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Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off.
Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty 
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I think every meet is different and would be unfair to compare against each other. 1-1's are generally far more intimate than mmf/mfmf etc ,where as group fun can be a lot naughtier in terms of Fab fun such as dp/dvp.
Having said that with the right partner 1-1's can be as kinky and naughty as multiple people playing can be.
So for me I'll take both options  |
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off.
Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x"
Yea good point I never thought of their being an expectation for you take part but I suppose I’m looking at it from a guys point of view.
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"I think every meet is different and would be unfair to compare against each other. 1-1's are generally far more intimate than mmf/mfmf etc ,where as group fun can be a lot naughtier in terms of Fab fun such as dp/dvp.
Having said that with the right partner 1-1's can be as kinky and naughty as multiple people playing can be.
So for me I'll take both options "
Yea I’m with you each have there pros and both have very few cons lol |
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"Don't get me wrong, I do like threesomes with two guys lol  x
Haha two is always better than one I guess. X
Lol yes it is x"
Shame I’m below your age limit or I’d show you a good one can be better than two ok ones lol x |
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"Group sex is good fun, you get a giggle. But not very satisfying.
I much prefer a one to one where I can fuck for hours and cum constantly, then feel completely knackered after.  "
Haha sounds like you’ve had a good one on one meet lol x |
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"Don't get me wrong, I do like threesomes with two guys lol x
Haha two is always better than one I guess. X
Lol yes it is x
Shame I’m below your age limit or I’d show you a good one can be better than two ok ones lol x "
Lol last time I did that, the guy got a bit too clingy. Sorry not going there again! x |
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"Don't get me wrong, I do like threesomes with two guys lol x
Haha two is always better than one I guess. X
Lol yes it is x
Shame I’m below your age limit or I’d show you a good one can be better than two ok ones lol x
Lol last time I did that, the guy got a bit too clingy. Sorry not going there again! x"
Haha fare enough but don’t worry I’m not the clingy type x |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I’ve had some amazing one on one meets. Especially when you’ve played together before.
The dynamics of 3sums and 4sums vary so much that no two are the same but enjoyable in their own way.
I much prefer the one on one fun. |
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"I think every meet is different and would be unfair to compare against each other. 1-1's are generally far more intimate than mmf/mfmf etc ,where as group fun can be a lot naughtier in terms of Fab fun such as dp/dvp.
Having said that with the right partner 1-1's can be as kinky and naughty as multiple people playing can be.
So for me I'll take both options "
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Group sex I’ve never tried nor have I been involved in anything other than 1on1. Not sure how I’d feel in a group to be honest. but I’ve always said I’d try it once lol. |
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off.
Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x"
Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol. |
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over a year ago
Paisley |
"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off.
Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x
Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol. "
Poker night was a great social night. BeADevil are great hosts. He Devil and his wife Mrs She Devil know how to throw a party. |
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off.
Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x
Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol. "
Yep we’ve been to both, most party hosts stipulate no pressure to play but there is still an expectation from some people (not always the hosts )
K x |
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off.
Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x
Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol.
Yep we’ve been to both, most party hosts stipulate no pressure to play but there is still an expectation from some people (not always the hosts )
K x"
Hey is it you that hosting the Glasgow social in the summer? |
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I’ve never been to a party, I like the idea of them but in reality I don’t think I’m brave enough.
I’ve had a fair few ffm threesomes, and have had a lot of fun.
I much prefer the intimacy of one on one though. Especially when you get to know someone, their likes and dislikes, feeling comfortable with them and losing your inhibitions. Really really hot. |
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off.
Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x
Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol.
Yep we’ve been to both, most party hosts stipulate no pressure to play but there is still an expectation from some people (not always the hosts )
K x
Hey is it you that hosting the Glasgow social in the summer? "
Myself and another fabber
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"Still not sure about parties... feel there’s an expectation to play n that puts us off. Think that’s why we prefer clubs. One on ones outwith clubs we’ve only had with single females so still go others to tick off.
