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 in the world of swinging we thing you should always respect the other people and not make them feel like a piece of meat hence why we always become really good friend with a lot of our good meets  | |||
"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X" Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way  | |||
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"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way "You just quoted that "we ain't here for that" well "we" are here for that we are here to make like minded friends that ain't here just for a bit of filth, if that's all swinging is then there wouldn't be socials! Swingers (proper swingers) that we have become friends with are proper friends with an added bonus sometimes and sometimes not but we still become friends! There is plenty of people on here that know if they needed help we would be there for them if they needed money, help with an animal looked after, broken down in there car anything we could help with we would! In fact we actually have a single woman's dog right now for a few weeks while she sorts things out in her life! | |||
"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way
You just quoted that "we ain't here for that" "Yes I have and I get a feeling that your not, or not reading it in the context it was meant for. That's why I've just replied. I am more attentive to situations like the Ops post as I have been through all problems like this with family and I deal with others who have problems and ((most people don't join fab to deal with those problems and I certainly didn't join fab to seek out people with these types of problems and I daren't say you did either )) but it happens and yes I am there to lend an ear if I come across people in that situation. If I have been of any help or comfort then it's all good and if you've been there for others who have become friends then even better | |||
"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way
You just quoted that "we ain't here for that"
Yes I have and I get a feeling that your not, or not reading it in the context it was meant for. That's why I've just replied.
I am more attentive to situations like the Ops post as I have been through all problems like this with family and I deal with others who have problems and ((most people don't join fab to deal with those problems and I certainly didn't join fab to seek out people with these types of problems and I daren't say you did either )) but it happens and yes I am there to lend an ear if I come across people in that situation. If I have been of any help or comfort then it's all good and if you've been there for others who have become friends then even better "It's clear to us why we have you blocked anyway that's for sure some peoples opinions are just too different to ever get on. Happy whatever it is you do on here | |||
"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way
You just quoted that "we ain't here for that"
Yes I have and I get a feeling that your not, or not reading it in the context it was meant for. That's why I've just replied.
I am more attentive to situations like the Ops post as I have been through all problems like this with family and I deal with others who have problems and ((most people don't join fab to deal with those problems and I certainly didn't join fab to seek out people with these types of problems and I daren't say you did either )) but it happens and yes I am there to lend an ear if I come across people in that situation. If I have been of any help or comfort then it's all good and if you've been there for others who have become friends then even better
It's clear to us why we have you blocked anyway that's for sure some peoples opinions are just too different to ever get on. Happy whatever it is you do on here "aawwww I honestly didn't even realise as I've never contacted you, so honestly no offence taken. I don't really block people even if they are nasty or ignorant or try and get one over someone on here, I just put it in my private notes about them but I haven't anything about you too as I don't know you or conversed with you and don't remember you being nasty to me or anyone on here that I remember nor never will so I'll go with your words that you will not get on with me and I try and not make it public that I don't like someone, I prefer to keep it to myself | |||
although there's a few who wouldn't and it would be the same in normal life | |||
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"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way
You just quoted that "we ain't here for that"
Yes I have and I get a feeling that your not, or not reading it in the context it was meant for. That's why I've just replied.
I am more attentive to situations like the Ops post as I have been through all problems like this with family and I deal with others who have problems and ((most people don't join fab to deal with those problems and I certainly didn't join fab to seek out people with these types of problems and I daren't say you did either )) but it happens and yes I am there to lend an ear if I come across people in that situation. If I have been of any help or comfort then it's all good and if you've been there for others who have become friends then even better
It's clear to us why we have you blocked anyway that's for sure some peoples opinions are just too different to ever get on. Happy whatever it is you do on here
aawwww I honestly didn't even realise as I've never contacted you, so honestly no offence taken.
I don't really block people even if they are nasty or ignorant or try and get one over someone on here, I just put it in my private notes about them but I haven't anything about you too as I don't know you or conversed with you and don't remember you being nasty to me or anyone on here that I remember nor never will so I'll go with your words that you will not get on with me and I try and not make it public that I don't like someone, I prefer to keep it to myself
Hahahahaha yes you did try and message us with a rude message hence why you were blocked but you wouldn't like that to be public as you stated so we will keep the content of that message between ourself eh happy whatever it is you do "Well one of us is a LIAR, I wonder who it is. One thing I know for sure, I don't send rude, vulgar or sexist messages to anyone. You have made an actual genuine post from someone about depression change to making a personal attack on someone who you don't know, who has never contacted you although you say differently. Seriously, fuck being depressed and end up coming across you if that is how you get off with a personal attack. There was one girl recently who made a nasty comment and I messaged her and just asked her why she constantly did it and even then it still wasn't rude but since found out she did it to others so if its her nature to be nasty then kl at least I know | |||
"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way
You just quoted that "we ain't here for that"
Yes I have and I get a feeling that your not, or not reading it in the context it was meant for. That's why I've just replied.
