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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do you do on here?
Read a comment on here where someone was looking for folk to partake in passionate love making. Of course there would have to be a physical & mental connection for the sex to be good, but can you call it love making when it's a total stranger?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No harm in both. Depends on the mood!"
There’s certainly no harm in pure lustful sex (in fact it can be damn good) I guess it’s how each person perceives it but a meet is never making love for me   |
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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago
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"No harm in both. Depends on the mood!
With someone you've just met on here? Honestly? Not having a dig just curious how other folk view it. "
You're right of course, I was answering in general terms.
9 times out of 10 it'll be fucking but you probably have to consider the chats you are having in the lead up to a meet too.
I've had both kinds on here but then I'm quite sensual. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No harm in both. Depends on the mood!
With someone you've just met on here? Honestly? Not having a dig just curious how other folk view it.
You're right of course, I was answering in general terms.
9 times out of 10 it'll be fucking but you probably have to consider the chats you are having in the lead up to a meet too.
I've had both kinds on here but then I'm quite sensual."
"Sensual"...oh check you ya sexy basturt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible "
So what do you both call a meet  |
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"No harm in both. Depends on the mood!
With someone you've just met on here? Honestly? Not having a dig just curious how other folk view it.
You're right of course, I was answering in general terms.
9 times out of 10 it'll be fucking but you probably have to consider the chats you are having in the lead up to a meet too.
I've had both kinds on here but then I'm quite sensual.
"Sensual"...oh check you ya sexy basturt "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet "
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone. "
I see... can I ask you what you perceive the difference to be, it’s an interesting point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
I see... can I ask you what you perceive the difference to be, it’s an interesting point "
I just find it a really strange and unnatural way to refer to a person |
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"Ffs I'm happy if a woman talks to me never mind getting a fuck  "
Me too !!!
My heart misses a beat when that “ new message “ changes colour lol, although it doesn’t very often 
Good job I am optimistic lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone. "
Pretty much the same ..
I wouldnt say .."Do you want to meet" .."Fancy a meet" .
I think its how its addressed..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find just the word sex..is hard Ragn hormonal grab the clothes off each other
And love making is slow and sensual .
I have sex with strangers but also can be slow and sensual
But
I make love to my husband
If that makes sense?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
I see... can I ask you what you perceive the difference to be, it’s an interesting point
I just find it a really strange and unnatural way to refer to a person"
Ahhh see your point, though I don’t find it so as it’s more about context for me. “I’m meeting someone” for me could refer to friend whereas a “meet” is very specific to Fab but in no way derogatory. In fact it implies a more playful context to me. Thanks for explaining though, it’s good to exchange views |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
Pretty much the same ..
I wouldnt say .."Do you want to meet" .."Fancy a meet" .
I think its how its addressed..
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Uhuh I get that but what’s offensive in saying “you have a meet later” for example ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
Pretty much the same ..
I wouldnt say .."Do you want to meet" .."Fancy a meet" .
I think its how its addressed..
Uhuh I get that but what’s offensive in saying “you have a meet later” for example ?? "
I don't find it derogatory or offensive.
For me it's just peculiar fab speak for saying you're meeting with someone to have sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
Pretty much the same ..
I wouldnt say .."Do you want to meet" .."Fancy a meet" .
I think its how its addressed..
Uhuh I get that but what’s offensive in saying “you have a meet later” for example ??
I don't find it derogatory or offensive.
For me it's just peculiar fab speak for saying you're meeting with someone to have sex"
So not “hate” like Rawk321 said, just peculiar fabspeak... ok, thanks again... interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover."
Good definition missus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
Pretty much the same ..
I wouldnt say .."Do you want to meet" .."Fancy a meet" .
I think its how its addressed..
Uhuh I get that but what’s offensive in saying “you have a meet later” for example ??
I don't find it derogatory or offensive.
