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"why do you think married men fuck better than single men op ?. hollie " I was wondering this too?  | |||
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"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X" why do you think married men fuck better op ? I/we wouldn't meet a married man far to much hassle. hollie | |||
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"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X why do you think married men fuck better op ? I/we wouldn't meet a married man far to much hassle. hollie " Well like I have said I believe a man looking for lust not love must be better as most married men carry a fair bit of lust that never gets realised in his own bedroom. Probably stands for married women to. X | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X why do you think married men fuck better op ? I/we wouldn't meet a married man far to much hassle. hollie Well like I have said I believe a man looking for lust not love must be better as most married men carry a fair bit of lust that never gets realised in his own bedroom. Probably stands for married women to. X" Get your wife involved then for a bit of lust. | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X why do you think married men fuck better op ? I/we wouldn't meet a married man far to much hassle. hollie Well like I have said I believe a man looking for lust not love must be better as most married men carry a fair bit of lust that never gets realised in his own bedroom. Probably stands for married women to. XGet your wife involved then for a bit of lust. "  | |||
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"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ??" Good luck with this Op, I’m off for cover | |||
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"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Good luck with this Op, I’m off for cover " | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ??" Actually i had a man like like that. I was like a dog in heat when i left. | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Actually i had a man like like that. I was like a dog in heat when i left. " | |||
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"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Good luck with this Op, I’m off for cover "Chicken .
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I know plenty of single men looking for lust and not love. Same for single women. | |||
"I’m married (an open marriage) and I wouldn’t think I’m better in bed, or what men would prefer because I’m not looking for men
I know plenty of single men looking for lust and not love. Same for single women. "Sorry. I don’t think men would prefer me because I’m not looking for love. | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ??" Ok some of this is speculation... however... feel free to correct me... You say you are married and then you have intimated that wives don't want/need sex as much as they get older... Is this why you are here? And if it is - does your wife know you are here? If you are and she doesn't then it's interesting to note you say twice on your profile how honest you are... On the point of married men being better at sex - why would they be especially if not "getting at any at home" potentially they get less sex i.e practical experience than singles surely. On the point of the stereotypical "wife doesn't understand me and doesn't want sex anymore" - maybe she is getting plenty just not with you. Marriages get stuck in rut sometimes, maybe you both need to spice things up a bit? Maybe you are done with each other and too lazy to go for other reasons? On the point of how women's minds work - it's no more baffling on how a mans works. A final point of amusing wisdom that I find both sexes get is... Women fake orgasms to get a relationship but men fake relationships to get orgasms. PEOPLE are strange and complex and wonderful - I love it | |||
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"Personally I’m not interested in a man or woman’s non Fab life. If we click, and there’s a spark and an opportunity to meet, then that’s good enough for me. I’m not going to judge anyone on their choices or reasons for being on here. I’m sure everyone has their secrets and skeletons. Just my humble opinion though, it will be different for others " | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Ok some of this is speculation... however... feel free to correct me... Very well said x You say you are married and then you have intimated that wives don't want/need sex as much as they get older... Is this why you are here? And if it is - does your wife know you are here? If you are and she doesn't then it's interesting to note you say twice on your profile how honest you are... On the point of married men being better at sex - why would they be especially if not "getting at any at home" potentially they get less sex i.e practical experience than singles surely. On the point of the stereotypical "wife doesn't understand me and doesn't want sex anymore" - maybe she is getting plenty just not with you. Marriages get stuck in rut sometimes, maybe you both need to spice things up a bit? Maybe you are done with each other and too lazy to go for other reasons? On the point of how women's minds work - it's no more baffling on how a mans works. A final point of amusing wisdom that I find both sexes get is... Women fake orgasms to get a relationship but men fake relationships to get orgasms. PEOPLE are strange and complex and wonderful - I love it " | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Good luck with this Op, I’m off for cover
Chicken .
Do you hide in Starbucks so as not to get recognised ? "Rumbled again | |||
"Probably because most married men are not looking for love but more lust and lust between 2 people is what makes for great sex x" Pmslllllll This is classic. Anyone wanna marry me so I can be amazing at lust and not look fir love. loloollollllllololo | |||
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"Turn off for me I’m looking for regular fun a guy I can pick up the fun day I’m having a shit/horny/free day can we meet and know they haven’t got a wife to try and arrange time out around, bad enough me trying to arrange meets around my kids etc not to mention a my moral compass "
What this lady said! | |||
"Probably because most married men are not looking for love but more lust and lust between 2 people is what makes for great sex x Pmslllllll This is classic. Anyone wanna marry me so I can be amazing at lust and not look fir love. loloollollllllololo "If your offering | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X" They usually have better chat than single guys... Usually | |||
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"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ??" Hahahahaha too funny | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X They usually have better chat than single guys... Usually "what you mean is the wife bitch slapped them into a fem chat mode | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X They usually have better chat than single guys... Usually what you mean is the wife bitch slapped them into a fem chat mode "No...that's not what I mean at all | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X They usually have better chat than single guys... Usually what you mean is the wife bitch slapped them into a fem chat mode " | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ??" Oft.... | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Ok some of this is speculation... however... feel free to correct me... Very well said x You say you are married and then you have intimated that wives don't want/need sex as much as they get older... Is this why you are here? And if it is - does your wife know you are here? If you are and she doesn't then it's interesting to note you say twice on your profile how honest you are... On the point of married men being better at sex - why would they be especially if not "getting at any at home" potentially they get less sex i.e practical experience than singles surely. On the point of the stereotypical "wife doesn't understand me and doesn't want sex anymore" - maybe she is getting plenty just not with you. Marriages get stuck in rut sometimes, maybe you both need to spice things up a bit? Maybe you are done with each other and too lazy to go for other reasons? On the point of how women's minds work - it's no more baffling on how a mans works. A final point of amusing wisdom that I find both sexes get is... Women fake orgasms to get a relationship but men fake relationships to get orgasms. PEOPLE are strange and complex and wonderful - I love it "I always knew I was weird I’ve faked orgasm before .
