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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right folks, mainly for the experienced swinger here but feck it, novices can add summit in and look back in future to see if they change. Everyone play nice
The only thing now about being an experienced swinger is.......... "I don't trust anyone anymore"
So what's yours
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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the only thing now about being an experienced swinger is..........
You get to meet nice, genuine people whom you get on with and you also learn who to avoid |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t trust the picture is the reality   "
Oh yeah, most definitely true.
At least now with cameras n video calls there's less chance of truing up at someone and they are not like their picture.
I'm glad to say I'm fitter now than what I look like on my avatar pic lolllll
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t trust the picture is the reality
Oh yeah, most definitely true.
At least now with cameras n video calls there's less chance of truing up at someone and they are not like their picture.
I'm glad to say I'm fitter now than what I look like on my avatar pic lolllll
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How come you've no uploaded a new avatar pic then, eh? eh? Rumbled! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t trust the picture is the reality
Oh yeah, most definitely true.
At least now with cameras n video calls there's less chance of truing up at someone and they are not like their picture.
I'm glad to say I'm fitter now than what I look like on my avatar pic lolllll
How come you've no uploaded a new avatar pic then, eh? eh? Rumbled! "
Don't need to, I'm on cam in the Scots Chat Room more than you and people can see then.
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"Don’t trust the picture is the reality
Oh yeah, most definitely true.
At least now with cameras n video calls there's less chance of truing up at someone and they are not like their picture.
I'm glad to say I'm fitter now than what I look like on my avatar pic lolllll
How come you've no uploaded a new avatar pic then, eh? eh? Rumbled! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know if i would be classed as experianced but ive been on and off this site for a whole 4 years! Ha to some you you that is nothing
I can only covay what i have learnt and that is jealousy is a massive thing on here, not saying all but i have been in some situations why guys have become very jelous and also women and it has ruined it for me. you have to whatch how you talk to people and whom you talk to.
On the plus side i have met and spoken to some really lovely people and long may it continue. For me personally this site can make swinging good but more often than not it can make it bad. I dont think it should be classed as a swinging site anymore because it is simpily overun with single guys looking for a quick lay and when they dont get what they want they become abusive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t trust the picture is the reality
Oh yeah, most definitely true.
At least now with cameras n video calls there's less chance of truing up at someone and they are not like their picture.
I'm glad to say I'm fitter now than what I look like on my avatar pic lolllll
How come you've no uploaded a new avatar pic then, eh? eh? Rumbled!
Don't need to, I'm on cam in the Scots Chat Room more than you and people can see then.
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Aye awrite then smart arse.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t trust the picture is the reality
Oh yeah, most definitely true.
At least now with cameras n video calls there's less chance of truing up at someone and they are not like their picture.
I'm glad to say I'm fitter now than what I look like on my avatar pic lolllll
How come you've no uploaded a new avatar pic then, eh? eh? Rumbled!
Don't need to, I'm on cam in the Scots Chat Room more than you and people can see then.
Aye awrite then smart arse...."
pmsllllllll, don't you start, you knows I loves ya xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t trust the picture is the reality
Oh yeah, most definitely true.
At least now with cameras n video calls there's less chance of truing up at someone and they are not like their picture.
I'm glad to say I'm fitter now than what I look like on my avatar pic lolllll
How come you've no uploaded a new avatar pic then, eh? eh? Rumbled!
Don't need to, I'm on cam in the Scots Chat Room more than you and people can see then.
Aye awrite then smart arse....
pmsllllllll, don't you start, you knows I loves ya xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dont know if i would be classed as experianced but ive been on and off this site for a whole 4 years! Ha to some you you that is nothing
I can only covay what i have learnt and that is jealousy is a massive thing on here, not saying all but i have been in some situations why guys have become very jelous and also women and it has ruined it for me. you have to whatch how you talk to people and whom you talk to.
On the plus side i have met and spoken to some really lovely people and long may it continue. For me personally this site can make swinging good but more often than not it can make it bad. I dont think it should be classed as a swinging site anymore because it is simpily overun with single guys looking for a quick lay and when they dont get what they want they become abusive. "
I agree with the end but in my mind if a female sees a guy is like that then would they want to spend the time with them, its up to the female and how they feel about themselves and the single guy who is only intereste din themselves.
As long as the female realises before hand then I think its better for her feelings and then easier to decide to either meet or just block his ass.
believe it or not being honest and genuine guy has its disadvantages as well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"First... Define 'experienced swinger'??
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Actually not sure now:
Someone who's swinging most weekends.
Someone who has been on here a long time.
Someone who has sung enough to learn the ins and outs.
or other....
You choose as you know we are all different and view things differently
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" Right folks, mainly for the experienced swinger here but feck it, novices can add summit in and look back in future to see if they change. Everyone play nice
The only thing now about being an experienced swinger is.......... "I don't trust anyone anymore"
I trust everyone unless they give me reason not to.
We are all just a mixture of people with different needs. There are some wonderful folk on Fab. It just takes time to find them.