For me it's just peculiar fab speak for saying you're meeting with someone to have sex
So not “hate” like Rawk321 said, just peculiar fabspeak... ok, thanks again... interesting "
Yes...hate...strong dislike, aversion to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
Pretty much the same ..
I wouldnt say .."Do you want to meet" .."Fancy a meet" .
I think its how its addressed..
Uhuh I get that but what’s offensive in saying “you have a meet later” for example ??
I don't find it derogatory or offensive.
For me it's just peculiar fab speak for saying you're meeting with someone to have sex
So not “hate” like Rawk321 said, just peculiar fabspeak... ok, thanks again... interesting
Yes...hate...strong dislike, aversion to "
I’m aware of what the word means thanks but peculiar is very different in meaning to hate. I’m sure I don’t need to define that. Appreciate your explanations though, they are very interesting as always |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
Pretty much the same ..
I wouldnt say .."Do you want to meet" .."Fancy a meet" .
I think its how its addressed..
Uhuh I get that but what’s offensive in saying “you have a meet later” for example ?? "
I never said it was offensive.Its not something i would generally say.
Any Woman ive ever met on here ive never classed it as a fuck.
You may say ..well thats what it was..in theory that could be true.Mindset its not how i seen it.
Maybe its the respect i have that prevents me calling it a fuck or a meet..
Its quite difficult to explain .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally hate the terminology "Meet"
Uncomplicated passionate lusting sex..
I'm with you on the meet thing.
It's horrible
So what do you both call a meet
Rather than say I 'have'
a meet I would say I'm meeting someone.
Pretty much the same ..
I wouldnt say .."Do you want to meet" .."Fancy a meet" .
I think its how its addressed..
Uhuh I get that but what’s offensive in saying “you have a meet later” for example ??
I never said it was offensive.Its not something i would generally say.
Any Woman ive ever met on here ive never classed it as a fuck.
You may say ..well thats what it was..in theory that could be true.Mindset its not how i seen it.
Maybe its the respect i have that prevents me calling it a fuck or a meet..
Its quite difficult to explain .
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Yes that’s what I find interesting as you said you hate the expression and wellinever agreed. I took that to mean you both found it offensive so sorry if that’s wrong. Thank you for explaining too... it’s very interesting |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus "
What about a "rendezvous"? |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?"
Ooooer mysterious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something. "
They mean the same in essence yes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv always used the term having a "social" for a coffee 1st meeting
Then having a "meet"for meeting for sex
Lol just always been known as that since I joined way back in the day lol.
A guy/girl shoving bottles or fuit/veg up their bits i find offensive but not having a "meet"
Lol |
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?"
Or a hook up? |
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"I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something.
They mean the same in essence yes... "
only for folk that view them the same in my eyes they are worlds apart
the term meet I find very impersonal if asked I would say im meeting up with a person for a drink. Having a meet is to me too strangers looking to hook up.
all down to perception |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I found something offensive, I'd say I found it offensive.
Do you hate offensive things
No...i find them offensive "
Glad you find there’s a difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv always used the term having a "social" for a coffee 1st meeting
Then having a "meet"for meeting for sex
Lol just always been known as that since I joined way back in the day lol.
A guy/girl shoving bottles or fuit/veg up their bits i find offensive but not having a "meet"
Lol"
Yes true it’s very much just a fun term in my book but interesting to see how some don’t find it so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something.
They mean the same in essence yes... only for folk that view them the same in my eyes they are worlds apart
the term meet I find very impersonal if asked I would say im meeting up with a person for a drink. Having a meet is to me too strangers looking to hook up.
all down to perception"
Agreed Kola |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious "
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Or a hook up?"
Or a "Dalliance"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv always used the term having a "social" for a coffee 1st meeting
Then having a "meet"for meeting for sex
Lol just always been known as that since I joined way back in the day lol.
A guy/girl shoving bottles or fuit/veg up their bits i find offensive but not having a "meet"
Lol
Yes true it’s very much just a fun term in my book but interesting to see how some don’t find it so "
I wouldnt say .."I have a meet" its a fun term in your book..
