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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi fabbers
Not been on the site long and don't have much experience in the community. No personal verifications so I completely understand the apprehension from people but just wondering if anyone else has had the same problem and what they done.
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A couple of things I’ve seen some of the womenfolk talking about:
Your profile says you’re looking for women aged 18-99. Some women see that as a bit easy/desperate. Yes, you like ‘older’ women, but do you really want to meet them when they’re /that/ old?! Select a more realistic range.
A lot of women will be (unfairly) put off by you not being able to accommodate. They will just assume that means your cheating on a partner. You could give a brief explanation of why you can’t accommodate in your profile.
Beyond that, I think it’s just about reading the profiles of people you like the look of, and trying to send an engaging message.
You might be able to get a verification some other way. You’re looking for couples, so why not pick a fridndly looking couple near you and see if the male will meet you for a coffee/pint?
The main thing is, though, that you’re young and clearly keep yourself in shape. I’m sure it’s just a matter of time. I think some people just like to see that you’ve been here for a while, and aren’t some horny pic-collecter passing through.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hahaha yeah I'll change that, definitely not looking for a 99 year old. Maybe 98 though, they can still apply. Lol
Thank you for the advice friend, I'll take it on board and adjust.
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It helps to realise a few things right off the bat. Girls on the site receive an insane number of mails, so a lot of times if the mail doesn't stand out or include face/body photos it will get ignored or deleted.
So you also need to assume that like 90% of your efforts won't yield much. Ya just need to kind of persevere, read profiles and follow directions they give. Don't be too eager.
Also, talk in the scotland chat and get to know people in the community. If you cam with people there you can get verified that way.
Once you have a few meets, even if only social, you will find it easier to get people who will talk to ya. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe try and go to a few clubs, strike up a conversation with various people.
If you can then add them on FAB you can build your verifications and meet some new people |
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