FabSwingers.com > Forums > Scotland > Is it right?
Is it right?
Jump to: Newest in thread
"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "
Sorry I don't understand this.
What don't you agree with? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Well I prefer redheads but don't list that down on my profile.
I find I am more attracted to the personality of then woman more than anything. Been with both larger ladies and skinny ones. Don't prefer one or the other. Is she has a great character about her then loads of fun times will be had.
Everyone has there own opinions but in life you get judged more for the way you look than anything else. Which is sad |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Totally agree with the OP
Men can and should be as picky as us women.
Everyone has preferences and attractions
Just how you put that across is the tricky bit. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Everone are entitled to seek the type of person they are attracted to and that does include men.
We all have preferences and Im sure if man isnt attracted to bigger women then he would say so without being rude and nasty. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol  "
I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.
I gave a woman on another site a nice message about how great she looked and I would love to see more pictures of herself. Next message from her was call me a fucking pervert and sick small dicked wanker. All this from just saying I was looking forward to seeing her next pictures. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Point being I saw a post In a form saying how awoman was offended because the man had said he wasn’t into large woman, if we have loads of preferences why aren’t guys? "
I agree with you.
Everyone (males and females) is entitled to have their own preferences. Their body, their call.
However, people are also allowed to be offended by a reply.
We also don't know how that reply was formulated.
I personally think that a.... you are not what am looking for... a more thoughtful, considerate reply
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
I think it coms down to how it's phrased but I do accept that some are more likely to be offended by a guy saying 'No big women' on their profile or status than a woman saying 'No big guys' |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "
Correct. Women don't want fat guys, which is fine. Equally, no guy wants to fuck a fat woman because it's unattractive.
Some will though just to get laid.
It amuses me when I see a large female on here insisting their requirement of men is that they are athletic and toned.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol
I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.
I gave a woman on another site a nice message about how great she looked and I would love to see more pictures of herself. Next message from her was call me a fucking pervert and sick small dicked wanker. All this from just saying I was looking forward to seeing her next pictures. "
Did you say... 'see more pics'
Or... 'seeing her next pics'
See to me the above mean two different things
And not saying she was right to say that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree
Correct. Women don't want fat guys, which is fine. Equally, no guy wants to fuck a fat woman because it's unattractive.
Some will though just to get laid.
It amuses me when I see a large female on here insisting their requirement of men is that they are athletic and toned.
"
Can people stop talking on my behalf 
'We, women...' 'women don't...'
Can I rectify... 'Some' women   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol
I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.
I gave a woman on another site a nice message about how great she looked and I would love to see more pictures of herself. Next message from her was call me a fucking pervert and sick small dicked wanker. All this from just saying I was looking forward to seeing her next pictures.
Did you say... 'see more pics'
Or... 'seeing her next pics'
See to me the above mean two different things
And not saying she was right to say that."
It was seeing her next pictures. She was always posting pictures everyday at least two. But the nasty message was uncalled for and I ended up reporting her for it. But after that I deleted my profile and left. A bit off subjunctive now I think we are lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol
I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.
I gave a woman on another site a nice message about how great she looked and I would love to see more pictures of herself. Next message from her was call me a fucking pervert and sick small dicked wanker. All this from just saying I was looking forward to seeing her next pictures.
Did you say... 'see more pics'
Or... 'seeing her next pics'
See to me the above mean two different things
And not saying she was right to say that.
It was seeing her next pictures. She was always posting pictures everyday at least two. But the nasty message was uncalled for and I ended up reporting her for it. But after that I deleted my profile and left. A bit off subjunctive now I think we are lol"
I agree. But it is best not to take those messages personally  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol
I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.
I gave a woman on another site a nice message about how great she looked and I would love to see more pictures of herself. Next message from her was call me a fucking pervert and sick small dicked wanker. All this from just saying I was looking forward to seeing her next pictures. "
I would not have sent an abusive message but would have blocked you for that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol
I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.
I gave a woman on another site a nice message about how great she looked and I would love to see more pictures of herself. Next message from her was call me a fucking pervert and sick small dicked wanker. All this from just saying I was looking forward to seeing her next pictures.
I would not have sent an abusive message but would have blocked you for that."
