Can you be too nice?
I have had some chats with some cracking people but some of them have gone no where as I have been told I "don't go for it" quick enough.
Surely you need to have a connection and get to know someone before just going for it. Or am I being unrealistic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think there is such a thing as too nice but you can become over familiar with some people and the initial spark can fizzle out .... although lots of people want to make lasting friends many dont want to know your life history before jumping into bed with you. xx
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"Can you be too nice?
I have had some chats with some cracking people but some of them have gone no where as I have been told I "don't go for it" quick enough.
Surely you need to have a connection and get to know someone before just going for it. Or am I being unrealistic?"
Yeah i believe you can be too nice and some people take advantage of that.
Getting to know people is definatley better than expecting a shag after two or three emails so people have no concept of swininging at all . |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"I dont think there is such a thing as too nice but you can become over familiar with some people and the initial spark can fizzle out .... although lots of people want to make lasting friends many dont want to know your life history before jumping into bed with you. xx
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Ok so when are we jumping into bed then?   |
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Maybe it is because I "never expect a shag" and like to think that whatever happens happens and don't push it.
If I meet someone then excellent but I am not going to get my knickers in a twist if it doesn't happen. |
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agreed . then again go for it too soon and your a bad guy leave it too late and your too nice so iv really no idea when or what to say being honest . you cant be blunt and say want a shag ...you cant take your time with the messages then your a timewaster . so what to do ? as a guy on here im letting the messages come to me ..i wink but then if nothing after that then its done . fully aware could be on here the next million years and get nowhere but ces't la vie . |
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"Maybe it is because I "never expect a shag" and like to think that whatever happens happens and don't push it.
If I meet someone then excellent but I am not going to get my knickers in a twist if it doesn't happen."
Think that's the best way to be Inver  |
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"agreed . then again go for it too soon and your a bad guy leave it too late and your too nice so iv really no idea when or what to say being honest . you cant be blunt and say want a shag ...you cant take your time with the messages then your a timewaster . so what to do ? as a guy on here im letting the messages come to me ..i wink but then if nothing after that then its done . fully aware could be on here the next million years and get nowhere but ces't la vie ."
Agreed but i think you kinda know by the context of an email if its going to go somewhere or not pretty quickly x |
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over a year ago
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It all depends on the person.
Some people like to get to know you first and others will grab you as soon as the door is closed behind them.
I kinda like it that way.....it keeps you guessing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too nice? Nope, theres too honest, too helpfull, too gullable though,and disshonest and unhelpfull tend too come along and make you regret being too honest and too helpfull. |
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