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We are a couple looking for a well verified guy to hopefully become regular thing. We had been lucky enough to have a trustworthy guy on here who we had been meeting regularly for the last year or so but he has unfortunately moved away. Tried posting in the meeting section but unfortunately inundated with guys with no veris or miles away which isn’t practical. Hopefully find someone as it’s hard work trying to shift through all the chancers and wannabes |
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"We are a couple looking for a well verified guy to hopefully become regular thing. We had been lucky enough to have a trustworthy guy on here who we had been meeting regularly for the last year or so but he has unfortunately moved away. Tried posting in the meeting section but unfortunately inundated with guys with no veris or miles away which isn’t practical. Hopefully find someone as it’s hard work trying to shift through all the chancres and wannabes "
Snap we are the same Looking for a regular guy and not a chancre lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am the same but other way round looking for a regular lady or couple to have nights out with then some fun on a regular basis, go to clubs together etc, socialise is the fun bit also |
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Jeez! There are literally hundreds of guys on the site looking for this, verified or not. Why not give the ones who haven't had a meet a chance? The only ones that are preventing any meets is you, take a leap. |
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over a year ago
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"We are a couple looking for a well verified guy to hopefully become regular thing. We had been lucky enough to have a trustworthy guy on here who we had been meeting regularly for the last year or so but he has unfortunately moved away. Tried posting in the meeting section but unfortunately inundated with guys with no veris or miles away which isn’t practical. Hopefully find someone as it’s hard work trying to shift through all the chancers and wannabes "
If you find this particular unicorn, please feel free to share
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By *SophiexCouple
over a year ago
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"...We had been lucky enough to have a trustworthy guy on here who we had been meeting regularly... "
I had the same thing, was meeting a guy from Paisley a maybe every second month and sometimes without hubby but he was hard work... The sex was great when it happened but he was more and more not able to meet on a Saturday night and wanted to meet during the week... I can't meet on a school night specially when starting at sometimes 6 in the morning. The thought of driving to Paisley and not getting to drink wine while playing was also not making the experience as good as I wanted to be although I say again the sex was great!
For two years we had a good thing that hubby encouraged but now we are back looking and as always finding someone who ticks all the boxes is not easy.
So if you know a hot guy with preferred age 26-32 with his own place near Killie shout loud!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats wrong with a married guy with permission to play away . There is a lot of us on here. ?
Comes with too much baggage e.g. can't go to his and relax "
Yup. This. |
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over a year ago
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"Whats wrong with a married guy with permission to play away . There is a lot of us on here. ?
Comes with too much baggage e.g. can't go to his and relax
Yup. This. "
I am married to my work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn’t know it was a bidding process??
I’ll start us off with a bag of chips and a can of Fanta.....each!! "
I raise you with a bag of chips and a can of old recipe irn bru |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Didn’t know it was a bidding process??
I’ll start us off with a bag of chips and a can of Fanta.....each!! I raise you with a bag of chips and a can of old recipe irn bru"
Cannae compete with that  ohh aye and I'm no single  |
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"We are a couple looking for a well verified guy to hopefully become regular thing. We had been lucky enough to have a trustworthy guy on here who we had been meeting regularly for the last year or so but he has unfortunately moved away. Tried posting in the meeting section but unfortunately inundated with guys with no veris or miles away which isn’t practical. Hopefully find someone as it’s hard work trying to shift through all the chancers and wannabes "
We are the very same, looking for a hot, athletic/tonned hung guy for regular fun and to meet us both and also the Mrs on her own then eventually go they go to CJ’s together, arrange meets with other couples and maybe even get their own profile.
It’s finding someone who can fit all of this..... yeah I know it’s a lot to ask for but it’s our thing that we like/want |
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"We are the very same, looking for a hot, athletic/tonned hung guy for regular fun and to meet us both and also the Mrs on her own then eventually go they go to CJ’s together, arrange meets with other couples and maybe even get their own profile.
