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over a year ago
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"Not had any problems finding folk to chat with on here to be honest. I had quite a few genuine lol moments chatting.
Maybe I expect too much chat  "
Plenty of genuine folks who like a good chat n laugh on here. I know I don't do spontaneous meets, well to be honest they aren't bad but I'm experienced enough to want more, laughs and banter and there are girls like this and cpls too.
best way to be but that's from an experienced guy perspective  |
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"Not had any problems finding folk to chat with on here to be honest. I had quite a few genuine lol moments chatting.
Maybe I expect too much chat
Plenty of genuine folks who like a good chat n laugh on here. I know I don't do spontaneous meets, well to be honest they aren't bad but I'm experienced enough to want more, laughs and banter and there are girls like this and cpls too.
best way to be but that's from an experienced guy perspective "
Your "patter" is quite funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think more folk on here want to chat rather than meet?
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There are tons who will only chat and never meet.
I chat on here and I also meet and have a brill time, chatting and sometimes fun. I'm just never in a rush and like my company to enjoy me as much as I enjoy them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have always (bar 1) met people who we have chatted to for ages. Can't beat a good chat and laugh. Would never meet someone if the chat tails off. If the chats good it just makes the meet awesome when you know you all have the same sense of humour. Makes everyone a lot more comfortable x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you can chat too much and then I lose interest
Lol
Maybe that’s my problem  "
naw everyone's different.
Chat n laughs is great but if you want them, even during chat then take the bull by the horns and don't wait for them to ask you. You just ask them  |
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I have loads of chat before I meet someone. If we can’t have a decent conversation and a laugh it’s not going to go any further.
Personality is what’s most important for me. To have great sex I need that connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The abilit6 to hold a conversation is key, it shows interest in the person and that you see them as a fellow human being."
ffs no wonder I'm getting no-where with women  |
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"I have loads of chat before I meet someone. If we can’t have a decent conversation and a laugh it’s not going to go any further.
Personality is what’s most important for me. To have great sex I need that connection. "
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"Does anyone else find it hard to find someone to have one with. I don’t like the idea of jumping in to bed straight away I like a bit of a chat, maybe I’m a bit odd  "
Raise your age range and you’ll probably get more intelligent conversation with the adults!  |
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"Does anyone else find it hard to find someone to have one with. I don’t like the idea of jumping in to bed straight away I like a bit of a chat, maybe I’m a bit odd
Raise your age range and you’ll probably get more intelligent conversation with the adults! "
Tbf my mr raised it 5 years. And it’s a bit better.
He sets the age rule. I’m not as picky I don’t mind age |
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"Does anyone else find it hard to find someone to have one with. I don’t like the idea of jumping in to bed straight away I like a bit of a chat, maybe I’m a bit odd
Raise your age range and you’ll probably get more intelligent conversation with the adults!
Need to add another year on then so we can get talking
Tbf my mr raised it 5 years. And it’s a bit better.
