We have recently and it worked out as one of our better decisions on here, took a lot of toing and froing to prove authenticity though, we are looking to meet a couple in the next few weeks who are the same but again they have been thoroughly vetted. wouldn't just meet up regardless, they really have to prove they are not some saddo behind a screen getting his jollies!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I believe yes. I was a newbie once and amazing woman took the chance on me after chatting and getting to know each other so I would happily do the same back as we all start somewhere  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If you've been chatting, seen pics, had a phone call or a quick skype/cam and you meet socially and like the person enough to move forward, who cares that they have no verifications?
We did all start somewhere. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I once had the chance to meet an unverified guy but he wanted to come straight to mine. I said no I wanted a social first but he just wanted to fuck right away. I told him that wasn't going to happen so I never met him. We all have our preferences after all and I will always have a social first  x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I would and have done so. In fact I've met someone who was new to fab and swinging. So we chatted a while and then arranged a social in a public place and then after the social we arranged a fun night at mine and it was brilliant.
Without veris I am conscious they are not being legit but chatting a while you eventually get the feel for them and comfortable that they ain't a fake.
So it's a yes from me.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I would as well.
Unfortunately I’m in the situation where I haven’t been verified by anyone as I’ve not managed to meet anyone from here yet.
I’m hoping that changes shortly x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I would. If the chat is good and the attraction's there x
"
It's def a great question, given that I have returned to fab after a break,you have to judge on instinct and heh it's the person you chat with that counts not the verifications they have surely |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm struggling to get a meet without any verifications to be honest. Either that or am way uglier than I think hahaha only kidding!
I get that people might have been let down in the past, it's hard for a single guy to start out on here with so much competition. Might need to head to CJs and meet face to face to get my first   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm struggling to get a meet without any verifications to be honest. Either that or am way uglier than I think hahaha only kidding!
I get that people might have been let down in the past, it's hard for a single guy to start out on here with so much competition. Might need to head to CJs and meet face to face to get my first "
That's usually what the experienced folks recommend |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm struggling to get a meet without any verifications to be honest. Either that or am way uglier than I think hahaha only kidding!
I get that people might have been let down in the past, it's hard for a single guy to start out on here with so much competition. Might need to head to CJs and meet face to face to get my first "
It won't be verifications or lack off that are stopping you from getting a meet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm struggling to get a meet without any verifications to be honest. Either that or am way uglier than I think hahaha only kidding!
I get that people might have been let down in the past, it's hard for a single guy to start out on here with so much competition. Might need to head to CJs and meet face to face to get my first
It won't be verifications or lack off that are stopping you from getting a meet."
So I'm just ugly then  lol
Any tips for newbies like me? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
At the end of the day who came.on the site verified?? Nobody but someone took a chance on me
Also some of my worse meets have been with verified members and believe me i think they verified themselves!!!! On the other hand some of my best meets have been unverified guys. I use my common sense and good judgement on who I meet not verifications x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yes and no, possibly, depends... that’s a definite maybe from me
I’m glad you got over your problem with being indecisive . "
I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure Steph... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Yes and no, possibly, depends... that’s a definite maybe from me
I’m glad you got over your problem with being indecisive .
I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure Steph... "
O
I’m hesitant of your inconclusiveness . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yes and no, possibly, depends... that’s a definite maybe from me
I’m glad you got over your problem with being indecisive .
I used to be indecisive... now I'm not so sure Steph...
O
I’m hesitant of your inconclusiveness . "
That's positively unresolved then...  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
It’s one of the reasons I started the pub quiz team. It’s an open invitation and I’ll give the venue details. Anyone is free to join us and for anyone new we will verify them.
It’s a good laugh and a relaxed way to meet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I just did after having some great amazing chat, which I never thought I would! but turned out to be one of my best meets so far  I might just have been lucky though  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It makes me happy to see so many people willing to meet regardless of verifications at the end of the day there is plenty of people who have met on fab and not been verified also its personality and chemistry between you that makes good sex not a verification lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Would you take the chance and meet an unverified member?
We all had to start somewhere so should we be more open to meeting unverified members?"
Yes if I’d chatted for a while and they seemed sound enough. When I was in with my partner a few years back we’d met folk who weren’t verified, just made sure we’d spoken enough and met socially first. As someone I was speaking to the other day from the site pointed out, people come and go on this site (myself included) and we’re not all desperate for the green tick approval. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