It’s finding someone who can fit all of this..... yeah I know it’s a lot to ask for but it’s our thing that we like/want"
Snap this is exactly what we want. Problem is will get guys who say yeh that’s exactly their thing and tell you what u wanna here then once they have had what they want will disappear, or you will get the married ones pretending to be single that are never free. Very hard trying to find someone with little ties that can possibly stay over for the night with mrs or be available few times a week or weekends. |
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Sorry, but seems like some of the posters are looking for guys to jump through hoops, put their lives on hold to facilitate their demands/wishes. We have things in this life that sometimes we have to get on with. Maybe a little compromising. |
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"Sorry, but seems like some of the posters are looking for guys to jump through hoops, put their lives on hold to facilitate their demands/wishes. We have things in this life that sometimes we have to get on with. Maybe a little compromising. "
Hence looking for someone who CAN do it.
Why would we even consider compromising if its not what we want??
We will just keep searching for that unique guy thanks and leave the compromising for others  |
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"Sorry, but seems like some of the posters are looking for guys to jump through hoops, put their lives on hold to facilitate their demands/wishes. We have things in this life that sometimes we have to get on with. Maybe a little compromising. "
Although I can understand where you are coming from this is our kink, this is what we enjoy and is not a necessity in our life’s so why should we give up what we like to accommodate someone else. We are looking for regular meets with one guy we can trust and push boundaries. If a guy messages us and says he can only meet once a month or he is married and cant get away often then he isn’t for us, don’t see why we should be frowned upon for this. But back to my original point that 98% of guys on here will say whatever needs to be said just to get a meet, it’s hard trying to find what we are looking for when a lot of people will say a load or crap then fall at first hurdle |
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"Sorry, but seems like some of the posters are looking for guys to jump through hoops, put their lives on hold to facilitate their demands/wishes. We have things in this life that sometimes we have to get on with. Maybe a little compromising.
Although I can understand where you are coming from this is our kink, this is what we enjoy and is not a necessity in our life’s so why should we give up what we like to accommodate someone else. We are looking for regular meets with one guy we can trust and push boundaries. If a guy messages us and says he can only meet once a month or he is married and cant get away often then he isn’t for us, don’t see why we should be frowned upon for this. But back to my original point that 98% of guys on here will say whatever needs to be said just to get a meet, it’s hard trying to find what we are looking for when a lot of people will say a load or crap then fall at first hurdle "
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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"Sorry, but seems like some of the posters are looking for guys to jump through hoops, put their lives on hold to facilitate their demands/wishes. We have things in this life that sometimes we have to get on with. Maybe a little compromising.
Although I can understand where you are coming from this is our kink, this is what we enjoy and is not a necessity in our life’s so why should we give up what we like to accommodate someone else. We are looking for regular meets with one guy we can trust and push boundaries. If a guy messages us and says he can only meet once a month or he is married and cant get away often then he isn’t for us, don’t see why we should be frowned upon for this. But back to my original point that 98% of guys on here will say whatever needs to be said just to get a meet, it’s hard trying to find what we are looking for when a lot of people will say a load or crap then fall at first hurdle "
This
I have a very limited number of guys that “tick the boxes” & that I find both attractive & stimulating, with one Regular that gets first priority over all else. The older I get the fussier I become, so I’m happy to limit play & stay selective.
I don’t see why this couple should compromise their criteria or get stick for their choices. We all have our “wish lists” & I certainly respect anyone who won’t drop their stsndards, no matter the level of difficulty to find a match on Fab.
Keep looking OP. That guy might just crop up when you least expect it.
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"Sorry, but seems like some of the posters are looking for guys to jump through hoops, put their lives on hold to facilitate their demands/wishes. We have things in this life that sometimes we have to get on with. Maybe a little compromising.