I am more attentive to situations like the Ops post as I have been through all problems like this with family and I deal with others who have problems and ((most people don't join fab to deal with those problems and I certainly didn't join fab to seek out people with these types of problems and I daren't say you did either )) but it happens and yes I am there to lend an ear if I come across people in that situation. If I have been of any help or comfort then it's all good and if you've been there for others who have become friends then even better
It's clear to us why we have you blocked anyway that's for sure some peoples opinions are just too different to ever get on. Happy whatever it is you do on here
aawwww I honestly didn't even realise as I've never contacted you, so honestly no offence taken.
I don't really block people even if they are nasty or ignorant or try and get one over someone on here, I just put it in my private notes about them but I haven't anything about you too as I don't know you or conversed with you and don't remember you being nasty to me or anyone on here that I remember nor never will so I'll go with your words that you will not get on with me and I try and not make it public that I don't like someone, I prefer to keep it to myself
Hahahahaha yes you did try and message us with a rude message hence why you were blocked but you wouldn't like that to be public as you stated so we will keep the content of that message between ourself eh happy whatever it is you do
Well one of us is a LIAR, I wonder who it is.
One thing I know for sure, I don't send rude, vulgar or sexist messages to anyone. You have made an actual genuine post from someone about depression change to making a personal attack on someone who you don't know, who has never contacted you although you say differently.
Seriously, fuck being depressed and end up coming across you if that is how you get off with a personal attack.
There was one girl recently who made a nasty comment and I messaged her and just asked her why she constantly did it and even then it still wasn't rude but since found out she did it to others so if its her nature to be nasty then kl at least I know"Yeah ok pal no worries we well enough known in this world for people to know what we are like we just speak the truth weather you like it or not but we certainly don't tell lies or attack innocent people but if you want to try and minipulate the situation to make it sound that way they you feel free maybe it's how you get your sexual gratification maybe it's just a way of filling in time but either way pal, it's been a pleasure and happy whatever it is you do | |||
"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way
You just quoted that "we ain't here for that"
Yes I have and I get a feeling that your not, or not reading it in the context it was meant for. That's why I've just replied.
I am more attentive to situations like the Ops post as I have been through all problems like this with family and I deal with others who have problems and ((most people don't join fab to deal with those problems and I certainly didn't join fab to seek out people with these types of problems and I daren't say you did either )) but it happens and yes I am there to lend an ear if I come across people in that situation. If I have been of any help or comfort then it's all good and if you've been there for others who have become friends then even better
It's clear to us why we have you blocked anyway that's for sure some peoples opinions are just too different to ever get on. Happy whatever it is you do on here
aawwww I honestly didn't even realise as I've never contacted you, so honestly no offence taken.
I don't really block people even if they are nasty or ignorant or try and get one over someone on here, I just put it in my private notes about them but I haven't anything about you too as I don't know you or conversed with you and don't remember you being nasty to me or anyone on here that I remember nor never will so I'll go with your words that you will not get on with me and I try and not make it public that I don't like someone, I prefer to keep it to myself
Hahahahaha yes you did try and message us with a rude message hence why you were blocked but you wouldn't like that to be public as you stated so we will keep the content of that message between ourself eh happy whatever it is you do
Well one of us is a LIAR, I wonder who it is.
One thing I know for sure, I don't send rude, vulgar or sexist messages to anyone. You have made an actual genuine post from someone about depression change to making a personal attack on someone who you don't know, who has never contacted you although you say differently.
Seriously, fuck being depressed and end up coming across you if that is how you get off with a personal attack.
There was one girl recently who made a nasty comment and I messaged her and just asked her why she constantly did it and even then it still wasn't rude but since found out she did it to others so if its her nature to be nasty then kl at least I know
Yeah ok pal no worries we well enough known in this world for people to know what we are like we just speak the truth weather you like it or not but we certainly don't tell lies or attack innocent people but if you want to try and minipulate the situation to make it sound that way they you feel free maybe it's how you get your sexual gratification maybe it's just a way of filling in time but either way pal, it's been a pleasure and happy whatever it is you do "Manipulate the situation is not needed you have made accusations about me on a depression post which for me I feel its worse, saying sending message and also messages that are rude. Trust me you have called the OP a pal and you have called me a Pal, you certainly aint a pal of mine after the way you have been nasty and even your tons of smiley faces don't hide that fact. lol you are well known, I'm so happy for you so it must mean everything you say it true. I don't know you, don't know what your looking for, interests etc... I have met the same people at socials whom you have met and will continue to do so and I'm sure most or all have a different view of me than your view or do they. Everyone to a person will speak highly of you, I genuinely don't know, really I don't and they actually may all do have great things but whatever you think and their view of me in general or if even met ion the past you have shown yourself in a light which is not to becoming to say the least. As my first comments on this post was about people whom I've come across on here and about actual family members who suffered from depression and other problems then you have turned it into a nasty attack for no other reason other than you don't like me and I cant even say I don't like you because the first converse that I know of between us is this. I only have an opinion of you just after this and to be honest on the bottom of your message saying its been a pleasure, how can anyone say its a pleasure out of being nasty to someone, even if the someone was nasty back, which I have not. I just don't get it | |||
"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way
You just quoted that "we ain't here for that"
Yes I have and I get a feeling that your not, or not reading it in the context it was meant for. That's why I've just replied.
