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What pleasure do soe folk on here get with being evil and nasty
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Because they’ve got boring little lives and have great pleasure trying to ruin others or they think by trying to ruin others that they’ll become popular, mostly snakes with tits, life is easier to just ignore them and let them do what they are doing as sooner or later people will see them for what they are... karma always prevails
It’s a shame as the swinging community should be the one place where people aren’t judgemental but it happens
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its just a sad fact of being on Fab and it happens in all areas...some people not happy within themselves and in turn spread their negativity on others....normally hiding behind ghost profiles...shame on them  |
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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
It,s happened to a lovely person who i think the world of and one of the very very best friends you could possibly have it just aint fair But saying that the support ive had from the FAB community in my time of sorrow just now has been fantastic and its a pity this goes on what bloody pleasure they get out of it i will never ever be able to comprehend  |
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"why do folk think it is allright to ruin some ones reputation on here"
Aah! I don't know Heather! I can only assume that they have way too much time on their hands and not much going on in their real lives.
The question is Heather, can someone really 'ruin' someone else's reputation on here?
She said that, he met her, she didn't this or she did that  People believe what they want, if they want to believe the gossips they are obviously not people you want to associate with.
In my opinion, thinking that anyone on here can ruin someone's 'reputation' is giving them wayyyyyy tooo much power...
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"why do folk think it is allright to ruin some ones reputation on here
Aah! I don't know Heather! I can only assume that they have way too much time on their hands and not much going on in their real lives.
The question is Heather, can someone really 'ruin' someone else's reputation on here?
She said that, he met her, she didn't this or she did that People believe what they want, if they want to believe the gossips they are obviously not people you want to associate with.
In my opinion, thinking that anyone on here can ruin someone's 'reputation' is giving them wayyyyyy tooo much power...
Hope this makes sense"
kinda agree another side of it is do folk just try to ruin others reputation?
Or do they feel they were wronged by this person and seek retribution.
at least (from what you say) this person was open about it the snake in the grass type are way worse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's simply the way off life that there are so many ppl out there who take pleasure in being nasty towards others as it seems to make their shit life seem better for a while |
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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Hiya Max i cant say to much but this person has tried theyre best to really put htis person down they are one of the nicest people u could ever with to meet and before anyone say anything i dont look at the world through rose tinted glasses this is just making me so upset and angry i had to put a post up about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heather it happened to me. Lies and rumours. I tried to get to the bottom of it but no one would say anything. I found it very frustrating and it made me angry. The person behind it remains faceless and those would knew them wouldn't say anything. I just deleted my old profile and moved on, blocked everyone involved that I could think of. They're not worth bothering with. These people need a life outside fab. |
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And i bet every single person thats posted in this thread has bitched about someone or said something not so nice .Pot kettle and all that .
I know we have ,some folks deserve what they get,wouldnt day nasty but karma really is a bithc !!!! |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"And i bet every single person thats posted in this thread has bitched about someone or said something not so nice .Pot kettle and all that .
I know we have ,some folks deserve what they get,wouldnt day nasty but karma really is a bithc !!!!"
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Reputations have been destroyed on here. I know the people involved, I’ve befn caught up in some of the vile comments that’s been said.
Meets have been cancelled on the basis of fake messsges that have been sent and discussions that have been held.
Fake profiles have been created and messages sent pretending to be the friend that several of us know which resulted in a cancelled date for a social event.
I don’t know what anyone gets from this but they just create another profile. It’s sad and it keeps going without them being banned for life.
We just have to keep defending the reputations of our friends and hope we can defeat the nastiness that permeates the site.
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
The anonymity on here and other sites gives these people that urge to be nasty.They wouldn't do it face to face with anyone but it's a different matter when they get their "Keyboard Warrior" head on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spoke with other people via pm and said I'm not so keen on so and so because of whatever reason. We all do that in day to day life. It's human nature. But it takes a special type of arsehole to deliberately set out to ruin someone's fun on here.
