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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I was on here before Christmas for a short spell , and was finding it hard getting reply from woman so canned it ,came back for another go and nothing has changed what is the script  ladies fill me in pls , where am I going wrong ? |
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Your profile doesn’t say much about you.
Would you meet yourself with your current profile?
Does the person or persons you which to meet go for your current profile?
Put yourself in the person you want to attract shoes.
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"Your profile doesn’t say much about you.
Would you meet yourself with your current profile?
Does the person or persons you which to meet go for your current profile?
Put yourself in the person you want to attract shoes.
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I think that’s heels max  |
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over a year ago
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But is that where the whole conversation thing goes out the window , saying a Little should encourage people to ask the questions , I’m only happy to answer |
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"So I was on here before Christmas for a short spell , and was finding it hard getting reply from woman so canned it ,came back for another go and nothing has changed what is the script ladies fill me in pls , where am I going wrong ? "
Some people do
Reply ! I think the problem being some folk are holding out for someone else and putting folk in the reserve list of people keep talking long enough in chat then they’re usually pretty genuine if they give up after a bit then you’re probably their second choice or they’re completely inundated, I find a few messages in most guys are asking for pics which or clearly states on my profile are not going to get shared and that’s me blocked, abused or ignored by the majority |
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There are a lot of fake accounts on here. If I see a limited profile, I assume you are fake and move on.
You should add to your pictures and add more detail to your written profile. This makes it look like you have made effort and then you’ll be taken seriously! |
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"But is that where the whole conversation thing goes out the window , saying a Little should encourage people to ask the questions , I’m only happy to answer "
This is a personal bugbear of mine. Profiles that say “just ask”. You need to sell yourself in fab and this screams laziness. If you can’t be bothered to put the effort into a decent profile then why would any woman assume you’d put the effort in sexually!
That’s my take on it anyway! |
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All that we noticed is the contradiction between you saying you found it hard so canned it in your post and you stating you enjoyed it so much you are back again on your profile, which is it? |
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"So I was on here before Christmas for a short spell , and was finding it hard getting reply from woman so canned it ,came back for another go and nothing has changed what is the script ladies fill me in pls , where am I going wrong ? "
One public pic.... Bugger all on your profile to give an indication of your personality. |
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"Take all the advice from the posts above mate, then you'll soar from no chance of a meet to a miniscule chance.
That's just the way it is. Sorry  "
I have to disagree .here in the highlands its even harder for single males to get a meet then I say it is in Glasgow Aberdeen etc .just purely down to ratio of available profiles .no other reason and I do ok .not because I sell myself as some suggest but because I won't bend my profile to suit a meet and am patient and selective about the type of person I want to meet . |
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"But is that where the whole conversation thing goes out the window , saying a Little should encourage people to ask the questions , I’m only happy to answer "
I would say that as a single female we get lots of messages. As one that tries to reply to most messages, I look at profile content. I shouldn't have to ask questions, especially as I've put time & effort into mine.
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Girls get a ton of messages on here, with they amount they get, there will always be someone taller, better looking, more patter, I've been on here over a year. I login send some messages dont get replys, get fed up then hide it for a few months rinse and repeat. Think in all that time I've had three replys and none of them ever went anywhere. guess its all luck maybe.
Then I again I think the whole swinging thing has moved on from just ads on a site and its progressed now to socials and clubs. I'll keep looking for the elusive ffm tho |
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Your profile gives away as much as many couples profiles mate. Why give your life story until you actually get into conversation.
As a side issue it always cracks me up the blank profiles on here that say no one liners and no face pic, no reply.
Very strange indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Id by pass by your profile. To bland. Looks fake. Not enough info. As weird as it sounds with the type of site it is. it looks like your just after sex and go. Just my opinion x |
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