I am more attentive to situations like the Ops post as I have been through all problems like this with family and I deal with others who have problems and ((most people don't join fab to deal with those problems and I certainly didn't join fab to seek out people with these types of problems and I daren't say you did either )) but it happens and yes I am there to lend an ear if I come across people in that situation. If I have been of any help or comfort then it's all good and if you've been there for others who have become friends then even better
It's clear to us why we have you blocked anyway that's for sure some peoples opinions are just too different to ever get on. Happy whatever it is you do on here
aawwww I honestly didn't even realise as I've never contacted you, so honestly no offence taken.
I don't really block people even if they are nasty or ignorant or try and get one over someone on here, I just put it in my private notes about them but I haven't anything about you too as I don't know you or conversed with you and don't remember you being nasty to me or anyone on here that I remember nor never will so I'll go with your words that you will not get on with me and I try and not make it public that I don't like someone, I prefer to keep it to myself
Hahahahaha yes you did try and message us with a rude message hence why you were blocked but you wouldn't like that to be public as you stated so we will keep the content of that message between ourself eh happy whatever it is you do
Well one of us is a LIAR, I wonder who it is.
One thing I know for sure, I don't send rude, vulgar or sexist messages to anyone. You have made an actual genuine post from someone about depression change to making a personal attack on someone who you don't know, who has never contacted you although you say differently.
Seriously, fuck being depressed and end up coming across you if that is how you get off with a personal attack.
There was one girl recently who made a nasty comment and I messaged her and just asked her why she constantly did it and even then it still wasn't rude but since found out she did it to others so if its her nature to be nasty then kl at least I know
Yeah ok pal no worries we well enough known in this world for people to know what we are like we just speak the truth weather you like it or not but we certainly don't tell lies or attack innocent people but if you want to try and minipulate the situation to make it sound that way they you feel free maybe it's how you get your sexual gratification maybe it's just a way of filling in time but either way pal, it's been a pleasure and happy whatever it is you do
Manipulate the situation is not needed
you have made accusations about me on a depression post which for me I feel its worse, saying sending message and also messages that are rude.
Trust me you have called the OP a pal and you have called me a Pal, you certainly aint a pal of mine after the way you have been nasty and even your tons of smiley faces don't hide that fact.
lol you are well known, I'm so happy for you so it must mean everything you say it true.
I don't know you, don't know what your looking for, interests etc... I have met the same people at socials whom you have met and will continue to do so and I'm sure most or all have a different view of me than your view or do they.
Everyone to a person will speak highly of you, I genuinely don't know, really I don't and they actually may all do have great things but whatever you think and their view of me in general or if even met ion the past you have shown yourself in a light which is not to becoming to say the least.
As my first comments on this post was about people whom I've come across on here and about actual family members who suffered from depression and other problems then you have turned it into a nasty attack for no other reason other than you don't like me and I cant even say I don't like you because the first converse that I know of between us is this. I only have an opinion of you just after this and to be honest on the bottom of your message saying its been a pleasure, how can anyone say its a pleasure out of being nasty to someone, even if the someone was nasty back, which I have not. I just don't get it"You aired your opinion on the post which you are more than welcome to do as am I. Which I did if you seen that as an attack then I apologise but it certainly wasn't an attack it was just an opinion and with the freedom of speech I'm more than welcome to do so look there's them smiley face God forgive me I used that ooooops! Your criticism towards my opinion was deemed by me as some what rude too and certainly in my view manipulating of the situation but again we all have the right to an opinion dam smiley faces!!! Glad you've clearly used a 3rd party to seek Intel on the people we both know because your blocked and as your early claim was you've never spoken to us or tried to you will of not seen our profile so therefore not know who we know unless a 3rd party checked for you, or God forbid you actually did message and just tripped yourself up tut tut | |||
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"I suffer and have suffered from lack of confidence through the years comes about by being badly bullied at Primary and Secondary school ive done and im still doing a lot of community activist work and also worked with children and adults all my working life so this has helped But when that big black cloud appears it aint nice I have every sympathy for people like myself xx " You have to hide it because if you don't people prey on it like weakness I have PPD runs in the family but I have control of it and I believe it helps me making better life choice now from trial and error | |||
"I suffer and have suffered from lack of confidence through the years comes about by being badly bullied at Primary and Secondary school ive done and im still doing a lot of community activist work and also worked with children and adults all my working life so this has helped But when that big black cloud appears it aint nice I have every sympathy for people like myself xx " Ohh and bullying is my biggest pet hate which anyone will tell you that knows me so I feel for you going threw that shit it's unacceptable and pure evil to pick on someone because you think your better than them or there different to you or you think there weaker every person is the same value of life nobody is better than you and never will be xx | |||
"Hi all, Recently I was supposed to meet a lady and she cancelled because she told me she was suffering of low mood. I do not really like to use the word depression. I found that very brave of her to say that. I think it was wise of her to cancel. Meeting on Fab when you have Low mood might no be the best thing. I am not a psychologist but I advised her to may be take a step back and focus on her. What are you thoughts, how would you have reacted if you were about to meet someone but not feeling in the best mood? X Exact same. I have been there with a couple of females in that way over the years and they have had problems with depression and I've tried to help them, chatting being an ear for them. I know were not on fab for that but it happens and some who are caring will try and help. I will not take advantage of any girl in that situation and if I know they are finding help and not making rash decisions then I'm really happy if I have helped in any way
You just quoted that "we ain't here for that"
Yes I have and I get a feeling that your not, or not reading it in the context it was meant for. That's why I've just replied.
