That say you can't get a meet .maybe this will help .I had a terrific social coffee today with a lady .won't lead to a play we discovered there was no sexual spark between us when we met in person .but initial contact was via who's near .she was only female in 3 mile radius compared to 10 guys yet she still replied to me at the the top of her age range limit .I asked her why me over coffee and would it be ok to post her answer to me on forum .obviously she said yes .so here is her take.
You was polite and respectful didn't send a boaby picture or ask do want to duck .allyou said was please view my profile and if you think we have anything in common send me a message .so she did .over the next 8 weeks we had flirty messages we had funny messages we had serious messages but not once did we mention ducking or send graphic photos .we was both polite and respectful of each other's wishes on fab I think the moral of the story I trieng to tell is ..be yourself good or bad as it portrays and don't bend you as a person to get a meet .there will always be those who think any hole a goal or any wiener a winner in this site ...but would you really want to play with them ..ifyou do fire on and good luck .if you don't take the advice from a classy lady given me today  |
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I dont meet folk on here for sex although it can be an added bonus. I am drawn to people who talk to me as a human and not as a body. If someone has the ability to make me smile and feel good about myself then i love to meet that person face to face. |
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"Back slaps all round
Would have loved an arse slap but you can't have every thing in life  "
Hi-Fives all round.
The way it should be
and ANAL was definitely not mentioned   |
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"Back slaps all round
Would have loved an arse slap but you can't have every thing in life
Hi-Fives all round.
The way it should be
and ANAL was definitely not mentioned "
Neither was a 6 pack or my Buddha belly horsey .want a man hug dude  |
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By *iss Ash42Woman
over a year ago
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"Back slaps all round
Would have loved an arse slap but you can't have every thing in life
Hi-Fives all round.
The way it should be
and ANAL was definitely not mentioned "
Bad horsey....do i need the whip again...  x |
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Do you think the 8 weeks of non sexual chat was a contributing factor in there being no spark? Did you both friend zone each other after chatting for so long? |
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"Do you think the 8 weeks of non sexual chat was a contributing factor in there being no spark? Did you both friend zone each other after chatting for so long? "
Am brilliant at friend-zoning girls,
absolute amazing at it, just a gift I have    |
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"A came at the duck bit !!
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Ffs when you on biker tour I already have camel's. Donkeys. Sheep .cats .llamas .and dogs .on the map now you want ducks ...why not say that in 1st place they outside my door could have left you gone to pub earlier fugy |
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"Do you think the 8 weeks of non sexual chat was a contributing factor in there being no spark? Did you both friend zone each other after chatting for so long?
Am brilliant at friend-zoning girls,
absolute amazing at it, just a gift I have "
Are you sure? |
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By *ugyukMan
over a year ago
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"A came at the duck bit !!
Ffs when you on biker tour I already have camel's. Donkeys. Sheep .cats .llamas .and dogs .on the map now you want ducks ...why not say that in 1st place they outside my door could have left you gone to pub earlier fugy"
A can never catch the fuckers n noo ur telling me theyr at yer front door??
Ill be up the mora!! |
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Great success story. Thanks for sharing! Having a few friends on here and hearing the messages they normally get, its not surprising that people get sick of it. Well done to you both. Hope there are many more like you ?? |
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"I think you're all forgetting that he didn't actually get a shag "
Lol..was thinking this myself. Not quite a high five because of this but nice post all the same |
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"I think you're all forgetting that he didn't actually get a shag
Lol..was thinking this myself. Not quite a high five because of this but nice post all the same "
True, it's an interesting post and you get to see different views.
Some people see Fabswingers as a sex site, some see it as a swinging site and some guys actually see it that there is no rush to shag.
I'm never in a rush and have socials and to be honest socials are good to see if you connect or not. I think the Op says there wasn't a connection, so kl, nothing wrong with that, it happens. You can still have a good laugh and banter even though sexually there is nothing there, it happens.
Would be great if we all got along fantastic and sexually we were all compatible and wanted each other but it does not work that way so we get on the best way we can.
So here's to everyone having a great time and laugh and if fun happens even better |
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"I dont meet folk on here for sex although it can be an added bonus. I am drawn to people who talk to me as a human and not as a body. If someone has the ability to make me smile and feel good about myself then i love to meet that person face to face. "
You have a really good profile and come across as someone great to have a chat and coffee with HOWEVER, my life story I’m a year older than your age parameters |
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