Men are from mars Women are from Venus we’ll all have to see where to put the penis . | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X" Most woman would think that I'd imagine. As for the married guys fuck better. You might have a point. If I was fucking someone behind my partners back I would make it worth my while x | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Ok some of this is speculation... however... feel free to correct me... Very well said x You say you are married and then you have intimated that wives don't want/need sex as much as they get older... Is this why you are here? And if it is - does your wife know you are here? If you are and she doesn't then it's interesting to note you say twice on your profile how honest you are... On the point of married men being better at sex - why would they be especially if not "getting at any at home" potentially they get less sex i.e practical experience than singles surely. On the point of the stereotypical "wife doesn't understand me and doesn't want sex anymore" - maybe she is getting plenty just not with you. Marriages get stuck in rut sometimes, maybe you both need to spice things up a bit? Maybe you are done with each other and too lazy to go for other reasons? On the point of how women's minds work - it's no more baffling on how a mans works. A final point of amusing wisdom that I find both sexes get is... Women fake orgasms to get a relationship but men fake relationships to get orgasms. PEOPLE are strange and complex and wonderful - I love it
I always knew I was weird I’ve faked orgasm before .
Men are from mars Women are from Venus we’ll all have to see where to put the penis . "Is it a married penis | |||
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"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Ok some of this is speculation... however... feel free to correct me... Very well said x You say you are married and then you have intimated that wives don't want/need sex as much as they get older... Is this why you are here? And if it is - does your wife know you are here? If you are and she doesn't then it's interesting to note you say twice on your profile how honest you are... On the point of married men being better at sex - why would they be especially if not "getting at any at home" potentially they get less sex i.e practical experience than singles surely. On the point of the stereotypical "wife doesn't understand me and doesn't want sex anymore" - maybe she is getting plenty just not with you. Marriages get stuck in rut sometimes, maybe you both need to spice things up a bit? Maybe you are done with each other and too lazy to go for other reasons? On the point of how women's minds work - it's no more baffling on how a mans works. A final point of amusing wisdom that I find both sexes get is... Women fake orgasms to get a relationship but men fake relationships to get orgasms. PEOPLE are strange and complex and wonderful - I love it
I always knew I was weird I’ve faked orgasm before .
Men are from mars Women are from Venus we’ll all have to see where to put the penis .
Is it a married penis "It’s a single penis though I knew a guy once who had a double penis . He said “ I couldn’t give two f*cks “ ( the old ones aren’t the best ones ) | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ??" My ex husband doesn't know what he's missing! R | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? My ex husband doesn't know what he's missing! R "If he's on here then I bet he does now! Lol  | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Ok some of this is speculation... however... feel free to correct me... Very well said x You say you are married and then you have intimated that wives don't want/need sex as much as they get older... Is this why you are here? And if it is - does your wife know you are here? If you are and she doesn't then it's interesting to note you say twice on your profile how honest you are... On the point of married men being better at sex - why would they be especially if not "getting at any at home" potentially they get less sex i.e practical experience than singles surely. On the point of the stereotypical "wife doesn't understand me and doesn't want sex anymore" - maybe she is getting plenty just not with you. Marriages get stuck in rut sometimes, maybe you both need to spice things up a bit? Maybe you are done with each other and too lazy to go for other reasons? On the point of how women's minds work - it's no more baffling on how a mans works. A final point of amusing wisdom that I find both sexes get is... Women fake orgasms to get a relationship but men fake relationships to get orgasms. PEOPLE are strange and complex and wonderful - I love it
I always knew I was weird I’ve faked orgasm before .
Men are from mars Women are from Venus we’ll all have to see where to put the penis .
Is it a married penis
It’s a single penis though I knew a guy once who had a double penis . He said “ I couldn’t give two f*cks “
( the old ones aren’t the best ones ) "Lmao the married ones aren’t always the best ones either | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? My ex husband doesn't know what he's missing! R
If he's on here then I bet he does now! Lol "Oofftt! My kids think his gf looks like a man
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"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? My ex husband doesn't know what he's missing! R
If he's on here then I bet he does now! Lol
Oofftt! My kids think his gf looks like a man
R "Maybe he's not telling everything!  I mean without sounding like a sooky I can certainly say that you don't! | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? My ex husband doesn't know what he's missing! R
If he's on here then I bet he does now! Lol
Oofftt! My kids think his gf looks like a man
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Maybe he's not telling everything! I mean without sounding like a sooky I can certainly say that you don't! "He can do what he likes with who he likes as long as it doesn't involve me
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"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X" no idea why being married makes someone better in bed. As for your question some will meet married some wont | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? My ex husband doesn't know what he's missing! R
If he's on here then I bet he does now! Lol
Oofftt! My kids think his gf looks like a man
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Maybe he's not telling everything! I mean without sounding like a sooky I can certainly say that you don't!