I am more attentive to situations like the Ops post as I have been through all problems like this with family and I deal with others who have problems and ((most people don't join fab to deal with those problems and I certainly didn't join fab to seek out people with these types of problems and I daren't say you did either )) but it happens and yes I am there to lend an ear if I come across people in that situation. If I have been of any help or comfort then it's all good and if you've been there for others who have become friends then even better
It's clear to us why we have you blocked anyway that's for sure some peoples opinions are just too different to ever get on. Happy whatever it is you do on here
aawwww I honestly didn't even realise as I've never contacted you, so honestly no offence taken.
I don't really block people even if they are nasty or ignorant or try and get one over someone on here, I just put it in my private notes about them but I haven't anything about you too as I don't know you or conversed with you and don't remember you being nasty to me or anyone on here that I remember nor never will so I'll go with your words that you will not get on with me and I try and not make it public that I don't like someone, I prefer to keep it to myself
Hahahahaha yes you did try and message us with a rude message hence why you were blocked but you wouldn't like that to be public as you stated so we will keep the content of that message between ourself eh happy whatever it is you do
Well one of us is a LIAR, I wonder who it is.
One thing I know for sure, I don't send rude, vulgar or sexist messages to anyone. You have made an actual genuine post from someone about depression change to making a personal attack on someone who you don't know, who has never contacted you although you say differently.
Seriously, fuck being depressed and end up coming across you if that is how you get off with a personal attack.
There was one girl recently who made a nasty comment and I messaged her and just asked her why she constantly did it and even then it still wasn't rude but since found out she did it to others so if its her nature to be nasty then kl at least I know
Yeah ok pal no worries we well enough known in this world for people to know what we are like we just speak the truth weather you like it or not but we certainly don't tell lies or attack innocent people but if you want to try and minipulate the situation to make it sound that way they you feel free maybe it's how you get your sexual gratification maybe it's just a way of filling in time but either way pal, it's been a pleasure and happy whatever it is you do
Manipulate the situation is not needed
you have made accusations about me on a depression post which for me I feel its worse, saying sending message and also messages that are rude.
Trust me you have called the OP a pal and you have called me a Pal, you certainly aint a pal of mine after the way you have been nasty and even your tons of smiley faces don't hide that fact.
lol you are well known, I'm so happy for you so it must mean everything you say it true.
I don't know you, don't know what your looking for, interests etc... I have met the same people at socials whom you have met and will continue to do so and I'm sure most or all have a different view of me than your view or do they.
Everyone to a person will speak highly of you, I genuinely don't know, really I don't and they actually may all do have great things but whatever you think and their view of me in general or if even met ion the past you have shown yourself in a light which is not to becoming to say the least.