Live and let live and all that. Karma will get them....but in the meantime,may all their jobbies be jaggy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well people take me the wrong way all the time and I couldn't give a shite don't let other people's opinion of you bother you you only get one life fuck them hen  |
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I spoke with other people via pm and said I'm not so keen on so and so because of whatever reason. We all do that in day to day life. It's human nature. But it takes a special type of arsehole to deliberately set out to ruin someone's fun on here.
Live and let live and all that. Karma will get them....but in the meantime,may all their jobbies be jaggy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is mainly to do with the fact they are online and they think it is easy to hide and that there are no consequences for them to be subjected to. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"I think it is mainly to do with the fact they are online and they think it is easy to hide and that there are no consequences for them to be subjected to."
There will be consequences as it’s getting malicious. |
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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I have had very vile and serious threat sent to me if i find out the whole truth about this the police will be involed i have named no names and the way things are with me just now i dont need this hassle for putting u a post in here |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"I have had very vile and serious threat sent to me if i find out the whole truth about this the police will be involed i have named no names and the way things are with me just now i dont need this hassle for putting u a post in here"
There’s no place for nastiness on here. You’ve done nothing wrong. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have had very vile and serious threat sent to me if i find out the whole truth about this the police will be involed i have named no names and the way things are with me just now i dont need this hassle for putting u a post in here"
I'm asking the obvious here but have you reported the forum member? |
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"I have had very vile and serious threat sent to me if i find out the whole truth about this the police will be involed i have named no names and the way things are with me just now i dont need this hassle for putting u a post in here"
That's rather discussing that someone has threatened u Heather, people are so quick to jump on the band wagon with their vile threats, rumours or their put downs of others, we r human beings just getting on with our lives and no one should act in this way to anyone but u do get people that for what ever their own deluded reasons, bad mouths with nothing better to say and spread rumours about people and as I say if u don't know exactly what was said or done don't say nowt at all and people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones as I know a few like that and yeah karma is a bitch and bites back sooner or later xx |
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"why do folk think it is allright to ruin some ones reputation on here"
Jealousy Heather. And bullies nothing more. And people who listen to rumour and speculatuon not worth knowing. Strangely enuf someone commenting on this thread is a big man who sent me abusive messages then blocked me big man that he is. Sad pathetic human beings. Sadly the nicer we are the more it hurts but as someone sd Karmas a bitch xx |
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"be gentle there was a message from this person and it threatened some thing very vile to posts all over and on adult works imnot going to say to much on this matter "
It doesn't matter what site as u get them everywhere, U should report it to the police and let them deal with it xx |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I've personally experienced it on here! Still haven't a clue why though, that is why I have no interest in any of the kik groups on here, all they do is slag off other people, I have no time for bullies and made my feelings very clear to the culprits directly!
I'm no shrinking violet  |
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over a year ago
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"be gentle there was a message from this person and it threatened some thing very vile to posts all over and on adult works imnot going to say to much on this matter "
I'd contact the police for harassment |
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"I've personally experienced it on here! Still haven't a clue why though, that is why I have no interest in any of the kik groups on here, all they do is slag off other people, I have no time for bullies and made my feelings very clear to the culprits directly!
I'm no shrinking violet "
Testify sister |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I've personally experienced it on here! Still haven't a clue why though, that is why I have no interest in any of the kik groups on here, all they do is slag off other people, I have no time for bullies and made my feelings very clear to the culprits directly!
I'm no shrinking violet
Testify sister "
Exactly, confront them directly and post it all over your profile and status, they soon go f*cking unlos 
I did get into trouble by admin, but I'd do the same all over again!