He can do what he likes with who he likes as long as it doesn't involve me
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"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ?? Actually i had a man like like that. I was like a dog in heat when i left. " Still loving those legs | |||
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fact is just because there may be a lack of good exciting sex isn't really grounds for divorce. It's a strange world but I'm sure there is a lot of people on similar ground. Ps married men I'm fairly certain must be better in bed as like 1 guy said if your going to the hassle of cheating your most certainly going to make it worth while and enjoyable and there is also the hole forbidden fruit element | |||
"So a good few living the perfect life eh fact is just because there may be a lack of good exciting sex isn't really grounds for divorce. It's a strange world but I'm sure there is a lot of people on similar ground. Ps married men I'm fairly certain must be better in bed as like 1 guy said if your going to the hassle of cheating your most certainly going to make it worth while and enjoyable and there is also the hole forbidden fruit element "*whole (on here hole has a different meaning) speaking of which. Respectfully, no one said they were living a perfect life. They gave their opinions just like you did. On opinions, as I said before people stay married for more than one reason just like they play away for more than one reason. Mostly that’s complicated and will be justified or not in other people’s eyes.
In regard to married men being better in bed... my opinion and experience... NO. That’s down to the individual and the connection/spark. | |||
" I'm fairly certain must be better in bed as like 1 guy said if your going to the hassle of cheating your most certainly going to make it worth while and enjoyable and there is also the hole forbidden fruit element "Trust me your wrong | |||
" I'm fairly certain must be better in bed as like 1 guy said if your going to the hassle of cheating your most certainly going to make it worth while and enjoyable and there is also the hole forbidden fruit element Trust me your wrong "Well I can't believe this ha ha Obviously I'm no expert but I would have thought it was a no brainer | |||
" I'm fairly certain must be better in bed as like 1 guy said if your going to the hassle of cheating your most certainly going to make it worth while and enjoyable and there is also the hole forbidden fruit element Trust me your wrong Well I can't believe this ha ha Obviously I'm no expert but I would have thought it was a no brainer "if married men were such sex gods would their wifes not be throwing themselves at hubby the sex god.....if not must be a shite ride | |||
" I'm fairly certain must be better in bed as like 1 guy said if your going to the hassle of cheating your most certainly going to make it worth while and enjoyable and there is also the hole forbidden fruit element Trust me your wrong Well I can't believe this ha ha Obviously I'm no expert but I would have thought it was a no brainer if married men were such sex gods would their wifes not be throwing themselves at hubby the sex god.....if not must be a shite ride "It takes two to tango in a marriage. Been there got the T-shirt. The attached guys I know are a lot of fun. | |||
"In my opinion (again) cheating says a lot about a persons judgement and character" Thats fine, you’re entitled to that opinion, but it’s predicated on the false assumption that all married people who sleep with someone else are in a married that both parties want to continue, and/or that they are doing it without the partner knowing. What about people who stay married for the sake of their kids? What about the ones in a loveless marriage where they simply cannot afford to sell the house, or pay solicitors? What about those whose spouse is, for any one of a multitude of reasons, unable to have sex. Correct me if I’m wrong, but the vows are about remaining with someone and loving them. They say nothing about sex. Is it not possible to be on Fab while respecting the vows? I’m not saying that there are no dirty cheats. I imagine there are a great many. But it is unfair to make assumptions. "Ps married men I'm fairly certain must be better in bed as like 1 guy said if your going to the hassle of cheating your most certainly going to make it worth while and enjoyable and there is also the hole forbidden fruit element "Your argument is fundamentally flawed in various respects. Firstly, your conclusion that being in a loveless marriage makes men more lustful, therefore better at sex. Being so horny and lustful could just as easily make them a fumbling, bumbling kid in a sweet shop, who shoots his load after a few minutes due to the excitement. Now, note carefully, I’m not saying that’s you. I’m sure you’re a veritable maestro between the sheets. But it’s as likely a conclusion as the one you’ve drawn. Secondly, you’re assuming that married men are the only ones where a forbidden fruit element is present. But, for married men in an open relationship, that excitement may diminish. At the same time, it’s possible for a single guy whose circumstances make Fab a risky place to be, for there to be that exact same frisson of excitement. Again, note carefully; I’m not saying that this is always the case, but it’s as likely to be true as your assertion. And that’s assuming that the forbidden fruit element makes it better (see above). Thirdly, you are still making the hefty logical fallacy that your experience is the same for all men who fit into the same bracket as you in one aspect of your life. It’s like me saying that I’ve met people who find me attractive, I’ve got dimples, therefore all men with dimples are more attractive to women. You’ve taken a data set of one (if we accept your basic claim that you are good in bed, which may be true but we have no evidence to support) and extrapolated out hundreds of thousands times over. Just... no. Fourthly, I’m pretty sure the person you picked to support your claim was being facetious. At least, I hope they were. "I would have thought it was a no brainer" Indeed. Just not the way you mean. | |||