As my first comments on this post was about people whom I've come across on here and about actual family members who suffered from depression and other problems then you have turned it into a nasty attack for no other reason other than you don't like me and I cant even say I don't like you because the first converse that I know of between us is this. I only have an opinion of you just after this and to be honest on the bottom of your message saying its been a pleasure, how can anyone say its a pleasure out of being nasty to someone, even if the someone was nasty back, which I have not. I just don't get it
You aired your opinion on the post which you are more than welcome to do as am I. Which I did if you seen that as an attack then I apologise but it certainly wasn't an attack it was just an opinion and with the freedom of speech I'm more than welcome to do so"I never seen your first comment to me as an attack but the way it was worded by yourself, it makes my wording come across in a way that it is not intended, so if you read again, carefully, you will see my reply right after was more precise n its meaning, and no way can it be construed as an attack by me on you, that's all it was, (if you take your dislike of me out of the equation) then even you will know that's true in its meaning. " look there's them smiley face God forgive me I used that ooooops! Your criticism towards my opinion was deemed by me as some what rude too and certainly in my view manipulating of the situation but again we all have the right to an opinion"There wasn't even any criticism from me in my reply, it was only a clarification of my wording but Then you went on a personal public attack, (saying theres a reason why you've blocked me cause of different views) its all there, making accusations about this and that and me denying it. I don't remember messaging you or your wife. I treat couples as a couple. I don't even message people for a meet unless they are looking for a meet and even then its few and far between. If a couple are looking for a single guy and I'm outside their age range then I wont even contact them if their open to every age. I don't know your interests as if I look at a profile, which we all do and I find that their interests aren't similar to mine then I wont go there but I will put it in my private notes. " dam smiley faces!!! "again its just smarmy, why " Glad you've clearly used a 3rd party to seek Intel on the people we both know because your blocked and as your early claim was you've never spoken to us or tried to you will of not seen our profile so therefore not know who we know unless a 3rd party checked for you, or God forbid you actually did message and just tripped yourself up tut tut " I don't know what all the intel and 3rd party stuff is about, seriously get a grip. The people I'm talking about are people who arrange the socials, that's all as you have clearly stated you have met them as I have done. If people block you, are you gonna seriously try and find out why and find out about their profile. wtf would you do that for, what is there to gain. People block you that you have genuinely never chatted to or message, so what, they have their reasons, respect it and just get on with it. (I guarantee people will block me because of this incident and certainly you two will be blocked by others or the same). But If you block them for a reason and then continue to bring it up in other medium like this forum or even in conversation then that's just not a nice thing to do, I know I don't. Even the tripped myself up comments, ffs, if I say something and I'm wrong, I'll hold my hand up and say sorry my bad. I have genuinely tried to play it down but you have come back with smarmy comments even about the smiley faces. This is genuine, I am going to a few socials this year and heaven forbid if you are there cause you may feel I've used some third party to find out when your going. I don't believe you are going to them so its kl. But If you want to know which ones I'm going to I can gladly give you the details so you can easily avoid me. | |||
"I suffer and have suffered from lack of confidence through the years comes about by being badly bullied at Primary and Secondary school ive done and im still doing a lot of community activist work and also worked with children and adults all my working life so this has helped But when that big black cloud appears it aint nice I have every sympathy for people like myself xx Ohh and bullying is my biggest pet hate which anyone will tell you that knows me so I feel for you going threw that shit it's unacceptable and pure evil to pick on someone because you think your better than them or there different to you or you think there weaker every person is the same value of life nobody is better than you and never will be xx"bullying, where is the bullying. That comment, you have totally lost me  | |||
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"I suffer and have suffered from lack of confidence through the years comes about by being badly bullied at Primary and Secondary school ive done and im still doing a lot of community activist work and also worked with children and adults all my working life so this has helped But when that big black cloud appears it aint nice I have every sympathy for people like myself xx Ohh and bullying is my biggest pet hate which anyone will tell you that knows me so I feel for you going threw that shit it's unacceptable and pure evil to pick on someone because you think your better than them or there different to you or you think there weaker every person is the same value of life nobody is better than you and never will be xx
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"Do you know something I've seen your recent comments on posts and you actually seem like a decent enough guy which confuses me at the fact of why this all started?? You said that you weren't here to cope with people's problems basically?? Or did I maybe fly off a little bit after that being my interpretation maybe?? I don't know, but I'd like to apologise if that wasn't your meaning! I just presumed that coupled with the fact we have you blocked because of previous messages sent (seriously) or pics? That it was your meaning! If not again I apoligise " This is my last comment regarding our interactions on this post, I promise and hopefully both parties are appeased and the rest can have a giggle n shake their head and think all for nothing and that's it done.. You have apologised and thank you for that but Again, I need to reiterate, I never said I was on fab to cope with people's problems. I did not join fab to deal with other peoples problems and anyone one else who says they joined fab to deal with others problems then I will quite confidently call them a liar. But my original post was there meaning I have came across females with problems and I have been very considerate and leant