Been discussing mfm but I’m a big fearty
K x
Maybe some parties have play as an expectation but ask the question first or say , yes would like to attend but we may not play. Our last 2 gatherings from our couples profile have been great nights but we always stress that it is a social party / get together first and foremost. If play happens then its by guests choice ONLY. Absolutely not expected or guaranteed. Maybe stick you guys on next guest list and let you see for yourself lol.
Poker night was a great social night. BeADevil are great hosts. He Devil and his wife Mrs She Devil know how to throw a party. "
Thank you sexy. Keep an eye on your inbox, if we can sort out a date that suits we are having another we themed night before June. X |
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I like both, 1-1 and groups, they all tick different boxes and push different buttons 
M and F group fun has its dynamic that is different to a F only group fun and same to 1-1 when you can focus more on one person and strangely feels like you have more time to do things.
All good fun |
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I love a small group...mf mf is really good for us. But 3 to 4 cpls has always been fab ...then it doesn’t mater that we are anly soft swing. There is plenty ov fun for everyone
Tho not keen on crowded party’s, I like to keep it intimate.
We have been to two clubs and it wasn’t for us.
Never had a 3some most ov the fems I have chatted with have said no because there is no sex at the end ov the night for them...as we are soft swing
So looks like I have a to do list!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly
As I always overthink this dynamic lol
Where really I should be lapping up all the attention  "
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though.... |
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No I never feel used
It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1
Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol
I overthink.com
Lol |
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly
As I always overthink this dynamic lol
Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though...."
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU. |
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly
As I always overthink this dynamic lol
Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU. "
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman! |
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"No I never feel used
It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1
Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol
I overthink.com
Lol"
Aah....You're a giver and just want to make sure everyone is happy! |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"No I never feel used
It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1
Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol
I overthink.com
Lol"
You need to quit with the thinking and start with the doing Mrs!!! I will loan out S as a starter for you |
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"No I never feel used
It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1
Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol
I overthink.com
Lol
You need to quit with the thinking and start with the doing Mrs!!! I will loan out S as a starter for you "
now your talking!! |
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly
As I always overthink this dynamic lol
Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman! "
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x |
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly
As I always overthink this dynamic lol
Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman!
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x"
Was just about to say I have my finger in a few pies but that's possibly not the best turn of phrase to use!
I'm working on it, let's just say that! |
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly
As I always overthink this dynamic lol
Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman!
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x
Was just about to say I have my finger in a few pies but that's possibly not the best turn of phrase to use!
I'm working on it, let's just say that!"
You should work a little harder then! x |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly
As I always overthink this dynamic lol
Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman!
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x
Was just about to say I have my finger in a few pies but that's possibly not the best turn of phrase to use!
I'm working on it, let's just say that!"
Hahahaha love the phrase |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"No I never feel used
It's more is 1 thinking am Doing more with the other or not paying enough attention to 1
Where in reality the 2 guys couldn't give a toss as long as we are all having fun lol
I overthink.com
Lol
You need to quit with the thinking and start with the doing Mrs!!! I will loan out S as a starter for you now your talking!! "
Anytime, gives me peace |
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One on ones get better with same person as you grow to experiment even more.
Best with a couple - especially cuckold, love to play & be played with by wife as he watches, them as I am deep inside her, he’s allowed to be sucked - but that’s it...
Really enjoy that. |
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"Mfm comes way down my list weirdly
As I always overthink this dynamic lol
Where really I should be lapping up all the attention
I'm a bit like this too...all down to how you interpret the situation and obviously what everyone is looking for. I'd like to think I'd feel incredibly sexy and desired but worry I'd end up feeling used. That's my issue though....
Its strange you might feel used. Surely no matter what the scenario on a swinger site you run the risk of feeling used after every meet with a guy. At the end of the day the guy wants fun with YOU.
I know. Like I said it's my issue and probably why I'm looking for a woman!
Have you found that woman yet? Difficult on here isn't it? x
Was just about to say I have my finger in a few pies but that's possibly not the best turn of phrase to use!
I'm working on it, let's just say that!
You should work a little harder then! x"
Thats me telt then! ( cracks whip) |
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