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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol - you and the 598 single guys that have perved wet's profile since that post. Hope her mailbox don't go into meltdown. Lol"
My profile is blank no so they have no joy lolxx |
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"West v East.........wot r ur views on each club?"
Have been to after 8 last year must say was dissapointed given our "first time"
Will be in Edinburgh at the end of the month so very interested in whats hot and whats not lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This one is simple
Love Cj's .... wish we could get there more often than we do .
After8 ....... been there Once ......and that was one to mant times!!!!!!.
Cj's wins hands down by a mile.!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been to After 8 several times and had some fun. However, its pretty desperate and packed with single guys. Never been to CJ's but I reckon its the place to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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go to after 8 all the time and i love it there the place is looking fantastic with all the refurbishments. always have a good time when i go and a great laugh. if you get the chance go along even if you've been before as you wont recognise the place now  |
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By *r humanMan
over a year ago
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after eight club for be .look club great after all rebubishments and all hard work do by mr scoobie and the walkers 33 go night want see what club like go see for shelf if like or not it you hope every see more folks at club to night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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CJ's girl here.
So much so that im going 3 times this month.
Been to After 8 once, it wasnt the worst night of my life, but wouldnt go out my way to go. But aye would go back. |
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By *_jkCouple
over a year ago
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"CJ's girl here.
So much so that im going 3 times this month.
Been to After 8 once, it wasnt the worst night of my life, but wouldnt go out my way to go. But aye would go back."
see you soon then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why cant people visit both clubs and enjoy themselves, I would think there is room for both in Scotland. At the end off the day people will vote with there feet. PS been to both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might pop along to CJ's one night if I have time. lol
can i come wie you when you go plz "
Pick me up on the way lol. I've heard that cj is a wee round nutter lol JOKE. Guess that'll be me banned for life  |
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We`ve been attending CJs parties regularly since it`s humble beginnings and over the years we`ve had some of the best nights of our lives and met some amazing people along the way
It 100% deserves the praise it is recieving here as week after week the team at CJs do their very best to ensure everyone has a great night in a spotlessly clean & safe enviroment
Counting the days until our next visit as always  |
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By *assie4Couple
over a year ago
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been to after 8 n a cpl in blackpool ...not in a hurry to return!!!never been to cjs..but have met her at a private function,so already know shes a lovely lady ..not been to club yet hoping to soon ..was trying to make it for my 50th this sat but cany see it happening xxx have heard nothing but praise for cjs place x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been to after8 twice once about 5 yrs ago and once about 3 months ago. On the other hand I try to get through to Glasgow to visit the wonderful people and friends in cjs once a month. Beautiful surroundings, safe (which makes a big difference to a single fem) and boy o boy o boy I have had some amazing nights and made some very good friends. There is no pressure at all to play. Just go for it xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love the After8 and attend every weekend. Cj's is on our to do list as we have never been."
i thought you 'worked' there (run one of the nights?)
I've been to both,Would'nt go back to after 8,love CJ's |
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over a year ago
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"We love the After8 and attend every weekend. Cj's is on our to do list as we have never been.
i thought you 'worked' there (run one of the nights?)
I've been to both,Would'nt go back to after 8,love CJ's "
We used to run a Friday night but haven't for 18 months, it must have been a while since you have been  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has been a while, I found it very clayey, smokey and seedy. I understand it may have been freshened up but the fact I'd rather travel 50 miles to CJs than 5 to After 8 sums it up I think.
You'll need to visit CJs ! I'll even get you a drink lol x |
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By *hillaxMan
over a year ago
Scotland |
It's a no-brainer
CJs every time.
I've been to plenty of clubs in the UK (Chameleons, La Chambre, Cupids) and plenty more overseas (Fun4Two Holland, Relate Orlando, Nightmoves Tampa). I'd say CJs is more like a well organised house party rather than a club, which works so much better and an excellent starting point for newbies. After8 on the other hand simply use a brothel/massage parlour.
In my personal opinion, CJs is warm friendly relaxed with a party atmosphere.