He sets the age rule. I’m not as picky I don’t mind age "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happens
If someone has an age range and you don't fit it then its no big deal. They have it for a reason so it's best to just respect it. You can have a wee, what might have been moment but its age filter all the same
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good conversation and banter is essential before fun
No way would I want to play with a guy who had nothing to say to me. There was one exception though - an off duty police officer who was so gorgeous I had to have him
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do like to chat and get to know a bit about the person first as it's important that you're both able to have a conversation with each other but if by the second week there's still no mention of a meet then I will say about arranging something. I feel there is far too much chatting on here and people not wanting meets. I personally don't see the point in that, we are on a sex site to meet people so meet them. Plus there's nothing nicer than carrying on the conversation after you meet. It's so much nicer in person  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do like to chat and get to know a bit about the person first as it's important that you're both able to have a conversation with each other but if by the second week there's still no mention of a meet then I will say about arranging something. I feel there is far too much chatting on here and people not wanting meets. I personally don't see the point in that, we are on a sex site to meet people so meet them. Plus there's nothing nicer than carrying on the conversation after you meet. It's so much nicer in person x"
Maybe some folk decide through the too much chatting that they actually have no desire to meet the person they are chatting to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do like to chat and get to know a bit about the person first as it's important that you're both able to have a conversation with each other but if by the second week there's still no mention of a meet then I will say about arranging something. I feel there is far too much chatting on here and people not wanting meets. I personally don't see the point in that, we are on a sex site to meet people so meet them. Plus there's nothing nicer than carrying on the conversation after you meet. It's so much nicer in person x
Maybe some folk decide through the too much chatting that they actually have no desire to meet the person they are chatting to "
Majority of people I chat to, I have met x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do like to chat and get to know a bit about the person first as it's important that you're both able to have a conversation with each other but if by the second week there's still no mention of a meet then I will say about arranging something. I feel there is far too much chatting on here and people not wanting meets. I personally don't see the point in that, we are on a sex site to meet people so meet them. Plus there's nothing nicer than carrying on the conversation after you meet. It's so much nicer in person x
Maybe some folk decide through the too much chatting that they actually have no desire to meet the person they are chatting to
Majority of people I chat to, I have met x"
That's nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do like to chat and get to know a bit about the person first as it's important that you're both able to have a conversation with each other but if by the second week there's still no mention of a meet then I will say about arranging something. I feel there is far too much chatting on here and people not wanting meets. I personally don't see the point in that, we are on a sex site to meet people so meet them. Plus there's nothing nicer than carrying on the conversation after you meet. It's so much nicer in person x
Maybe some folk decide through the too much chatting that they actually have no desire to meet the person they are chatting to
Majority of people I chat to, I have met x"
How you doin CC?
OK, that's the formalities done......when, where and shall I bring the toys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’v turned into a socialiser over the last few year but had Iv had loads of meet experiences some id try again and some I wouldn’t but find I’m quite specific Now of what I want so I’m holding back and won’t meet. But loving the social side and chat to all x |
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with Me it depends on who it is for various reasons...
sometimes I'm happy to chat for a while..
sometimes its me who drags the chat out a bit as im not sure about them...
sometimes I'll chat for a wee while and I'm just not "feeling it" so will politely tell them It's not going to happen and wish them well..
other times I cant be arsed chatting for a while...
Its all about the individual and how the interaction goes..
the only consistent is I never agree to a meet without some form of chatter or go for the short notice meets. I have to feel I'd get on with them to some level or Im not interested in playing with them... I'd rather do without than fuck anyone just for the sake of it..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do like to chat and get to know a bit about the person first as it's important that you're both able to have a conversation with each other but if by the second week there's still no mention of a meet then I will say about arranging something. I feel there is far too much chatting on here and people not wanting meets. I personally don't see the point in that, we are on a sex site to meet people so meet them. Plus there's nothing nicer than carrying on the conversation after you meet. It's so much nicer in person x
Maybe some folk decide through the too much chatting that they actually have no desire to meet the person they are chatting to
Majority of people I chat to, I have met x
How you doin CC?
OK, that's the formalities done......when, where and shall I bring the toys?"
Lol it's not about the toys for me. I have never had any trouble getting meets as I'm just myself and if a guy wants to arrange a time and place after a short chat, then that's a bonus x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do like to chat and get to know a bit about the person first as it's important that you're both able to have a conversation with each other but if by the second week there's still no mention of a meet then I will say about arranging something. I feel there is far too much chatting on here and people not wanting meets. I personally don't see the point in that, we are on a sex site to meet people so meet them. Plus there's nothing nicer than carrying on the conversation after you meet. It's so much nicer in person x
Maybe some folk decide through the too much chatting that they actually have no desire to meet the person they are chatting to
Majority of people I chat to, I have met x
How you doin CC?
OK, that's the formalities done......when, where and shall I bring the toys?
Lol it's not about the toys for me. I have never had any trouble getting meets as I'm just myself and if a guy wants to arrange a time and place after a short chat, then that's a bonus x"
Oh, fair enough.....
Next Saturday is good for me, I'm thinking 2-3 ish. That suit you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To My own detriment I do chat too much and don't really ask for a meet, well not all the time. Sometimes having too much of a laugh during a chat I think they are just enjoying the laugh but might not be that into me so I don't bother that much.