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"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X why do you think married men fuck better op ? I/we wouldn't meet a married man far to much hassle. hollie Well like I have said I believe a man looking for lust not love must be better as most married men carry a fair bit of lust that never gets realised in his own bedroom. Probably stands for married women to. X" I've heard someone mention she avoids married guys or recently single after long relationship because the sex is quite boring, straight forward and less adventurous. Personally I don't meet married men, because I prefer someone to go out on field trips with and love sleepovers. Which isn't really an option if they have to toddle back home to their Mrs after they're done x | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X why do you think married men fuck better op ? I/we wouldn't meet a married man far to much hassle. hollie Well like I have said I believe a man looking for lust not love must be better as most married men carry a fair bit of lust that never gets realised in his own bedroom. Probably stands for married women to. X I've heard someone mention she avoids married guys or recently single after long relationship because the sex is quite boring, straight forward and less adventurous. Personally I don't meet married men, because I prefer someone to go out on field trips with and love sleepovers. Which isn't really an option if they have to toddle back home to their Mrs after they're done x" Not meaning everyone in a long term relationship is boring when it comes to sex! Only if they're new to swinging, adult dating, etc. after they've come out of their relationship, or are new to cheating | |||
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"Well as it was my first post I didn't think I'd get much action but I'm more than happy with the response and take note of all your comments. Maybe I should be looking for a married women as they must be better at sex than all the single ladies "Yes and you can all fuck happily ever after x | |||
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""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. " Just because there is no sex in the marriage doesnt always mean its a loveless marriage. I have spoke to many men on here who love their wives dearly. | |||
""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. " To be fair tho it doesnt say in wedding vows.. And we thou art to agree to become swingers and fuck other folks wifes/husbands lol i think its all down to personal choice from either sides and everyone has reasons for doing what they do on here | |||
""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. To be fair tho it doesnt say in wedding vows.. And we thou art to agree to become swingers and fuck other folks wifes/husbands lol i think its all down to personal choice from either sides and everyone has reasons for doing what they do on here" Pmsl that would be some wedding vowes to sit through | |||
""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. To be fair tho it doesnt say in wedding vows.. And we thou art to agree to become swingers and fuck other folks wifes/husbands lol i think its all down to personal choice from either sides and everyone has reasons for doing what they do on here Pmsl that would be some wedding vowes to sit through "Lol it would certainly raise a few eyebrows thats for sure | |||
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""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. To be fair tho it doesnt say in wedding vows.. And we thou art to agree to become swingers and fuck other folks wifes/husbands lol i think its all down to personal choice from either sides and everyone has reasons for doing what they do on here Pmsl that would be some wedding vowes to sit through "Lol yes it would be wouldn't it tats
In regard to marriage - it's not all about sex though I think most would agree it's part of a healthy relationship. However if one is going to quote religious vows in particular, many religions considered sex to be for procreation not recreation. Therefore as weemrs said swinging or even just sex for the sake of it would be frowned on. I personally think sticking together is about way more than sex and a marriage (if it lasts any length of time) is about the endurance to survive much more than the ups and downs (pun intended) of ones sex life. In saying that, I don't agree with marriage at all - my main reason for saying so is the divorce rate (let alone the cheating rate). A bit of paper and a promise is so easy to break nowadays and legally too. Commitment comes from inside a person not a piece of paper.
My belief (and it is just mine of course) is that humans are serial monogamists at best. There are fifty shades of fab and fifty shades of anything anyone has an opinion on. Interesting to hear those views and OP - you unwittingly instigated a pretty good post - not bad for someone who just wanted to taste a wee bit of forbidden fruit (which is really just the thrill of a man wanting to piss on another man's territory btw, it's basic animal nature) women tend to have a different view of it... not always of course but mostly.
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""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. To be fair tho it doesnt say in wedding vows.. And we thou art to agree to become swingers and fuck other folks wifes/husbands lol i think its all down to personal choice from either sides and everyone has reasons for doing what they do on here Pmsl that would be some wedding vowes to sit through
Lol yes it would be wouldn't it tats
In regard to marriage - it's not all about sex though I think most would agree it's part of a healthy relationship. However if one is going to quote religious vows in particular, many religions considered sex to be for procreation not recreation. Therefore as weemrs said swinging or even just sex for the sake of it would be frowned on. I personally think sticking together is about way more than sex and a marriage (if it lasts any length of time) is about the endurance to survive much more than the ups and downs (pun intended) of ones sex life. In saying that, I don't agree with marriage at all - my main reason for saying so is the divorce rate (let alone the cheating rate). A bit of paper and a promise is so easy to break nowadays and legally too. Commitment comes from inside a person not a piece of paper.
My belief (and it is just mine of course) is that humans are serial monogamists at best. There are fifty shades of fab and fifty shades of anything anyone has an opinion on. Interesting to hear those views and OP - you unwittingly instigated a pretty good post - not bad for someone who just wanted to taste a wee bit of forbidden fruit (which is really just the thrill of a man wanting to piss on another man's territory btw, it's basic animal nature) women tend to have a different view of it... not always of course but mostly.