Whats interesting about it?..because i have a difference of opinion from you or others.?
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"I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something.
They mean the same in essence yes... only for folk that view them the same in my eyes they are worlds apart
the term meet I find very impersonal if asked I would say im meeting up with a person for a drink. Having a meet is to me too strangers looking to hook up.
all down to perception"
Ok let's be honest here. A stunning lady from Fab says she wants you to take her to a hotel and make love to her , since that is world's apart from what she wants ie a good fucking , you are going to knock her back or say not going to make love to you but you will go back to hotel and give her a good seeing to. LMAO I bet you neither correct her terminology or knock her back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Iv always used the term having a "social" for a coffee 1st meeting
Then having a "meet"for meeting for sex
Lol just always been known as that since I joined way back in the day lol.
A guy/girl shoving bottles or fuit/veg up their bits i find offensive but not having a "meet"
Lol
Yes true it’s very much just a fun term in my book but interesting to see how some don’t find it so
I wouldnt say .."I have a meet" its a fun term in your book..
Whats interesting about it?..because i have a difference of opinion from you or others.?
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Yes differering opinions are interesting to me they expand ones understanding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter. "
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv always used the term having a "social" for a coffee 1st meeting
Then having a "meet"for meeting for sex
Lol just always been known as that since I joined way back in the day lol.
A guy/girl shoving bottles or fuit/veg up their bits i find offensive but not having a "meet"
Lol
Yes true it’s very much just a fun term in my book but interesting to see how some don’t find it so
I wouldnt say .."I have a meet" its a fun term in your book..
Whats interesting about it?..because i have a difference of opinion from you or others.?
Yes differering opinions are interesting to me they expand ones understanding "
The difference is ..
Ones call it a Meet and some dont.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv always used the term having a "social" for a coffee 1st meeting
Then having a "meet"for meeting for sex
Lol just always been known as that since I joined way back in the day lol.
A guy/girl shoving bottles or fuit/veg up their bits i find offensive but not having a "meet"
Lol
Yes true it’s very much just a fun term in my book but interesting to see how some don’t find it so
I wouldnt say .."I have a meet" its a fun term in your book..
Whats interesting about it?..because i have a difference of opinion from you or others.?
Yes differering opinions are interesting to me they expand ones understanding
The difference is ..
Ones call it a Meet and some dont.
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter.
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead "
What about the crumbs in the bed?
Besides. All because the lady loves Senasations Sweet Chilli crisps just doesn't sound right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this thread is an interesting example of 'sweating the small stuff' - people getting bogged down in semantics "
Perhaps, all in the perception as always |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter.
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead
What about the crumbs in the bed?
Besides. All because the lady loves Senasations Sweet Chilli crisps just doesn't sound right. "
Fair point, ok I’ll cope with a Turkish delight and a caramel swirl instead |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter.
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead
What about the crumbs in the bed?
Besides. All because the lady loves Senasations Sweet Chilli crisps just doesn't sound right.
Fair point, ok I’ll cope with a Turkish delight and a caramel swirl instead "
Deal. Already have the Turkish Delight. (In danger of turning this thread into the favourite chocolate thread ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter.
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead
What about the crumbs in the bed?
Besides. All because the lady loves Senasations Sweet Chilli crisps just doesn't sound right.
Fair point, ok I’ll cope with a Turkish delight and a caramel swirl instead
Deal. Already have the Turkish Delight. (In danger of turning this thread into the favourite chocolate thread )"
Hotel Chocolat do amazing turkish delight - the real stuff |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter.
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead
What about the crumbs in the bed?
Besides. All because the lady loves Senasations Sweet Chilli crisps just doesn't sound right.