my ear and hopefully some advice from experience but as, and this aint a sympathy vote, its just so people realise why I have a total understanding of these situations, having a brother with mental health problems and then being his guardian after my mother died from alcohol poising and depression, I regularly dealt and still deal in situations in normal life which the OP said he has come across on Fab I have not message you that I know of, (the only way I would have messaged you for either you were looking for a single guy for a meet and I fitted the bill or I messaged you regarding a comment or something on your profile) and a fact is I never send a pic to anyone other than a face pic. Have never sent a cock pic on Fab, EVER, as I don't take pics of my Cock. I never send rude messages, its just not me. I think personally you have blocked me because of something I previously said on a forum post, which made you decide you do not want any dealings with me and I get that and that's kl. If anyone blocks me after conversing and a I know the reason, I will add it in my private notes on their profile. I have nothing on you both which suggest we have not communicated and I did not know that you had blocked me until you mentioned. I have looked through and through the thread and do not see anywhere where I have been rude or nasty to you. The only two things I can see is my comment about one of us are a liar which in hindsight both of us can just be mistaken. and also I said your comments were smarmy regarding the smiley faces and that you wish me well. You know as I do and most do on here that when on the forums there are people we do not like or do not want to have any dealings with for any number of reasons and sometimes its good of us if we can bite the bullet and not make a personal comment on their post as it can spiral out of control. There are some not nice people on these forums and people get an idea of who they are, I'd love to think most think I'm ok but I let them be the judge of that. I genuinely don't mind if someone reads my posts and think to their self "I don't appreciate him or like his views so I will block". It's free will and their views and choices are their own and should be commended but if anyone makes an accusation of someone when that other person believes that in his or her eyes it is unfounded then they have the right to make it clear where they stand in said situation. I try my best to stay clear of offensive comments to people, even if they are indirectly nasty on the general forums. There are people who are nasty on these forums and they do it quite a lot. I admit you might post on a different thread and I might post on the same thread but it will be about the actual thread and nothing to do with my views of you after this, don't even know what to call it, incident or difference of opinion etc... etc.... I will continue on my merry way making comments to threads or posts as I see fit and hopefully you will do as well, apart from this one, other posts in future might inspire others with ideas or advice, or make them laugh or giggle and a nice thought that I may come across as Ok, which I believe I am to most. ffs that's my hopes of being DOM with a girl out of the window now after me being sentimental  | |||
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"Shame this post has got off track. It is such an important topic that isnt discussed enough in every area of life. Low self esteem/self worth goes hand in hand with depression. I'm always worried about the number of people (mainly women) who are using meets on this site for validation to improve their own self worth. And then vulnerable men who are impacted by constantly being rejected. (And I can here the sniggers as I write this but it is true). And u can see traces of it every day in status updates (if u choose to look for it). Anyone who is open to discussing their own mental health should be applauded. It's bizarre that it is a bigger taboo to discuss than swinging!" This is awesome | |||
"Shame this post has got off track. It is such an important topic that isnt discussed enough in every area of life. Low self esteem/self worth goes hand in hand with depression. I'm always worried about the number of people (mainly women) who are using meets on this site for validation to improve their own self worth. And then vulnerable men who are impacted by constantly being rejected. (And I can here the sniggers as I write this but it is true). And u can see traces of it every day in status updates (if u choose to look for it). Anyone who is open to discussing their own mental health should be applauded. It's bizarre that it is a bigger taboo to discuss than swinging!" I'm having my own issues right now and coming on to the relative escapism of fab is a big help for me. I've discovered like-minded people who are not judgemental and I can chat to them Fab is my therapy in many ways. Don't be sending me a bill though | |||
by the way the DOM comment at the end made me giggle I'll give you that one we will agree to disagree at why we blocked you but I guess I've jumped in feet first after Misreading or misunderstanding what you actually ment I thought you ment you basically joined this for sex not to cope with people's problems my bad line in the sand eh? | |||
"Fair play to you mate looks like a huge misunderstanding by the way the DOM comment at the end made me giggle I'll give you that one we will agree to disagree at why we blocked you but I guess I've jumped in feet first after Misreading or misunderstanding what you actually ment I thought you ment you basically joined this for sex not to cope with people's problems my bad line in the sand eh? "Its been quite entertaining watching you guys compete for who is most compassionate ... If we can take anything from this i would suggest stick to the caviar | |||
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"What's actually wrong with someone saying their on here for sex and not interested in anyone's problems? As someone above said Fab should be an escapism from your real life.i for 1 isn't interested in anyone's personal life on here. Way too many folk on fab live their whole lives on here then moan folk have a go or steal from them or whatever. At the end of the day it's a sex site and should only be for adults to use so maybe some should start acting like it and stop with the petty stuff and 1 up manship. " Nothing wrong with not being interested but theres nothing right with declaring it. Just stay off the topic | |||
"Peter Ive unblocked you to PM you if you want to talk? Think you have is blocked too "Oh no don't this has been the best toe curling read I've had in the past few days x | |||
"I’d screenshot this rubbish before it gets removed. Because if you tell someone... they wouldn’t believe you. " So you contribte to then screenshot topics and comments you think are pointless. But not content with that odd behaviour you intend to use it as evidence to those you will inform of this pointless topic. Thats as sharp as a cue ball. | |||