"We guys have no chance . To commit " promise to give your loyalty " or " do something illegal or something that is considered wrong " we don't know what the woman " ment "? ( spelling mistake deliberate lol ) | |||
""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. To be fair tho it doesnt say in wedding vows.. And we thou art to agree to become swingers and fuck other folks wifes/husbands lol i think its all down to personal choice from either sides and everyone has reasons for doing what they do on here Pmsl that would be some wedding vowes to sit through
Lol yes it would be wouldn't it tats
In regard to marriage - it's not all about sex though I think most would agree it's part of a healthy relationship. However if one is going to quote religious vows in particular, many religions considered sex to be for procreation not recreation. Therefore as weemrs said swinging or even just sex for the sake of it would be frowned on. I personally think sticking together is about way more than sex and a marriage (if it lasts any length of time) is about the endurance to survive much more than the ups and downs (pun intended) of ones sex life. In saying that, I don't agree with marriage at all - my main reason for saying so is the divorce rate (let alone the cheating rate). A bit of paper and a promise is so easy to break nowadays and legally too. Commitment comes from inside a person not a piece of paper.
My belief (and it is just mine of course) is that humans are serial monogamists at best. There are fifty shades of fab and fifty shades of anything anyone has an opinion on. Interesting to hear those views and OP - you unwittingly instigated a pretty good post - not bad for someone who just wanted to taste a wee bit of forbidden fruit (which is really just the thrill of a man wanting to piss on another man's territory btw, it's basic animal nature) women tend to have a different view of it... not always of course but mostly.
We guys have no chance . To commit " promise to give your loyalty " or " do something illegal or something that is considered wrong " we don't know what the woman " ment "? ( spelling mistake deliberate lol )"LOL Steph MENt - I see what you did there. Indeedy
Three of my fave quotes on the "battle of the sexes"
WE are women WE don't know what we want and we want it NOW!
Women are crazy and men lie but women are crazy BECAUSE men lie.
Women problems are all caused by men... first it's MENstruation, then it's Menopause then it's HYSterectomy...
Men and women compliment each other if only they would realise it, we are opposites and therefore eternally attracted like moths to the flame... bright light... ouch burny burny - bright light, ouch burny burny, repeat infinitely.
Fecking fantastic - may it never change | |||
""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. To be fair tho it doesnt say in wedding vows.. And we thou art to agree to become swingers and fuck other folks wifes/husbands lol i think its all down to personal choice from either sides and everyone has reasons for doing what they do on here Pmsl that would be some wedding vowes to sit through
Lol yes it would be wouldn't it tats
In regard to marriage - it's not all about sex though I think most would agree it's part of a healthy relationship. However if one is going to quote religious vows in particular, many religions considered sex to be for procreation not recreation. Therefore as weemrs said swinging or even just sex for the sake of it would be frowned on. I personally think sticking together is about way more than sex and a marriage (if it lasts any length of time) is about the endurance to survive much more than the ups and downs (pun intended) of ones sex life. In saying that, I don't agree with marriage at all - my main reason for saying so is the divorce rate (let alone the cheating rate). A bit of paper and a promise is so easy to break nowadays and legally too. Commitment comes from inside a person not a piece of paper.
My belief (and it is just mine of course) is that humans are serial monogamists at best. There are fifty shades of fab and fifty shades of anything anyone has an opinion on. Interesting to hear those views and OP - you unwittingly instigated a pretty good post - not bad for someone who just wanted to taste a wee bit of forbidden fruit (which is really just the thrill of a man wanting to piss on another man's territory btw, it's basic animal nature) women tend to have a different view of it... not always of course but mostly.
We guys have no chance . To commit " promise to give your loyalty " or " do something illegal or something that is considered wrong " we don't know what the woman " ment "? ( spelling mistake deliberate lol )
LOL Steph MENt - I see what you did there. Indeedy
Three of my fave quotes on the "battle of the sexes"
WE are women WE don't know what we want and we want it NOW!
Women are crazy and men lie but women are crazy BECAUSE men lie.
Women problems are all caused by men... first it's MENstruation, then it's Menopause then it's HYSterectomy...
Men and women compliment each other if only they would realise it, we are opposites and therefore eternally attracted like moths to the flame... bright light... ouch burny burny - bright light, ouch burny burny, repeat infinitely.
Fecking fantastic - may it never change "1. We are men we know what we want . Steak and blowjob's maybe not so many steaks . 2. Women lie . One pair of shoes and handbag are never enough for an outfit . Drives guys crazy . 3. Men cause women one problem i'll admit . " Your too f*cking close " we did tell you that that long was twelve inches .