Fair point, ok I’ll cope with a Turkish delight and a caramel swirl instead
Deal. Already have the Turkish Delight. (In danger of turning this thread into the favourite chocolate thread )
Hotel Chocolat do amazing turkish delight - the real stuff "
Oooh this sounds dangerously like it might turn in to a "rendezvous" lol - just bringing it back on topic, honest x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter.
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead
What about the crumbs in the bed?
Besides. All because the lady loves Senasations Sweet Chilli crisps just doesn't sound right.
Fair point, ok I’ll cope with a Turkish delight and a caramel swirl instead
Deal. Already have the Turkish Delight. (In danger of turning this thread into the favourite chocolate thread )
Hotel Chocolat do amazing turkish delight - the real stuff
Oooh this sounds dangerously like it might turn in to a "rendezvous" lol - just bringing it back on topic, honest x "
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"I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something.
They mean the same in essence yes... only for folk that view them the same in my eyes they are worlds apart
the term meet I find very impersonal if asked I would say im meeting up with a person for a drink. Having a meet is to me too strangers looking to hook up.
all down to perception
Ok let's be honest here. A stunning lady from Fab says she wants you to take her to a hotel and make love to her , since that is world's apart from what she wants ie a good fucking , you are going to knock her back or say not going to make love to you but you will go back to hotel and give her a good seeing to. LMAO I bet you neither correct her terminology or knock her back. "
dont jusge folk by your moral compass. if a fem approached me with the attitude your saying I would knock her back without a second thought.
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter.
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead
What about the crumbs in the bed?
Besides. All because the lady loves Senasations Sweet Chilli crisps just doesn't sound right.
Fair point, ok I’ll cope with a Turkish delight and a caramel swirl instead
Deal. Already have the Turkish Delight. (In danger of turning this thread into the favourite chocolate thread )
Hotel Chocolat do amazing turkish delight - the real stuff
Oooh this sounds dangerously like it might turn in to a "rendezvous" lol - just bringing it back on topic, honest x
I won't mention the chocolate pasta then...oops (google nigella's recipe) lol "
I did by mistake. I did not know that was a thing. Would take a bit of adjustment to go from savoury to sweet. Sounds amazing though. I liked the recipe till it got to "Stir to combine before dividing between 2 bowls". |
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"I don’t put much thought into what I call a ‘meet’.
But I do fuck - slow, fast, raw, sensual, passionate, rough.
I don’t do love...but I do need chemistry with my lover.
Good definition missus
What about a "rendezvous"?
Ooooer mysterious
I'll leave the chocolates by your bed and jump back in to my helipcopter.
Can you bring Sensations Sweet Chilli crisps instead
What about the crumbs in the bed?
Besides. All because the lady loves Senasations Sweet Chilli crisps just doesn't sound right.
Fair point, ok I’ll cope with a Turkish delight and a caramel swirl instead
Deal. Already have the Turkish Delight. (In danger of turning this thread into the favourite chocolate thread )
Hotel Chocolat do amazing turkish delight - the real stuff
Oooh this sounds dangerously like it might turn in to a "rendezvous" lol - just bringing it back on topic, honest x
I won't mention the chocolate pasta then...oops (google nigella's recipe) lol
I did by mistake. I did not know that was a thing. Would take a bit of adjustment to go from savoury to sweet. Sounds amazing though. I liked the recipe till it got to "Stir to combine before dividing between 2 bowls". "
It sounds disgusting (until Nigella describes it lol) but is actually really nice and not THAT sweet. There's one with it using salmon chilli and roasted cherry tomatoes too - also magic |
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Exactly , it also depends on how you react to first meeting the person . You may have a whole persona figured out for the person you’ve been chatting to and when you eventually meet it my not be what you hoped . |
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"I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something.
They mean the same in essence yes... only for folk that view them the same in my eyes they are worlds apart
the term meet I find very impersonal if asked I would say im meeting up with a person for a drink. Having a meet is to me too strangers looking to hook up.
all down to perception
Ok let's be honest here. A stunning lady from Fab says she wants you to take her to a hotel and make love to her , since that is world's apart from what she wants ie a good fucking , you are going to knock her back or say not going to make love to you but you will go back to hotel and give her a good seeing to. LMAO I bet you neither correct her terminology or knock her back. dont jusge folk by your moral compass. if a fem approached me with the attitude your saying I would knock her back without a second thought.