Try and fuck me over and it will back fire on you! Guaranteed  |
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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
hey thanks folks for all your comments and support after i got even more hassle because of this post i never ever meant this to happen but it just shows how some folks twisted minds get theyre kicks out of this so folks im not going to post any more on this subject Oh and in case the person thinks they have won they havent KARMA is a wonderful thing you know 99 percent of you FABSTERS are brilliant XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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"hey folks thanks for all your support but im just going to see what this persons next reaction is and do you know i think she is getting a sadistic sick kick out of all this"
I am in support of you heather but by posting this thread i feel you are empowering this other person by saying she is upsetting you. As minx suggested , call her out , name her , copy and paste her comments, turn the tables, dont get involved in a tit for tat just say , heres the latest abuse from so n so. These trolls thrive on anonymity, when their name is attached to it watch them dissapear. Yes you might get a 2 day ban but it will certainly mean admin looks at your reasons for posting. I also wonder why you havnt simply blocked them. ANY abusive or rude messages go straight to block , job done. So they set up a new profile and abuse , block , job done. They will get bored setting up new accounts long before you get bored clicking one little button. He Devil.xxx |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"hey folks thanks for all your support but im just going to see what this persons next reaction is and do you know i think she is getting a sadistic sick kick out of all this
I am in support of you heather but by posting this thread i feel you are empowering this other person by saying she is upsetting you. As minx suggested , call her out , name her , copy and paste her comments, turn the tables, dont get involved in a tit for tat just say , heres the latest abuse from so n so. These trolls thrive on anonymity, when their name is attached to it watch them dissapear. Yes you might get a 2 day ban but it will certainly mean admin looks at your reasons for posting. I also wonder why you havnt simply blocked them. ANY abusive or rude messages go straight to block , job done. So they set up a new profile and abuse , block , job done. They will get bored setting up new accounts long before you get bored clicking one little button. He Devil.xxx"
Totally agree
Don't do a name and shame forum post (nobody is worth a time out!)
Just post it all over your profile and name them in your status updates as all the locals will see it
All admin did to me was give me a warning and delete my text.....but I had already backed up my normal profile text, was well worth it though 
It felt good to let others know that the person they thought was all sweetness and light was really a bitch and to not even try and intimidate me, I will always say to highlight them as they will not want the attention in that way! Trust me |
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"hey folks thanks for all your support but im just going to see what this persons next reaction is and do you know i think she is getting a sadistic sick kick out of all this
I am in support of you heather but by posting this thread i feel you are empowering this other person by saying she is upsetting you. As minx suggested , call her out , name her , copy and paste her comments, turn the tables, dont get involved in a tit for tat just say , heres the latest abuse from so n so. These trolls thrive on anonymity, when their name is attached to it watch them dissapear. Yes you might get a 2 day ban but it will certainly mean admin looks at your reasons for posting. I also wonder why you havnt simply blocked them. ANY abusive or rude messages go straight to block , job done. So they set up a new profile and abuse , block , job done. They will get bored setting up new accounts long before you get bored clicking one little button. He Devil.xxx
Totally agree
Don't do a name and shame forum post (nobody is worth a time out!)
Just post it all over your profile and name them in your status updates as all the locals will see it
All admin did to me was give me a warning and delete my text.....but I had already backed up my normal profile text, was well worth it though
It felt good to let others know that the person they thought was all sweetness and light was really a bitch and to not even try and intimidate me, I will always say to highlight them as they will not want the attention in that way! Trust me "
I had it last night, some woman messaged me accusations and threats and I had no idea what she was on about. She put up a status saying I was fucking her mates husband, not true as far as I know. I just put a status up saying I had no idea who she was or what she was on about. By this morning her status was gone and I had a load of messages from locals saying she is a nutjob and does stuff like that a lot from various profiles. Guess it was just my lucky day. Feel sad for her really and will put it behind me x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"hey folks thanks for all your support but im just going to see what this persons next reaction is and do you know i think she is getting a sadistic sick kick out of all this
I am in support of you heather but by posting this thread i feel you are empowering this other person by saying she is upsetting you. As minx suggested , call her out , name her , copy and paste her comments, turn the tables, dont get involved in a tit for tat just say , heres the latest abuse from so n so. These trolls thrive on anonymity, when their name is attached to it watch them dissapear. Yes you might get a 2 day ban but it will certainly mean admin looks at your reasons for posting. I also wonder why you havnt simply blocked them. ANY abusive or rude messages go straight to block , job done. So they set up a new profile and abuse , block , job done. They will get bored setting up new accounts long before you get bored clicking one little button. He Devil.xxx
Totally agree
Don't do a name and shame forum post (nobody is worth a time out!)