"I’d screenshot this rubbish before it gets removed. Because if you tell someone... they wouldn’t believe you. So you contribte to then screenshot topics and comments you think are pointless. But not content with that odd behaviour you intend to use it as evidence to those you will inform of this pointless topic. Thats as sharp as a cue ball." I love this ^^^ we have clearly sorted our differences and people try there hardest to stir it up by a little INNOCENT comment (not you just to clear it up now ) | |||
"What's actually wrong with someone saying their on here for sex and not interested in anyone's problems? As someone above said Fab should be an escapism from your real life.i for 1 isn't interested in anyone's personal life on here. Way too many folk on fab live their whole lives on here then moan folk have a go or steal from them or whatever. At the end of the day it's a sex site and should only be for adults to use so maybe some should start acting like it and stop with the petty stuff and 1 up manship. Nothing wrong with not being interested but theres nothing right with declaring it. Just stay off the topic" Mr bloo I like you | |||
"I’d screenshot this rubbish before it gets removed. Because if you tell someone... they wouldn’t believe you. So you contribte to then screenshot topics and comments you think are pointless. But not content with that odd behaviour you intend to use it as evidence to those you will inform of this pointless topic. Thats as sharp as a cue ball. I love this ^^^ we have clearly sorted our differences and people try there hardest to stir it up by a little INNOCENT comment (not you just to clear it up now ) "Not stirring, just passing on my personal observations... Exactly like you did | |||
"What's actually wrong with someone saying their on here for sex and not interested in anyone's problems? As someone above said Fab should be an escapism from your real life.i for 1 isn't interested in anyone's personal life on here. Way too many folk on fab live their whole lives on here then moan folk have a go or steal from them or whatever. At the end of the day it's a sex site and should only be for adults to use so maybe some should start acting like it and stop with the petty stuff and 1 up manship. Nothing wrong with not being interested but theres nothing right with declaring it. Just stay off the topic Mr bloo I like you "Thank you. Welcome to the club.... Your the only memeber btw | |||
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"What's actually wrong with someone saying their on here for sex and not interested in anyone's problems? As someone above said Fab should be an escapism from your real life.i for 1 isn't interested in anyone's personal life on here. Way too many folk on fab live their whole lives on here then moan folk have a go or steal from them or whatever. At the end of the day it's a sex site and should only be for adults to use so maybe some should start acting like it and stop with the petty stuff and 1 up manship. Nothing wrong with not being interested but theres nothing right with declaring it. Just stay off the topic Mr bloo I like you
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Your the only memeber btw"Online cliques always try to witch hunt people that speak there mind and don't follow the crowd mate it's happened for 100s of years, they use to drown left hand people because they believed they were witches and if they never drown they use to kill them because that proved they were a witch
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"What's actually wrong with someone saying their on here for sex and not interested in anyone's problems? As someone above said Fab should be an escapism from your real life.i for 1 isn't interested in anyone's personal life on here. Way too many folk on fab live their whole lives on here then moan folk have a go or steal from them or whatever. At the end of the day it's a sex site and should only be for adults to use so maybe some should start acting like it and stop with the petty stuff and 1 up manship. Nothing wrong with not being interested but theres nothing right with declaring it. Just stay off the topic Mr bloo I like you
Thank you. Welcome to the club....
Your the only memeber btw
Online cliques always try to witch hunt people that speak there mind and don't follow the crowd mate it's happened for 100s of years, they use to drown left hand people because they believed they were witches and if they never drown they use to kill them because that proved they were a witch
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"I think I need to get a can of that new irn bru. Everyon seems to be buzzing of it
Or maybe you would like to meet us in person for a drink and a laugh see how we get on xx "Lol that could be a better plan. I'm not a fan of fizzy juice anyways. | |||
"We had our misunderstanding and we were both men about it! I apologised which takes more of a man than the little side watchers sticking there 20p in to try reignite it "Haha .... If you think thats what I was doing says more about your motives than mine. I was merely challenging your point. And fair play for apologising. I've not read the whole thread yet but a cyber handshake is better than falling out with someone on the internet over a difference of opinion..... Which is actually slightly mental | |||
"We had our misunderstanding and we were both men about it! I apologised which takes more of a man than the little side watchers sticking there 20p in to try reignite it
Haha ....
If you think thats what I was doing says more about your motives than mine.
I was merely challenging your point.
And fair play for apologising. I've not read the whole thread yet but a cyber handshake is better than falling out with someone on the internet over a difference of opinion.....
Which is actually slightly mental"Hahaha that wasn't aimed at you mate it was aimed at the people you outed for it | |||
"I think I need to get a can of that new irn bru. Everyon seems to be buzzing of it
Or maybe you would like to meet us in person for a drink and a laugh see how we get on xx
Lol that could be a better plan. I'm not a fan of fizzy juice anyways."We have pm you guys love the profile it's mega funny | |||
"I think I need to get a can of that new irn bru. Everyon seems to be buzzing of it
Or maybe you would like to meet us in person for a drink and a laugh see how we get on xx
Lol that could be a better plan. I'm not a fan of fizzy juice anyways.
We have pm you guys love the profile it's mega funny "Aww man, now everyone is going to check us out. | |||
"We had our misunderstanding and we were both men about it! I apologised which takes more of a man than the little side watchers sticking there 20p in to try reignite it
Haha ....