Thank god for cool LED lighting | |||
""I, ___, take thee, ___, to be my wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith [or] pledge myself to you." In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording. A lot have to be faithful blah blah blah so if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage where they see no love and compassion between parents. What is that showing and teaching them? For them to think that’s the norm in life when it isn’t. It’s a debate that could go on and on from both sides but no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back. To be fair tho it doesnt say in wedding vows.. And we thou art to agree to become swingers and fuck other folks wifes/husbands lol i think its all down to personal choice from either sides and everyone has reasons for doing what they do on here Pmsl that would be some wedding vowes to sit through
Lol yes it would be wouldn't it tats
In regard to marriage - it's not all about sex though I think most would agree it's part of a healthy relationship. However if one is going to quote religious vows in particular, many religions considered sex to be for procreation not recreation. Therefore as weemrs said swinging or even just sex for the sake of it would be frowned on. I personally think sticking together is about way more than sex and a marriage (if it lasts any length of time) is about the endurance to survive much more than the ups and downs (pun intended) of ones sex life. In saying that, I don't agree with marriage at all - my main reason for saying so is the divorce rate (let alone the cheating rate). A bit of paper and a promise is so easy to break nowadays and legally too. Commitment comes from inside a person not a piece of paper.
My belief (and it is just mine of course) is that humans are serial monogamists at best. There are fifty shades of fab and fifty shades of anything anyone has an opinion on. Interesting to hear those views and OP - you unwittingly instigated a pretty good post - not bad for someone who just wanted to taste a wee bit of forbidden fruit (which is really just the thrill of a man wanting to piss on another man's territory btw, it's basic animal nature) women tend to have a different view of it... not always of course but mostly.
We guys have no chance . To commit " promise to give your loyalty " or " do something illegal or something that is considered wrong " we don't know what the woman " ment "? ( spelling mistake deliberate lol )
LOL Steph MENt - I see what you did there. Indeedy
Three of my fave quotes on the "battle of the sexes"
WE are women WE don't know what we want and we want it NOW!
Women are crazy and men lie but women are crazy BECAUSE men lie.
Women problems are all caused by men... first it's MENstruation, then it's Menopause then it's HYSterectomy...
Men and women compliment each other if only they would realise it, we are opposites and therefore eternally attracted like moths to the flame... bright light... ouch burny burny - bright light, ouch burny burny, repeat infinitely.
Fecking fantastic - may it never change
1. We are men we know what we want . Steak and blowjob's maybe not so many steaks .
2. Women lie . One pair of shoes and handbag are never enough for an outfit . Drives guys crazy .
3. Men cause women one problem i'll admit . " Your too f*cking close " we did tell you that that long was twelve inches .
Thank god for cool LED lighting "Men know what they want - aye a wife to cook and mother them and a girfriend to do the one steak and twenty blowjobs with. We don't lie about shoes and handbags - there are never enough - men just don't listen (what did ya say summat) 12inches??? Another male myth - we really dinna care about size (well maybe a little but not as much as men do
Steph whit ya doin Saturday - meringues are on me lmao | |||
"In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording." Oh really? I’ve been to more weddings with vows nothing like that, than weddings which do. You need to open up your views on what relationships are to different people. "...if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones." Again, very narrow minded. I used to know a couple where she couldn’t have sex. She didn’t need 24 hour constant care, though. She was happy for her husband to go out and fulfil that part of his life because she knew he would always go back to her, because it was her he loved. "There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life." You’re right, it isn’t everything, but you clearly don’t understand how strong that urge becomes when people aren’t getting any for years and years, decade after decade. "As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage..." Again, don’t be so judgemental and narrow minded. You simply have no idea how well people can bring up their kids. I’ve seen separated couples bring up better adjusted kids than those in loving relationships. I’m sorry, but how dare you judge others who for any number of reasons can’t, or choose not to, physically separate? "...no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back." Most of your objections relate to circumstances where it’s not necessarily behind the person’s back. And what about circumstances where there is consent but the partner doesn’t want to know? Or circumstances where knowledge could put child access in jeopardy? You simply cannot make that blanket statement without making massive judgements and assumptions with no cause. Honestly, I hate cheats. A friend of mine has recently been cheated on, and I would dearly love to thump his partner and his ‘friend’ who she went with. But I would not be so narrow-minded as to assume that everyone who’s married but on Fab is doing the dirty without knowing their own personal circumstances. | |||
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"We don't lie about shoes and handbags - there are never enough - men just don't listen (what did ya say summat ) Only a woman can start a conversation with " you've not got a clue what i've just said "
I'm busy Saturday "That's how most our conversations with men start hahahahahah - damn I'll have to have two meringues | |||
"In regard to the poster above and the couple he refers too... yes to both in a way, it's easy to speak from your own viewpoint - far harder to accept someone else's. Sometimes we can open up to new ideas and reasons sometimes we have to agree to differ - the important and maybe the hardest bit is listening and then understanding ... "Closed mind .closed life .I don't agree with married playing away at all won't entertain them .but won't condem them | |||
"In regard to the poster above and the couple he refers too... yes to both in a way, it's easy to speak from your own viewpoint - far harder to accept someone else's. Sometimes we can open up to new ideas and reasons sometimes we have to agree to differ - the important and maybe the hardest bit is listening and then understanding ...