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LMAO what an absolute stupid response. My moral compass is off because I say making love and fucking is more or less the same thing. Hahaha
And if a hot Fab lady said to you make love to me you would send her packing ??? Holy crap I NEVER heard anything as absurd on Fab Ever. You try to come over on Fab as Mr nice guy and Mr super moral , me doth think you live in cloud cuckoo land bud. In my immoral compass opinion only , of course. |
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You really have a bee in your bonnet because i decide not to act like a dog in heat.
You may think as you please i am more than happy with how and why im here and the folk that do and do not intrest me.
Your a classic this is how i think so everyone thinks the same just get over it. |
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I find that the type of sex or “meet” you have can dramatically change from person to person. Have I made love to someone on fab.....probably! sometimes things can all just get very intense. Other times it’s purely fucking. Each to their own! X |
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"You really have a bee in your bonnet because i decide not to act like a dog in heat.
You may think as you please i am more than happy with how and why im here and the folk that do and do not intrest me.
Your a classic this is how i think so everyone thinks the same just get over it."
So what your saying is , if a female from Fab say kola make love to me your gonna say no. But if she says kola give me a good fucking your gonna say yes. If I'm wrong plz feel free to explain your stance. Remember your the one attacking me and my morals , all I'm asking is for you to explain your standpoint. |
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"You really have a bee in your bonnet because i decide not to act like a dog in heat.
You may think as you please i am more than happy with how and why im here and the folk that do and do not intrest me.
Your a classic this is how i think so everyone thinks the same just get over it.
So what your saying is , if a female from Fab say kola make love to me your gonna say no. But if she says kola give me a good fucking your gonna say yes. If I'm wrong plz feel free to explain your stance. Remember your the one attacking me and my morals , all I'm asking is for you to explain your standpoint. "
Your also a classic, this is how I think so everyone else must be immoral or act like dogs in heat. Think about it kola. Your attacking me because I don't think like you. Pot and kettle mate. |
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"You really have a bee in your bonnet because i decide not to act like a dog in heat.
You may think as you please i am more than happy with how and why im here and the folk that do and do not intrest me.
Your a classic this is how i think so everyone thinks the same just get over it.
So what your saying is , if a female from Fab say kola make love to me your gonna say no. But if she says kola give me a good fucking your gonna say yes. If I'm wrong plz feel free to explain your stance. Remember your the one attacking me and my morals , all I'm asking is for you to explain your standpoint. "
im attacking you lol you sure see some weird shit perhaps check back and you may see who trys to stir nonsense up.
Yes i am saying if a fem no matter how wonderful looking approached me and asked for a fuck or to be made love to id tell them to bolt ao get over it |
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"You really have a bee in your bonnet because i decide not to act like a dog in heat.
You may think as you please i am more than happy with how and why im here and the folk that do and do not intrest me.
Your a classic this is how i think so everyone thinks the same just get over it.
So what your saying is , if a female from Fab say kola make love to me your gonna say no. But if she says kola give me a good fucking your gonna say yes. If I'm wrong plz feel free to explain your stance. Remember your the one attacking me and my morals , all I'm asking is for you to explain your standpoint. im attacking you lol you sure see some weird shit perhaps check back and you may see who trys to stir nonsense up.
Yes i am saying if a fem no matter how wonderful looking approached me and asked for a fuck or to be made love to id tell them to bolt ao get over it"
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something.
