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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So here we are, off to our first club event, both are scared/nervous/excited. Any tips for a) getting involved with other couples b) not getting involved with couples we're not interested in x
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Just go with the general feeling. Be polite and try to read the mood as with any social situation. After 8 being a friendly place, there's nothing to really get nervous about. Just think of it as a pub, with the option for something to happen, but no obligation.
To get involved with someone, can either play it subtle, flirt and give hints but personally prefer if people are blatant "so you coming to the room?" etc.
As for not getting involved with folk you're unattracted to, again give hints but be cafeful not to hurt people's feelings or make it personal to them. Can always fib an excuse, unrelated to the fibres of their very being. (Unless they're a persistent nutter, then be more forthright) Unlikely to happen at this place however, people at After 8 are normally socially attuned, or wouldn't get in the place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just go with the general feeling. Be polite and try to read the mood as with any social situation. After 8 being a friendly place, there's nothing to really get nervous about. Just think of it as a pub, with the option for something to happen, but no obligation.
To get involved with someone, can either play it subtle, flirt and give hints but personally prefer if people are blatant "so you coming to the room?" etc.
As for not getting involved with folk you're unattracted to, again give hints but be cafeful not to hurt people's feelings or make it personal to them. Can always fib an excuse, unrelated to the fibres of their very being. (Unless they're a persistent nutter, then be more forthright) Unlikely to happen at this place however, people at After 8 are normally socially attuned, or wouldn't get in the place. "
Good advice above 
We see it is a night out for us. If something happens it happens. It doesn't it doesn't. Playing is an added bonus. The main part we still struggle with is that switch from social interaction to taking it upstairs lol. Doesn't stop us mind you  Have a ball guys!
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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If you are not interested don’t lie just tell them sorry you are not interested. If that does hurt someone’s feelings its not your fault, honesty really is the best policy. Have a great night xx |
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"We are a sociable couple so see where it takes us. People on fab can be rude as it is , never mind in person. Thanks x
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The rude ones don't seem to venture out to clubs. I've never come across any when I'm there anyway.
Have a great time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr, go in shout "look at me" Wang your member in circles like a helicopter Blade. Mrs, just go up and lap dance the first guy to hand.
You never get a second chance to make a first impression.... 
Alternatively, just be yourselves, go with the flow and at the end of the day, it's not a school dance. It's adults with adult things on their minds.....possibly. |
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By *ikkevCouple
over a year ago
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"Just go with the general feeling. Be polite and try to read the mood as with any social situation. After 8 being a friendly place, there's nothing to really get nervous about. Just think of it as a pub, with the option for something to happen, but no obligation.
To get involved with someone, can either play it subtle, flirt and give hints but personally prefer if people are blatant "so you coming to the room?" etc.
As for not getting involved with folk you're unattracted to, again give hints but be cafeful not to hurt people's feelings or make it personal to them. Can always fib an excuse, unrelated to the fibres of their very being. (Unless they're a persistent nutter, then be more forthright) Unlikely to happen at this place however, people at After 8 are normally socially attuned, or wouldn't get in the place.
Good advice above
We see it is a night out for us. If something happens it happens. It doesn't it doesn't. Playing is an added bonus. The main part we still struggle with is that switch from social interaction to taking it upstairs lol. Doesn't stop us mind you Have a ball guys!
Xxx"
exactly the same as us we see it as a night out we go to cjs it's so laid back and everyone is so friendly
kirsty xx |
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By *enie90Woman
over a year ago
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Hello 
I'm moving to Edinburgh soon (can't wait) and I would like to go to this club. I used to go to a naturist place in Slough (near London) that also had some great parties filled with naughty fun. What's this club like for a single woman? Does anyone also know if there are spa's in Edinburgh or nearby also have something on the naughty side? |
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"Hello
I'm moving to Edinburgh soon (can't wait) and I would like to go to this club. I used to go to a naturist place in Slough (near London) that also had some great parties filled with naughty fun. What's this club like for a single woman? Does anyone also know if there are spa's in Edinburgh or nearby also have something on the naughty side?"
Hey I can’t message you as I’m not in your range but will definitely recommend After8- I always go as a single girl and have a great night |
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