Just post it all over your profile and name them in your status updates as all the locals will see it
All admin did to me was give me a warning and delete my text.....but I had already backed up my normal profile text, was well worth it though
It felt good to let others know that the person they thought was all sweetness and light was really a bitch and to not even try and intimidate me, I will always say to highlight them as they will not want the attention in that way! Trust me
I had it last night, some woman messaged me accusations and threats and I had no idea what she was on about. She put up a status saying I was fucking her mates husband, not true as far as I know. I just put a status up saying I had no idea who she was or what she was on about. By this morning her status was gone and I had a load of messages from locals saying she is a nutjob and does stuff like that a lot from various profiles. Guess it was just my lucky day. Feel sad for her really and will put it behind me x"
Bullies and trolls never like to be outed publically but it is the best way to deal with them in my opinion, plus the added bonus is feeling good about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear this Heather.
They will be getting a kick from making you feel hurt or uncomfortable, so reacting to them will only encourage them further.
Block, report and ignore. Don’t let them get to you.
Stay strong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of mine from here years ago had a problem with a prick in here.
Got to the point he even knew where she lived, where her kids went to school, where she worked etc.
Playground terrorist stalked her for nearly 2 years, because of her husbands job she couldn’t involve the Police,
They are everywhere Heather and not just in here. Give them a keyboard to hide behind and suddenly the wee guy syndrome comes to the surface.
My friend almost had a complete breakdown but her stalker was gotten rid off quietly and illegally.
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"hey thanks folks for all your comments and support after i got even more hassle because of this post i never ever meant this to happen but it just shows how some folks twisted minds get theyre kicks out of this so folks im not going to post any more on this subject Oh and in case the person thinks they have won they havent KARMA is a wonderful thing you know 99 percent of you FABSTERS are brilliant XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX"
I hope you okay this morning Heather (((big hugs)))
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By *anL54Man
over a year ago
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There should be a way of naming and shaming. If they are on Fab, they now what site is about. Others should be made aware . Heather you are a lovely lady and, at this time , you don't need this shit. Your true friends know the real you and I'm sure they will support you if possible. I certainly will xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"be gentle there was a message from this person and it threatened some thing very vile to posts all over and on adult works imnot going to say to much on this matter
I'd contact the police for harassment "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've personally experienced it on here! Still haven't a clue why though, that is why I have no interest in any of the kik groups on here, all they do is slag off other people, I have no time for bullies and made my feelings very clear to the culprits directly!
I'm no shrinking violet "
I’m not amused at the amount of people who seem to think this thread is directed at me because of this comment !!! You maybe hadn’t realised that there actually was someone with this username or perhaps my names been mentioned somethwre but clearly folk who see me posting regularly in the forums think enough to message me and ask if it is me that’s being discussed !!!
I don’t bitch bully or otherwise I try to take the fence on petty arguments that go on within fab, but I’ve been on and off the site enough over the years to know some folk just can’t hold their water, if anyone does have any issues with me please direct to my inbox !! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I've personally experienced it on here! Still haven't a clue why though, that is why I have no interest in any of the kik groups on here, all they do is slag off other people, I have no time for bullies and made my feelings very clear to the culprits directly!
I'm no shrinking violet
I’m not amused at the amount of people who seem to think this thread is directed at me because of this comment !!! You maybe hadn’t realised that there actually was someone with this username or perhaps my names been mentioned somethwre but clearly folk who see me posting regularly in the forums think enough to message me and ask if it is me that’s being discussed !!!
