Because they can't be arsed to read a profile.
I have no interest in the sub/dom culture but get loads of guys who are all about that.
We also get a load of people looking at the couple profile from the Midlands, oddly |
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"Oh why is it so hard to find somebody too meet. I state dundee only (personal choice ) and people from all over message ....help a sister out find me a half decent man lol "
Are you joking?
I was told last night there was enough interest in swinging where you are to open and sustain a club, and you can't even get a meet!   |
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"Oh why is it so hard to find somebody too meet. I state dundee only (personal choice ) and people from all over message ....help a sister out find me a half decent man lol
Are you joking?
I was told last night there was enough interest in swinging where you are to open and sustain a club, and you can't even get a meet! "
yea mabey enought intrested but who says I want to shag them ?? That's the problam here ur expected to have no standards |
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"Often read Dundee women complain they can't get a meet. I'm no surprised, most don't even read their messages let alone give a guy a chance."
. Was that a dig at me ...where do u live .not dundee .and when u keep messageing and not getting a reply u think ud take the hint . I answer to no one
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"Often read Dundee women complain they can't get a meet. I'm no surprised, most don't even read their messages let alone give a guy a chance.. Was that a dig at me ...where do u live .not dundee .and when u keep messageing and not getting a reply u think ud take the hint . I answer to no one "
Sparkle are you up for a 3sum with myself & och? |
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"Often read Dundee women complain they can't get a meet. I'm no surprised, most don't even read their messages let alone give a guy a chance.. Was that a dig at me ...where do u live .not dundee .and when u keep messageing and not getting a reply u think ud take the hint . I answer to no one "
I am in Dundee actually. Wasn't a dig at anyone. Just a valid observation |
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I travel about with work and often find myself in Dundee. If its local people you are looking for I dont know why its so hard but us good guys who are there sometimes are always happy to meet. |
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"Often read Dundee women complain they can't get a meet. I'm no surprised, most don't even read their messages let alone give a guy a chance.. Was that a dig at me ...where do u live .not dundee .and when u keep messageing and not getting a reply u think ud take the hint . I answer to no one "
BTW, with regards folk.messaging again after not getting a reply, it's very easy to assume that their message has just went so far down a woman's inbox due to the amount of mail they get that a guy then takes the plunge to send another. I note though you haven't commented on the fact that I haven't messaged you again after you did reply and say I'm not your type. |
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"Often read Dundee women complain they can't get a meet. I'm no surprised, most don't even read their messages let alone give a guy a chance.. Was that a dig at me ...where do u live .not dundee .and when u keep messageing and not getting a reply u think ud take the hint . I answer to no one
Sparkle are you up for a 3sum with myself & och?"
......I'd rather watch paint dry !! |
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"Often read Dundee women complain they can't get a meet. I'm no surprised, most don't even read their messages let alone give a guy a chance.. Was that a dig at me ...where do u live .not dundee .and when u keep messageing and not getting a reply u think ud take the hint . I answer to no one
BTW, with regards folk.messaging again after not getting a reply, it's very easy to assume that their message has just went so far down a woman's inbox due to the amount of mail they get that a guy then takes the plunge to send another. I note though you haven't commented on the fact that I haven't messaged you again after you did reply and say I'm not your type."
was about ten mins ago glad uv took the hint .oh u didn't u wrote on my comment instead |
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"I think we may be getting to the bottom of why you're struggling"
. I know. It's because I don't want to shag every man that messages me ..it's because I can say no not my type .or I can ignore somebody. That's my choice .but then after all that they can come on the forum and still talk ..oh my I'm a bitch
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"I think we may be getting to the bottom of why you're struggling. I know. It's because I don't want to shag every man that messages me ..it's because I can say no not my type .or I can ignore somebody. That's my choice .but then after all that they can come on the forum and still talk ..oh my I'm a bitch"
Your prerogative who you do or don't shag. Either can be done without the attitude tho |
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"I travel about with work and often find myself in Dundee. If its local people you are looking for I dont know why its so hard but us good guys who are there sometimes are always happy to meet."
because if I wanted to do drive threws and pump men from all over scotland I would. But as I don't I think it would be My choice .why does it come across as being a bitch ect because it's what I want ..I mean I don't make anybody message me but I do state quiet clearly .ITS not what I want
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"I think we may be getting to the bottom of why you're struggling. I know. It's because I don't want to shag every man that messages me ..it's because I can say no not my type .or I can ignore somebody. That's my choice .but then after all that they can come on the forum and still talk .
.oh my I'm a bitch my attitude comes from ignoring ur messages .then eventually saying I'm not intrested to you writing on this .take the hint bolt
Your prerogative who you do or don't shag. Either can be done without the attitude tho"
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"I think we may be getting to the bottom of why you're struggling. I know. It's because I don't want to shag every man that messages me ..it's because I can say no not my type .or I can ignore somebody. That's my choice .but then after all that they can come on the forum and still talk .
.oh my I'm a bitch my attitude comes from ignoring ur messages .then eventually saying I'm not intrested to you writing on this .take the hint bolt
Your prerogative who you do or don't shag. Either can be done without the attitude tho"
Oh dear, a couple of friendly introductory messages then no more after you said not interested. Looks like a lucky escape for me tho so thanks for thst |
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A novel idea is to put filters up to stop people messaging you and you be the one to message local profiles that interest you instead? That will stop unwanted attention |
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Good luck to all looking to meet in my home town. Seems there are a good lot of couples and bit more difficult for those playing alone is my observation. Chatted and met some decent people and on the the other hand my belter radar has gone wild sometimes. Hope you get what you are. |
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The problem we have is that we're a stag and vixen couple so want single guys, but most just don't understand our dynamic and ignore or try to sideline G. They won't get anywhere with that attitude. If they don't get a thumbs up from him it's a no go |
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"Just a thought but if you don't want nice tits messages from guys then maybe don't have a pic of your tits up.
Horrible cock  "
Ha walked into that one! That made me chuckle. |
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"A novel idea is to put filters up to stop people messaging you and you be the one to message local profiles that interest you instead? That will stop unwanted attention "
Great idea!  |
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"Get yourself to a Dundee Social!
We find it's great to meet all the local fab members in one place at the same time.
K & G
xxx"
Haven't been to one in a long while now with real life stuff coming up. Hope to get to one in the future. |
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"oops, maybe the men arent the problem. we are all limited by our own restrictions."
Yup sure are . And men arnt the problam .meeting one I'm intrested in is .single .age range .and with a witty personality 2/3 ain't bad |
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"oops, maybe the men arent the problem. we are all limited by our own restrictions.
Yup sure are . And men arnt the problam .meeting one I'm intrested in is .single .age range .and with a witty personality 2/3 ain't bad "
just not good enough |
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"oops, maybe the men arent the problem. we are all limited by our own restrictions.
Yup sure are . And men arnt the problam .meeting one I'm intrested in is .single .age range .and with a witty personality 2/3 ain't bad
just not good enough "
No just not single as iv already said .  |
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Am in dundee for work for a few weeks come from a bit further north tho and same near aberdeen singley guys a plenty and not many couples or females up for meeting |
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