I would have taken that remark as a harmless compliment.x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Personally I think most women are OK with guys preference but let's face facts some guys don't put it across right and can be dicks about it lol
I agree with you there but also so women can take it the wrong way.
I gave a woman on another site a nice message about how great she looked and I would love to see more pictures of herself. Next message from her was call me a fucking pervert and sick small dicked wanker. All this from just saying I was looking forward to seeing her next pictures.
I would not have sent an abusive message but would have blocked you for that.
I would have taken that remark as a harmless compliment.x"
Same here! Interesting the way people interpreted the same sentence so differently |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I'm totally baffled. What was wrong with what he said?"
somebody messaging saying you look amazing I would love to see more pictures of you sounds to me like a pic collector looking for wank fodder! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"somebody messaging saying you look amazing I would love to see more pictures of you sounds to me like a pic collector looking for wank fodder!"
Fair enough. It's all in the interpretation I guess because it's 50/50 what it could have been intended to mean. Gotta love the written word. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I'm totally baffled. What was wrong with what he said?
somebody messaging saying you look amazing I would love to see more pictures of you sounds to me like a pic collector looking for wank fodder!"
Exactly  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"somebody messaging saying you look amazing I would love to see more pictures of you sounds to me like a pic collector looking for wank fodder!
Fair enough. It's all in the interpretation I guess because it's 50/50 what it could have been intended to mean. Gotta love the written word."
I don't think it's the written word that's wrong only people are too easy to offend. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "
Why ... because there's folks across all categories who have fragile egos and a sense of entitlement. From my personal experience worst offenders are males and some could win an olimpic meddle for dummy spitting and throwing hissy fits . But only afew and as said other sexes have there offenders too .
End of the day if someone cant accept a polite knock back and kicks off not kind of person I'd meet anyway . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it."
yes and it's up to them which pics they show, it's the needy ones asking for more that piss folks off! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it.
yes and it's up to them which pics they show, it's the needy ones asking for more that piss folks off!"
Well I always say to them to please keep more pictures of the self as they are stunning and politely make a request suck as maybe a bum picture. If that's offensive then I am truly sorry. Not a picture hoarder but more a consort of the female form. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it.
yes and it's up to them which pics they show, it's the needy ones asking for more that piss folks off!"
I think you are reading too much into it.
If you don’t like the message, delete it and block.
‘Some’ women on here take it too seriously and become complete Prima Donnas and act like porn stars.
It is a swinging website - not a academic study... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"To be fair, there are also people both here and on FabGuys who post pictures regularly purely for the attention they receive from it.
yes and it's up to them which pics they show, it's the needy ones asking for more that piss folks off!
I think you are reading too much into it.
If you don’t like the message, delete it and block.
‘Some’ women on here take it too seriously and become complete Prima Donnas and act like porn stars.
It is a swinging website - not a academic study..."
reading too much into what?
I don't need you to tell me to delete messages I don't like thanks, I'm more than capable of making these decisions myself |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "
Don't know what men you have been chatting to but not all us guys are like that 
XxX Peter |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I've never been with a large lady not threw choice though i certainly wouldnt turN sum1 down cos they were large I've spoken to a few and some seem nice and others don't much the same as any other type of lady or guy for that matter I've been turned down a lot here cos I'm hairy that's just the way it is |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I hate ducks but love swans ,it all boils down to a person's personal choice and we all entitled to like or dislike anything ,It not about offence and none should be taken if we think someone is a cup of Tesco own brand coffee or cavat coffee and love one and wouldn't touch the other |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree "
I agree with you OP. We all have preferences and I can handle someone not fancying me because they don't find me attractive. Having said that, I do find the " no one over a size 10" "no bigger than a 12" on a lot of profiles annoying. I'll quite often think "what a fanny" to myself, they could be missing out on all sorts of opportunities. But even fannies are entitled to their personal preferences and opinions!
Life's too short and more important stuff going on in real life to be offended by some random on here. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree
I agree with you OP. We all have preferences and I can handle someone not fancying me because they don't find me attractive. Having said that, I do find the " no one over a size 10" "no bigger than a 12" on a lot of profiles annoying. I'll quite often think "what a fanny" to myself, they could be missing out on all sorts of opportunities. But even fannies are entitled to their personal preferences and opinions!
Life's too short and more important stuff going on in real life to be offended by some random on here."