Although I can understand where you are coming from this is our kink, this is what we enjoy and is not a necessity in our life’s so why should we give up what we like to accommodate someone else. We are looking for regular meets with one guy we can trust and push boundaries. If a guy messages us and says he can only meet once a month or he is married and cant get away often then he isn’t for us, don’t see why we should be frowned upon for this. But back to my original point that 98% of guys on here will say whatever needs to be said just to get a meet, it’s hard trying to find what we are looking for when a lot of people will say a load or crap then fall at first hurdle
This
I have a very limited number of guys that “tick the boxes” & that I find both attractive & stimulating, with one Regular that gets first priority over all else. The older I get the fussier I become, so I’m happy to limit play & stay selective.
I don’t see why this couple should compromise their criteria or get stick for their choices. We all have our “wish lists” & I certainly respect anyone who won’t drop their stsndards, no matter the level of difficulty to find a match on Fab.
Keep looking OP. That guy might just crop up when you least expect it.
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By *jarvisMan
over a year ago
Johnstone |
"...We had been lucky enough to have a trustworthy guy on here who we had been meeting regularly...
I had the same thing, was meeting a guy from Paisley a maybe every second month and sometimes without hubby but he was hard work... The sex was great when it happened but he was more and more not able to meet on a Saturday night and wanted to meet during the week... I can't meet on a school night specially when starting at sometimes 6 in the morning. The thought of driving to Paisley and not getting to drink wine while playing was also not making the experience as good as I wanted to be although I say again the sex was great!
For two years we had a good thing that hubby encouraged but now we are back looking and as always finding someone who ticks all the boxes is not easy.
So if you know a hot guy with preferred age 26-32 with his own place near Killie shout loud! "
The thought of driving to Paisley would make anyone want to drink! |
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"Sorry, but seems like some of the posters are looking for guys to jump through hoops, put their lives on hold to facilitate their demands/wishes. We have things in this life that sometimes we have to get on with. Maybe a little compromising.
Although I can understand where you are coming from this is our kink, this is what we enjoy and is not a necessity in our life’s so why should we give up what we like to accommodate someone else. We are looking for regular meets with one guy we can trust and push boundaries. If a guy messages us and says he can only meet once a month or he is married and cant get away often then he isn’t for us, don’t see why we should be frowned upon for this. But back to my original point that 98% of guys on here will say whatever needs to be said just to get a meet, it’s hard trying to find what we are looking for when a lot of people will say a load or crap then fall at first hurdle
This
I have a very limited number of guys that “tick the boxes” & that I find both attractive & stimulating, with one Regular that gets first priority over all else. The older I get the fussier I become, so I’m happy to limit play & stay selective.
I don’t see why this couple should compromise their criteria or get stick for their choices. We all have our “wish lists” & I certainly respect anyone who won’t drop their stsndards, no matter the level of difficulty to find a match on Fab.
Keep looking OP. That guy might just crop up when you least expect it.
Also this "
Everything about this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd seriously not read too much into the verification thing. Loads of them are just polite ticks in boxes....
Can't see you not having loads of offers. If someone can't get a grip and speak to you early doors and meet up " for interview" then move on to the next guy. |
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"Sorry, but seems like some of the posters are looking for guys to jump through hoops, put their lives on hold to facilitate their demands/wishes. We have things in this life that sometimes we have to get on with. Maybe a little compromising.
Although I can understand where you are coming from this is our kink, this is what we enjoy and is not a necessity in our life’s so why should we give up what we like to accommodate someone else. We are looking for regular meets with one guy we can trust and push boundaries. If a guy messages us and says he can only meet once a month or he is married and cant get away often then he isn’t for us, don’t see why we should be frowned upon for this. But back to my original point that 98% of guys on here will say whatever needs to be said just to get a meet, it’s hard trying to find what we are looking for when a lot of people will say a load or crap then fall at first hurdle "
Why do people have issues with what other people are into? If you don't like emerdale just change the channel, if you don't like someone's kink, msg another profile! Plus like you say, too many fantasists on here saying all the right things behind an online site with no intention of following through with what they say, in my opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I would love to be that regular and reliable man you are after.
Please feel free to see my verification to prove that I am genuine and not a time waster.
