Veris really are the catch22 of Fab, are they not?
For understandable reasons many won’t meet without seeing veris, but you can’t get verified without meeting.
When you are ‘experienced, genuine, respectful, not a timewaster’ it does get frustrating, particularly when you are looking for quality over quantity. But, as the song says, ‘words are not enough’.
Just sharing as I look for my new partner(s) in crime. I know you are out there!
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I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op |
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"I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op"
No offence taken  I get what you are saying.
I want people to know that I am not one of the timewasters who so frustrate women and couples looking to meet, so I always try to make that clear. But, as you say, words are just that, and it’s difficult to get that across in a profile without verifications. |
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"I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op
No offence taken I get what you are saying.
I want people to know that I am not one of the timewasters who so frustrate women and couples looking to meet, so I always try to make that clear. But, as you say, words are just that, and it’s difficult to get that across in a profile without verifications."
Your in a part of Scotland though that means you can get verified by turning up to one of the many socials the central belt hosts  |
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"I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op
No offence taken I get what you are saying.
I want people to know that I am not one of the timewasters who so frustrate women and couples looking to meet, so I always try to make that clear. But, as you say, words are just that, and it’s difficult to get that across in a profile without verifications."
No...it really isn't.
Chatting is an opportunity to demonstrate how genuine you are. There are many profiles with verifications that are completely fabricated so they don't mean all that much at times |
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"I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op
No offence taken I get what you are saying.
I want people to know that I am not one of the timewasters who so frustrate women and couples looking to meet, so I always try to make that clear. But, as you say, words are just that, and it’s difficult to get that across in a profile without verifications.
Your in a part of Scotland though that means you can get verified by turning up to one of the many socials the central belt hosts "
I am a married man so discretion makes that impossible, otherwise I would certainly do that. |
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"I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op
No offence taken I get what you are saying.
I want people to know that I am not one of the timewasters who so frustrate women and couples looking to meet, so I always try to make that clear. But, as you say, words are just that, and it’s difficult to get that across in a profile without verifications.
No...it really isn't.
Chatting is an opportunity to demonstrate how genuine you are. There are many profiles with verifications that are completely fabricated so they don't mean all that much at times"
Agree 100% with this. Anyone ever seen a bad verification? Anyone ever given anyone else a bad verification? You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours!
I merely use someones verifications as a screening tool. If they've been with someone who's been round the site and carrying the "fab flora" I'm not interested.
If they chose to hide their verifications, I agree, chatting to someone soon demonstrates how genuine they are. But that necessitates conversational skills!  |
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"I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op
No offence taken I get what you are saying.
I want people to know that I am not one of the timewasters who so frustrate women and couples looking to meet, so I always try to make that clear. But, as you say, words are just that, and it’s difficult to get that across in a profile without verifications.
No...it really isn't.
Chatting is an opportunity to demonstrate how genuine you are. There are many profiles with verifications that are completely fabricated so they don't mean all that much at times
Agree 100% with this. Anyone ever seen a bad verification? Anyone ever given anyone else a bad verification? You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours!
I merely use someones verifications as a screening tool. If they've been with someone who's been round the site and carrying the "fab flora" I'm not interested.
If they chose to hide their verifications, I agree, chatting to someone soon demonstrates how genuine they are. But that necessitates conversational skills! "
Fab Flora... . Get a Yakult down yer neck, sorted. |
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"I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op
No offence taken I get what you are saying.
I want people to know that I am not one of the timewasters who so frustrate women and couples looking to meet, so I always try to make that clear. But, as you say, words are just that, and it’s difficult to get that across in a profile without verifications.
No...it really isn't.
Chatting is an opportunity to demonstrate how genuine you are. There are many profiles with verifications that are completely fabricated so they don't mean all that much at times
Agree 100% with this. Anyone ever seen a bad verification? Anyone ever given anyone else a bad verification? You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours!
I merely use someones verifications as a screening tool. If they've been with someone who's been round the site and carrying the "fab flora" I'm not interested.
If they chose to hide their verifications, I agree, chatting to someone soon demonstrates how genuine they are. But that necessitates conversational skills!
Fab Flora... . Get a Yakult down yer neck, sorted."
Tick tock, tick tock, surprised that grenade hasn't gone off yet! |
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"I find the most genuine and respectful guys don't need to actually say that they are. It's like guys who continually insist that they are nice...they usually aren't when you don't interact with them how they want you to.
As for being experienced...oh please. This one really cracks me up.
Experienced at what...sex? Most folk of a certain age are.
These comments aren't aimed personally at you op
No offence taken I get what you are saying.
I want people to know that I am not one of the timewasters who so frustrate women and couples looking to meet, so I always try to make that clear. But, as you say, words are just that, and it’s difficult to get that across in a profile without verifications.
No...it really isn't.
Chatting is an opportunity to demonstrate how genuine you are. There are many profiles with verifications that are completely fabricated so they don't mean all that much at times
Agree 100% with this. Anyone ever seen a bad verification? Anyone ever given anyone else a bad verification? You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours!
I merely use someones verifications as a screening tool. If they've been with someone who's been round the site and carrying the "fab flora" I'm not interested.
If they chose to hide their verifications, I agree, chatting to someone soon demonstrates how genuine they are. But that necessitates conversational skills! "
Fab Flora  not heard it called that before!
I do absolutely love the chat. And I agree that that’s a much better way of getting to know people. |
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