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Actually a lot of swingers are very vanilla. The only thing is they have sex with others. But it is still boring traditional sex.
I loves my sex more kinky and inventive |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Actually a lot of swingers are very vanilla. The only thing is they have sex with others. But it is still boring traditional sex.
I loves my sex more kinky and inventive"
Somebody been talking about me   |
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I would class myself as a vanilla swinger
But just because I don't want my Arse slapped red raw or fuck a guy with a kid on dick
Does mot make me boring  |
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"Actually a lot of swingers are very vanilla. The only thing is they have sex with others. But it is still boring traditional sex.
I loves my sex more kinky and inventive
Somebody been talking about me "
They don't call u Mr Missionary do they?  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Actually a lot of swingers are very vanilla. The only thing is they have sex with others. But it is still boring traditional sex.
I loves my sex more kinky and inventive
Somebody been talking about me
They don't call u Mr Missionary do they? "
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I described myself as vanilla with a side of kink.
I’m not hugely experienced in all things super kinky, and there are a good few things I’m happy to not try. Since I’ve been on Fab I’ve felt able to explore a bit more and that’s a very good thing indeed.
I wouldn’t say I’m boring though - I’ve certainly never been told I am and manage to get a pretty decent number of repeat meetings so even though I’m mostly vanilla I seem to be doing something right...! |
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"Its a word used by those who want to feel elite.
ive met wilder folk outwith fab than on it"
This is spot on. Some folk on Fab think they invented sex. You could pick any random out any bar and likely have as wild a time sexually.
Sexual liberation is everywhere, not just amongst a bunch of regulars on a forum who chat about it.
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"So I see a lot of people either calling themselves vanilla of calling others it. I'm guessing vanilla means plain and maybe boring would this be correct ??"
Just because something is the thing that most people have the most often, doesn’t make it plain or boring.
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I’d take luxurious, silky-smooth, sweet vanilla ice cream over saccharine supermarket mint choc chip any day of the week. Same for sex.
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It’s all about the quality, not the flavour.
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And before anyone takes offence, nothing I have said means you can’t have a good quality raspberry ripple, and I’ve got nothing against people who only have pistachio. I like a bit of pistachio myself, now and then. |
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"So I see a lot of people either calling themselves vanilla of calling others it. I'm guessing vanilla means plain and maybe boring would this be correct ??
Just because something is the thing that most people have the most often, doesn’t make it plain or boring.
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I’d take luxurious, silky-smooth, sweet vanilla ice cream over saccharine supermarket mint choc chip any day of the week. Same for sex.
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It’s all about the quality, not the flavour.
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And before anyone takes offence, nothing I have said means you can’t have a good quality raspberry ripple, and I’ve got nothing against people who only have pistachio. I like a bit of pistachio myself, now and then."
Prefer raspberry nipple myself. |
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"Vanilla folk know how to have a good time without gimmicks "
This. It rips my knitting the way the word vanilla is used as a put down almost. I like to think I can be "vanilla" one day and a durty wee so and so the next. Labels are a lot of keech. |
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If you're honest with yourself, most of us have so called vanilla sex on most occasions. We can't all be swinging from the chandeliers or skelping one another's arses with paddles and a cat 'o' nine tails every time. There would be a point where even that would be considered mundane and could maybe lead to something more extreme. |
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"I still only use the term vanilla to describe non swinging folk ..nothing else "
I'd consider you to be pretty vanilla given you said on another thread you've never even had a mfm or fmf. |
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See? This is where we differ. We use vanilla and vampire terminology but more in a descriptive sense relating to our life. Vanilla to us relates to 'normal' life. Vampire the more deviant side of things. So if we are out with family etc then it is a vanilla night. A night of fun is a vampire night  xxx |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"See? This is where we differ. We use vanilla and vampire terminology but more in a descriptive sense relating to our life. Vanilla to us relates to 'normal' life. Vampire the more deviant side of things. So if we are out with family etc then it is a vanilla night. A night of fun is a vampire night xxx"
pretty much this ...only never heard the term vampire night |
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"Never used the term to describe sexual acts "
Agreed. We don't use it in relation to sexual acts either. Just a way for us to let the other know where we are at or what is on our agenda. Not sure if that is explaining it right lol xxx |
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"Its a word used by those who want to feel elite.
ive met wilder folk outwith fab than on it
This is spot on. Some folk on Fab think they invented sex. You could pick any random out any bar and likely have as wild a time sexually.
Sexual liberation is everywhere, not just amongst a bunch of regulars on a forum who chat about it.
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I completely agree Mr Butler. (Never saw that coming... )
Elitist views like "they don't like what we like" are laughable. Actually, we don't all like the same things as is blatantly obvious every day on here!
Vanilla is often intended to indicate boring and unadventurous, but as others have mentioned a fine Madagascan vanilla is great on occasions but can be followed by a craving for tutti frutti. People have all kinds of sex without actually broadcasting it so how do we know what their flavour is?
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By *UNKIEMan
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"Never used the term to describe sexual acts
Agreed. We don't use it in relation to sexual acts either. Just a way for us to let the other know where we are at or what is on our agenda. Not sure if that is explaining it right lol xxx"
I get you xxx |
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"Its a word used by those who want to feel elite.
ive met wilder folk outwith fab than on it
This is spot on. Some folk on Fab think they invented sex. You could pick any random out any bar and likely have as wild a time sexually.
Sexual liberation is everywhere, not just amongst a bunch of regulars on a forum who chat about it.
I completely agree Mr Butler. (Never saw that coming...)"
I'm not surprised. There are few as wise as I, on these forums.
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I use vanilla with sprinkles a lot.
Something of an Americanism but basically into normal things with little alterations and embellishments to them gradually brought in.
So adding a little twist to what is normal and comfortable. |
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