X"
Duuuude...that's cringey as fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree why change what you want. I no how it feels being let down and having no veries I have meet a few and they have been one offs I would prefer something more regular |
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Unfortunately to get the perfect fit you need to wade through the gremlins.
The site is full of folk who will say anything and everything to get what they want.
Your best means of getting what you want is patience and time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"maybe try replying to your mails?
If someone finds you attractive enough to fuck they will reply.
Take from that what you will.  "
Interesting this has turned in me being the one with the problem haha They are the ones looking for a reliable guy. I offered a suggestion that might increase their chances.
White knighting is the future tho eh |
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"maybe try replying to your mails?
If someone finds you attractive enough to fuck they will reply.
Take from that what you will.
Interesting this has turned in me being the one with the problem haha They are the ones looking for a reliable guy. I offered a suggestion that might increase their chances.
White knighting is the future tho eh "
I don't think anyone's being a white knight. you seem to be miffed that they chose not to reply to mails from yourself probably because you ain't what they are looking for.
It's a single reliable guy that interests them they are looking for not just a guy who will pitch up
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"maybe try replying to your mails?
If someone finds you attractive enough to fuck they will reply.
Take from that what you will.
Interesting this has turned in me being the one with the problem haha They are the ones looking for a reliable guy. I offered a suggestion that might increase their chances.
White knighting is the future tho eh "
Not about you at all bud nor a problem for the folks who know how the site works.
Zero reply = not interested.
Your only suggestion was from them to reply to you which if not forthcoming would suggest your unfuckable to her (them)
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"I don't think anyone's being a white knight. you seem to be miffed that they chose not to reply to mails from yourself probably because you ain't what they are looking for.
It's a single reliable guy that interests them they are looking for not just a guy who will pitch up
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I don't particularly give a shit why they didn't reply. Nor does anyone on here (but them) know why they didn't reply.
So save your speculation for someone who gives a fuck  |
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"I don't think anyone's being a white knight. you seem to be miffed that they chose not to reply to mails from yourself probably because you ain't what they are looking for.
It's a single reliable guy that interests them they are looking for not just a guy who will pitch up
I don't particularly give a shit why they didn't reply. Nor does anyone on here (but them) know why they didn't reply.
So save your speculation for someone who gives a fuck "
Lol chill you cared enough to draw attention to it then proceed to attack anyone who points out your possible mistake |
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"I don't think anyone's being a white knight. you seem to be miffed that they chose not to reply to mails from yourself probably because you ain't what they are looking for.
It's a single reliable guy that interests them they are looking for not just a guy who will pitch up
I don't particularly give a shit why they didn't reply. Nor does anyone on here (but them) know why they didn't reply.
So save your speculation for someone who gives a fuck Lol chill you cared enough to draw attention to it then proceed to attack anyone who points out your possible mistake "
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"We're not having any luck finding guys at the moment either. Fab seems to be in a bit of a slump at the moment "
It's still only Q1, it should pick up.  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Whats wrong with a married guy with permission to play away . There is a lot of us on here. ?
Comes with too much baggage e.g. can't go to his and relax
Yup. This. "
I’ve met He Devil and had a great meet at his and he has permission to play. I’ve met both him and his wife socially twice. Don’t write off married guys until you’ve chatted to them. Give them a chance. |
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theres loads of timewasters on here for everyone. Just dont know why people waste other peoples time and their own. i too dont get many replies so just send generic message if people are looking to meet or not now to save me a lot of time and hassle and amount of replies i get back because i havent read profile is unbelievable.i look at it all people need to say is thanks but no thanks if not interested and anyone who has met me knows how genuine and respectful i am think site needs revamp to get rid of people wasting peoples time or wee tick box saying not interested and blocks each other |
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"Whats wrong with a married guy with permission to play away . There is a lot of us on here. ?
Comes with too much baggage e.g. can't go to his and relax
Yup. This.
I’ve met He Devil and had a great meet at his and he has permission to play. I’ve met both him and his wife socially twice. Don’t write off married guys until you’ve chatted to them. Give them a chance. "
The last sentence defo |
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