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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi all,

I have been on this site now for around 5 months now and not really making any head way.

I am looking for anyone who can help me with my profile, and my first messages.

At the moment my first message is simple and polite and I always attach a face picture but very rarely get a reply, I also never push or send mutiple messages as I know this can be annoying.

Please don't come one and attack/ slag me, as I said just looking for a little bit of help.

Thabks in advance

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By *xycpl699Couple  over a year ago

kilmarnock

you need some public pics ppl usually want see who there talking to

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By *awty MaxWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh

'Build your experience up' ?!

Sorry but that alone turns me off.

As for first message, maybe skip the face pic attached and put some pics on your profile. Think would I reply to my message.

And don't take it personally, no reply or a block means they are not interested so saves you and them time.

Good luck OP

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By *eADevilCouple  over a year ago

Blantyre

Mmmmm not much to go on with profile. No public pictures . What are you hiding ?. You also alienate quite a few fabbers saying they are rude if they dont reply in the way you come across. I agree people should always reply but dont rant about it on profile. Lastly lots of socials , and clubs . Get out and meet people there. Your profile cries out of lazy. This is our impression only , dont take offence from it. Revamp your profile or i think you will really struggle to meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thank you for your comments folks I will take all of them on board and begin working re vamping my profile later tonight

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By *is vixen at playCouple  over a year ago

Dundee

No pics, age range is 18-99( ) and nothing on your profile to tell us a bit about yourself and what you have to offer. Plus the bit about having good manners to reply - if you've read the FAQs you'll see that it's not rude to not reply, take it as a not interested. Demanding a reply is rude.

All of that is an instant no.

Fix those and put a bit of personality into your profile and that should help, along with getting out to socials and clubs and meeting people.

V

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By *irky_coupleCouple  over a year ago

kirky

Biggest downside to your profile is the "cant accommodate" To a lot that screams "cheat" even though there can be a very valid reason and lots of ladies dont like to accommodate for various reasons so you are screwed either way. Silhouette as a profile pic as well so lots wont even read your message.

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