After8 felt cold cliquey rudimentary and clandestine.
At After8, you get the feeling you are there to do something illegal, it's a basic establishment no frills, like an illicit drinking hole in the prohibition days. However, at CJs as everyone there are consenting adults, and we aren't paying each other for sex, then what ever goes on within 4 walls is our business. The atmosphere is like a party, it's just like Caroline had invited you into her own home (lol lol)  |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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"It's a no-brainer
CJs every time.
I've been to plenty of clubs in the UK (Chameleons, La Chambre, Cupids) and plenty more overseas (Fun4Two Holland, Relate Orlando, Nightmoves Tampa). I'd say CJs is more like a well organised house party rather than a club, which works so much better and an excellent starting point for newbies. After8 on the other hand simply use a brothel/massage parlour.
In my personal opinion, CJs is warm friendly relaxed with a party atmosphere.
After8 felt cold cliquey rudimentary and clandestine.
At After8, you get the feeling you are there to do something illegal, it's a basic establishment no frills, like an illicit drinking hole in the prohibition days. However, at CJs as everyone there are consenting adults, and we aren't paying each other for sex, then what ever goes on within 4 walls is our business. The atmosphere is like a party, it's just like Caroline had invited you into her own home (lol lol) "
sorry if i have misconstrued the meaning of your post but are you suggesting that all who attend after8 pay each other for sex???? it has not been used as a massage parlour during the day for a long while and has lost the "dingy and seedy" image you are suggesting. |
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"It's a no-brainer
CJs every time.
I've been to plenty of clubs in the UK (Chameleons, La Chambre, Cupids) and plenty more overseas (Fun4Two Holland, Relate Orlando, Nightmoves Tampa). I'd say CJs is more like a well organised house party rather than a club, which works so much better and an excellent starting point for newbies. After8 on the other hand simply use a brothel/massage parlour.
In my personal opinion, CJs is warm friendly relaxed with a party atmosphere.
After8 felt cold cliquey rudimentary and clandestine.
At After8, you get the feeling you are there to do something illegal, it's a basic establishment no frills, like an illicit drinking hole in the prohibition days. However, at CJs as everyone there are consenting adults, and we aren't paying each other for sex, then what ever goes on within 4 walls is our business. The atmosphere is like a party, it's just like Caroline had invited you into her own home (lol lol) "
I find your comment offensive.
I have never paid or been paid to have fun with anyone at the After8, I choose who and when I play. |
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By *hillaxMan
over a year ago
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I find your comment offensive.
I have never paid or been paid to have fun with anyone at the After8, I choose who and when I play."
If you read my post properly, you'll understand what I mean. After8 gave me the feeling of doing something illegal, not that it was. And the reference to not paying for sex is a legal bench-mark; consenting adults can do whatever they want in private as long as no one charges for sex. Most clubs charge an entrance fee, however this is clearly demarcated for the use of facilities not for any sexual acts.
Strangely, in Holland, it's not uncommon for a single guy or guys to play with a woman or couple in a club and then be asked to "contribute" for her services afterwards, this came as a shocker to me!
The post was never meant to offend or be offensive. If you took it as that, then that's your personal interpretation, and I don't wish to change anyones view one things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have been to both and have to say CJs was the one for me. Great atmosphere, great home and Caroline is a peach, totally mad of course! Will def be going back and taking a friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with Stunna,
CJ's is a lovely comfortable, relaxed and very safe environment.
Never been to The After 8 but with CJ's there is no need.
Louise xx |
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over a year ago
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I find your comment offensive.
I have never paid or been paid to have fun with anyone at the After8, I choose who and when I play.
If you read my post properly, you'll understand what I mean. After8 gave me the feeling of doing something illegal, not that it was. And the reference to not paying for sex is a legal bench-mark; consenting adults can do whatever they want in private as long as no one charges for sex. Most clubs charge an entrance fee, however this is clearly demarcated for the use of facilities not for any sexual acts.
Strangely, in Holland, it's not uncommon for a single guy or guys to play with a woman or couple in a club and then be asked to "contribute" for her services afterwards, this came as a shocker to me!
