me in the slightest

Some people need a therapist and a padded room!

God you are not kidding!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s more than likely a batshit crazy women!!

Wisnae me!!!!

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"The good thing is with the revenge porn laws they could get in a lot of trouble...just saying...

Yeah defo.... take it to the police and teach the scum bag a harsh lesson

Im going to make sure whoever it is gets punished..."

I hope they get their comeuppance. What a twisted and sick way to act towards anyone.x

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"I’m gobsmacked. I had no idea things like that actually happened in this supposedly trusting community.

Kinda worrying for me as I don’t often keep every aspect of my life under lock and key, and often would find myself chatting merrily about personal details.

No more! From this point on I will just have to be similarly cagey and secretive. "
best way to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shame but at the end of the day you need to look after no 1.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

Don't draw attention to it. People thrive in causing a stir. If they want a war don't give them one x"

Very good advice , don’t feed them at all, give them nothing

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"I have no clue who this person is,and they must know me to message me privately...im so bloody angry that people think its ok to do....

Don't draw attention to it. People thrive in causing a stir. If they want a war don't give them one x

Very good advice , don’t feed them at all, give them nothing

Lips are sealed....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My money is on its the same person who has been harrassing other people here in similar ways

I wonder if it was ignored from the beginning if it would have been made into the same fiasco x

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"My money is on its the same person who has been harrassing other people here in similar ways

I wonder if it was ignored from the beginning if it would have been made into the same fiasco x"

Jetwash effect....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once you freely submit any personal information on the internet, that's it.

What the person has done isn't pleasant, but that's the chance you take online. Particularly on a sex site.

Best advice is, ignore, create a new profile, or leave the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My money is on its the same person who has been harrassing other people here in similar ways

I wonder if it was ignored from the beginning if it would have been made into the same fiasco x

Jetwash effect...."

Yeah like work gossip. It starts a rumour and gathers momentum which grows arms n legs n turns out a disaster rather than it not getting passed on or highlighted and it dies a death x

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"Once you freely submit any personal information on the internet, that's it.

What the person has done isn't pleasant, but that's the chance you take online. Particularly on a sex site.

Best advice is, ignore, create a new profile, or leave the site.

True..and no point ruffling my feathers anymore...ignore works for me...

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"My money is on its the same person who has been harrassing other people here in similar ways

I wonder if it was ignored from the beginning if it would have been made into the same fiasco x

Jetwash effect....

Yeah like work gossip. It starts a rumour and gathers momentum which grows arms n legs n turns out a disaster rather than it not getting passed on or highlighted and it dies a death x"

Itll die now....dealt with on my part...x

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS over a year ago

somewhere

Shocking

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By *ripleXrateDWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

Thats horrible sorry to hear this happened to you.

I had a friend I told about being on here and she found my profile and showed it to people.

I ended up changing my name and swapping pics in the hope she never found me again.

Some people just can't see anyone enjoying life without trying to ruin it. Xxxx

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

"Once you freely submit any personal information on the internet, that's it.

What the person has done isn't pleasant, but that's the chance you take online. Particularly on a sex site.

Best advice is, ignore, create a new profile, or leave the site.

What the person is doing is against the law ..being on a swingers site is irrelevant..best advice is report the person to the authorities and let them decide if it's "unpleasant" or downright criminal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My money is on its the same person who has been harrassing other people here in similar ways

I wonder if it was ignored from the beginning if it would have been made into the same fiasco x

Jetwash effect....

Yeah like work gossip. It starts a rumour and gathers momentum which grows arms n legs n turns out a disaster rather than it not getting passed on or highlighted and it dies a death x

Itll die now....dealt with on my part...x"

That's good. Maybe shut the thread down if you don't want it highlighted further x

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By *iss Ash42 OP Woman over a year ago

somewhere nowhere near you....

"My money is on its the same person who has been harrassing other people here in similar ways

I wonder if it was ignored from the beginning if it would have been made into the same fiasco x

Jetwash effect....

Yeah like work gossip. It starts a rumour and gathers momentum which grows arms n legs n turns out a disaster rather than it not getting passed on or highlighted and it dies a death x

Itll die now....dealt with on my part...x

That's good. Maybe shut the thread down if you don't want it highlighted further x"

Yea i think iv made my point about it now.x

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By *ickygirl41Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Wanna out me? I'm not ashamed at all of who I am.

I'll out you too but worse lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Once you freely submit any personal information on the internet, that's it.

What the person has done isn't pleasant, but that's the chance you take online. Particularly on a sex site.

Best advice is, ignore, create a new profile, or leave the site.

Pfft. I'm sure it'll go to the top of their priority list.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Change your settings on Facebook. Once you have someone’s number their Facebook profile may start appearing as people you may know or if you have a mutual friend.

Take your phone number off Facebook so it can’t be linked to you.

I’m sure there’s more you can do to protect your information.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Change your settings on Facebook. Once you have someone’s number their Facebook profile may start appearing as people you may know or if you have a mutual friend.

Take your phone number off Facebook so it can’t be linked to you.

I’m sure there’s more you can do to protect your information. "

Don't highlight it x

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"If its on a messenger type app go to the police it should be dealt with.

This is a form of extortion and the culprits deserve punished.

Have auffered from this in the past really not pleasant

Im going to police after work...recieved another message from whoever it is...."

Wise move

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