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Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex? |
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?"
If i agree to meet someone that does not mean we are going to have sex. |
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?
If i agree to meet someone that does not mean we are going to have sex."
Yes but your meeting someone to hopefully feel a spark and then have sex? |
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?
If i agree to meet someone that does not mean we are going to have sex."
Totally agree with this. The anticipation is of course exciting but no gurantee of sex. Still has to be that something there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?"
You don’t but the whole reason for meeting is to have fun and you usually already have an idea that you will x |
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?
If i agree to meet someone that does not mean we are going to have sex.
Yes but your meeting someone to hopefully feel a spark and then have sex? "
I never take anything for granted beforehand although sometimes i have known within minutes that we will have great sex |
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You don’t but the whole reason for meeting is to have fun and you usually already have an idea that you will x"
Not if the first meet is a social one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?
If i agree to meet someone that does not mean we are going to have sex.
Yes but your meeting someone to hopefully feel a spark and then have sex?
I never take anything for granted beforehand although sometimes i have known within minutes that we will have great sex"
See above lol |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?
If i agree to meet someone that does not mean we are going to have sex.
Yes but your meeting someone to hopefully feel a spark and then have sex?
I never take anything for granted beforehand although sometimes i have known within minutes that we will have great sex"
 this although she may think different  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn’t expect anything to happen on a social meet, but a night time meet I’d be pretty gutted/raging if it didn’t given the prep I put in! I enjoy the build up but do get ridiculously nervous right beforehand! |
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"I’d be pretty gutted/raging if it didn’t given the prep I put in!"
See...that's one of the things that's great, the tease before hand.
What prep- Make up? Underwear? Perfume?.
Even if we don't have a spark, in the round I still find meets fun, and nothing ventured... |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?"
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d be pretty gutted/raging if it didn’t given the prep I put in
What prep- Make up? Underwear? Perfume?."
I don’t think you’d want to know the full regime  but all of the above plus at least waxing, exfoliating, tanning, outfit, nails, hair...
It’s all part of the fun for me but I’d be damned if I was doing it without being pretty confident it would be worthwhile! |
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question."
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question.
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks."
been there many a time
Unfortunately lol
But..
When you chat to someone then meet them and you see them and think..oh yes please lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think not knowing what will happen is definitely exciting haha. When it goes well and you know well I guess that gets us all excited in different ways hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question.
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks.been there many a time
Unfortunately lol
But..
When you chat to someone then meet them and you see them and think..oh yes please lol"
Very true x |
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question.
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks.been there many a time
Unfortunately lol
But..
When you chat to someone then meet them and you see them and think..oh yes please lol"
Yeah, thats when u lick your lips and smile |
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I get more nervous than excited to begin with. Although I spend a lot of time chatting pre- meet, be it social or otherwise, I still get the fear that I’m going to make a complete tit of myself.
Thankfully I’ve never had a bad meet yet, but I think that’s probably luck... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question.
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks.been there many a time
Unfortunately lol
But..
When you chat to someone then meet them and you see them and think..oh yes please lol
Yeah, thats when u lick your lips and smile"
That’s what you would do if you
Met me x |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"I get more nervous than excited to begin with. Although I spend a lot of time chatting pre- meet, be it social or otherwise, I still get the fear that I’m going to make a complete tit of myself.
Thankfully I’ve never had a bad meet yet, but I think that’s probably luck..."
Hahaha I'm the same only change nervous and excited around |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question.
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks.been there many a time
Unfortunately lol
But..
When you chat to someone then meet them and you see them and think..oh yes please lol
Yeah, thats when u lick your lips and smile"
Ohh I'll need to keep a look out for that wee tell |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question.
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks.been there many a time
Unfortunately lol
But..
When you chat to someone then meet them and you see them and think..oh yes please lol
Yeah, thats when u lick your lips and smile
That’s what you would do if you
Met me x"
Now that's confidence  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question.
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks.been there many a time
Unfortunately lol
But..
When you chat to someone then meet them and you see them and think..oh yes please lol
Yeah, thats when u lick your lips and smile
That’s what you would do if you
Met me x
Now that's confidence "
Yes, confidence is a requirement to guide yourself through life x |
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?"
I think your already 99% sure anyway before a meet whether or not sex is going to happen .
Well I am anyway as I always take my time getting to know someone first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I don’t get nervous before a meet it’s time for me to stop "
Isn't someone giving you the butterflies and that wee knot in your belly what it's all about? Takes me right back the the school disco
(Disclaimer - the boys at school didn't see pics of me in sussies and pvc skirt....) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I don’t get nervous before a meet it’s time for me to stop
Isn't someone giving you the butterflies and that wee knot in your belly what it's all about? Takes me right back the the school disco
(Disclaimer - the boys at school didn't see pics of me in sussies and pvc skirt....)"
Them poor lads missed out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I don’t get nervous before a meet it’s time for me to stop
Isn't someone giving you the butterflies and that wee knot in your belly what it's all about? Takes me right back the the school disco
(Disclaimer - the boys at school didn't see pics of me in sussies and pvc skirt....)
Them poor lads missed out "
Teachers didn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I don’t get nervous before a meet it’s time for me to stop
Isn't someone giving you the butterflies and that wee knot in your belly what it's all about? Takes me right back the the school disco
(Disclaimer - the boys at school didn't see pics of me in sussies and pvc skirt....)
Them poor lads missed out
Teachers didn't "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering what people like the most when meeting someone new. Is it the fact that you don’t know what will happen or that your going to have sex?"
I’m
Just hoping for a tiffin or a lemon muffin no other expectations on a first meet cause I always go for a coffee social first and foremost so by time second one if it comes round I pretty much know there’s going to be lots of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you don’t know what will happen, how do you know you’re going to have sex?
You can know your going to have sex by the way some conversations have went prior, but you still don't know what will actually happen . Things change, minds change, bottle goes. So you can definitely say both to the OPS question.
Conversations have maybe ran well but sometimes you meet someone who looks nothing like his pics, is older looking than he had said and shorter than he has stated on his profile. Thats when the heart sinks."
Omg the shorter men that’s the biggie especially when you’re like me, I want to have a man who towers over me and is like a bear in an ideal world lol so if a guys put 5’8 guarantee he will be same height as me 5’6 lol so I tend to go for the 5’11 and above then I’m pretty sure even with heels on I’ll feel good lol although my latest meet he’s same height as me but he’s just gorgeous and ticks every box so I’ve let him off lol |
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