I don’t bitch bully or otherwise I try to take the fence on petty arguments that go on within fab, but I’ve been on and off the site enough over the years to know some folk just can’t hold their water, if anyone does have any issues with me please direct to my inbox !!"
Come on! Use your bloody common sense woman! Of course it wasn't bloody directed at you, get over yourself for gods sake.
If you pick a common well known phrase to use as your user name then that is your fault and nobody else's!
As we say up here, 'get a grip' or does the song 'you're so vain' also make you think it is all about you? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Shrinking Violet said people have actually messaged her to ask if she's the other party."
And? Does my post even have a hint that it is?
No it doesn't, gods sake, where the hell has common sense disappeared to in this world?
Is everyone soo wrapped in up themselves
that they can't recognise a well known common phrase when they see it? If she had a real problem, why not message me direct? If she really thought it might be about her?
She didn't, so was obviously just a bit of over dramatics to show just yet again, another 'offensive' being taken (even if taken completely put of context)
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure Violet blamed you, Foxy. She just says that she’s not amused that people think it’s her; the way I read it, her annoyance is with those who have messaged her, rather than you."
Then just say that, not go into a tirade, about how she doesn't bully anyone etc etc and make others feel guilty about what they have posted.
If it was me personally, as had happened in the past I just added a post that said 'oh it's not me he is speaking about btw'
And he PM'd me to say 'Oh sorry' not make a mountain out of a perceived molehill that is what I am saying, my post could hardly be misconstrued  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure Violet blamed you, Foxy. She just says that she’s not amused that people think it’s her; the way I read it, her annoyance is with those who have messaged her, rather than you."
Thanks for clearing that up.
Could you also hazard a guess as to whether you think the sun will come up tomorrow? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do put my tuppence worth on here quite often but sometimes feel people seem to have lost their sense of humour and take everything as a personal attack if the Michael has been taken in any way.
Hence I just did in and out now. |
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"...not make a mountain out of a perceived molehill that is what I am saying, my post could hardly be misconstrued "
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I’m not sure she did make a mountain out of a molehill. And, in fairness, we don’t know how many messages she’s received, or what they contained. She may have had to contend with a shit-storm, for all we know.
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Regardless, your response does read a little full-on, and I would argue quite easily misconstrued. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"...not make a mountain out of a perceived molehill that is what I am saying, my post could hardly be misconstrued
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I’m not sure she did make a mountain out of a molehill. And, in fairness, we don’t know how many messages she’s received, or what they contained. She may have had to contend with a shit-storm, for all we know.
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Regardless, your response does read a little full-on, and I would argue quite easily misconstrued."
I'm actually starting to agree with the term 'snowflake' now after reading your post |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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"Are you saying I’m a snowflake? Righty ho.
And agreeing with who? I’m not aware of anyone else calling me that. (Or anyone else in the thread being called that.)
You’re not making a lot of sense."
I actually use the phrase 'snowflake' on a regular basis these day. People nowadays think its thier right to be offended. Its not!! . Because someone is offended by a comment that does not make the comment offensive. People dont seem to understand that these days. For those unfamiliar with the term snowflake go look it up then look at the people around you and i bet you will label lots of them snowflakes. Unless of course you are one yourself and you will be offended by that term lmao. H D |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Are you saying I’m a snowflake? Righty ho.
And agreeing with who? I’m not aware of anyone else calling me that. (Or anyone else in the thread being called that.)
You’re not making a lot of sense."
Read or watch the news or social media what ever you want to call it, FFS, a snowflake is someone of overly sensitive sensibilities who thinks/believes everything and anything is directed at them personally so obviously after your last post then you obviously do relate to it, I need say nothing more.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Are you saying I’m a snowflake? Righty ho.
And agreeing with who? I’m not aware of anyone else calling me that. (Or anyone else in the thread being called that.)
You’re not making a lot of sense.
