Well i term myself bi curious and have done so for quite sometime but prefer to call myself bi playfull as i dont always want to play with the fem on a meet so it kinda stops any pressure to do so if i really dont feel like it lol
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is it ok?
each to their own to be honest but in my opinion.. after you have tried it a few times and you LIKE it ( sexually stimulating ) and will DO IT AGAIN..
you are no longer curious.
in swinging, sadly there is a hierarcy..
Bi fem / Bi fem couples..
Str8 couples
a wee bit further down
Bi Couples ... both Bi
then
couples with Str8 fem and Bi guy
Str8 single guys
then the single Bi guy..
never fails to amuse me...... |
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Of course it is fine hun.
No one can tell you how far and with whom you can go its all down to personal choice.
When we first started I put curious on our profile cos I wasnt sure how far I was prepaired to go but quickly I knew I was way beyond curious
But only you can know what you want and I think you should only go as far as you wanna go regardless of what people think or say.
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"Of course it is fine hun.
No one can tell you how far and with whom you can go its all down to personal choice.
When we first started I put curious on our profile cos I wasnt sure how far I was prepaired to go but quickly I knew I was way beyond curious
But only you can know what you want and I think you should only go as far as you wanna go regardless of what people think or say.
Shona
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Bi playfull I knew I meant that but couldnt think if the term lol. . .
I always understood the term (and correct me if Im wrong please) to mean people who in real life wouldnt date a person of the same sex but in a sexual context would if it felt right play with a person of the same sex...
Go on VIEW tell me Im wrong lol 
Shona
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"Bi playfull I knew I meant that but couldnt think if the term lol. . .
I always understood the term (and correct me if Im wrong please) to mean people who in real life wouldnt date a person of the same sex but in a sexual context would if it felt right play with a person of the same sex...
Go on VIEW tell me Im wrong lol
Shona
x x x "
lol ... key words..
' if it felt right '..
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"Bi playfull I knew I meant that but couldnt think if the term lol. . .
I always understood the term (and correct me if Im wrong please) to mean people who in real life wouldnt date a person of the same sex but in a sexual context would if it felt right play with a person of the same sex...
Go on VIEW tell me Im wrong lol
Shona
x x x
lol ... key words..
' if it felt right '..
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So Im right whoooo must be a first
Shona
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"Bi playfull I knew I meant that but couldnt think if the term lol. . .
I always understood the term (and correct me if Im wrong please) to mean people who in real life wouldnt date a person of the same sex but in a sexual context would if it felt right play with a person of the same sex...
Go on VIEW tell me Im wrong lol
Shona
x x x
lol ... key words..
' if it felt right '..
So Im right whoooo must be a first
Shona
x x x "
oi jac ... we have a sensible one here ...
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"is it ok?
each to their own to be honest but in my opinion.. after you have tried it a few times and you LIKE it ( sexually stimulating ) and will DO IT AGAIN..
you are no longer curious.
in swinging, sadly there is a hierarcy..
Bi fem / Bi fem couples..
Str8 couples
a wee bit further down
Bi Couples ... both Bi
then
couples with Str8 fem and Bi guy
Str8 single guys
then the single Bi guy..
never fails to amuse me...... "
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"Oi
No insulting me please . . . . sensible . . . as if . . . how very dare you . . . 
Shona
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that was just a test .... you passed
welcome to the world of the dafties.
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"is it ok?
each to their own to be honest but in my opinion.. after you have tried it a few times and you LIKE it ( sexually stimulating ) and will DO IT AGAIN..
you are no longer curious.
in swinging, sadly there is a hierarcy..
Bi fem / Bi fem couples..
Str8 couples
a wee bit further down
Bi Couples ... both Bi
then
couples with Str8 fem and Bi guy
Str8 single guys
then the single Bi guy..
never fails to amuse me......
Never a truer word said!"
cheers dude...
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in swinging, sadly there is a hierarchy..
Bi fem / Bi fem couples..
Str8 couples
a wee bit further down
Bi Couples ... both Bi
then
couples with Str8 fem and Bi guy
Str8 single guys
then the single Bi guy..
Does it have to be this list cos I would rather have
Bi Couples ... both Bi
Bi fem / Bi fem couples.
single Bi guy
Str8 single guys
couples with Str8 fem and Bi guy
Str8 couples
Shona
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"in swinging, sadly there is a hierarchy..
Bi fem / Bi fem couples..
Str8 couples
a wee bit further down
Bi Couples ... both Bi
then
couples with Str8 fem and Bi guy
Str8 single guys
then the single Bi guy..
Does it have to be this list cos I would rather have
Bi Couples ... both Bi
Bi fem / Bi fem couples.
single Bi guy
Str8 single guys
couples with Str8 fem and Bi guy
Str8 couples
Shona
x x x "
should be none.. we should be all respected .. boundaries respected.. sexual preferences respected.. stereo typical prejudice booted out the door .. and more fun and laughs xxxx
maybe one day xxx
till then we have the x factor
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thanks guys. in my opinion it is the individuals choice to remain curious if they so wish and to continue to call themselves curious if they wish, but i've had a few disagreements over it and just wanted to get more opinion on it. some feel that by calling yourself curious you have to follow your curiosity through to next level.
p.s. why does the single bi guy come at the bottom of the hierarchy? lol |
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"thanks guys. in my opinion it is the individuals choice to remain curious if they so wish and to continue to call themselves curious if they wish, but i've had a few disagreements over it and just wanted to get more opinion on it. some feel that by calling yourself curious you have to follow your curiosity through to next level.
p.s. why does the single bi guy come at the bottom of the hierarchy? lol "
cause we all in public loos and are all diseased as a higher sexual risk..
if you ever bored .. go thro old treads on here .. and read many streotypical 'Bi guy' posts.. better than jeremy kyle for a laugh xxx
good post and just be yourself and if you happy curious.. thats the most important person content xxx |
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"cause we all in public loos and are all diseased as a higher sexual risk..
if you ever bored .. go thro old treads on here .. and read many streotypical 'Bi guy' posts.. better than jeremy kyle for a laugh xxx
good post and just be yourself and if you happy curious.. thats the most important person content xxx "
lol. i will do. will just go get a coffee and settle down for a good read.
dont know about content, stubborn yeah hence the reason for my post, i knew i was right. lol.