Closed mind .closed life .I don't agree with married playing away at all won't entertain them .but won't condem them "Agreed - people are complicated, relationships more so, just look at the dynamics of any family. Your wife/husband should be the person who understands you most but sometimes just doesn't | |||
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"In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording.Oh really? I’ve been to more weddings with vows nothing like that, than weddings which do. You need to open up your views on what relationships are to different people. ...if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones.Again, very narrow minded. I used to know a couple where she couldn’t have sex. She didn’t need 24 hour constant care, though. She was happy for her husband to go out and fulfil that part of his life because she knew he would always go back to her, because it was her he loved. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life.You’re right, it isn’t everything, but you clearly don’t understand how strong that urge becomes when people aren’t getting any for years and years, decade after decade. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage...Again, don’t be so judgemental and narrow minded. You simply have no idea how well people can bring up their kids. I’ve seen separated couples bring up better adjusted kids than those in loving relationships. I’m sorry, but how dare you judge others who for any number of reasons can’t, or choose not to, physically separate? ...no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back.Most of your objections relate to circumstances where it’s not necessarily behind the person’s back. And what about circumstances where there is consent but the partner doesn’t want to know? Or circumstances where knowledge could put child access in jeopardy? You simply cannot make that blanket statement without making massive judgements and assumptions with no cause. Honestly, I hate cheats. A friend of mine has recently been cheated on, and I would dearly love to thump his partner and his ‘friend’ who she went with. But I would not be so narrow-minded as to assume that everyone who’s married but on Fab is doing the dirty without knowing their own personal circumstances." How dare I?? Hahhaha it’s my opinion so deal with it | |||
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"Some shite spouted in this forum ! Can you believe people talking about morals and standards get a fekin grip it’s a swingers site your all just horny fuker s except move on NEXT !! " So you insinuating swingers can't have morals or standards Oki doki | |||
"Some shite spouted in this forum ! Can you believe people talking about morals and standards get a fekin grip it’s a swingers site your all just horny fuker s except move on NEXT !! So you insinuating swingers can't have morals or standards Oki doki "And we are not allowed to discuss it apparently lolol | |||
Never knew the educated went as far north
Only joking enjoy your forum | |||
sometimes you have to rumble it up | |||
"How dare I?? Hahhaha it’s my opinion so deal with it "I am dealing with it; by offering alternatives you may not have considered when you formed that opinion. Ultimately, it makes no real difference to my life if you shut yourself off to other possibilities, but the world would be a more pleasant place if so many people weren’t so quick to harshly judge others. *shrug* | |||
" sometimes you have to rumble it up "In my experience that's what folk say when they realise they have made an utter tit of themselves, that or "oh I was only joking" Enjoy your day too love and thanks for your input - always appreciated dontcha know | |||
"How dare I?? Hahhaha it’s my opinion so deal with it
I am dealing with it; by offering alternatives you may not have considered when you formed that opinion. Ultimately, it makes no real difference to my life if you shut yourself off to other possibilities, but the world would be a more pleasant place if so many people weren’t so quick to harshly judge others.
*shrug*"Before passing judgement you should walk a mile in someones shoes... then you will be a mile away AND you will have their shoes
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"In most vows from all cultures you have the same wording.Oh really? I’ve been to more weddings with vows nothing like that, than weddings which do. You need to open up your views on what relationships are to different people. ...if a partner is sick and unable to have sex then I don’t think cheating is an excuse. If anything I actually think that’s worse playing away and that person at home unwell when the other partner should be supporting their loved ones.Again, very narrow minded. I used to know a couple where she couldn’t have sex. She didn’t need 24 hour constant care, though. She was happy for her husband to go out and fulfil that part of his life because she knew he would always go back to her, because it was her he loved. There is other ways to relieve stress. Sex isn’t everything it’s not actually a fundamental for survival in life.You’re right, it isn’t everything, but you clearly don’t understand how strong that urge becomes when people aren’t getting any for years and years, decade after decade. As for staying together for sake of kids don’t agree with that either as that’s not a nice environment to bring children up in a loveless marriage...Again, don’t be so judgemental and narrow minded. You simply have no idea how well people can bring up their kids. I’ve seen separated couples bring up better adjusted kids than those in loving relationships. I’m sorry, but how dare you judge others who for any number of reasons can’t, or choose not to, physically separate? ...no excuse makes it acceptable to cheat on a loved one behind their back.Most of your objections relate to circumstances where it’s not necessarily behind the person’s back. And what about circumstances where there is consent but the partner doesn’t want to know? Or circumstances where knowledge could put child access in jeopardy? You simply cannot make that blanket statement without making massive judgements and assumptions with no cause. Honestly, I hate cheats. A friend of mine has recently been cheated on, and I would dearly love to thump his partner and his ‘friend’ who she went with. But I would not be so narrow-minded as to assume that everyone who’s married but on Fab is doing the dirty without knowing their own personal circumstances. How dare I?? Hahhaha it’s my opinion so deal with it "Yes you are indeed entitled to that maluvs | |||