I actually use the phrase 'snowflake' on a regular basis these day. People nowadays think its thier right to be offended. Its not!! . Because someone is offended by a comment that does not make the comment offensive. People dont seem to understand that these days. For those unfamiliar with the term snowflake go look it up then look at the people around you and i bet you will label lots of them snowflakes. Unless of course you are one yourself and you will be offended by that term lmao. H D"
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I know what a snowflake is. Do you know what ‘agreeing’ means? It would tend to suggest that somebody else has libelled that at me.
How about ‘hypocrite’? Do you know what that means? It could describe somebody who jumps into a thread shouting, “ME ME ME!” while accusing others of being self-obsessed. Or it could be libelled at someone who takes an almighty strop at being told they might be wrong, then calls others ‘snowflakes’.
As your poorly written profile asks, “Does that comprehend with you?”
Maybe lay off the wine, and maybe lay off the forum for a bit, eh. |
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"I actually use the phrase 'snowflake' on a regular basis these day. People nowadays think its thier right to be offended. Its not!! . Because someone is offended by a comment that does not make the comment offensive. People dont seem to understand that these days. For those unfamiliar with the term snowflake go look it up then look at the people around you and i bet you will label lots of them snowflakes. Unless of course you are one yourself and you will be offended by that term lmao. H D"
Again, I’m fully familiar with the term. But it doesn’t apply here. Nobody has said they’re offended.
At the risk of completely derailing the thread (too late?) people do have a right to be offended, at whatever they want. Freedom of speech goes both ways. It’s fine for people to be offended. If people being offended upsets your happiness, maybe you’re too sensitive too. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I know what a snowflake is. Do you know what ‘agreeing’ means? It would tend to suggest that somebody else has libelled that at me.
How about ‘hypocrite’? Do you know what that means? It could describe somebody who jumps into a thread shouting, “ME ME ME!” while accusing others of being self-obsessed. Or it could be libelled at someone who takes an almighty strop at being told they might be wrong, then calls others ‘snowflakes’.
As your poorly written profile asks, “Does that comprehend with you?”
Maybe lay off the wine, and maybe lay off the forum for a bit, eh."
Oh, being on the attack and stating my 'poorly written profile?' Means you are on the defensive and attacking me intentionally, 'lay off the wine'? How fucking dare you, you condescended bastard!
Who the fuck do you think you are anyway?
Obviously somewhere way above than where they actually are! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"How fucking dare you, you condescended bastard!It’s condescendING, pet."
If that was the only typo you could find and point out, then how sad are you, also the derogative use of the word 'pet'? Add yourself to the #metoo campaign it seems to suit you! |
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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"How fucking dare you, you condescended bastard!It’s condescendING, pet."
I think you should read your previous post oatcake before correcting others spelling mistakes. You said libbeled twice i think instead of labelled. Though you were gonna sue someone. Lol . People in glass houses springs to mind. Ps any spelling mistakes on my post feel free to advise. You could libel me a bad speller. |
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over a year ago
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"...When did this place turn into Fight Club?
Shhhhhh first rule of fight club ....don't talk about fight club "
And we have a candidate for the dildo!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...When did this place turn into Fight Club?
Shhhhhh first rule of fight club ....don't talk about fight club
And we have a candidate for the dildo!!!"
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"If that was the only typo you could find and point out, then how sad are you, also the derogative use of the word 'pet'?"
It wasn’t the only typo. Your posts are riddled with them. (And nonsensical sentences.) But it was the typo that led to the obvious joke, and the condescending use of ‘pet’, which appears to have gone over your head.
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"You said libbeled twice i think instead of labelled."
Someone needs to learn all of the meanings of ‘libel’. You’ll note I said ‘libelled at’, which means to direct an accusation at someone. ‘Labelled at’ would be the kind of sloppy English you might expect from others, but not me. Next time you decide to leap into an argument about use of English, maybe check that you know what you’re talking about first. |
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"why do folk think it is allright to ruin some ones reputation on here"
It annoys me on here when people claim to be discreet and yet they have very loose tongues. I’ve had that recently and kept to my word about discretion but it still annoyed me when someone I haven’t met, asked about someone I have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because they have no real life of their own?
