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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
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over a year ago
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"Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
B "
Looks great to me but way too sensible for here lol. Enjoy your Fab experience OP and Happy Swinging  |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
B
Looks great to me but way too sensible for here lol. Enjoy your Fab experience OP and Happy Swinging "
What do you mean specificly by way too sensible ? If you don't mind me asking? |
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"Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
B
Looks great to me but way too sensible for here lol. Enjoy your Fab experience OP and Happy Swinging
What do you mean specificly by way too sensible ? If you don't mind me asking? "
Fab and the forums tend tends to be a “quirky” place. You’ll see lol, a good sense of humour will take you far here. You’re also very polite and respectful. That’s really nice too, my opinion for what it’s worth is keep that too. Enjoy!!!  |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
B
Looks great to me but way too sensible for here lol. Enjoy your Fab experience OP and Happy Swinging
What do you mean specificly by way too sensible ? If you don't mind me asking?
Fab and the forums tend tends to be a “quirky” place. You’ll see lol, a good sense of humour will take you far here. You’re also very polite and respectful. That’s really nice too, my opinion for what it’s worth is keep that too. Enjoy!!! "
Oh I have seen people are not shy to be fairly blunt as proved by they guy above lol, appreciate you taking the time to reply tho, and I'll take the advice on board. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Delete your account. One less vying cock to contend with.
Your welcome  "
I think I'll keep my account up for now, but thanks for having a look mate, just clear one thing up for us, what is vying or was that a typo lol |
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"Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
B
Looks great to me but way too sensible for here lol. Enjoy your Fab experience OP and Happy Swinging
What do you mean specificly by way too sensible ? If you don't mind me asking?
Fab and the forums tend tends to be a “quirky” place. You’ll see lol, a good sense of humour will take you far here. You’re also very polite and respectful. That’s really nice too, my opinion for what it’s worth is keep that too. Enjoy!!!
Oh I have seen people are not shy to be fairly blunt as proved by they guy above lol, appreciate you taking the time to reply tho, and I'll take the advice on board. "
Indeed OP, cockeye has a great sense of humour - others not so much lol. Just chill and enjoy x |
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over a year ago
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"Delete your account. One less vying cock to contend with.
Your welcome
I think I'll keep my account up for now, but thanks for having a look mate, just clear one thing up for us, what is vying or was that a typo lol "
to strive in competition or rivalry with another; contend for superiority
Urban dictionary.
Ps. Never looked at profile the “man” next to post was enough  |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Delete your account. One less vying cock to contend with.
Your welcome
I think I'll keep my account up for now, but thanks for having a look mate, just clear one thing up for us, what is vying or was that a typo lol
to strive in competition or rivalry with another; contend for superiority
Urban dictionary.
Ps. Never looked at profile the “man” next to post was enough "
A little friendly competition never hurt anyone it will make you strive to be your best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
B
Looks great to me but way too sensible for here lol. Enjoy your Fab experience OP and Happy Swinging
What do you mean specificly by way too sensible ? If you don't mind me asking?
Fab and the forums tend tends to be a “quirky” place. You’ll see lol, a good sense of humour will take you far here. You’re also very polite and respectful. That’s really nice too, my opinion for what it’s worth is keep that too. Enjoy!!!
Oh I have seen people are not shy to be fairly blunt as proved by they guy above lol, appreciate you taking the time to reply tho, and I'll take the advice on board.
Indeed OP, cockeye has a great sense of humour - others not so much lol. Just chill and enjoy x"
Thank you kindly. Now if you’d just like to assume the position i’ll Show the OP how it’s done. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
B
Looks great to me but way too sensible for here lol. Enjoy your Fab experience OP and Happy Swinging
What do you mean specificly by way too sensible ? If you don't mind me asking?
Fab and the forums tend tends to be a “quirky” place. You’ll see lol, a good sense of humour will take you far here. You’re also very polite and respectful. That’s really nice too, my opinion for what it’s worth is keep that too. Enjoy!!!
Oh I have seen people are not shy to be fairly blunt as proved by they guy above lol, appreciate you taking the time to reply tho, and I'll take the advice on board.