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in my opinion after uve tryed ur no
curious anymore but as i said its only
my opinion it dont mean much
i use 2 have bi on my profile an cause
i dont realy met cpls i took it off
cause i wont go out my way 2 be bi
i can take it or leave it
but if i was 2 do more fem fun
then id put bi on my profile
an will only be bi for the right fem
im more a cock girl lol but never
say never eh xx |
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"in my opinion after uve tryed ur no
curious anymore but as i said its only
my opinion it dont mean much
i use 2 have bi on my profile an cause
i dont realy met cpls i took it off
cause i wont go out my way 2 be bi
i can take it or leave it
but if i was 2 do more fem fun
then id put bi on my profile
an will only be bi for the right fem
im more a cock girl lol but never
say never eh xx"
To me hun you should put Biplayful if you want to change anything . . .
Simply because you can play bi but dont really need it to make a meet a happy and fullfilling one . . . does that make sense this early in the morning??? 
Shona
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"in your opinion is it ok to remain curious indefinetely? "
There must be something to make you curious about females in the first place.
So why would be want to stay curious indefinately?
I know its your choice at the end of the day and that has to be respected.
Pixie xx
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p.s. why does the single bi guy come at the bottom of the hierarchy? lol "
Some people dont like Bi guys and VIEW was right the Bi fems are always the most saught after well not by us.
I think its cos a lot of people join up wanting to see 2 women and dont realise its not how the pornos show it, well isnt for me - I forget the guy is even there lol . . .
Then there are the people who think a bi or orally bi guy is going to jump on some poor straight guy and rape him . . . .well not in my experiance (ok cant spell lol)
I have actually found that bi guys are more honest about what they want and how far to take things but then I love seeing my hubby enjoying himself with a guy just as much as I enjoy guys!!! 
Shona
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"There must be something to make you curious about females in the first place.
So why would be want to stay curious indefinately?
I know its your choice at the end of the day and that has to be respected.
Pixie xx
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i completely understand and agree with what you are saying.
its maybe not something that i will remain curious about indefinetely but its my choice whether i do or dont, i wont have someone else telling me that its what i should be doing because my profile says bi-curious. that was the only point i was really trying to make and just wanted other opinions on whether it was ok to remain so.
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shona hun i did leave on my profile lol
(( like 2 try my bi side out with the right female but not a requirment ))
that way ppl know i am bi but dont need 2
be lol as u get cpls mailing an she no bi
but wants 3sum for the guy lol so ppl
know they safe way me either way lol
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"ang if anyone would be brave enuff 2 tell
me thats wat i should be doing lol
id say bck 2 them..yea it is wat i do
but just no way u easy hun lol xx"
lol....thanks!!
off to make breakfast now, only been sitting here for 3 hours 
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"ang if anyone would be brave enuff 2 tell
me thats wat i should be doing lol
id say bck 2 them..yea it is wat i do
but just no way u easy hun lol xx"
Ohhhhhh can I use this?????
Priceless lol
Shona
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"in your opinion is it ok to remain curious indefinetely? "
CURIOUS...dont b such a wuss...pucker up...hehe...finally got time 2 reply 2 ur 1st forum post...xx |
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CURIOUS...dont b such a wuss...pucker up...hehe...finally got time 2 reply 2 ur 1st forum post...xx"
lol. ye im a curious wuss wot can i say???
i know your opinion anyway i wasnt asking you xx |
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I've stuck with curious because i think to be fully bi would suggest you'd have a relationship with either males or females and i dont think i would.
I asked admin a while back if we could have 'bi-playfull' added to the sexuality options on the profiles and someone else asked for 'orally bi' and as far as i know they have not replied. There are a few posts on the go at the minute asking for more options.
Anyway, repeating what's already been said, you only need to put on your profile what you feel comfortable with and that includes sexuality.
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"is it ok?
each to their own to be honest but in my opinion.. after you have tried it a few times and you LIKE it ( sexually stimulating ) and will DO IT AGAIN..
you are no longer curious.
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" cause we all in public loos and are all diseased as a higher sexual risk..
if you ever bored .. go thro old treads on here .. and read many streotypical 'Bi guy' posts.. better than jeremy kyle for a laugh xxx
good post and just be yourself and if you happy curious.. thats the most important person content xxx "
ha - scarily accurate way of summing up some peoples attitudes....
Y'know, I did ask Nina the question the other day, "do you think that me being listed as bi-curious puts couples off contacting us" ( as we never, indeed ever, get contacted on here...  ) - and her answer was the right one - if that puts them off contacting us then let's just be glad it did - wouldn't want to play with them anyway!
Each to their own, but some people just defy logic with their misguided beliefs sometimes....
Should probably put 'references' on our profile from "straight male" couples we've met - "played with nina and D and D didnae try tae touch or sook ma cock at any point! Honest!"
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I call myself Bi curious because I am exactly that and im also fussy hence why im still looking ... will remain curious until I have been with a female and then I will no longer be curious.
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"I call myself Bi curious because I am exactly that and im also fussy hence why im still looking ... will remain curious until I have been with a female and then I will no longer be curious.
xx"
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