Terrible at reading signals |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To My own detriment I do chat too much and don't really ask for a meet, well not all the time. Sometimes having too much of a laugh during a chat I think they are just enjoying the laugh but might not be that into me so I don't bother that much.
Terrible at reading signals "
I had a wee nose at your profile earlier and seen the amount of reviews....
You'll need to tell me EXACTLY what your doing so I don't become as "terrible" as you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To My own detriment I do chat too much and don't really ask for a meet, well not all the time. Sometimes having too much of a laugh during a chat I think they are just enjoying the laugh but might not be that into me so I don't bother that much.
Terrible at reading signals
I had a wee nose at your profile earlier and seen the amount of reviews....
You'll need to tell me EXACTLY what your doing so I don't become as "terrible" as you "
I hide my play ones
Not here to tell everyone what I get up too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do like to chat and get to know a bit about the person first as it's important that you're both able to have a conversation with each other but if by the second week there's still no mention of a meet then I will say about arranging something. I feel there is far too much chatting on here and people not wanting meets. I personally don't see the point in that, we are on a sex site to meet people so meet them. Plus there's nothing nicer than carrying on the conversation after you meet. It's so much nicer in person x
Maybe some folk decide through the too much chatting that they actually have no desire to meet the person they are chatting to
Majority of people I chat to, I have met x
How you doin CC?
OK, that's the formalities done......when, where and shall I bring the toys?
Lol it's not about the toys for me. I have never had any trouble getting meets as I'm just myself and if a guy wants to arrange a time and place after a short chat, then that's a bonus x
Oh, fair enough.....
Next Saturday is good for me, I'm thinking 2-3 ish. That suit you? "
Lol maybe you should just pm me and find out if I'm free x |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I enjoy a good conversation but have been disappointed at times when I’ve met them in person. Conversely I’ve had great conversations in person with people I’ve hardly chatted to but met at different events eg the pub quiz, murder mystery nights abd other social events and I have subsequently played with them.
I also have fab friends that I wouldn’t play with but are great friends too and have interesting conversations with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think when you first arrive on site you have an image that it's just gonna be amazing and easier than pulling in a club,you grow into fab, I feel more of my time now is spent chatting it's great that way, having no expectations and just seeing what happens, I've only ever met folk that I've chatted with a bit,I feel more relaxed when eventually I've met. There's loads of great people on here and I've met many for socials and fun over the years, you just grow into it I think Is my point here ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think when you first arrive on site you have an image that it's just gonna be amazing and easier than pulling in a club,you grow into fab, I feel more of my time now is spent chatting it's great that way, having no expectations and just seeing what happens, I've only ever met folk that I've chatted with a bit,I feel more relaxed when eventually I've met. There's loads of great people on here and I've met many for socials and fun over the years, you just grow into it I think Is my point here ????"
Totally Agree
I swing and have fun meets but I have a brill time chatting, banter n laughing and a good carry on and even on meets and if fun happens if we all connect sexually then brilliant if not, then just have a good time in any capacity
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i can talk the hands off a clock but from my experience when i was single (im not slating all single men), but most who mailed me weren't interest in chatting just wanted to poleaxe straight into fucking lol. Which in my experience put me off even chatting to most single men. Sad but true xxz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not odd. The people who are only after kinky chat and juicy details are not people I meet x"
I'm exactly the same, good conversation is more important x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not odd. The people who are only after kinky chat and juicy details are not people I meet x
I'm exactly the same, good conversation is more important x"
Exactly...... a conversation then block them hahahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not odd. The people who are only after kinky chat and juicy details are not people I meet x
I'm exactly the same, good conversation is more important x
Exactly...... a conversation then block them hahahah"
Definitely then they can't answer back lol x |
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By *T1980Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Not had any problems finding folk to chat with on here to be honest. I had quite a few genuine lol moments chatting.
Maybe I expect too much chat "
Definitely not you need to chat until you are comfortable enough to meet, I do like a good chat even if my patter can be quite pish sometimes lol |
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By *lanMDMan
over a year ago
Ellon |
"My profile must be shit or I am too old but impossible to chat to anyone on this site, so fucked off with it
You're only 57, not that old.....
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Why thank you, certainly don’t feel like I am ready for the scrap heap yet lol |
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