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Difficulty in getting meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’ve been using fab on off for a couple of years and on an old profile I managed to get a couple of meets with no problem, but this time round I feel like no one is interested and because I have no verifications, people won’t meet me. Even for a social!

I need some advice guys and gals

Thanks

Iain x

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin

Why don’t you get yourself along to one of the Social Events/drink nights/quiz nights etc, that way you can meet some new people maybe get verified that way then take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ive always thought about doing that. For me it’s the thought of turning up myself and not knowing who to speak to and wondering what kind of vibes I’ll get when I get there.

I’m a bit self conscious as well which doesn’t help matters

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin

I think you will need to bite the bullet so to speak as otherwise you will be in a catch 22! Give it a go what’s the worst that can happen? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I know I’m thinking the same. It’s a bit difficult. I’m hoping to meet new people x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive always thought about doing that. For me it’s the thought of turning up myself and not knowing who to speak to and wondering what kind of vibes I’ll get when I get there.

I’m a bit self conscious as well which doesn’t help matters"

There's a lot of people who agree with this. Keep an eye on the forums as there's usually people meeting up before a big social for a wee drink

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Ive always thought about doing that. For me it’s the thought of turning up myself and not knowing who to speak to and wondering what kind of vibes I’ll get when I get there.

I’m a bit self conscious as well which doesn’t help matters"

Everyone feels like you do but trust me once uve done a social/ drinks night ul be wondering what you were worried about and will be desperate for the next one

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ive always thought about doing that. For me it’s the thought of turning up myself and not knowing who to speak to and wondering what kind of vibes I’ll get when I get there.

I’m a bit self conscious as well which doesn’t help mattersEveryone feels like you do but trust me once uve done a social/ drinks night ul be wondering what you were worried about and will be desperate for the next one "

Hope so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ive always thought about doing that. For me it’s the thought of turning up myself and not knowing who to speak to and wondering what kind of vibes I’ll get when I get there.

I’m a bit self conscious as well which doesn’t help matters

There's a lot of people who agree with this. Keep an eye on the forums as there's usually people meeting up before a big social for a wee drink "

We’ll see what happens. I’ll need to keep my eye out.

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By *anny77Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Socials are definitely the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its not difficult to go to a social alone. I go to all socials by myself and I have a blast. Just chat away to people and have a laugh n a giggle, that's what the socials are for.

Everyone is at the social for the same thing, just a right good laugh and meet people old and new.

If they like you and want to see you in the future then great, I'm sure they will contact you in the future, if not, then feck it just continue to have a good time

If you think too much into it then you will be doing nothing on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I found it difficult at first to arrange meets with women only. It is hard I do agree. I went to cjs a few times and got verified.

Now its a nightmare trying to fit calendars and baby sitting around free time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Suss folk out on the forums first before deciding if you'd actually want to socialise with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone. I’ll keep it in mind if I see anything come up.

Appreciate the suggestions

Iain x

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By *ornyfuckers66Couple  over a year ago

fife

It’s hard for couples to get meets never mind as a single guy I wonder what the average time spent on this site is to get successful meet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ll meet you but the coffee and tiffin are on you just don’t try wearing the coffee it’s not an attractive look x if you’re a wank I’ll tell you as much lol

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin


"I’ll meet you but the coffee and tiffin are on you just don’t try wearing the coffee it’s not an attractive look x if you’re a wank I’ll tell you as much lol "

Lol@ tiffin nobody mentioned that before or even I may have agreed to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I’m happy with paying for the coffee and tiffin! :D x

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By *onkeymagic50Man  over a year ago

Near the harbour


"I’m happy with paying for the coffee and tiffin! :D x"

Explain to an Englishman what tiffin is please

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