Well said |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"How do you go about telling someone your not attracted to them because they are fat, without being rude tho? "
I would just be upfront and honest with them. No point beating around the Bush.
But you could just go and say sorry you are not my type which I hear alot on here. Lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"How do you go about telling someone your not attracted to them because they are fat, without being rude tho? "
just say they aint your type but if you feel you need to say no because someone is fat then fair enough its then upto the recipient how they react to that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Dont use the word fat would be a good idea"
"just say they aint your type but if you feel you need to say no because someone is fat then fair enough its then upto the recipient how they react to that "
OK from now on I'll say"Sorry you tooth is to sweet for me" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Dont use the word fat would be a good idea
just say they aint your type but if you feel you need to say no because someone is fat then fair enough its then upto the recipient how they react to that
OK from now on I'll say"Sorry you tooth is to sweet for me" "
why would you assume they had a sweet tooth? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Dont use the word fat would be a good idea
just say they aint your type but if you feel you need to say no because someone is fat then fair enough its then upto the recipient how they react to that
OK from now on I'll say"Sorry you tooth is to sweet for me" "
With your pic of you holding cakes, is this to tease those with a sweet tooth? Or are you secretly trying to appeal to larger ladies if the connection even works, just asking |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.
Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on
There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn "
Ffs see yiu
Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.
Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on
There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn
Ffs see yiu
Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night "
Put it away, nothing to see here Peter, the popcorn I mean |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Because they are fat"
I looked on your profile to see if I could see any Olympic medals , it says ur athletic, so by your reasoning fat equates to a sweet tooth, I reckon athletic should equate to an athlete.
But no medals only cakes,
Oh and I totally agree with OP any one can state their preference without being shot down in flames. Freedom of choice. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ugyukMan
over a year ago
dundee |
"Worry ye not the shexy wimen of fab
Ill pump oanything !!!
And he means anything ,,,camels ,sheep.cows big senga fae govan .If you won't hump it the fugy and his bus will pump it "
Hahahaha gas mate
You crack me up
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It’s a sellers market and us men are the buyers. Fab swingers is a great wee microcosm of the market. Huge demand and little supply lead to women been able to ask for a Greek goddess and getting it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We woman say we want a muscly man a tall man we want a certain type of hair colour, the list is long, but a man says no big woman and woman lose there shit? Why? I dont agree
Correct. Women don't want fat guys, which is fine. Equally, no guy wants to fuck a fat woman because it's unattractive.
Some will though just to get laid.
It amuses me when I see a large female on here insisting their requirement of men is that they are athletic and toned.
Can people stop talking on my behalf
'We, women...' 'women don't...'
Can I rectify... 'Some' women "
Pretty sure he doesn't talk for all men either... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.
Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on
There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn
Ffs see yiu
Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night "
Given the tone of this thread I think you'd be better off with carrot sticks and celery... . The fat polis are watching... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.
Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on
There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn
Ffs see yiu
Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night
Given the tone of this thread I think you'd be better off with carrot sticks and celery... . The fat polis are watching..."
ffs doggy,. you tell me that after I've finished five cartons of popcorn
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"How do you go about telling someone your not attracted to them because they are fat, without being rude tho? "
"I don't find you aesthetically pleasing....." might be a more diplomatic way if putting it. Think they'll get the jist.
Out of curiosity, what size do you class as fat or too big for you?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I actually find larger women quite attractive
But to the OP point the pickyness can be a bit unfair I have it on my profile that I would give anyone a chance and I've been called desperate "
You can't win on here sometimes. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I dont take anything to heart on here. If someone doesnt like me then soneone else will. Its no big deal.
Sense from a woman I'm putting the lottery on
There you go horsey enjoy your popcorn
Ffs see yiu
Now I better bring in a few more cartons of popcorn, deffo gonna be a long night
Given the tone of this thread I think you'd be better off with carrot sticks and celery... . The fat polis are watching...
ffs doggy,. you tell me that after I've finished five cartons of popcorn
"
If nobody saw you eat it....didnae happen. That's what I tell myself when I bury the empty 6 pack creme egg box at the bottom of the bin....Wisnae me! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"we are all different and want different things, live and let live.
Mrs Fab x"
ffs I only joined fab because someone told me you would get a free curly wurly
am still waiting  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