Yep this and they’re arseholes
K x
And most probably jealous  "
Keyboard trolls.... all big balls behind a screen...
Mistress Amelia x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Been on fab since it’s conception and my view on it being more prominent these days is that the circle of folks using forums or chat is considerably less these days so it’s more noticeable. Like any form of social media it will attract trolls and folks with spurned axes to grind. Over time i have been party to scandal from little things like who I have met or intend to meet. Who I went to socials with or something even as trivial as replying to a certain posters thread.
I’m here to empty the baws and have a laugh with similar minded folks. Free spirit. Haters gonna hate |
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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago
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Heather,
I have had the pleasure (and it certainly was) of meeting you in person as well as chatting to you.
If there is a wide spectrum of people on here reflecting wider society, then you are at one end the one we hope to be at and this poor excuse is at the opposite, the one we want to avoid.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How fucking dare you, you condescended bastard!It’s condescendING, pet.
I think you should read your previous post oatcake before correcting others spelling mistakes. You said libbeled twice i think instead of labelled. Though you were gonna sue someone. Lol . People in glass houses springs to mind. Ps any spelling mistakes on my post feel free to advise. You could libel me a bad speller. "
Omg what an absolute hoot meeting you pair last night xx
See I’m not dodgy or anything else other than utterly fabulous another day sitting on the fence for me and watching the fireworks though I’m pretty sure someone’s cursing me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...When did this place turn into Fight Club?
It’s always been this way in my experience... one of the reasons I just pop in and out these days
K x"
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"why do folk think it is allright to ruin some ones reputation on here
Jealousy Heather. And bullies nothing more. And people who listen to rumour and speculatuon not worth knowing. Strangely enuf someone commenting on this thread is a big man who sent me abusive messages then blocked me big man that he is. Sad pathetic human beings. Sadly the nicer we are the more it hurts but as someone sd Karmas a bitch xx "
This , I agree with most of the comments about this situation. Nasty, vindictive and God bless Karma. Lets hope it bites their arse very soon
And the jaggy jobbies, that's the funniest put down I've heard in years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion... and it is only that... the written word is often misconstrued but rather than ask for clarification a lot of people just dive right in, taking offence where none was intended, telling people what they meant and then being aggressive/defensive in return. This is true not just here but in all walks of life.
Human beings are (arguably) at the top of the food chain because of intelligence and language. Communication, discussion and most of all LISTENING are key to clarifying ANY situation. There is a quote I like which says we have two ears and one mouth for a reason, we should listen twice as much as we speak.
Heather, it's awful to hear you are suffering in this way, hope it is resolved positively for you!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Usually if it's a woman Heather it's pure jealousy. Simple as that. Jealousy can be rife on sites like this.
If it's a guy it's because he's either a bitter sad twisted person or/and because he's been spurned by a woman.
If folk are happy within themselves they don't tend to be nasty.
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"Usually if it's a woman Heather it's pure jealousy. Simple as that. Jealousy can be rife on sites like this.
If it's a guy it's because he's either a bitter sad twisted person or/and because he's been spurned by a woman.
If folk are happy within themselves they don't tend to be nasty.
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I think your right Tracey |
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"Because they’ve got boring little lives and have great pleasure trying to ruin others or they think by trying to ruin others that they’ll become popular, mostly snakes with tits, life is easier to just ignore them and let them do what they are doing as sooner or later people will see them for what they are... karma always prevails
It’s a shame as the swinging community should be the one place where people aren’t judgemental but it happens
John "
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"Usually if it's a woman Heather it's pure jealousy. Simple as that. Jealousy can be rife on sites like this.
If it's a guy it's because he's either a bitter sad twisted person or/and because he's been spurned by a woman.
If folk are happy within themselves they don't tend to be nasty.
I think your right Tracey "
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