Indeed OP, cockeye has a great sense of humour - others not so much lol. Just chill and enjoy x
Thank you kindly. Now if you’d just like to assume the position i’ll Show the OP how it’s done. "
Oh that's adorable, while I appreciate the offer of (seeing how it's done) it's not needed just the advice on the profile will do, but if you like any tips and tricks be sure to as me bud, happy to help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say maybe put the pic of you having unprotected sex to private as your on here as a single male, for me personally bareback it’s not something I’m into it’s ok it’s it’s a couple and they want to have bareback but otherwise I’m looking for safe sex and pics of safe sex. |
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Yeah, the.’legal warning’ you put at the end is totally meaningless. Nobody ever reads a profile and thinks, “I like the look of them, but they don’t have a privacy disclaimer at the end of their profile, so I’m not meeting them.” But plenty of people see those, laugh, and take a mental note to never respond to any messages. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I’d say maybe put the pic of you having unprotected sex to private as your on here as a single male, for me personally bareback it’s not something I’m into it’s ok it’s it’s a couple and they want to have bareback but otherwise I’m looking for safe sex and pics of safe sex. "
Appreciate the advice, thoes two people were ex partners in a sense and a lot of trust was built up before going bareback but I can see how that may give of a unwanted impression, thank you for that. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"get rid of the cheesecake if you have read my profile nonsense and the legal disclaimers "
Okay I can see them both being a recurring thing most folk don't appreciate on a profile and they will be removed asap, thank you. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Yeah, the.’legal warning’ you put at the end is totally meaningless. Nobody ever reads a profile and thinks, “I like the look of them, but they don’t have a privacy disclaimer at the end of their profile, so I’m not meeting them.” But plenty of people see those, laugh, and take a mental note to never respond to any messages."
Thanks, it's more to protect myself it's something I've had on other sites but I guess it's more needed there. Appreciate the feedback. |
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I’m afraid it’s not going to offer you any protection anywhere. You simply cannot post a profile on a public forum, that literally anyone can join, and then say that you expect privacy. That’s not how Article 8 works. If you want privacy, if you want to be ‘protected’, don’t join the site, don’t have a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some good points up there OP but at the end of the day it is YOUR profile and as the old adage goes "you can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time but not all of the people all of the time"
Best person to please is YOU
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey, I'm quite happy with my profile but I'm curious what others think, constructive criticism would be great, things you think might help maybe some things I should remove.
All advice is greatly appreciated and I want to say thank you in advance for taking the time out of your day to help someone out.
Thanks
B
Looks great to me but way too sensible for here lol. Enjoy your Fab experience OP and Happy Swinging
What do you mean specificly by way too sensible ? If you don't mind me asking?
Fab and the forums tend tends to be a “quirky” place. You’ll see lol, a good sense of humour will take you far here. You’re also very polite and respectful. That’s really nice too, my opinion for what it’s worth is keep that too. Enjoy!!!
Oh I have seen people are not shy to be fairly blunt as proved by they guy above lol, appreciate you taking the time to reply tho, and I'll take the advice on board.
Indeed OP, cockeye has a great sense of humour - others not so much lol. Just chill and enjoy x
Thank you kindly. Now if you’d just like to assume the position i’ll Show the OP how it’s done. "
Are we taking pics |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Some good points up there OP but at the end of the day it is YOUR profile and as the old adage goes "you can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time but not all of the people all of the time"
Best person to please is YOU
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Very true, like I said I am quite happy with my profile just looking for a little advice to get it in better shape is all, I have no intention of deleting it at all like has been suggested a few times lol. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Are we taking pics
You’d need a wide angled lense to get my 11 inches of dangling death in "
Hahaha, im sure if it comes to it we can just take them in sections like a three piece canvas lol |
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over a year ago
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"Are we taking pics
You’d need a wide angled lense to get my 11 inches of dangling death in "
Get a Samsung Galaxy S8, it has a super-wide selfie mode... |
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"What is pan sexual?
Google is you're friend with that one bud
Dont you know pal?
Obviously, but if you are genuinely curious you will research it yourself. "
It says same as bisexual but gender blind or more fluid. Feck knows what to make of that. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"What is pan sexual?
It means they'll shag your dinner on the stove. 
How come you get to be sarky but don't like others doing it? "
That's not him being snarky, that just a lack of understanding lol, all wrapped up in an aweful joke. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"What is pan sexual?
Google is you're friend with that one bud
Dont you know pal?
Obviously, but if you are genuinely curious you will research it yourself.
It says same as bisexual but gender blind or more fluid. Feck knows what to make of that. "
Where did you go for your definition? |
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"What is pan sexual?
Google is you're friend with that one bud
Dont you know pal?
Obviously, but if you are genuinely curious you will research it yourself.
It says same as bisexual but gender blind or more fluid. Feck knows what to make of that.
Where did you go for your definition? "
Google, that's where you told me to go! |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"What is pan sexual?
Google is you're friend with that one bud
Dont you know pal?
Obviously, but if you are genuinely curious you will research it yourself.
It says same as bisexual but gender blind or more fluid. Feck knows what to make of that.
Where did you go for your definition?
Google, that's where you told me to go!"
Google is a big place lol. Don't worry about it. |
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"What is pan sexual?
Google is you're friend with that one bud
Dont you know pal?
Obviously, but if you are genuinely curious you will research it yourself.
It says same as bisexual but gender blind or more fluid. Feck knows what to make of that.