They mean the same in essence yes... only for folk that view them the same in my eyes they are worlds apart
the term meet I find very impersonal if asked I would say im meeting up with a person for a drink. Having a meet is to me too strangers looking to hook up.
all down to perception
Ok let's be honest here. A stunning lady from Fab says she wants you to take her to a hotel and make love to her , since that is world's apart from what she wants ie a good fucking , you are going to knock her back or say not going to make love to you but you will go back to hotel and give her a good seeing to. LMAO I bet you neither correct her terminology or knock her back. dont jusge folk by your moral compass. if a fem approached me with the attitude your saying I would knock her back without a second thought.
LMAO what an absolute stupid response. My moral compass is off because I say making love and fucking is more or less the same thing. Hahaha
And if a hot Fab lady said to you make love to me you would send her packing ??? Holy crap I NEVER heard anything as absurd on Fab Ever. You try to come over on Fab as Mr nice guy and Mr super moral , me doth think you live in cloud cuckoo land bud. In my immoral compass opinion only , of course. "
Sorry if I’ve picked this up wrongly as I can’t be assed reading right back but I don’t see what’s absurd about Kolas reply! If a woman on here said to my husband I want you to make love to me he would also say no thanks .... if she asked him to fuck her hard he may oblige, as to us there is a huge difference. |
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"I think it's just another one of those terms that describe an action these days. Some people won't like to say I fucked him or her so they say we made love as it's pretty much the same , we shagged. Same as saying did you sleep together, they ain't asking did you both put on your night clothes and fluffy socks , puckered up your pillows and had a good 8 hours kip. There asking did you shag , making love imo is just a descriptive term nowadays. We All know what it means which is why we don't sit down at breakfast with family and tell everyone we made love last night. It's the polite way of saying something.
They mean the same in essence yes... only for folk that view them the same in my eyes they are worlds apart
the term meet I find very impersonal if asked I would say im meeting up with a person for a drink. Having a meet is to me too strangers looking to hook up.
all down to perception
Ok let's be honest here. A stunning lady from Fab says she wants you to take her to a hotel and make love to her , since that is world's apart from what she wants ie a good fucking , you are going to knock her back or say not going to make love to you but you will go back to hotel and give her a good seeing to. LMAO I bet you neither correct her terminology or knock her back. dont jusge folk by your moral compass. if a fem approached me with the attitude your saying I would knock her back without a second thought.
LMAO what an absolute stupid response. My moral compass is off because I say making love and fucking is more or less the same thing. Hahaha
And if a hot Fab lady said to you make love to me you would send her packing ??? Holy crap I NEVER heard anything as absurd on Fab Ever. You try to come over on Fab as Mr nice guy and Mr super moral , me doth think you live in cloud cuckoo land bud. In my immoral compass opinion only , of course.
Sorry if I’ve picked this up wrongly as I can’t be assed reading right back but I don’t see what’s absurd about Kolas reply! If a woman on here said to my husband I want you to make love to me he would also say no thanks .... if she asked him to fuck her hard he may oblige, as to us there is a huge difference."
According to kola he would refuse both offers. But the original point made was calling it making love as opposed calling it fucking someone. I said it was a polite way of putting it. Same as sleeping with someone does not mean you actually slept. Lol. Also not just talking randoms but coffee meets going on to other things too. If a coffee meet female then suggested going to a hotel to make love is purely her saying let's go fuck or would that still mean a no chance ? |
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I make love to my hubby.....ok and we fuck too however, with a fab meet it is most definitely fucking, not making love. Hubby would question that as he says I'm very passionate, he feels I make love to guys |
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"I make love to my hubby.....ok and we fuck too however, with a fab meet it is most definitely fucking, not making love. Hubby would question that as he says I'm very passionate, he feels I make love to guys "
Clearly he trusts you , but maybe like me, he does not like the wording that you are fucking another guy , not by your actions ,but just the wording. I would use the term having fun, it's the terminology i prefer to use ,kind of middle ground of making love and fucking in my opinion. But if a fab female called it making love or fucking, it wouldn't stop me do it as in MY mind it would always still be just having some adult fun. |
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"I make love to my hubby.....ok and we fuck too however, with a fab meet it is most definitely fucking, not making love. Hubby would question that as he says I'm very passionate, he feels I make love to guys
Clearly he trusts you , but maybe like me, he does not like the wording that you are fucking another guy , not by your actions ,but just the wording. I would use the term having fun, it's the terminology i prefer to use ,kind of middle ground of making love and fucking in my opinion. But if a fab female called it making love or fucking, it wouldn't stop me do it as in MY mind it would always still be just having some adult fun. "
Yes he trusts me. We generally call fab meets playing with others. We hate "fancy a fuck" messages. |
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"Does nobody have sex?