The post was never meant to offend or be offensive. If you took it as that, then that's your personal interpretation, and I don't wish to change anyones view one things."
In a way I kinda agree with you. I went to after 8 last year and had the most terrible experience. I found the place seedy and pretty unkempt if i'm honest. Despite the door being closed during play time univited guys kept coming in. Was a horrible night lol and one I don't plan on repeating. I did meet a sexy blonde lady tho and I bloody wish I could remember her user name!! xx |
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over a year ago
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"It's a no-brainer
CJs every time.
I've been to plenty of clubs in the UK (Chameleons, La Chambre, Cupids) and plenty more overseas (Fun4Two Holland, Relate Orlando, Nightmoves Tampa). I'd say CJs is more like a well organised house party rather than a club, which works so much better and an excellent starting point for newbies. After8 on the other hand simply use a brothel/massage parlour.
In my personal opinion, CJs is warm friendly relaxed with a party atmosphere.
After8 felt cold cliquey rudimentary and clandestine.
At After8, you get the feeling you are there to do something illegal, it's a basic establishment no frills, like an illicit drinking hole in the prohibition days. However, at CJs as everyone there are consenting adults, and we aren't paying each other for sex, then what ever goes on within 4 walls is our business. The atmosphere is like a party, it's just like Caroline had invited you into her own home (lol lol) "
Won't get drawn in to the debate of what After8 is and isn't, I'll leave that to others who have been, but it's interesting for me to read the above re CJs.
I've no experience of clubs, at all, and an overall limited swinging experience, but had started thinking about maybe attending a club but wasn't sure of the "pressure" to participate. However the above review/comments re newbies and it having a party feel have certainly eased my mind and probably helped encourage me to maybe venture further in this journey lol...Now, just need to find someone to take along  |
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"It's a no-brainer
CJs every time.
I've been to plenty of clubs in the UK (Chameleons, La Chambre, Cupids) and plenty more overseas (Fun4Two Holland, Relate Orlando, Nightmoves Tampa). I'd say CJs is more like a well organised house party rather than a club, which works so much better and an excellent starting point for newbies. After8 on the other hand simply use a brothel/massage parlour.
In my personal opinion, CJs is warm friendly relaxed with a party atmosphere.
After8 felt cold cliquey rudimentary and clandestine.
At After8, you get the feeling you are there to do something illegal, it's a basic establishment no frills, like an illicit drinking hole in the prohibition days. However, at CJs as everyone there are consenting adults, and we aren't paying each other for sex, then what ever goes on within 4 walls is our business. The atmosphere is like a party, it's just like Caroline had invited you into her own home (lol lol)
Won't get drawn in to the debate of what After8 is and isn't, I'll leave that to others who have been, but it's interesting for me to read the above re CJs.
I've no experience of clubs, at all, and an overall limited swinging experience, but had started thinking about maybe attending a club but wasn't sure of the "pressure" to participate. However the above review/comments re newbies and it having a party feel have certainly eased my mind and probably helped encourage me to maybe venture further in this journey lol...Now, just need to find someone to take along "
give me a shout when u fancy goin wet hun as me an cpl other girls will join you in going to cj;s , cant do oct but november good cept 11th xx never been to after 8 so will leave that 2ones who have been , but i luv cjs always so welcoming an she even lets me borrow her pj;s hehe xxx  |
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The only club we have ever been to is CJ's and to be honest we would never consider going anywhere else. Never been to the After 8 and never will due to the horror stories we have heard of the place. Been a while since we have been to CJ's but looking to get back there soon. Hope to see you all there xx |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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That can be the problem with a thread like this. People have their own opinions but with horror stories the rest of us don't know all the reasons why.
Sometime people can take the huff because things didn't go to plan(ie they never got a shag that night), they got told off for not obeying the few rules there are - eg no high heels on beds during play as rips the protective rubber sheets, no drinks in playrooms for safety reasons etc
Thats why I feel people should try places for themselves. Everywhere is different as are the people who attend on the night. |
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