"When a person has made the choice to cheat in a relationship, apparently they found a good enough reason to justify it. I am not sure about justifying cheating. But cheating does have an underlying cause. Im ure there are people who just want to enjoy the conquest of having sex with others. But in most relationships when one partner cheats on the other there is usually a reason. There is something the partner needs or wants but is not getting. If both partners are committed to restoring a relationship and making it work together it is possible to overcome infidelity. The partner who is cheated on needs to recognize what was broken or not working within the relationship and be willing to correct the problems. The partner that did the cheating also needs to commit to working with the other and restore the relationship. If the cheated partner refuses to see their part or does not care why it happened then of course the relationship is doomed. If the cheating partner is unwilling to communicate honestly and commit to working to restore the relationship then the relationship will fail. This is one of the reasons the vow for better or worse is included on the traditional wedding vows. Couples promise to get through the rough times together and account for human weakness and failure. As For medical reasons for cheating then its human nature to be wanted and needed and the sick person cant be blamed for their partner looking elsewhere. Couples who swing together with consent is a whole different thing, altho for many it may still be deemed as cheating re the marraige vows theory but not every one took the same vows "Hear hear!! | |||
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"Me !!! Never except on well rounded tits "hahahah that's why you're everready spose | |||
"ffs and I only joined fab because I heard they wur giving away FREE Curly Wurlys and now I find out that married guys perform better than single guys. You ever feel like you've just been conned "ALWAYS | |||
"ffs and I only joined fab because I heard they wur giving away FREE Curly Wurlys and now I find out that married guys perform better than single guys. You ever feel like you've just been conned "Sounds like you’d love a Curly Wurly a bit too much, so you’d only eat it wrong. I hear the guys who already have a Freddo or finger of Fudge could really show you what to do with a Curly Wurly. | |||
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"Personally I’m not interested in a man or woman’s non Fab life. If we click, and there’s a spark and an opportunity to meet, then that’s good enough for me. I’m not going to judge anyone on their choices or reasons for being on here. I’m sure everyone has their secrets and skeletons. Just my humble opinion though, it will be different for others " | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X why do you think married men fuck better op ? I/we wouldn't meet a married man far to much hassle. hollie Well like I have said I believe a man looking for lust not love must be better as most married men carry a fair bit of lust that never gets realised in his own bedroom. Probably stands for married women to. XGet your wife involved then for a bit of lust. " Mic drop moment right there | |||
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"Married and cheating folk are not to be trusted. Why would you choose to be intimate with someone you can't trust?" Some people might say the same about swingers or bi guys... just saying | |||
"Married and cheating folk are not to be trusted. Why would you choose to be intimate with someone you can't trust? Some people might say the same about swingers or bi guys... just saying "Oi I'm bi curios and don't lie..well unless I'm asked does my arse look big in this I usually reply no it looks as nice as a perfect peach ... | |||
"Well I'm fairly new and most decent normal women who take the time to reply say they aren't into married men. Is this something most women think or is there any women out there that think married men fcuk so much better than single men. ?? X" Tom Hardy is married and he's a defos turn on! | |||
"Married and cheating folk are not to be trusted. Why would you choose to be intimate with someone you can't trust? Some people might say the same about swingers or bi guys... just saying
Oi I'm bi curios and don't lie..well unless I'm asked does my arse look big in this I usually reply no it looks as nice as a perfect peach ..."lol - watch someone doesn't take a bite
As to lies... I beLIEve everyone has told a lie at some point in their life | |||
"Married and cheating folk are not to be trusted. Why would you choose to be intimate with someone you can't trust?" How do you know you can trust anyone you meet on here? I could see your point if this was a dating website, where you’re looking for an exclusive partner (which, admittedly, some people do seem to be doing). To put it another way, and play Devil’s Advocate; if someone fits that specific category of using fab without the knowledge of a partner who would be devastated if they found out, well, you know that person takes discretion and privacy seriously, and is probably quite good at it. In a non-romantic sexual relationship, is that kind of trust more important than the trust that they won’t ‘cheat’ on you? | |||
"most wife's believe that swapping is a no go and you as a man should only be for them and then never want sex because they don't have as high a sex drive or are just sleepy and crabbit as they get older. Who knows how the women's mind works ??" Clearly not you
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"We all know that men on here lie about height, age etc so its quite likely that lie about being single too." They do? Fuck. Why’d nobody tell me when I was filling mine out? Bugger. | |||
"We all know that men on here lie about height, age etc so its quite likely that lie about being single too. Theres no way we can possibly tell so we have probably all slept with someones husband during our fab days." Some may have if they're a bit loose. But most people are far more savy, and far more careful with whom they sleep with. | |||
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"Married and cheating folk are not to be trusted. Why would you choose to be intimate with someone you can't trust? Some people might say the same about swingers or bi guys... just saying "Why exactly? Lying to someone you promised to be honest with vs being honest about your desires and sexuality? You're suggestion that swingers and bisexuals are untrustworthy is offensive and i think you're in the wrong place. | |||
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"Married and cheating folk are not to be trusted. Why would you choose to be intimate with someone you can't trust? Some people might say the same about swingers or bi guys... just saying
Why exactly? Lying to someone you promised to be honest with vs being honest about your desires and sexuality? You're suggestion that swingers and bisexuals are untrustworthy is offensive and i think you're in the wrong place. "You said why would you choose to be intimate with someone you can’t trust. All I meant was some folk find swinging offensive and won’t have sex with bi guys. I didn’t suggest either were untrustworthy, you missed my point entirely but I do see why | |||
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