It's a wonder... do the car keys go in the bowl and then the endless debates start?  "
There won't be much fun or playing for the one who gets the keys to the clapped out old banger |
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"Does nobody have sex?
It's a wonder... do the car keys go in the bowl and then the endless debates start?
There won't be much fun or playing for the one who gets the keys to the clapped out old banger"
Och I've still got some life left in me |
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"Does nobody have sex?
It's a wonder... do the car keys go in the bowl and then the endless debates start?
There won't be much fun or playing for the one who gets the keys to the clapped out old banger
Och I've still got some life left in me "
Has your car though? |
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"Does nobody have sex?
It's a wonder... do the car keys go in the bowl and then the endless debates start?
There won't be much fun or playing for the one who gets the keys to the clapped out old banger
Och I've still got some life left in me
Has your car though?"
It's a rental for the weekend, my own car doesn't have wipe clean leather seats. |
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"Does nobody have sex?
It's a wonder... do the car keys go in the bowl and then the endless debates start?
There won't be much fun or playing for the one who gets the keys to the clapped out old banger
Och I've still got some life left in me
Has your car though?
It's a rental for the weekend, my own car doesn't have wipe clean leather seats. "
Mine does |
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"Does nobody have sex?
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Was speaking to someone about this earlier, for me "having sex" just describes the physical act, nothing more.
Fucking conjures up images of lust and desire, clothes being ripped off. Making love can be all that too with the added bonus of the emotional connection.
But as long as the parties involved enjoy it then I suppose you can call it what you like. |
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"Does nobody have sex?
Was speaking to someone about this earlier, for me "having sex" just describes the physical act, nothing more.
Fucking conjures up images of lust and desire, clothes being ripped off. Making love can be all that too with the added bonus of the emotional connection.
But as long as the parties involved enjoy it then I suppose you can call it what you like."
Out of curiosity and in light of what you seek on here, how would 2 women refer to it...fucking, making love, sex or something else? |
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I wouldn't be in love so I'd call it fucking or maybe playing as someone had mentioned earlier. She may call it something else. I can only speak for me. |
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"I wouldn't be in love so I'd call it fucking or maybe playing as someone had mentioned earlier. She may call it something else. I can only speak for me."
I just was curious about how women looking for women would refer to it...im clueless as I don't chat to women that way |
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"Does nobody have sex?
Was speaking to someone about this earlier, for me "having sex" just describes the physical act, nothing more.
Fucking conjures up images of lust and desire, clothes being ripped off. Making love can be all that too with the added bonus of the emotional connection.
But as long as the parties involved enjoy it then I suppose you can call it what you like.
Out of curiosity and in light of what you seek on here, how would 2 women refer to it...fucking, making love, sex or something else?"
Surely they would call it having fun together or playing together. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Does nobody have sex?
Was speaking to someone about this earlier, for me "having sex" just describes the physical act, nothing more.
Fucking conjures up images of lust and desire, clothes being ripped off. Making love can be all that too with the added bonus of the emotional connection.
But as long as the parties involved enjoy it then I suppose you can call it what you like.
Out of curiosity and in light of what you seek on here, how would 2 women refer to it...fucking, making love, sex or something else?
Surely they would call it having fun together or playing together."
Playing together sounds good (for all sexes).
Or you could go for a "work out" or "exercise" if you were intending to be pretty physical. |
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