Where did you go for your definition?
Google, that's where you told me to go!
Google is a big place lol. Don't worry about it. "
Please educate me, what is fluid sexuality? |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"What is pan sexual?
Google is you're friend with that one bud
Dont you know pal?
Obviously, but if you are genuinely curious you will research it yourself.
It says same as bisexual but gender blind or more fluid. Feck knows what to make of that.
Where did you go for your definition?
Google, that's where you told me to go!
Google is a big place lol. Don't worry about it.
Please educate me, what is fluid sexuality?"
Don't delete the post man lol, I'm not here to educate you tho. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I just asked a valid question I thought "
While I respect you asked a valid question if I answered and sat and explained it to everyone who asked id never have the time to do anything else, hence why I suggested you educate yourself if you are genuinely curious. |
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"What is pan sexual?
It means they'll shag your dinner on the stove.
How come you get to be sarky but don't like others doing it?
That's not him being snarky, that just a lack of understanding lol, all wrapped up in an aweful joke. "
He was not being snarky, it's called wordplay, and he understands that pansexualism is just another label.
As for you directing people to google, the guy asked you a question, just give him an answer, in your own words. That way he'll get YOUR understanding of the definition, not a google one you don't agree with. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"What is pan sexual?
It means they'll shag your dinner on the stove.
How come you get to be sarky but don't like others doing it?
That's not him being snarky, that just a lack of understanding lol, all wrapped up in an aweful joke.
He was not being snarky, it's called wordplay, and he understands that pansexualism is just another label.
As for you directing people to google, the guy asked you a question, just give him an answer, in your own words. That way he'll get YOUR understanding of the definition, not a google one you don't agree with."
I have no obligation to give anyone an answer they can easily figure out for themself, so would you define being straight, gay, bi or lesbian as just a label then? |
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"I just asked a valid question I thought
While I respect you asked a valid question if I answered and sat and explained it to everyone who asked id never have the time to do anything else, hence why I suggested you educate yourself if you are genuinely curious. "
well you asked me to Google and it says similar to bisexual but more fluid and can be gender blind.
I just don't understand what that means. So yeah I have gone and looked at what you told me to look at but I don't understand it. That's all |
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"What is pan sexual?
It means they'll shag your dinner on the stove.
How come you get to be sarky but don't like others doing it?
That's not him being snarky, that just a lack of understanding lol, all wrapped up in an aweful joke.
He was not being snarky, it's called wordplay, and he understands that pansexualism is just another label.
As for you directing people to google, the guy asked you a question, just give him an answer, in your own words. That way he'll get YOUR understanding of the definition, not a google one you don't agree with.
I have no obligation to give anyone an answer they can easily figure out for themself, so would you define being straight, gay, bi or lesbian as just a label then? "
The only label I respond to is human. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I just asked a valid question I thought
While I respect you asked a valid question if I answered and sat and explained it to everyone who asked id never have the time to do anything else, hence why I suggested you educate yourself if you are genuinely curious. well you asked me to Google and it says similar to bisexual but more fluid and can be gender blind.
I just don't understand what that means. So yeah I have gone and looked at what you told me to look at but I don't understand it. That's all "
I appreciate that but like I said I have no obligation to explain, that's not why I'm here. It was also not the purpose of this fourm. I'm not here to argue about something silly I'm here to enjoy conversations with people and to enjoy myself. All the best to youse tho. |
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"I just asked a valid question I thought
While I respect you asked a valid question if I answered and sat and explained it to everyone who asked id never have the time to do anything else, hence why I suggested you educate yourself if you are genuinely curious. well you asked me to Google and it says similar to bisexual but more fluid and can be gender blind.
I just don't understand what that means. So yeah I have gone and looked at what you told me to look at but I don't understand it. That's all
I appreciate that but like I said I have no obligation to explain, that's not why I'm here. It was also not the purpose of this fourm. I'm not here to argue about something silly I'm here to enjoy conversations with people and to enjoy myself. All the best to youse tho. "
It comes across that the reason you are here is simply to be argumentative. |
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By *oi93 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I just asked a valid question I thought
While I respect you asked a valid question if I answered and sat and explained it to everyone who asked id never have the time to do anything else, hence why I suggested you educate yourself if you are genuinely curious. well you asked me to Google and it says similar to bisexual but more fluid and can be gender blind.
I just don't understand what that means. So yeah I have gone and looked at what you told me to look at but I don't understand it. That's all
I appreciate that but like I said I have no obligation to explain, that's not why I'm here. It was also not the purpose of this fourm. I'm not here to argue about something silly I'm here to enjoy conversations with people and to enjoy myself. All the best to youse tho.
It comes across that the reason you are here is simply to be argumentative. "
That is your opinion and you are entitled to it, like I said all the best. |
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