If you think thats what I was doing says more about your motives than mine.
I was merely challenging your point.
And fair play for apologising. I've not read the whole thread yet but a cyber handshake is better than falling out with someone on the internet over a difference of opinion.....
Which is actually slightly mental
Hahaha that wasn't aimed at you mate it was aimed at the people you outed for it "Apologies mat, I'm also as sharp as a cue ball | |||
"Anyone on here that's a genuine swinger will know that in this world you meet some of the best friends you will ever have in life and you meet some arseholes! Unfortunately we have seen some lovely woman we think very highly of getting upset and down because certain arseholes have made them feel used after they have got what they want and gone in the world of swinging we thing you should always respect the other people and not make them feel like a piece of meat hence why we always become really good friend with a lot of our good meets "This sounds awfully familiar. Fab has been a massive confidence boost and brilliant fun, but I seem to come across the wrong people recently - wrong for me anyway. Where I am usually quite a confident person, it's been very much ups and downs the last 4 or 5 months and even felt really low at times, thanks to people who don't care about the person and only look at you as an easy shag (or worse). I have wondered on occasion if this is worth it, or if I'm better off not being on the site, but I've met some real gems on here. So yes - it has been worth it. Working on my own attitude now to not care when I come across the wrong people and just put it behind me straight away. Work in progress, but I'll get there. And the good times very much make up for the bad ones x | |||
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"I think I need to get a can of that new irn bru. Everyon seems to be buzzing of it
Or maybe you would like to meet us in person for a drink and a laugh see how we get on xx
Lol that could be a better plan. I'm not a fan of fizzy juice anyways.
We have pm you guys love the profile it's mega funny
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"I think I need to get a can of that new irn bru. Everyon seems to be buzzing of it
Or maybe you would like to meet us in person for a drink and a laugh see how we get on xx
Lol that could be a better plan. I'm not a fan of fizzy juice anyways.
We have pm you guys love the profile it's mega funny
Aww man, now everyone is going to check us out.
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"I think I need to get a can of that new irn bru. Everyon seems to be buzzing of it
Or maybe you would like to meet us in person for a drink and a laugh see how we get on xx
Lol that could be a better plan. I'm not a fan of fizzy juice anyways.
We have pm you guys love the profile it's mega funny
Aww man, now everyone is going to check us out.
Yep...just had a nosey!
No messages or wink. Oh well can't please them all "Awwww you please me wink wink | |||
"I think I need to get a can of that new irn bru. Everyon seems to be buzzing of it
Or maybe you would like to meet us in person for a drink and a laugh see how we get on xx
Lol that could be a better plan. I'm not a fan of fizzy juice anyways.
We have pm you guys love the profile it's mega funny
Aww man, now everyone is going to check us out.
Yep...just had a nosey!
No messages or wink. Oh well can't please them all
Awwww you please me wink wink "Lol getting more action from _ocaine and caviar msg then when I put a status up. I know admin have changed their name but I'm not having it. FIGHT THE POWER!! God that's cheesy. Sorry guys. | |||
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" Lol getting more action from _ocaine and caviar msg then when I put a status up. I know admin have changed their name but I'm not having it. FIGHT THE POWER!! God that's cheesy. Sorry guys." I agree ... its no different to all the chat about 420 that goes on in statuses and names ... and sorry to say but lets people use it as a filter when its not their thing | |||
"Anyone on here that's a genuine swinger will know that in this world you meet some of the best friends you will ever have in life and you meet some arseholes! Unfortunately we have seen some lovely woman we think very highly of getting upset and down because certain arseholes have made them feel used after they have got what they want and gone in the world of swinging we thing you should always respect the other people and not make them feel like a piece of meat hence why we always become really good friend with a lot of our good meets
This sounds awfully familiar. Fab has been a massive confidence boost and brilliant fun, but I seem to come across the wrong people recently - wrong for me anyway. Where I am usually quite a confident person, it's been very much ups and downs the last 4 or 5 months and even felt really low at times, thanks to people who don't care about the person and only look at you as an easy shag (or worse). I have wondered on occasion if this is worth it, or if I'm better off not being on the site, but I've met some real gems on here. So yes - it has been worth it.
Working on my own attitude now to not care when I come across the wrong people and just put it behind me straight away. Work in progress, but I'll get there. And the good times very much make up for the bad ones x"I just want a night on lash with you I think you be fun , | |||
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"I’d screenshot this rubbish before it gets removed. Because if you tell someone... they wouldn’t believe you. So you contribte to then screenshot topics and comments you think are pointless. But not content with that odd behaviour you intend to use it as evidence to those you will inform of this pointless topic. Thats as sharp as a cue ball. I love this ^^^ we have clearly sorted our differences and people try there hardest to stir it up by a little INNOCENT comment (not you just to clear it up now )
Not stirring, just passing on my personal observations...
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