So what's yours
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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago
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We have learnt that there is a shed load of negativity and non tolerance from the so called experienced swinging community. Not all of course but quite a few.
Second thing that was a surprise was the amount of single guys that arrange meets and then dont turn up or cancel last minute. They bleet about no one giving them a chance etc etc then call off last minute , go figure. |
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"First... Define 'experienced swinger'??
Actually not sure now:
Someone who's swinging most weekends.
Someone who has been on here a long time.
Someone who has sung enough to learn the ins and outs.
or other....
You choose as you know we are all different and view things differently
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I will answer as 'Me' then lol
I now know what I like and don't like sexually and personality wise.
And that not all straight guy are 'straight' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have learnt that there is a shed load of negativity and non tolerance from the so called experienced swinging community. Not all of course but quite a few.
Second thing that was a surprise was the amount of single guys that arrange meets and then dont turn up or cancel last minute. They bleet about no one giving them a chance etc etc then call off last minute , go figure. "
Totally agree about the attitude towards newer people.
Most are really nice people but,,,
There a definate self given "status" I have noticed some of the veterans try to portray.
Not sure where this sense of superiority comes from, I mean you've had to resort earlier to the internet before the newbies in order to find friends or get sex.
I'd suggest it possibly shows a lack of something but its 100% not a licence to swagger. haha
Just my opinion thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""... never trust anyone who tries far too hard to be nice."
I apply this to vanilla life too "
There's something extremely creepy about it. It's highly disingenuous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""... never trust anyone who tries far too hard to be nice." "
Agree with that but neither do I trust people who try tot hard or see themselves as "edgy" and a cut above due to whatever they get up to that they think will amaze us all.
Generally speaking they are even bigger whoppers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""... never trust anyone who tries far too hard to be nice."
I apply this to vanilla life too
There's something extremely creepy about it. It's highly disingenuous. "
Bing hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Right folks, mainly for the experienced swinger here but feck it, novices can add summit in and look back in future to see if they change. Everyone play nice
The only thing now about being an experienced swinger is.......... "I don't trust anyone anymore"
So what's yours
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I will say one thing for a female to do, (my view) is during chat, exchange of messages with a guy, throw them a curve ball and see how they react and if they reply not too nice then its a block and look elsewhere.
a curve ball like;
"oh I need to stress, I don't sleep with anyone until after the 5th social" or even say something not too becoming about them, their personality or their looks and see how they react.
Them you will find a bit of what they are like as a person, always helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As an experienced swinger i now know
1. Just cos someone has had a lot of meets does not mean they are any good in bed
2. Men who want to lick u for hours are more interested in their wants than the woman receiving it.
3. Many couples who swing with singles say that they trust each other implicitly and never cheat.
Every male half of the couples I have ever played with have then looked to meet behind their partners back. And one woman.
4. You should never trust someone to be discreet because they are on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Right folks, mainly for the experienced swinger here but feck it, novices can add summit in and look back in future to see if they change. Everyone play nice
The only thing now about being an experienced swinger is.......... "I don't trust anyone anymore"
So what's yours
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My tuppence worth is if anyone believes being a seasoned swinger has changed their views on the wider world then they should throw in the towel.
Pretty sad you dont trusst anymore mate.
People need to undersstand that this is a small and honestly, pretty desperate % of the population many of who risking a variety of important things, including families I'd imagine chasing a self esteem boost. So to not trust other who dont do this is a bit rich in my view
BTW If you dont trust anyone because you swing I'm glad your not a soldier. |
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" Right folks, mainly for the experienced swinger here but feck it, novices can add summit in and look back in future to see if they change. Everyone play nice
The only thing now about being an experienced swinger is.......... "I don't trust anyone anymore"
So what's yours
My tuppence worth is if anyone believes being a seasoned swinger has changed their views on the wider world then they should throw in the towel.
Pretty sad you dont trusst anymore mate.
People need to undersstand that this is a small and honestly, pretty desperate % of the population many of who risking a variety of important things, including families I'd imagine chasing a self esteem boost. So to not trust other who dont do this is a bit rich in my view
BTW If you dont trust anyone because you swing I'm glad your not a soldier. "
Are you saying all swingers are desperate people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Right folks, mainly for the experienced swinger here but feck it, novices can add summit in and look back in future to see if they change. Everyone play nice
The only thing now about being an experienced swinger is.......... "I don't trust anyone anymore"
So what's yours
My tuppence worth is if anyone believes being a seasoned swinger has changed their views on the wider world then they should throw in the towel.
Pretty sad you dont trusst anymore mate.
People need to undersstand that this is a small and honestly, pretty desperate % of the population many of who risking a variety of important things, including families I'd imagine chasing a self esteem boost. So to not trust other who dont do this is a bit rich in my view
BTW If you dont trust anyone because you swing I'm glad your not a soldier.
Are you saying all swingers are desperate people?"
Not in overall life no
I'm saying some people, those who dont tell their wivees / husbands etc most definatly are imo
I'm not saying they are bad people but whe you weigh up the risk v reward for those in the group i mentioned then they must be desoerate, again imo |
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